My thoughts on the Sex Prison theme
Preface: if you don't give a shit about one anonymous dudes personal limited and opinionated beliefs about satisfying innate natural desires, skip this post because I am not speaking to you and as a general rule, I do my best to ignore haters. I am not trying to convert anyones beliefs, only offer what I think is the process of creating my own healthy perspective. I am grateful for this opportunity to freely write this post since this is also part of my growth process.
My thoughts on sex prison. We Americans and women in particular are "safer" from harm, better educated, more ambitious, (all relative terms) but also self supporting and freer to follow their feminine instincts of "find one healthy reliable man and have babies." You cannot fault them for this. Marry that with the fact that we live in a very materialistic culture. So, being part of this particular forum, I get it. I have lived in various places around the US my whole life. When you demonstrate power, looks and money, and let's not forget confidence, it becomes exponentially easier to get laid in the states. And seemingly, the more of any of those you have, the hotter the women you are fucking. Pretty fucked up. Do you subscribe to this? If so, you are promoting it. Perpetuating it.
If you think about it, all cultures have their MAJOR issues. No such thing as the perfect place. And in the urban US, where I have always lived, its not easy to smile at people when it looks like they all just walked out of a lemon eating convention. When I receive a blank stare or worse I always try to remind myself how lucky I am to enjoy the freedom and access to the best the world has to offer, whatever I may be seeking. And by that I mean, a good amount of flexibility to choose a lifestyle that suits you. Going to Colombia or wherever your preference, can be quite the ego boost and stress reliever. It's vacation! That's the point! That's a great vacation! How fortunate are we to have that choice! Some people like resorts, some people like cruises, some people like to travel to exotic places, some people want to be waited on hand and foot, some people want to just lay on the beach some people want to create bonding memories with their friends and families. There are good reasons for all of those choices. Change of scenery is no doubt a great thing.
Okay, back to sex prison. The truth is, in the US people are fucking all the time and all over the place. Normally, it is an agreement between two people. However, in the USA we have the luxury of concerning ourselves with comfort. Another relative term. Its an addiction. Like sugar. We get waaaaaay too much of it and yet people suddenly get uncomfortable if their daily intake is even slightly reduced. Excessive comfort can make you lazy. Comfort can make you selfish. The wrong kind of comfort disconnects you from the world as a whole and connects you to inanimate objects and imaginary perceptions. The reality, the thought in the back of everyone's mind is,"what's in it for me?" I think that is universal. True as it is, many are seeking the wrong thing. Let me ***** slap all of you mongers for one second. It really is a blessing in disguise and can be a hard pill to swallow. Easy sex is not the answer to happiness no more than doing drugs or buying useless disposable shit that pollutes the world that somehow you think you need and must have to be happy. And lucky for all of you, I believe I have the answer! Fuck your mind games. Fuck your buy one get one free 50% off, Fuck your CVS Rite Aid membership cards to get the advertised sale price to get me in the door just to sell me plastic that will end up in a landfill 5 minutes after I open it."Whats in it for me?" Make legitimate, sincere, real connections with people. Realize we are all living breathing creatures interested in our own personal survival. It is a miracle that we each have the self awareness that we even exist. I find when I make the effort to connect with people, show a little compassion and peacefully move away from those who seem to have shallow aspirations, I tend to attract like minded people and the result is far more deeply satisfying and longer lasting than an easy lay. More easily stated, live your life with self respect and show others respect and you will receive what you need. And yes, sex as we all know is a very important fact of life. Show respect and no matter where you are, soon enough you will get laid more easily, even in sex prison and more importantly, get closer to your more satisfying and meaningful goals. Wishing you all good health and a safe and happy new year.
Night Activities in Medellin?
[quote=slamcity7777; 1231414]the last few pages of posts have been about spanish lessons, american vs international chicas, and some flame battle that i did not bother to read. is there anybody down in medellin with a story worth reporting? how's the line up at luna lunera & fase 2? new life or energy? which one has the better line up? mayorista still 1 out of every 10 hogs you find a keeper? how's the party scene been at parque lleres or bario colombia? can we see some pics?
slam[/quote]well said!
now, attempting to bring back the thread to the original subject, i would have a question for regulars in mde. please, don't jump on me shouting rtff! i know that the answer has been already posted, but it's rep001tered around thousand pages. if i am lazy, i am sure that many others would benefit if anyone takes the time to write an informative summary like the one i hope to read.
is there any kind soul wishing to take the time to write an informative summary report entitled [b]"how to spend the night in medellin"[/b]?
as a matter of fact, medellin is more a day-oriented city. as most restaurants close early (to the latin standard) , most casas are open only at day time. the centro itself turns to be quite dangerous at night, and it's not for everyone (i am one of those who used to walk alone around the centro till 2am, as i duly reported years ago).
if one goes to medellin for work, and not for spending a happy week hopping from casa to casa daytime, what are the available options (i mean for p4p)?
the following options come to my mind, but i am sure that someone of those how spend there many days a year may provide plenty more information, if they just take the time to write a good article:
- bars in el centro around plaza botero and el raudal (if anyone feels comfortable to go around there at night)
- sws in el centro, perpetuo socorro, san diego.
- mayorista.
- phase ii and any more?
- anything else?
thank you!
Just returned from Medellin
I just returned from three weeks in Medellin. Stayed in an 8th floor penthouse in Punta Pierde (Las Palmas) accross from 'premium plaza' mall. Great location to access two big Malls, Poblado benefits like Parque lleras, Sandiego Grill, Fas Dos, and only 1 mile to centro casas. Only $45 per night! (American realty-John Duque)
I have lots of great news, some tips, and questions for the group. Whooo! Pretty girls? Just crazy. It's true, in every direction all day. The number of 8-10's on almost every block just seems surreal! I was literaly stunned by it. Then it quickly becomes, Ok great, what can I do about it? So you gota take a deep breath and relax. Had a great taxi guy (30) very savy, took me out every afternoon for only $20k! Sandiego grill: Great time! First Friday night. One hundred friendly locals sitting calmly. I visited with them all at their tables! Great fun! Girls? Two true 10's plenty 8-9's and I'm real fussy. Like they need it all including hips. Again, overwelming Stunning! $140k. 40 mins. Included propina for no condom BJ. Casas: "Energy'; Fancy place, $100k for one hour. Covered BJs? I just viewed, many excellent ones, but I did not session. 'New Life' was great! Went there almost every afternoon. About 12 girls. Rooms; small white clean rooms with shower, mirriors. Girls; One true 10, Simone (sp?). With her many times. Others; Six or seven 8's, I was with them all. My operation was to have a 30min. Session for only $38k. Can't lose. Sometimes with uncovered BJ (standard propina $30k) or not. Then, exit. Down 150m to the main street and get some great roasted chicken, bread, milk, $4k. Then go to car (my hombres) in nearby parking lot ($4k) , refresh with some smoke and vodka, then back to NL. Get a beer ($3k) , talk locales guys for a few mins, then session again usually with Simone with. BJ for propina. So for about $60 USD +$10 for my guide, advisor, friend. I had many great, great afternoons! The three strip-bars in El Centro: Very good, just would not 'go in and out' so much (see predictable) which I like to do. It's not a safe area. Safety: In general. What looks safe may not be, thats the rub. Hard to find any police outside of Pablado! Crazy. Thats the problem. Weather: Very nice! Forget about the rain talk. Never used my umbrella once! Rain does not last long. Not one all cloudy day. More sun than rain. Mornings cool, afternoons a little hot. Tip: Don't bring street girls home, trust me on this. Future: I'm thinking very seriously to go back and live there. Surprising large middle-class. No old cars, didn't really see any poverty. Like no fat people. Apartments: $400USD to $800, unfurnished. 6-12 mos. In a modern high-rise. Gets great views, pool gym, steam (turco). Excellent! MY question: 1.) Anybody get uncovered BJ at 'Energy'? 2.) Any other good casas? We drove around checked 3-4 places on 'the list', but they only had 4-5 girls and none really do-able. Word from an American living there said NL was the best and the main Casa. Regards; Gary
This place sounds like fun
[QUOTE=John Gault; 1229326]I also go to the wholesale fruit market, and buy a watermelon. Me, and my Wingman never finish it so we give slices to the children walking by. At first I was charged 5K for a decent melon, but after the jefe saw my action he started to charge me 4K for the same melon. Now when I go there he has the knife out for me with a big smile on his face. I know this type of thing is not for everyone, but I'm sure some of you guys could come up with ideas on how to be a decent person while on the mongering trail.
Funny thing is I get a lot of pleasure out of doing things like this. As a side note on my last trip one of the girls (18 years old) my wing gave a slice to came back every day at the same time for another slice. She was giving my wing the eye, but he would not take my advice to make a move on her. Why do the young guys get all the breaks? LOL[/QUOTE]I need to get around more since I never heard of this market. Where is it located?
