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[QUOTE=XMan;1887600]Suddenly, I've had three chat gals come up with the message, "I'm not ok". This is in one week. It's come fast like a virus. It reminds me of the Angeles bar girl virus of about eight years ago. The "it's my birthday tomorrow" virus. Has anyone notified the public health authorities yet?[/QUOTE]You just have to be smart enough not to ask what is wrong.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1887638]You just have to be smart enough not to ask what is wrong.[/QUOTE]When I get a text / msg stating "I am not okay" I out of instinct just say something in the line of "and you know what my house burned down and my mom, cat and dog all died". Point is; Exaggerate to such an great extent that the pinays are getting paralyzed and whoops you never hear more regarding their problems or "not okays". At least this is my experience.
[QUOTE=DonaldSucks;1887682]When I get a text / msg stating "I am not okay" I out of instinct just say something in the line of "and you know what my house burned down and my mom, cat and dog all died". Point is; Exaggerate to such an great extent that the pinays are getting paralyzed and whoops you never hear more regarding their problems or "not okays". At least this is my experience.[/QUOTE]I generally reply "that's sad / unfortunate as I am also not okay so how about we meet and we can make each other better".
Or "if I ask you don't mention cash / money as if you do means you are OK".
If they sick I always recommend a special protein shake.
All this tends to weed out those who love money more than you (which according the What the Face is most / all of us apart from CaliPro / THB LOL) - and me of course LOL.
[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1887706]I generally reply "that's sad / unfortunate as I am also not okay so how about we meet and we can make each other better". [/QUOTE]I take a note from this and I might actually use it to make problems work to my benefits Maybe I've, like X man, hit a bad nerve in my FB cuties lately. Surprisingly not to many girls claiming "problems" but far to many asking this stupid "can I have a favor" or "could I ask you a question"(they actually ask a question to ask if they can ask a question). Technically those two questions will cover also "I have a problem" but in a different wrapping. These girls I just ditch as both questions will be about money (my experience), so I handle them basically as money requests.
Sounds maybe coldhearted but remember I donate to salvation army and red cross every year. I will for sure not help someone I have known for 2 minutes asking "can I have a favor"?
And speaking of problems; why cant someone help out this sad girl, https://www.pinalove.com/rose89
[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1887706] and me of course LOL.[/QUOTE]Your endless kindness warms even my cold heart, WR. God love ya!
[QUOTE=LukeSkywalker;1863742]As a back up, the second picture in my profile, not the main one, was a credit picture of a well-known action actor.
That may be the cause if they crack down on fake pics.[/QUOTE]Had a lot of pussy from DIA.
Yes there is a lot of code running on it policing behavior.
Girls are affected just as much.
Veterans cast their net & if they get a bite, take it off site immediately.
Turning the tables on DIA I favor setting up a fresh account, milk it then ditch it & set up another when I'm ready.
A bland 'new' account is all you need, the fun girls are waiting.
Keeping a profile on there long term is counter productive.
Keep it fresh.
AV.
If there are any good samaritans out there?? Want to adopt a child. Wonder if she gets some money.
Why counter-productive? I can't think of any good reason to close an account just to set up a new account. Like any SNS site you can keep it "fresh" by changing pictures or your profile message.
The only thing I can agree with here is that it's wise to get necessary contact information sooner rather than later. Gals forget their passwords or get busy with other things, or get shut down for some infraction.
I've got over 500 gals in my inbox, and that's after deleting hundreds of others who were unsatisfactory for one reason or another. I think I'd shed a few tears if I lost all those contacts / pics / info.
[QUOTE=Amavida;1888002]Had a lot of pussy from DIA.
Yes there is a lot of code running on it policing behavior.
Girls are affected just as much.
Veterans cast their net & if they get a bite, take it off site immediately.
Turning the tables on DIA I favor setting up a fresh account, milk it then ditch it & set up another when I'm ready.
A bland 'new' account is all you need, the fun girls are waiting.
Keeping a profile on there long term is counter productive.
Keep it fresh.
AV.[/QUOTE]
I was looking forward to a reply to my previous post. Why would one want to delete an account and then start a new one (reset)? Since I visit the Philippines roughly two times a year, I want to keep the contact list and message history. This give me a record of the gals I met and the gals I still want to meet.
Some of the gals occasionally hit the reset, but often they say, "I'm back, blah, blah". On some of the sites, you could come up as "new member". This could cause a shark feeding frenzy. Which has pros and cons.
Some of you have different schedules and different goals, so maybe hitting reset makes sense.
DIA used to put your start date on your profile, and PinayLove still does. With DIA I had a few ladies who would ask why I've been there so long. If you are GF / wife hunting or just want that perfect GFE, it might have made sense to disguise your history (out of desperation or duplication). DIA doesn't do this now.
BTW, DIA used to kick back a third post if it was too much like the first. Cut and paste apparently wasn't kosher. This policy has been relaxed.
Me- Hi.
Her- Hellow, How are you.
Me- Good, Will be visiting. Want to be with Me.
Her- Yes, What are you looking for.
Me- Company and fun.
Her- I am looking for serious relationship and marriage only.
Me- Really? Have you had a BF before?
Her- Yes.
Me- How long.
Her- one year.
Me- Did he marry you.
Her- No.
Me- Did you have sex with him.
Her- Yes.
Me- So you know Marriage is not guaranteed, right?
Her- Yes.
Me- So you want to stay with me?
Her- Yes.
Me- including Fun.
Her- Yes.
Me- No marriage.
Her- I understand.
Met her and had fun. This girl is from Cebu, Young 19 year old pretty with nice boobs. Plan to meet her again next time. She is working in a tourist store.
This is generally what happens in dating sites.
[QUOTE=XMan;1895580]I was looking forward to a reply to my previous post. Why would one want to delete an account and then start a new one (reset)? [/QUOTE]No idea. I have had the same cell phone number for 16 years and the same email for 20 years. I notice it is a female trait to always want a "fresh start". You can't run from yourself though.
Great story Sammon. It just goes to show that you have to know how to talk to people / have game. Most guys would have just said fuck it.
I could be wrong, but I'm guessing that Sammon has done a lot of paraphrasing here in order to make a point. It's the one word answers and non-answers that drive me up the wall.
Recent question I asked, "Where in Manila do you live?
Reply, "Yes, I live in Manila. ".
[QUOTE=Sammon;1895636]Me- Hi.
Her- Hellow, How are you.
Me- Good, Will be visiting. Want to be with Me.
Her- Yes, What are you looking for.
Me- Company and fun.
Her- I am looking for serious relationship and marriage only.
Me- Really? Have you had a BF before?
Her- Yes.
Me- How long.
Her- one year.
Me- Did he marry you.
Her- No.
Me- Did you have sex with him.
Her- Yes.
Me- So you know Marriage is not guaranteed, right?
Her- Yes.
Me- So you want to stay with me?
Her- Yes.
Me- including Fun.
Her- Yes.
Me- No marriage.
Her- I understand.
Met her and had fun. This girl is from Cebu, Young 19 year old pretty with nice boobs. Plan to meet her again next time. She is working in a tourist store.
This is generally what happens in dating sites.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=XMan;1896086]I could be wrong, but I'm guessing that Sammon has done a lot of paraphrasing here in order to make a point. It's the one word answers and non-answers that drive me up the wall.
Recent question I asked, "Where in Manila do you live?
Reply, "Yes, I live in Manila. ".[/QUOTE]I understand your frustration. Chatting with girls is not easy. If it is a new girl she does not know you and her answers will be short. Besides she does not know if she will ever meet you. If it is a previous girl there will be more to talk about. But in general I do not want lengthy conversations. Talk more, you get into trouble. Then the girl thinks you really loves her and there will be more demands. Besides education level is low to have a intelligent discussion like with western girls.
[QUOTE=XMan;1896086]I could be wrong, but I'm guessing that Sammon has done a lot of paraphrasing here in order to make a point. It's the one word answers and non-answers that drive me up the wall.
Recent question I asked, "Where in Manila do you live?
Reply, "Yes, I live in Manila. ".[/QUOTE]Not to be confused by.
Question from BD knowing the scheduled time to meet is near: "Hi, where are you?
Reply: "Here".
Q: "Where exactly are you?
A: "I can see some place. ".
Arrgggg. It was actually interesting spending 30 minutes to get her to describe where she was at Ayala. Her version of location was taken from what she could see in the distance, rather than the f,ing store that she was standing in front of.
Yes, I experienced the same thing. The worst experience I had was a woman who said she was wearing "black dress". She was wearing black clothing, but certainly not a dress.
[QUOTE=BrainDrain;1896494] SNIP Her version of location was taken from what she could see in the distance, rather than the f,ing store that she was standing in front of.[/QUOTE]