When it's all about the bucks then that's ALL it's about
[QUOTE=ShanghaiGuide;1647626]I know my post here will be opposite to the common sense in this forum and I don't want to offend anyone, but just let me "play the devil's advocate" for some time, OK?
Could be you never think about guys who will also cheat these girls? I am in touch with some escort girls, and especially the sauna girls are not used to ask for money upfront (because in a sauna the guys just pay at the counter when they leave), so they often not ask for money. And outside in this city they are enough guys who think, why should they pay after they got already what they wanted. And the girls have no pimp or anyone who can make sure they will get their money. They have no chance to call the police or give any other trouble to the customer and if they will fight, the police definitely will give trouble to the girl, never to the guest. Believe it or not, there are enough guys, even customers in expensive 5 star hotels who play games like that! Especially foreigners, because they know they will be gone soon, so they don't need to think about any upcoming problems!
Just my private point of view.[/QUOTE]Understand and respect your position, BUT, I believe the MAJORITY of the times a girl asks for money up front she will either cheat you or provide lackluster service. They simply have no motivation to do otherwise. Your business analysis is valid for hard goods, NOT personal services, where quality is THE MAJOR factor.
IMHO, if the money discussion lasts longer than a minute, the deal's off for me. If she's been cheated before I'm sorry, but it's not my problem.