Safe Sex

[QUOTE=Spicii]I thought here is a good place to tell my problems and get advice.

I am around 27 and have never had sex with a girl. Once I went to RLD in A'dam and there I came even before anything happens.

So I assume I have some premature ejaculation problems beside my shyness and., here is the question, what should I do, is going more to the clubs could help me? Should I use any pills before? or what?[/QUOTE]

I suggest you drink a lot. That way, you will be a little 'dulled' and hopefully will make it to screw the bimbo. Or pop a boner pill so that you can have 3 woodies in one night. Good luck.

[QUOTE=Spicii]I thought here is a good place to tell my problems and get advice.

I am around 27 and have never had sex with a girl. Once I went to RLD in A'dam and there I came even before anything happens.

So I assume I have some premature ejaculation problems beside my shyness and., here is the question, what should I do, is going more to the clubs could help me? Should I use any pills before? or what?[/QUOTE]
Simple solution, next time you are tempted by the devil to fornicate, simply throw yourself into the nearest canal. Worked on witches!

On the plus side, you are currently practicing very safe sex!

[QUOTE=Spicii]I thought here is a good place to tell my problems and get advice.

I am around 27 and have never had sex with a girl. Once I went to RLD in A'dam and there I came even before anything happens.

So I assume I have some premature ejaculation problems beside my shyness and., here is the question, what should I do, is going more to the clubs could help me? Should I use any pills before? or what?[/QUOTE]If you have pre-ejaculation problem. I had kind of problem too but I get managed. You got to control over yourself but it is hard. I give you simple advise get a girlfriend. And practice with her if you have problem to get a girlfriend then get a decent hooker. Meet her regularly, practice with her. And if you can manage your first pop within in 10 min.

You are now over come your pre-ejaculation situation. If you don't have enough money to meet hooker regularly then meet them once in awhile but do it all night. Practice fully with her. But best thing. Is get a girlfriend.

Hi all,

this is a proposal to Jackson to ban all photos in the site that are depicting BB vaginal or anal sex. Main argument is that there are many young people here looking at this site, and maybe impressed by some members that are performing BB and maybe they will follow this stupid practice. I do not have time to go in more details but I'll try to respond if they will be any replies.

Thanks

I recall, at young age (around 17) having the same issues. Which are quite normal for anybody who does not have sex frequently enough.

My advice to you is simply practice as much as you can. If you do it often enough, you will become more resistant and gain more control.

Age also helps. You might have available between 1-3 shots in a relatively short time. So, a HJ will calm you down, and after that you will be able to last longer and enjoy it more.

If you go for pro's, as I advise you to do v. A girlfriend, choose more mature women. They have more experience and will be able to teach you a few interesting tricks. They might also arouse you a bit less, which helps in controlling a very natural man's urge. Ejaculate.

After all, one way to look at the meaning of life is:

Men ejaculate

Women have babies

Kind regards,

Arthur

[QUOTE=Jeankim]If you have pre-ejaculation problem. I had kind of problem too but I get managed. You got to control over yourself but it is hard. I give you simple advise get a girlfriend. And practice with her if you have problem to get a girlfriend then get a decent hooker. Meet her regularly, practice with her. And if you can manage your first pop within in 10 min.

You are now over come your pre-ejaculation situation. If you don't have enough money to meet hooker regularly then meet them once in awhile but do it all night. Practice fully with her. But best thing. Is get a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]I am. I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story and wish you the very, VERY best of luck with your ongoing treatment. My thoughts are with you. x[/QUOTE]

Well RN, thanks for the good wishes. Since you're keeping score, and its been over 4 months since I last posted, I thought I'd bring everyone up to date.

For background, please trace back through my last post on 6/25/10.

Post 843
[url]http://internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=1036232&postcount=843[/url]

Following neck surgery on 6/18/10 to remove a tumor, I started experiencing headaches. Initially I just attributed them to post-surgical trauma and took more narcotics, but as my surgical wound healed the headaches got worse (and my narcotics use increased). I spent most of the summer lying on my couch in misery as I continued to lose weight (and muscle mass).

Several imaging studies (CT and MRI) were conducted. One of my chest showed that the spots on my lungs had grown from 2-3 mm to 5-6 mm, and several new smaller spots had arisen, all of which confirms that I have a metastasis to my lungs. That by itself makes me terminal, although I don't know when (and the doctors don't want to guess).

Similar imaging of my head showed nothing unusual. In early September I developed a "3rd Nerve Palsy" (meaning I could not control the movement of my right eye, due to unknown damage to the oculomotor nerve) so they did a PET/CT on 9/7/10. I called for the results the next day and was told to report immediately to the ER. It seems they thought I had a thrombosis (blood clot) in my right Cavernous Sinus (CS) and wanted to admit me as an in-patient. However, upon review by more senior staff, they decided it was not a thrombosis but some unknown growth. They sent me home with steroids and instructions to try stopping my use of narcotics.

The steroids finally relieved the headaches, but now I could only use my left eye. They also had me fiddling with lots of other drugs (in an attempt to control the headaches with lesser intervention) but I ultimately came to use the powerful steroid Dexamethasone exclusively. My oncology team met and decided to offer radiation treatment to my CS; this would be my 3rd round of radiation, albeit to a new area, as I never did follow the neck surgery I had on 6/18/10 with additional radiation there.

So, having quit the narcotics (not easy, as I was mildly addicted) and switched to Dexamethasone, I underwent radiation from 9/29/10 through 11/05/10. The goal of this radiation was to kill the growth in my CS, which (hopefully) would eliminate the headaches and restore my vision. Progress toward these goals is evident, but its too soon to declare success. Headaches seem to be gone and control of my right eye has improved but I still cannot use it properly. Right now I'm trying to taper off the use of Dexamethasone.

In the interim, they've studied my tissue samples and found that my cancer is due to the mutation of a gene known as PIK3CA. (No doubt this mutation was caused by the HPV-16 virus.) This is a common mutation in many cancers, including breast cancer and non-small-cell lung cancer, so there is a large market for specialized drugs (called PIK3 inhibitors) that target this mutation. Consequently, there is much research activity to develop and test such experimental drugs. I'm now on the waiting list for an on-going Phase 1 clinical trial of a new PIK3 inhibitor. Later this month I'll get a chest CT to help determine whether/when my disease has progressed sufficiently to start such treatment; the spots on my lungs need to be at least 1 cm, or they would be too small to measure any improvement due to treatment.

In summary, I now have metastases to my lungs and CS. Plus I have a small node in my neck indicating a likely recurrence there. The CT scan later this month is likely to show 1 cm lung spots, so its likely I'll enter a clinical trial in early 2011. Maybe I'll get lucky and this novel PIK3 inhibitor will cure me, but such chances are truly remote.

So this is what HPV-induced tonsil cancer is like, in case anyone was wondering.

Watching a couple of videos from a certain paysite, I noticed a common theme on two of the girls. There were cigar-like marking on their thighs, almost like round scabs. On both girls, they were the same size.

Now, this sparked my attention not only becuase it looked unnatural and was on both girls in the same spot, but also because there was a girl in one of the other forums (I want to say Thailand) that had these markings. I believe she was called Nan and had been around the game a long time - everyone knew her.

Question is - what are they? What's it caused by and is it spreadable to the monger? This guy Rico fucks the girls without condoms... I'm surprised he hasn't caught anything yet. Only a matter of time.

Below are stills from two movies of two different girls.

[quote=spicii]i thought here is a good place to tell my problems and get advice.

i am around 27 and have never had sex with a girl. once i went to rld in a'dam and there i came even before anything happens.

so i assume i have some premature ejaculation problems beside my shyness and., here is the question, what should i do, is going more to the clubs could help me? should i use any pills before? or what?[/quote]

i would recommend trying natural solutions before resorting to chemical ones. are you a nervous person? do you think about sex alot and are almost consumed by it? if yes, then it could be that you have sex addiction, even though you've never had sex before. trust me, it can happen.

try going to a counsellor or meeting with a sex addiction group. if sex addiction isn't the issue, then try seeing a sex therapist. they should be able to handle your problem better and provide natural solutions that you can try at home (or with the girl.) don't worry, there's alot of people in the same boat.

[QUOTE=Lifeingr]Hi all,

this is a proposal to Jackson to ban all photos in the site that are depicting BB vaginal or anal sex. Main argument is that there are many young people here looking at this site, and maybe impressed by some members that are performing BB and maybe they will follow this stupid practice. I do not have time to go in more details but I'll try to respond if they will be any replies.

Thanks[/QUOTE]

This is a proposal to Jackson to ban all members who put forth such ridiculous proposals.

[QUOTE=Johnny Maldiva]Watching a couple of videos from a certain paysite, I noticed a common theme on two of the girls. There were cigar-like marking on their thighs, almost like round scabs. On both girls, they were the same size.

Now, this sparked my attention not only becuase it looked unnatural and was on both girls in the same spot, but also because there was a girl in one of the other forums (I want to say Thailand) that had these markings. I believe she was called Nan and had been around the game a long time - everyone knew her.

Question is - what are they? What's it caused by and is it spreadable to the monger? This guy Rico fucks the girls without condoms... I'm surprised he hasn't caught anything yet. Only a matter of time.

Below are stills from two movies of two different girls.[/QUOTE]
It certainly looks like boils or pressure marks. No Std present this kind of symptoms away from private parts. If this was a skin deiseace it would been widespread in all areas. You see these kind of things in many girls from mosquito bites to boils. Sometimes it is from the unhygienic conditions they live.

[Quote]Question is. What are they? What's it caused by and is it spreadable to the monger? This guy Rico fucks the girls without condoms. I'm surprised he hasn't caught anything yet. Only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]In my part of the world (Costa Rica) there is in the countryside a biting insect that leave a painful and bothersome mark on you. You WILL scratch this I assure you for some two weeks at least. And the results will be a permanent mark on your skin which looks like shown in the pictures.

This insect prefers all and any of the skin regions normally covered by underpants but exposed when you need to accomodate nature.

Mellow

[QUOTE=Sammon]It certainly looks like boils or pressure marks. No Std present this kind of symptoms away from private parts. If this was a skin deiseace it would been widespread in all areas. You see these kind of things in many girls from mosquito bites to boils. Sometimes it is from the unhygienic conditions they live.[/QUOTE]

Thanks, Sammon.

From the little reading I've done, there are a number of different things it could be, but none of them appear to be very dangerous.

[QUOTE=Yankee 617]Well RN, thanks for the good wishes. Since you're keeping score, and its been over 4 months since I last posted, I thought I'd bring everyone up to date.

For background, please trace back through my last post on 6/25/10.

Post 843
[url]http://internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=1036232&postcount=843[/url]

Following neck surgery on 6/18/10 to remove a tumor, I started experiencing headaches. Initially I just attributed them to post-surgical trauma and took more narcotics, but as my surgical wound healed the headaches got worse (and my narcotics use increased). I spent most of the summer lying on my couch in misery as I continued to lose weight (and muscle mass).

Several imaging studies (CT and MRI) were conducted. One of my chest showed that the spots on my lungs had grown from 2-3 mm to 5-6 mm, and several new smaller spots had arisen, all of which confirms that I have a metastasis to my lungs. That by itself makes me terminal, although I don't know when (and the doctors don't want to guess).

Similar imaging of my head showed nothing unusual. In early September I developed a "3rd Nerve Palsy" (meaning I could not control the movement of my right eye, due to unknown damage to the oculomotor nerve) so they did a PET/CT on 9/7/10. I called for the results the next day and was told to report immediately to the ER. It seems they thought I had a thrombosis (blood clot) in my right Cavernous Sinus (CS) and wanted to admit me as an in-patient. However, upon review by more senior staff, they decided it was not a thrombosis but some unknown growth. They sent me home with steroids and instructions to try stopping my use of narcotics.

The steroids finally relieved the headaches, but now I could only use my left eye. They also had me fiddling with lots of other drugs (in an attempt to control the headaches with lesser intervention) but I ultimately came to use the powerful steroid Dexamethasone exclusively. My oncology team met and decided to offer radiation treatment to my CS; this would be my 3rd round of radiation, albeit to a new area, as I never did follow the neck surgery I had on 6/18/10 with additional radiation there.

So, having quit the narcotics (not easy, as I was mildly addicted) and switched to Dexamethasone, I underwent radiation from 9/29/10 through 11/05/10. The goal of this radiation was to kill the growth in my CS, which (hopefully) would eliminate the headaches and restore my vision. Progress toward these goals is evident, but its too soon to declare success. Headaches seem to be gone and control of my right eye has improved but I still cannot use it properly. Right now I'm trying to taper off the use of Dexamethasone.

In the interim, they've studied my tissue samples and found that my cancer is due to the mutation of a gene known as PIK3CA. (No doubt this mutation was caused by the HPV-16 virus.) This is a common mutation in many cancers, including breast cancer and non-small-cell lung cancer, so there is a large market for specialized drugs (called PIK3 inhibitors) that target this mutation. Consequently, there is much research activity to develop and test such experimental drugs. I'm now on the waiting list for an on-going Phase 1 clinical trial of a new PIK3 inhibitor. Later this month I'll get a chest CT to help determine whether/when my disease has progressed sufficiently to start such treatment; the spots on my lungs need to be at least 1 cm, or they would be too small to measure any improvement due to treatment.

In summary, I now have metastases to my lungs and CS. Plus I have a small node in my neck indicating a likely recurrence there. The CT scan later this month is likely to show 1 cm lung spots, so its likely I'll enter a clinical trial in early 2011. Maybe I'll get lucky and this novel PIK3 inhibitor will cure me, but such chances are truly remote.

So this is what HPV-induced tonsil cancer is like, in case anyone was wondering.[/QUOTE]

wow. Thanks for your honesty and openness. I truly hope that your treatment works. Yours is a good reason to protect oneself.

[quote=david_33]this is a proposal to jackson to ban all members who put forth such ridiculous proposals.[/quote]

that's very nice argument mr. moderator! i am speechless with the hundreds of arguments you give to prove that the proposal is ridiculous.

Its so ridiculous no arguments are necessary. Why don´t you put forward your proposal to all the porn producers while you are at it? BB is a stupid practice? Why? Why don´t you check the probabilities of a circumcised healthy male contracting HIV from intercourse with a female before you make paranoiac proposals. If you want to wear a condom, that´s your prerogative. If other forum members would rather enjoy sex, that´s up to them. By the way, for someone who wants to censor the photo threads, it is interesting to note that you have never posted a photo. Maybe you would have more legitimacy if you had posted some photos of you engaging in sex with your genitilia swathed in condoms.


[QUOTE=Lifeingr]Hi all,

this is a proposal to Jackson to ban all photos in the site that are depicting BB vaginal or anal sex. Main argument is that there are many young people here looking at this site, and maybe impressed by some members that are performing BB and maybe they will follow this stupid practice. I do not have time to go in more details but I'll try to respond if they will be any replies.

Thanks[/QUOTE]