The Great Philippino Scam!
fresh report from manila. also, a first report contribution from me.
met anne at roblinson's place yesterday 11dec2011! seemingly innocent and cute girl with a friend fei.
eyes locked 3 times during malling and then finally they approached and said hello, and that it was fei's birthday and wanted to invite me for a karaoke session. i was really not too interested and put it off and suspicious of this invitation. being in an adventurous spirit, decied to meet them late at music 21 edsa at 10pm and genuinely had a great time singing a lot of songs. they called another dormitory friend and she came and we all sang for a while until past 1am. interestingly all 3 girls knew a lot of songs in the karaoke and certainly was not an infrequent visitor to these establishments which actually is quite common in pi. bill came to only 2700ps (us$62) for about 5 coor's lights, and 9-10 vodka cruisers for the ladies with some food and room time for 3 hours. great deal!
that's where i should just have left it. but, they invited me to their apt dorm where supposedly they share between 4 girls where we had another short karaoke session and a few beers and a birthday cake for fei. when the 3 girls left to go buy the cake, that's when anne and i decided to stay in one of the bedrooms and of course one thing leads to another. she acted funny and wasn't really into it. in the foreplay a couple of fingers made it through to the vagina to help heat things up. unfortunately, because of the alcohol i was not up to it either so there was no penetration. it was certainly not a romantic setting as the apt was quite bare and low end. all of a sudden, anne was in "pain" and said she was bleeding! mind you now the finger exploration did not encounter any resistance and was a normal "unforced" part of the foreplay where 2 fingers went just into the vagina which got her wet. by this time, i was a bit confused and the other 3 girls just came home and discovered that anne was in pain and was bleeding. the bleeding looked to be like a menstrual period and not heavy. however, anne was apparently in considerable pain and the 3 other girls began to get anxious. i was still bewildered as none of the foreplay was anything but forced or rough to cause any kind of trauma to any part of her body.
then, one of the girls decided to call a female "doctor" who came quite quickly. she went into anne's room and quickly came out and said "there are lacerations in her vagina" and asked me what happened. i told her what transpired with the finger foreplay and told her that this certainly would not have caused any "lacerations". she then became very firm and said that anne was a minor (17) and that there would be severe consequences if the police found out. i had distinctly remembered anne saying she was 20. although she looked quite young, i could tell that she wasn't 16 or 17. she said that perhaps she can "arrange" that there would be no police involvement but that anne will need to be taken to the hospital and checked and treated. however, in order to have no police involvement there would need to be a "relative" to accompany anne to the hospital. lo and behold the relative showed up very quickly. a guy that didn't look anything like anne came to claim to be her older brother and came in with wild eyes angry about what had happened to anne. he immediately pointed his finger at me and asked who i am and what happened. he was very upset and i was anticipating a punch from this guy. within a few minutes, a decision was made to go to the hospital at about 6am.
the brother had a nice suv car. as we reached the hospital i was instructed by the lady "doctor" to just stay away and sit outside and not say anything. i never heard or saw anything going on inside the emergency room. i was accompanied by one of the girls but fei and the other girl stayed at home. then, the brother and the lady "doctor" came out and said we should talk in the car. this is when they broke the news that anne was a virgin and that her hymen had been torn and that was causing the bleeding. this is also when the brother broke the news that anne was "engaged" to be married and that her loss of virginity would be a calamity and an unbearable shame to the whole family. i remembered asking anne if she was married or had a boyfriend to which she answered "no, single!" right away, they told me that the hymen restoration procedure and treatment would cost 240, 000 pesos (us$5581) and that this is what the brother wanted me to pay in order to save face and avoid shame for the whole family. my response was first of all, how could breaking the hymen cause that much pain and require the girl to go to the hospital for treatment. do all girls that lose their virginity go get treated by a doctor? i told them that i don't have that kind of money. they went inside the hospital again and came back and said ok, the hymen restoration procedure don't need to be done right now but the treatment required for her current condition requires hospital stay, medicine which would cost 100, 000 pesos, a nice even sum. i told them again that i don't have that kind of money. they then huddled and came back and said the brother will try to find a way to pay 50, 000 but my share of the contribution has to be 50, 000 pesos. i felt that this sum was manageable but was concerned that that amount of cash is not available via the atm. i proposed that i use my credit card to pay my portion of the bill at the hospital to which the lady "doctor" said that is not a good idea as the hospital will know what happened and they will report to the police. i said why should we tell them anything and say i'm just a friend willing to help make the payment. she would have none of it.
that's when it dawned on me that this was the great philippino scam! my brain started on overdrive and wondered what i should do. they said "let's go find an atm where you can withdraw 50, 000 pesos". i agreed to this but in the back of my mind i was thinking of a way out. the brother still had his wild eyed look but the lady doctor and the girl was all nice and sweet and ready to help me with the atm process. we tried a couple of atms as i looked for an escape route. the last atm we found was right around the corner of where the brother parked the car. the girl accompanied me to the atm to "help" me withdraw the money out of the brother's visibility. i actually withdrew 20, 000 pesos with an eye toward the street for an availability of an empty taxi. there were quite a few taxis and as the girl seemed content that i was getting cash out of the machine i made a dash for one of the empty taxis and got in and took off! since i did mention which hotel i was staying at, i decided to go straight to the hotel and pack up and checkout and move to a different hotel in case they decided to chase me. by 9am i found the other hotel and made a booking. my heart was pounding and was in a half panic state in case they remembered where i was staying so checking out was a bit of a stressful affair. during this time i received some nasty sms messages from the brother calling me a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord126][CodeWord126][/url] and a child molester and that he will report this to the authorities and i will never leave the country safely. that was around 9am and now there are no messages or phone calls since. it's now 8pm at my new hotel and i'm finally calm and acknowledged and grateful that i escaped this great phlippino scam!
i'm writing in this forum to give the bros this story and warning.
o don't be an idiot like me and get into this kind of a situation in the philippines or elsewhere. i'm a little adventurous and a risk taker but despite my shame i want my bros here to know what happened. i wouldn't blame you for flaming me for being so stupid!
o don't trust girls in groups wanting to do anything despite their outward innocence and sweetness, keep to single girls unless you are also with a group of bros. believe me, they were very cute, sweet and anne was very innocent type. this was a scam perpetrated by people deliberately planning these things.
o don't get into a position in an unfamiliar surrounding like someone's apartment. stick to the known clubs and hotels.
o don't get swayed by your fondness and attraction to any girl! they are out for money. the confusing part here is that we know the girls are after money here but the innocence of the circumstances can really fool you.
o all in all, a lesson learned and quite an experience. i'm grateful that they didn't get a single cent from me. the karaoke session was actually very enjoyable and worth the money.
watch out bros and be safe!
Willful Ignorance or Prejudice
[QUOTE=Radical Guy; 1226066]I don't know if I am the exception to the "rule," but I have been married to my Filipina wife for almost 8 years. At 54, I am 28 years older than her. We married when she was 18 and I was 46. Today, she is a US citizen, and is a college graduate employed by the federal government, making a salary of almost $50, 000 a year. My wife is still a "spinner" at 5'2" and 90 lbs, very beautiful and sexy, even more so than the day we met. She tells me that she gets hit on by guys closer to her own age almost daily, but always gives them the cold shoulder.
RG.[/QUOTE]Prejudice die hard. It does not matter how many data points you give FF, he has his beliefs and you aint going to change it. Tell him about Hugh Heffner, corporate CEOs and many well to do men in his own country who marry wives much younger than themselves and FF will ignore you. Tell him about the fact that, historically (and in almost every culture) , women tended to marry men much older than their age group and you would not budge him. Tell him about the whole sub-cultures within his home country that still do have greater age difference than what he considers norm and you'd get nothing from him. See! He has made up his mind. He is not open to a discussion. Life is just like the average Hollywood movie script.
Prejudice is a nasty bug that is immune to reasons. Ask the average Tea Partier whether the US President was born in Hawaii and see what their response will be. See! They've made up their mind. They know what they know and you aint going to change it. Why do we keep discussing this topic every few weeks or so? It's starting to feel like Groundhog Day. Now, can we get back to our mongering stories.
I thought this was funny and would lighten the mood
the difference if you marry a american girl
three friends married women from different parts of the world.
the first man married a filipino. he told her that she was to do the dishes and house cleaning.
it took a couple of days, but on the third day, he came home to see a clean house and dishes washed and put away.
the second man married a thai. he gave his wife orders that she was to do all the cleaning, dishes and the cooking.
the first day he didn't see any results, but the next day he saw it was better. by the third day, he saw his house was clean, the dishes were done, and there was a huge dinner on the table.
the third man married a girl from america. he ordered her to keep the house cleaned, dishes washed, lawn mowed, laundry washed, and hot meals on the table for every meal.
he said the first day he didn't see anything, the second day he didn't see anything but by the third day, some of the swelling had gone down and he could see a little out of his left eye and his arm was healed enough that he could fix himself a sandwich and load the dishwasher. he still has some difficulty when he [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord133][CodeWord133][/url].
RE: The Great Philippine Scam
Bros,
Thanks for all of your comments and valuable suggestions. I can really appreciate the depth of experience of some of the Bros on this Forum. I'm an older guy but, as you can tell, probably a bit on the naive side. Always a sucker for a sweet smile.
I can happily update you Bros that this bad experience did not deter me from going to the LA Cafe last night (yes, the same night after the bad experience) where I met another SYT. However, this was a totally awesome GF experience (as good as it gets for p4p anyways). First, I thought Yuki was a sort of a prima donna princess type but after getting to know her she is a real wildcat. She was downstairs standing in one of the corners and looking just fine (petite, white tank top, short jeans & heels) with a great smile. I asked her to come sit with me and chatted for a while. Since she was fanning herself I asked why and she said she was hot (she WAS HOT) , so I invited her to go upstairs where there was more breathing space and aircon. (Actually, this is a good tactic I believe to always pay to go upstairs early and then go downstairs for scouting missions to bring up anyone you'd like to spend more time with. There is a lot of choices downstairs and the upstairs can tend to be a little sparse and populated with regular girls where you can maybe pick up the part timers downstairs)
I won't go into the boring details of how great it is when you are clicking with someone but let's say it was real fun chatting to her. Yuki is a 24yr old real college student making ends meet in Manila. I asked her how much for ST / LT and she answered "up to me" which is something you may have heard 10 years ago in Jakarta but it would be a response that would raise an alert to most Bros today. Again, I felt compelled to follow my nose again (for the most part, I have a good nose except for the other day) and invited her to the hotel not specifying ST or LT. When we entered the room (actually as an old man, I wasnt really feeling that frisky) she started talking and talking and I was content to just interject a few questions here and there. For many Bros, I'm sure this would have turned them off. In this case, the combination of the old man factor and the earlier stressful experience mellowed me out where I was able to actually carry on a long conversation without ripping her clothes off and doing the deed!
That patience paid off in spades. After she spilled her guts she excused herself to go to wash up an came out with just a towel around her. I did my wash and came and joined her in bed. That's when she turned into a wildcat which initially shocked me but I'm telling you I felt like a teenager in heat after a few minutes of her passionate kisses, hugs, licks, etc. We made love for about an hour which is something I rarely do these days compared to you young Bros. We wer both sweaty and just exhausted and fell asleep together around 5am. Woke up with a start at 9am and realized I had a meeting at 11am (luckily didn't schedule an early one). She also had a class to go to at the same time so we quickly got showered and dressed and parted ways.
Texted her tonight and we are meeting again for some karaoke fun first and then who knows, God willing, my pecker will be young again tonight. LOL.
I'm leaving Manila early in the morning and I'm happy that I learned a lesson from the SCAM and feel fortunate to have experienced this wonderful girl on this trip.
Thanks again to all the Bros for all the comments! I'll sing a song for you guys tonight!
Tequila Shot