Badoo encounters leading up to the trip
As I've already mentioned in my previous posts, I've been active on Badoo, getting a feel of the local chicas, lining up "dates" leading up to the trip.
Here's a tip that I picked up, if you change your location to Cuba and connect with a vpn (I personally use ProtonVPN) via the Cuba server and disable GPS access, it bypass the paywall limitations.
For the most parts, the girls I've been able to commits are in the 8-9's in looks and body, ranging from 18-25. Tonight I matched with a 10, absolute dime piece, voluptuous, curves in all the right places, all natural, nice complexion but looks high maintenance. I hit her with the usual, open with a compliment, follow by a subtle offer of pay for play companionship. She sends me her whatsapp.
On whatsapp, she asked for my flight confirmation to prove I'm serious. I answered, absolutely not, I have concerns of my own, I don't want to get flagged by immigration.
She doesn't budge.
I thought it over, either this chick is paranoid and trying to filter out the time waster or she's playing game and trying to get me invested for an upsell, like I said, she looks high maintenance.
I eventually relented and send her the screenshot with all the identification info erased, flight no. Time of arrive. Etc.
Continue to grill me about my itineraries like a fucken detective, why doesn't my arrival and departure date doesn't match with my stay in Havana. Fucken chick is already a pain in the ass but I decided to humour her, no major red flags yet.
Now she wants to video chat to confirm my identify. When she called, I answered but her camera is covered. Claim she's in bed and will video call me tomorrow.
It's my turn to put her under the spotlight, asked her to send me candid photos, no filters. She sent me a series of candid pictures, girl is a smoke show.
Alright, let's start the negotiation, I offered her 50 for a few hours of her time. She laughs and said maybe I'll have luck with other girls but she's not for me.
I asked, if she's going to counter? Nope, wished me luck.
I sensed this girl was testing my resolve, I responded with a dignified goodbye, threw the back in her court, tell her to hit me up if she changes her mind.
Sure enough, not even 10 minutes later, she messaged back.
Admit to this being her first time with this kind of arrangement, she was testing the waters. Claim she's independent and self sufficient and not looking for money. Yeah right.
She wants to meet on a date first and if we click, we can go back to the Airbnb. Still insist she doesn't want financial compensation, but if I want, get her a gift. We signed off.
What a trip. Here's my logical evaluation, if I had to wager, I'd bet she's playing the long game, looking for a sugar daddy, get me emotionally attached and then hit me up for monthly stipends.
If she asks for money anytime before the meetup, I'm ghosting her.
However I'm not a complete pessimist, maybe her dream is to marry a passport bro and immigrate to another country. If that's her angle and if I was a dick, theoretically I could just take what she gives without committing or leading her on, a free ride. But honestly, I'd rather insist on it staying transactional to avoid having to do the whole breakup ordeal after the trip.