Many of them still work once they get married.
[QUOTE=Mongmann;1268411]She prob was working all the way up to the marriage because my wingman saw her in there about a year ago.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't be shock if that is the case. Back when Club Help was still open many girls would come home to Rio on vacation and would leave their husband back in the states and would go in Club Help and make extra money pulling tricks out of there (the funny thing was many guys would be sending money to these girls thinking they are keeping them out of the Termas or Club Help) being greedy like most of them are they would still turn tricks and go to Western Union each week and get money from their simp from the states.
BUT even on this past trip I found and ran across many girls that are married to local guys and they still work in the Termas I had a girl from one of the Termas I met that had her husband bring and drop her over my place (she even had him make some food for us to eat) that she brought over and logged on to Facebook in my apt. and showed me her family pictures LOL
After talking to some of these married girls that still work in the Termas many of them said they rather marry a local Brazilian guy because many of them seem to better understand (their life style working choice) LOL maybe its a Brazilian mind-set were a Brazilian guy can better take his wife / girlfriend selling ass to tricks 6 days a week as long as she brings home the money $$ to the home.
I for one couldn't take it BUT hell I would never try to make a hooker a housewife. Maybe some guys can and don't have a problem with it. One last story I met this dime at Monte Carlo she told me she choose not to have a boyfriend as long as she is working in this line of work because her last boyfriend kept throwing up what she do for a living whenever he got mad at her. And she said she met him when she was working in the Terma and when he got [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off at her he would go to another Terma were she didn't work to see other girls she was cool with or girls she didn't get along with. Maybe he knew that she had girlfriends that would tell her who and how much he would spend in them. (most of us know there isn't to much you can do at one Terma that within a day or hours other Termas girls don't know about it).
Kid Cisco
It's easy to generalize or make broad statements but a female will do what is needed
We, as mongers all have stories some of us can go on what we were told by friends that also is a monger or what we been told by these working girls. Or what we have seen 1st hand over the years.
Years ago I would have said there is NO way a Brazilian guy would want to be married or even date a chick that works or had worked as a hooker. I can only go on what I have seen and know 1st hand and can only compare these new found findings of what I have seen over the past decades of going to Brazil. It is to EASY to call these Brazilian guys BUMS or dead beat Fathers etc. Etc.
I really try not to generalize when it comes to another culture or group of people without living in their shoes. With the way things are in the United States with more and more females earning degrees and going to college and with more males not getting jobs its easy to call many of the males here in the states dead beat Fathers. Many households have decided it is better for the Father to be a stay at home Dad so WHY (can't these Brazilian couples decide to do the same)? Were the Dad stay at home and cook and clean and take care of the kids?
Just because " some of us " bring our views and judgements from the United States to a foreign country and no matter how long we may live there and learn to speak THEIR language perfect we are still viewed as a foreigner in THEIR country ...no matter IF we live in Brazil for decades . And some of us think and wonder WHY would a sexy fine young female would want to marry these guys. And I don't like to go into name calling a person without a reason I don't call these Brazilian guys (loser, Bum, dead beat) etc. Because I don't know them.
These girls know how to run game on tricks it is easy for them to cry to one of us in the Terma Boite saying how she is a single Mother and her baby Father don't work and can't hold a job and don't support them and he treat her bad etc. When at the same time I had one that went and she came over to my place she show me her Facebook pictures of them laughing and going on family vacations and being a family. Hell he cook and made her dinner and she brought up a plate for us to eat together he drop her off LOL
The thing is some of us wouldn't or can't accept what these girls do for a living and we couldn't have them as our wife or girlfriend. Some of these Brazilian guys that grew up with hookers, Termas, walk past red light areas to get to school to them this is the norm. I lost count how many boyfriends and husbands I would see dropping off their wives at these window fronts in Amsterdam carry their bags when I use to go there.
Since I travel a lot outside the USA before I joined the Navy and I do a lot of travel now with my job I try to keep a open mind and don't past judgement on group of people. I just feel it is just the way they do things by no means am I saying NONE of these Brazilian guys have a problem with dating or getting married to one of these hookers. But some don't when a Mother is face with her child going hungry she will do what she needs to do for put food on the table even if it means sleeping with obese, older awkward acting mongers that are older then her grandfather if it means living in a nice area and raising her kids sending them to private schools etc. she will do what it takes.
I lost count how many Termas girls or girls that worked Club Help that would be out walking holding hands with their kids and their boyfriend, husbands baby Fathers etc. On a Sunday I walk past them and keep on walking I respect these girls private lives. UNLESS she put it out there.
I try to keep it real with these girls I tell them up front look I am not here to save you or listen to your sad story about how bad your baby daddy have done you or how bad your life is. With that said then I get a total different vibe from them that is when I learn their real name. And IF they are married have kids etc. Most of the time these girls seem to have the weight taking off their shoulders when I tell them I am here to fuck you and chill and have fun and maybe get to know you IF you want to I get a different view and a different story from them try that.
From being around so many sailors in the past that went out and got married to bar girls, hookers, etc. That they brought back from overseas. I had a chance to see things from these girls point of view the ones that seem to be controlling was these girls they couldn't wait till their husbands left out to go to sea. So they could be what they are and that was a female that didn't mind having sex and getting paid off it. So as far as acceptance of what they do for a living? Or trying to hide ky jelly and smells from their pussy etc. lol lol I would say they aren't trying to hide nothing IF a guy can't handle it and IF he isn't able to support her and her kids he don't have anything to say about what she do for a living. So many guys choose to stay home and take care of the kids... IF he is such a BUM were else is he going to stay if he don't work or have a job ?? hell he is going to stay with her and live off her money she make from tricks..
Let's think about this how many girls thought that once they married a American gringo and run to the promise land of the United States that ended up running back to Rio and selling ass again? After they found out their new Prince is jealous and telling her what to wear checking her e-mails, having her closed down her facebook page, checking her phone calls etc. Telling her who her friends could be. Etc. Etc. Yeah I heard all of that.
Just like BOTH Ingrid's from the Termas 4x4 and L'uomo they ended up getting married to Brazilian guys. And seem to be happy. And their are others I won't put out there that are STILL working in the Termas crying and telling sad stories to tricks each night and kissing on them and taking the money they made home to their kids and their Brazilian husbands.
At the end of the day. To me it doesn't matter to me and I won't be getting married to a working girl or ex working girl here in the states or over in Brazil BUT I don't and I won't PLACE labels on these local guys because I have seen guys here in the states that don't take care of their kids. And I seen guys that wasn't happy but they accept their wives or girlfriend stripping to make ends meet. So I know many of these local girls have had happy lives with their Brazilian husbands. Just because some of these local guys can accept their woman making a living off lonely tricks doesn't make him a loser, or a Bum... and btw how can you hide anything in Brazil ?? these husband know what they do for a living they may tell us their husband don't know what they do but that is part of the game for some of us to feel sorry for them lol lol ( they and their husband are laughing all the way to the bank) lol ... because many of us are to fast to past judgement on these local guys as being bums and losers IF we knew they accept their woman selling ass for a living..
PS: Ok Eric I see your point, I am done with this topic all I can say is we choose to believe what we want to believe..
Kid Cisco