Still more about AFF - long message - sorry to be so long-winded
[QUOTE=Mature Man]Hi MPH,
I was always under the impression that AFF was a big money scam. Has your success enabled you to meet up with women who just want to have a good time or only for the sake of money.Could you also mention the countries as that may have some relevance to the response. I do know in the ultimate analysis we pay anyway.
Reason is that if money is involved its better to go where you know you likely getting the biggest bang for your buck.[/QUOTE]I don’t think AFF is a scam. Hard-sell marketing for sure, and lots of annoying pop-up’s to up-sell and cross-sell even after you buy a paid membership. But the basic product of people actively seeking sex is for real.
I have said a couple of times that we are all damn lucky to be playing in Indonesia, whether at the 5-star-hotel hooker bars or the Kota knock-shops or at Blok-M. I think that good luck carries over into AdultFriendFinder, especially if you are a bule.
Go back through the past several screens worth of messages and read what Mangga and Mandiri and Pak Mike (maybe some others also) have to say. I agree with what they have said about the motivations and behavior of the wanita jelita (lovely ladies). But here is my similar story.
I have met dozens of women from Jakarta that I found on AFF in the 4 months since I bought a membership, which costs me around US$12 per month. There are more expensive options for membership, but I went with the budget-ticket. Dozens means more than 30 ladies for those of you keen on miscellaneous details (grin).
Only one woman asked me for money. That was for her taxi fare, which I usually offer anyway, unless I have reason to believe that my friend is very well-heeled and may be offended by the offer. Depending on where the lady lives in relation to my central-Jakarta hotel, I give anywhere from 50k to 150k for taxi on my own initiative. Menteng gets 50k, and Bogor or Bekasi gets 150k, if you wonder how I decide, but I’m not perfect on my knowledge of greater Jakarta geography. Only the one woman (a classy 40-something Sundanese sales promoter) asked for it, and she asked by sms before she ever got into the taxi to come see me.
And just like some others have reported, a few women were shocked (borderline offended) that I offered them even taxi money. One that I gave 100k to gave me back 80k smiling sweetly and telling me that her parking at the hotel was only 20k. She had driven herself there, same as a paediatrician (yes, a medical doctor), a university lecturer, and a couple of wealthy tai-tais (married wives). They all have their own cars, and good jobs. This is one reason they like bules. Less chance that we will be patients or ex-students, or spouses of neighbors, etc.
Two weeks ago I had a three-some (yes, there are also women who hunt in pairs on AFF under the category “couples: 2 women”) Life is really too good in Indonesia (full smile). One was an older engineer (late 30’s) and her friend was a secretary (20-something). After a really fantastic session, I slipped 50k each into their pockets (for taxi-mu). While the younger one was in the toilet putting on lipstick, the older one handed me back my 50k, telling me that it was nice of me, but that I should give only to the younger one because her salary isn’t so high. Implicit message was “I have my pride”. Incidentally, I did her again, by herself, over her lunch hour the very next day. Wonderful!
For the sceptics reading this, there are definitely some women who are hooking for dollars or SugarDaddies on the AFF site, and their profiles say so explicitly. The code words are “looking for generous men”, or “take me shopping”, or “want to be treated as a courtesan”. My guesstimate is that maybe 1 out of 15 or 1 out of 20 profiles are like this, at least explicitly. Single digit percentage only, and I simply avoid those women. Many more may well be open to the cash-for-gash trade-off, but we all know how sweet the women can be, even though they may not have much money. When I want to pay (which is still often – grin), then I prefer to call one of my done-her-before “sure thing” professional friends, or go look for fresh pussy myself at BATS or D’s Place.
Finally, for those of you convinced that AFF is a scam in terms of the site itself ripping you off, I think that is nonsense. Sure they charge a fee, and if you are worried about not being able to cancel your credit card, just send them a money-order like I do. I can’t risk any unexplained charges on my cards because my wife vets the bills carefully. Still not persuaded, then do an internet search on AdultFriendfinder, or on the founder, Andrew Conru. Even the Wall Street Journal has been writing about how “Adult” dating sites flourish all over the world as people choose sex over love. Good for all of us friends of Jackson (smile again). Remember we are here to share experiences about meeting women for sex. Not only meeting women that we pay for sex. Hubba-hubba!
I can’t comment on AFF in the United States because I play only in Asia, and mostly in Indonesia. But I can tell you for sure that AFF Malaysia and Thailand are both excellent sources for freebies, and I plan to try Vietnam within the next month. Stay tuned and stay grateful that Indonesian women are as hot as they are. Treat them all well, because they do share stories about us.
Hope that helps, fellow seekers.
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Back in beautiful Jakarta
(My trip was 6 July to 16 July but I couldn’t report immediately on my return as I took ill on my flight from Singapore to London with what turned out to be food poisoning and ended up in hospital in the UK)
Landed at CGK Saturday morning. I had planned to try the advice from an earlier post about approaching single girls at the airport but my over generous colleagues provided a car and driver which were waiting for me. This is even though I am here on holiday and won’t be working for more than 1 day.
One negative to report. This my first time arriving on a Saturday and if the queues for Visa and immigration are likely to be as long in the next time I will be avoiding similar itineraries in the future.
I kept my spirits up by listening to a Norwegian guy who had a sense of humour failure when he discovered that he needed to buy a visa and didn’t have any cash with him. Bizarrely he was married to a Jakarta girl. His excuse was that it was some years since he had been there.
Lesson to all potential visitors though… have your USD ready when you arrive. $10 for max 7 days stay, $25 for max 30 days (all you old hands out there can sit back and suck your eggs until I’ve finished this bit).
Ever since a travelling companion of mine got stung for a $50 backhander by the immigrassi I try and make sure I’ve only got enough USD to get the visa and carry limited amounts of other currency.
Back to the Norwegian, he paid by credit card eventually but it was fun watching the panic develop.
Anyway, got dropped at my hotel Ibis Mangga Dua and said I wouldn’t need the car for the rest of the day.
The Ibis is not in the same league as my usual hotel, Shangri La but as I’m paying it’ll suffice. I booked a bigger bed/room so I could have more space to entertain and I’ve ended up with what they call a suite but it is more like an apartment. Kitchen, dining room, lounge and extra bathroom. It’s a 20 minute walk to answer the door!
After getting settled I headed off for my first ‘pop’ of the holiday. After my last trip I had determined that I would make straight for the Delta Spa at Kelapa Gading and have a repeat performance with No 64, Cartika. A bit of an indulgence really as I had no idea if she would be there and I had noticed that there was a Delta Spa real close to my hotel.
A bluebird from the front of the hotel got me to Kelapa Gading and eventually, with my help, we found the spa.
I picked up my wristband and said I wanted to go straight up to the massage area and not use the spa facilities. When I got there I could see number 64 on the board but when I asked I was told she was still working and I would have to wait for 20 minutes. Should give me time for my first Bintang.
I only had a couple of mouthfuls of my beer though before I was directed to my room. I’d chosen the suite option with 3 sessions at 425k rupiah. Although I was freshly showered from the hotel I thought it right to have a room with a shower. Apparently not a view shared by Cartika who after recognising me from my last trip got straight into the massage.
This girl really is the sweetest personality. She was singing to herself whilst doing her job and chattering away in bahasa even though she knows I don’t speak much. After the hot rocks she lay down beside me and started to snuggle which was the biggest turn on.
As we were on our sides and she was pressing into me it didn’t take long for her to sense my growing hard-on (all natural for this session) and she started to play with my little bro.
During our previous session she had been reluctant to allow me anything other than an over the clothing grope of her tits but this time it didn’t take long before I had shirt and bra undone and those magnificent, firm, young tits were cupped in my eager hands. The stiffened nipples were fantastic and tended to the European norm rather than the Asian pencil erasers. She wouldn’t let me take them in my mouth though.
With the massage forgotten play soon developed into another spectacular combination dry hump and HJ which resulted in my violent and exquisite release of stored up protein which she made sure was completely milked out of me.
I am determined that this girl will eventually agree to see me outside of the Spa and that we (or at least I) will enjoy the full act. She is so expert at the HJ and dry hump keeping me on the verge of cumming for so long that I am sure she will be a memorable fuck. Language is proving a bit ofa barrier as my Bahasa is more limited than her English which is minimal. Next time I will be armed with my English-Indo, Indo-English kamus. I’ll keep you posted on my progress on my next Trip.
After she lovingly cleaned me up we lay and cuddled for a bit which was very GFE with Cartika gently stroking and caressing my cock and balls while giving my face and torso little kisses. Towards the end of the session time I was treated to an assisted shower, cleaned up and got back into my street clothes. She walked me back to the public area and I slipped a tip into her hand as we parted.
Down to the cashier I paid the bill and asked for a Bluebird to take me to the Hotel Melawi (report to follow).