-
[QUOTE=Starchild2012; 1304915]I respectfully disagree with the assumption that filipina women are crazy about white sperms and white Saviour child theory. I'm Indian, now how low can a filipina women go to have an Indian child with the creepy accent, smelly odor, brownish skin & tech support when he grows up. When I first came to the PH, some women wanted kids from me.
Women in Asia, develop motherly instinct at certain age and if you happen to be white, black or brown guy, they will make babies with you. Its just more evident in Philippines, but if you go to India as well, the women will want baby more than anything else in her life.
Asian women are it seems programmed to be that way, they don't care what becomes of the child, the feeling of motherhood in Asian women is so high it eclipse all other problem.[/QUOTE]AY AY AY – "A Spanish paralinguistic feature of communication. Employed when no words are capable of conveying the frustration or general absurdity of the situation."
In other words Starchild, I think you are over reacting just a tad and misconstruing what I was trying to say. I never wrote 'that Filipina women are crazy about white sperms and white Savior child theory. ' How did you come up with that?
All I said and meant to convey was that since more than 90% of the Filipina bar girls I had carnal knowledge with and rode bareback conveyed nonverbally to me the idea that they would not be upset, in fact, they would be fine with getting knocked up by me and further that there had to be some reason for this strange phenomenon especially since I could see no way they could contact me later and try to gain some financial leverage from the situation.
I think my conclusion is a valid hypothesis. The poor bargirls instinctively see some Darwinian advantage to having mixed race babies although they have probably never heard of Darwin. Since I am a man, a citizen from a western country writing about my Filipino experiences in a western web forum, I did not bother to include other foreign punters in my circle. My error. But since you brought it up, yes Koreans, Japanese, Singaporeans, ie foreigners (even Indians. That is a joke) in the PI for business and pleasure throwing around huge amounts of money for a little poontang would qualify in the girl's minds as worthy donors to their gene pool based on their relative success and wealth compared to what the bar girls are used to. The theory is they want a little of that wealth gene to be transfered to their child. Women have always wanted to mate with the strongest most dominant males they could attact. Don't forget, we are getting mostly the rejects. The girls all have sad stories of a guy they loved who cheated on them or got them pregnant and deserted them. We punters are filling a void.
In most societies, having out of wedlock children is frowned on. And mixed race bastard children would be placed at the lowest rung of the social ladder. I don't think many Indian girls would be ok with having foreign fathered children. How many such kids actually exist? I could be wrong on that since I am not a frequent traveler to India having only been there twice and having never mongered there. No, the point I think you are missing is that the PI is different. The working girls we meet here don't seem to care about getting pregnant without support or marriage and don't seem concerned about the stigma of having a mixed race child. There must be something pretty powerful to override these natural and cultural taboos. I jokingly call it the Bob Marley effect. I don't see this phenomenon in LOS, Cambodia, China, Laos, SA or anywhere else I travel. Ok maybe a little bit of it in Indonesia. So unless you can come up with a better explanation for why Filipinas don't mind having FOREIGN babies I will stick with the Darwinian explanation. Of course the other explanation is that the girls don't think about the consequences of their actions and never consider the risk of getting pregnant until they become pregnant. Call it living in the now.
-
[QUOTE=Jopj1; 1304718]What do you guys think? [/QUOTE]Sort of Nigeria Connection. Don't do it!
-
[QUOTE=Jopj1; 1304882]Thanks for your replies confirming my feeling. (it s always good to share opinions and advice, right?)
Unfortunately I can t post her email address due to forum restriction (unless Jackson makes an exception) but her name is mimipark29 and I attach her pic below.
I found her on escort town.
Any recommendation as to what s the best place to pick up a couple of classy escorts for my Friday night?
Thanks in advance[/QUOTE]Due to laws escort services are hard to find or recommend, bars are the best way of finding what you want, and date in asia is the best way to find girls if you have time and have back up plans.
As for the girl you posted she looks like she is making money, and not just escort work, sponsors, scams, if she posts a photo like that and expect you to pay before you meet, she not planning on meeting you.
-
[QUOTE=Starchild2012; 1304915]I respectfully disagree with the assumption that filipina women are crazy about white sperms and white Saviour child theory. I don't know how this comes up, I think western men get some sort of ego boost when they feel like wanted. Hahaha. I'm Indian, now how low can a filipina women go to have an Indian child with the creepy accent, smelly odor, brownish skin & tech support when he grows up. When I first came to the PH, some women wanted kids from me and being a country of 1. 2 billion and million kids born every month back home, this is the last thing I wanted in the Philippines. Indian women are more than happy to have kids from me. No thanks. I will pass.
I can assure you majority of women are not looking for a white messiah child, its the Asian culture, Asian women are traditionally more motherly and family oriented, no matter how poor they are, Asian women want babies after certain age. No matter with whom they come from. The proof is India & China. Two most populated country on planet combine this with indonesia, pakistan, bangladesh and you have 50% of world population in five countries.
Women in Asia, develop motherly instinct at certain age and if you happen to be white, black or brown guy, they will make babies with you. Its just more evident in Philippines, but if you go to India as well, the women will want baby more than anything else in her life. Look at 1. 2 billion of us as a proof. LOL.
Filpina. Korean babies number in thousands now, more than white-filipina babies or any other race and they are called Kopinos, there was a documentary made on them in Korea and as a result, now these mothers are getting some help from korean NGOs and their kids learning korean as well.
Asian women are it seems programmed to be that way, they don't care what becomes of the child, the feeling of motherhood in Asian women is so high it eclipse all other problem.[/QUOTE]I think you have NO idea what you are on about.
In phils its COMMON. I have been asked more then a dozen times by different women. I have also been asked only ONCE in indonesia and ONCE in Thailand. Never elsewhere in asia even though I have been just about anywhere including india. There is obvious desire by filipinas to mix with white folk especially with blue eyes which is a mystery to most of us. I have no desire to participate in such events and I do find them weird. No its got nothing to do with my ego its just weird as to why would they want a kid without a father? There is no way I can see my kid growing up in such an environment. I am not sure if filipinas ask other races but I am sure that many don't like the idea of having a kid with a local with no strings attached. Yes that happens a lot there because they are naive and believe the bula bula they hear from the local studs. They are uneducated and locals refuse to use condoms but I am sure that if girl could foresee the consequences at the time she would NOT engage in unprotected sex with local IMO. Like many others my experience when asking WHY do you want a kid from me has been some lame excuse how it would be beautiful and would be a movie star yadayada crap. I have heard this on more then one occasion. I have even had offers to fuck them for weeks without pay do anything I want as long as I keep cumming inside. Yes its weird, yes its crazy but its the truth.By the way excuses I heard in indo and thai were different and more sincere.
What I have learned from this board is that we often have different experiences in phils, we experience same places different even same girl can be different with me then with you. Just because something does not happen to you as often to someone else it does not mean that not true.
-
[QUOTE=Jopj1;1304882]Thanks for your replies confirming my feeling. (it s always good to share opinions and advice, right?) Unfortunately I can t post her email address due to forum restriction (unless Jackson makes an exception) but her name is mimipark29 and I attach her pic below.I found her on escort town.Any recommendation as to what s the best place to pick up a couple of classy escorts for my Friday night? Thanks in advance[/QUOTE]A very nice looking internet scam artist LOL Philippnes must hold the world record for internet scammers. Go on some webcam site and out of Asia girls 70% are from Philippines. I do not think this is related to internet acces, but rather to a) fluent english speaking in the country, be) lack of jobs and finding out they can raise a few bucks a day just by standing in front of a webcam: sooner or later someone, somewhere will pour some money for her to strip or do a private show.
-
[QUOTE=Bionicman;1304994]A very nice looking internet scam artist LOL Philippnes must hold the world record for internet scammers. Go on some webcam site and out of Asia girls 70% are from Philippines. I do not think this is related to internet acces, but rather to a) fluent english speaking in the country, be) lack of jobs and finding out they can raise a few bucks a day just by standing in front of a webcam: sooner or later someone, somewhere will pour some money for her to strip or do a private show.[/QUOTE]She looks very sexy but is defintely a scam. While you post he email as you said maybe mention the web site. Plenty of these scams around. I would agree with F3 also.
Why not try Classmates, Pegasus or go to the bar in the Shangri La as it used to have some tasty morsels. Sometimes the high class does not reullt in good service but YMMV
-
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger;1305010]She looks very sexy but is defintely a scam. While you post he email as you said maybe mention the web site. Plenty of these scams around. I would agree with F3 also. Why not try Classmates, Pegasus or go to the bar in the Shangri La as it used to have some tasty morsels. Sometimes the high class does not reullt in good service but YMMV[/QUOTE]I think that lots of us, mongering on trips that take only 5% of our year time at the best, do spend a lot of time in "internet mongering", fancing the idea to find Miss "Good One" for the next trip. This keeps us psychologically busy and in action. Giving us the feeling we are out hunting. The internet mongering also makes you attracted by the look (what else, you can't talk nuch, it is all quite clinical, at least you please your eyes) rather than by the content (and service). Easy to fall in the scam for the non smart ones.
It seems indeed a nice idea to search the target of the next visit, but I reckon it is un-necessary, I would even say non-sense, but each one his own.
How many times we rejected a girl from a bar (or from a soapie looking at the fishbowl) after few minuets as feeling not at ease. No drama, no commitment. But set a date, grow expectations on both sides and. Same as above: no chemistry in real. There has been a mild commitment, there is going to be (lot or little) drama.
Better hunt out in real and spend the time at home in RTFF and learn!
-
Guys you are fantastic.
Thanks for your replies.
I have decided to make her run a bit and promised that I ll pay in advance. I keep raising technical difficulties and she keeps reverting to me with new ideas. I even suggested to pay her the whole amount as deposit which she kindly refused.
Anyway I ll keep you posted if anything good comes out of my week end!
-
Wanting a kid
After reading many posts I thought I would enter some thoughs. I will try to keep it short. Not all of my thoughts will pretain to every girl or situation. I have been told that the face is a big thing for some of the girls. Not having a flat nose or having whiter skin is favorable. I guess if it is not normal for the locals and they have seen many pictures of these fearures it becomes hollywood style type casting.
I think one of the biggest reason is the lack of social net. When they get older they need to have someone to take care of them. There is no social security or pension plan. This is the famlies responsibality. So you need that kid or kids to help you out. I read aboout guys saying that if you get married to one you will support her family. Of course you will. You have just joined the safety net for the family and they think you have money to burn.
It is built into a female to reproduce and care for kids. Not so much for the guys.
Another large reason is the good ole Catholic church. In the days of european expansion people under your control ment power. It continues today with the catholic missionaries and other religions as well. This leads to birth control, or lack of it. If they are taught about std's and sex in general there would be less children and thus less power for the church. The church power in the Phils is very controling, and you don't want their rath thrust upon you. I would venture to guess that very little about sex education is taught in the school. McDon mentioned that in Indo and Thailand he was asked only once about not using a condom. Yes, as these are not countries dominated by the catholic church.
I know a girl who became pregant by a Japanese guy. She now after having the baby wants to go back to her go go life style as she is still young and wants to party. I tiold her next time use a condom. She said she knows that now. A little to late isn't it? I guess the old saying ignorance is bliss fits right in here.
There are social pressures for there future life, religious considerations, female needs to have a kid, and looks of person pulling at them, plus others. And they are not in general not highly educated. Doesn't make for a good situation for them. Still, we enjoy them as it can be a hell of a good time with them, But I will use a condom and not be getting any new relatives for my family.
These are just some thoughts I have had. You might agree or not agree as there is not one answer that I know about.
-
While On the Subject
One of my Pinay had a friend in town for one night only. Said friend is a female police chief in metro Manila. We took my cousin with us for a double date. While they were hitting it off well, she told my cousin that if they (assuming she meant people above her) knew she was with a black guy then her career would be ruined. I've never experienced any prejudice while dealing with Filipinos so when my cousin told me that she had said this I was a bit curious. Any one care to chime in?
-
[QUOTE=Mc Don;1304984]There is obvious desire by filipinas to mix with white folk especially with blue eyes which is a mystery to most of us.[/QUOTE]By coincidence I had this very same conversation yesterday with the beautiful former actress / model I mentioned in an earlier thread. She was married to a European husband who died unexpectedly when she was pregnant and now is rearing the toddler by herself. I commented to her how beautiful the child is (and it was). She immediately told me that she wants to have another mixed baby very badly. The implication was pretty clear that she wanted me to help out with this dream. She told me that she most wants to have a baby with a "colored eye" foreigner because those babies are so beautiful. She was disappointed when I told her that dark eyes are dominant and she'd have very slim chances of producing a colored eye baby.
-
[QUOTE=Fifty Pesos; 1305411]Filipinos are incredibly racist towards all foreigners. You should sit and observe the way they behave around each other compared to the way they behave around foreigners.
Filipinas fear and respect and their men. They don't respect foreigners we are merely tolerated due to financial needs which thus creates the cases of foreigners being conned out of money and other worldly possessions and time and time again. They wouldn't dare try to pull the same scams they pull with their own countrymen.
As for Blacks. For most Filipinos Blacks are the lowest of the low. You could be Will Smith or Kobe Bryant and an overweight no-name Caucasian will beat you out in terms of acceptance with them.
You should check some websites comments on Yahoo Phils when ever some racial issue comes up or Filipino boxing websites whenever a Filipino is facing a Black opponent. The word Nigger is thrown out there more times than I care to mention.
These comments come from the same Filipinos you see in everyday life in PI. Don't know if it originates from Caucasians putting things in their heads, their colonial past or human beings general propensity for denigrating others that don't look as they do.
While most Filipinas (YOU) will meet will associate with Blacks as these tend to be from the lower echelons of their society and these type would associate with any foreigner the high tier ones are mostly out of reach. You will have some mongers cry foul and say how they have bedded some from high society but as one dubious monger said most mongers speak with a forked tongue.
Whats comical is that most Filipinos have more Negroid figures than Caucasian. They seem generally too stupid to acknowledge this.
[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hJIm58Yse8[/url][/QUOTE]Very well said. Not only filipinos, just about every Asian is as racist as they come. We don't like farangs, we like the white skin they have, tanned foreigners have equal chance of getting rejected by Asians as they do with blacks.
Just the other day, there was a big hue and cry, over english teachers dating Korean girls.
[url]http://www.koreabang.com/2012/stories/newspaper-reveals-the-truth-about-foreigners-in-korea.html[/url]
If you read the comments of Koreans on English teachers, you would be shocked. Reverse racism at its best. Koreans are just a notch above filipinos, they don't even like white guys forget about blacks, however, they are below us Indians, who don't like our own kinds, hahaha. Read Caste.
The problem is we don't have yoda or Jar Jar binks to hang out with. We are stuck with low life humans who comprise the majority, who can't go beyond skin color. No matter, where you go on this planet. You will find these kinds. Science has proven that we all share the same DNA structure, have equal blood types in all race, have equal number of bones, teeth, lungs, kidneys etc etc. A black guy could donate his blood to a needy Asian guy and he will be alright. Now thats a miracle, thats proof that race, skin color does not matter.
If you think PH is bad, I can assure all black people that India is worst, don't ever come here, it will be an experience you will never forget.
-
That's true. You never see phil / Am babies with green eyes. But, for my sake, please don't TELL them that! Haha.
-
[QUOTE=Westcoast1;1305619]That's true. You never see phil / Am babies with green eyes. But, for my sake, please don't TELL them that! Haha.[/QUOTE]Am glad am in the blue category. I think my eyes have got me lots of sweet lays!