Shadow Mongers and Chicken Fights
Chicken fights between mongers, prostitutes and girlfriends in Angeles City are commonplace. It is not surprising given the volatile combination of sex, money, alcohol, jealousy and lies. It usually starts when one party feels cheated because things did not go as expected in the bedroom or discovers that the other party was not servicing them exclusively as promised. What is surprising is that the combatants are rarely seriously injured or killed.
Jealousy and envy are prominent traits in Filipino culture and society. When these feelings fester in romantic relationships between natives, it often results in a chicken fight. Sometimes the chicken fight occurs in a public place such as the streets or plazas. The police have no interest at all in getting involved in such altercations unless one of the participants dies.
Pinays are not as submissive or docile as they are often made out to be. Once they get over their initial shyness towards a guy, they can show their underlying stubborn or aggressive nature. Their tendency to use "tampo" to repress their feelings of anger instead of talking about whatever caused their negative emotions can lead to violent outbursts or passive-aggressive behavior like "accidentally" damaging something you own. Many girls come from impoverished households where domestic violence is a regular occurrence. Their father may come home drunk and broke because he wagered all of his wages on the wrong rooster, his wife takes objection, and it all goes wrong from there.
In the Philippines, many families drink together. This means some Pinays have been drinking since they were teenagers, and they are now alcoholics in their twenties. An unwitting monger sometimes takes one of these clandestine alcoholics barhopping without realizing she is on a binge until they stagger back to the hotel room and things go bad because two mean drunks are locked inside a room.
The whole cloak and dagger exercise to trick dating site girls into fucking clandestine sex tourists or sexpats just seems like another full-time job. If the girl is on a dating site in Angeles City, Manila, or Cebu she probably riding the cock carousel for pesos, and all of the effort expended in trickery and misdirection in an attempt to get affordable GFE would be better used making more money. For guys with something to lose, they would be better off getting a bar girl and using a short-time hotel where ID is not required and the girl can conduct the transaction for the room. Then they can get their GFE and be on their way without worries about phone numbers or social media complications.
On the other hand, some guys actually get a thrill out of the possibility of being caught lying or cheating. While others think that they are actually seducing the girls online with their boyish charms and good looks, or they just believe they are getting a fresher puss although dating site girls don't attend hygiene checks at the clinic. In those cases, the elaborate counterintelligence measures may be worth it. However, expert scammers and extortionists really determined to put the squeeze on mongers usually have their corrupt police accomplices waiting close by to make sure the monger does not escape from the hotel or condo. Once they flash their badges and guns at the front desk, the receptionist would be more than happy to hand over the monger's details and summon the manager to open his door with the master key.