New change along with the price increase at 4 X 4
Yes, I was there with a wingman and they told him about the new waiver time of 6:00pm and I confirmed it that day. 4 X 4 opens officially at 2:00pm but I've managed to enter as early as 1:30pm in the past when setting up a rendezvous with a huge bunda garota and get some extra time in the cabine when things are going extremely well (99% of the time they do!). I'm happy, the girl is happy, everybody wins. Just something to think about since they don't expect to session until 2:00pm anyway. Oh, yes, they are taking chances with bikinis and really short, short, short shorts that show off the ass and camel toe oh, so well. I can't wait to get back!
[QUOTE=Mangera;1277306]Entrance fee is waived if taking a girl to cabina by 6pm according to your report. I thought it was by 5 pm. Has this changed? Also, is openning time still 3pm?[/QUOTE]
Sounds like you hit the wall eric or got burnt out from dealing with the termas girls
[QUOTE=Eric Cartman; 1277341]Feels like a weird day in Rio. Kind of quiet and calm, but with underlying stress. Maybe it's me and just reading about everything that's been happening in the US: Star Wars Day, now Cinco de Maio. And MCA passing (I wasn't a huge fan but hey he's only 3-4 years older than me!).
I haven't (I think) set foot in a Terma or had a girl visit me at home for like 3+ weeks now, I think before I went to Florianopolis. A lot is work stress and leaving too late to want to do anything. But today I had all day free, Saturday, and just couldn't motivate to head out to MC. Not sure why. My internet porn habit is benefiting haha. Bank account too, overall. (After taking a beating last month due to unexpectedly having to pay about R$4K in Brazilian annual income tax. That's AFTER everything they've been taking out of my salary every month!).
Last night I had dinner with an ex-GDP who I dated a little. Just met in Copa after she interviewed at another Zona Sul T to consider going back to work (needs the simoleans). She seems to want to date me but alas I am just not that into her, as the book says. Consequently I'm not even really into the idea of getting-back-together boning. I left her and went home to play video games LOL. But my choice was leaving work at 8pm to go to MC or having dinner with her, and I chose the latter. Just not feeling it lately. Can't explain why. Shaved my balls today to "prepare the field" so maybe that will help my fix my frame of mind hahaha.
It can be pretty lonely living here as an expat. When you come for 2-3 weeks and bang every day it's not obvious. Enjoy it!
-Cartman[/QUOTE]Eric,
I too have lived around the world for the Military and on Government jobs and was a expat as a matter of fact I was able to hang out with a few guys that was in my unit a month ago that have since moved and retire in Brazil many have made Rio their home and got married and some have had kids many will go months or even years without going to any type of Termas, private apts, VM or seeing escorts you name it ( the ONLY time some of them go to a Termas is when a old friend come to town) the bottom line they don't have to they are busy with a social life going to movies, beaches and malls and dinners working out at the gym etc. Etc. And they still have and find time to date and see many girls without having to go to the Termas or paying them to be with them.
As I have mention to you before you isn't the 1st guy or expat or will you be the last one to live overseas or one that work a lot many young Brazilian guys that have office jobs work their asses off in their 20's-early 40's to have shit like car, nice apt, clothes, clubs and they still find time to date hot ass girls (without going to the Termas each time they want a nut). As you have found out your bank account can grow big time once you give up going to these Termas no matter IF you go to the lower end ones. That you can pay 20-50 reals for a nut. But most of them are closed I guess by the time you get off from work.
I think you should try to check out Facebook or some dating site or even seeing older hot looking Brazilian women that kept their bodies together and have a good job that isn't going to come to you crying each time a bill come in the mail or anytime they want a hang bag or shoes they call you and see if they can go over and fuck you for 300 reals (trying to so called date EX-GDP girls is a waste of time) IF you met them when they were selling you ass in the past they will always see you and view you as nothing more then a TRICK not a real boyfriend or see you as a older Sugar Daddy. So maybe seeing a older Brazilian women that have her shit together and don't need or want your money may be a better option.
I hate seeing you wasting your time living in Brazilian feeling lonely when I know many I mean many guys that live there that send me pictures of their wives or girlfriends and some that update their facebook wall almost by the hour going out and having fun and having the time of their lives with a different girl almost every night. Hell I was there for 3 weeks and once I hit some of the top Tier 1 Termas by day. I would have one of my Facebook girls I met on line coming over at night the front desk guy was giving me five 5's when he see me the next day.
The bottom line Eric maybe it could be the guys you hanging around with? If all they do is see hookers and monger all the time and don't do anything different or talk about anything different you can find yourself getting caught up in ONLY dealing with that type of life style. Try meeting guys that are into sports or working out or doing something besides seeing hookers and then maybe you will meet women that will turn you on to females that you don't have pay to spend time with you.
Many guys on here will give their right arm to be in your shoes to live in Brazil so get out there and have fun man you on to a good start by going Cold turkey and leaving those MC's Termas alone.
I knew guys when I was station in Hawaii that all they did was go to work and go back to the ship and sleep or when they did go out they just went out to drink or to get drunk and when they got pay visit a massage parlor to get jack off or get some pussy. I lived off base in nice part of town in a Condo and had fun taking classes and dating different types of girls from Japanese, Korean, etc. Etc. Trying new food you name it I had a blast for almost 10 years I didn't have time to get lonely those 10 years went by fast.
I am not trying to tell you what to do or do I know it all I am just giving you some different options that worked for me and what I seen work for different other guys before you know it you will be in your late 40's 50's and then 60's and you don't want to be one of those old broken down mongers you see in the back of Balcony Bar chasing 21 year old hookers complaining she want to charge you 400 reals for 30 mins or how she won't allow you to kiss her on her mouth or lick her pussy or how she made you wear a rubber to suck your dick and how she rush you to cum so she can leave etc. You sound like a nice guy you just have to change your hunting grounds to somewhere with better options that will work better for you.
Or even a 1- 2 week trip to the states may help you clear your head and see things differently when you return back to Rio... some guys I read about that live in Rio and see their reports on and post on here I wouldn't waste my time trying to post anything that could or may help them ( because some guys are born to be and are VERY happy to be a monger and will always be a trick until the day they die I can spot them a mile away) I think you can do better just get out there and try...
I am not saying mongering is wrong or anything because, I enjoy fucking hot Brazilian girls and Latina's chicks and don't mind paying for it so I am a monger too BUT I still have a normal life with a lady in my life as well and monger from time to time or when I am on a trip for a few weeks along with seeing non hookers I met online, or at the mall at leaving or coming into my apt building ( I even hook up with this chick that work at one of the buffet lines I was going to almost each afternoon for lunch) I slip her my number and she called me when she got off work.
Working out at the gym can help you with that work stress so you can relax.
Good luck,
Kid Cisco
There are all kinds of ways to do this, being nice is the key!
You have the right mentality. Tips, a drink here or there for the staff, being always respectful and polite work wonders. I tip from time to time and give little knicknacks to the lady, for example who records your session before going to the cabine. I've spent as much as 2 to 2 1/2 hrs in the cabin when 4 X 4 is deserted and getting started early and paying the regular or the Super Suite rate when I need extra room to maneuver a really nice azz. Again, it won't work for everybody, but being kind and giving them what they want occasionally gives you perks the other mongers are unlikely to get if you and the girl ask nicely and she is a friend of the staff. Not all the girls are, by the way.
[QUOTE=Bravo;1277365]Back in the day, I would tip the cleaning woman 5R and she would give us an extra 20 minutes in the room before she called the desk. I had never heard of that until a girl told me to do it. I guess the GDP liked me and wanted to spend extra time fucking without me having to pay for it. Very nice thing for her to do! I wonder if that would still work.[/QUOTE]
