[QUOTE=Dinghy;1729941]Anybody have experience with these folks? I registered with them and so far I have 20 interests and lots of conversations. IN LESS THAN 1 DAY.
Usually, I do Thailand but I'd like to try somewhere "different". I'm not afraid of being played, just don't want to waste a whole lot of time.[/QUOTE]It's a legit site. As for the women they range from legit to dodgy. I like that PL allows its ladyboy members to identity as such because a member can specify the genders allowed to view his account; if a ladyboy can't see you she can't message you. The hassle with the site is as a standard, non-paying member a male, and only a male, is limited to sending 1 message every 10 minutes; paying members are unrestricted. After establishing contact shift to email, chat app or SMS to get around PL hamstringing you.
The best way to avoid wasting time is to be direct in your profile; use it as a filter to eliminate those who aren't interested. If your profile is all about love, LTR and marriage, and this is a misrepresentation of what you really want, you will get a lot of messages and interests, and the consequence for you is time wastage. Yes, some girls won't read the profile before sending an interest or a simple "Hi" message, and this can be followed up by you replying: "Have your read my profile and do you understand what I'm looking for?" Proceed with those who reply affirmatively.
Another way to gain efficiency it to ignore girls who are far from where you'll be staying. Unless you willing to pay for her transport there's little reason to communicate with a Makati resident when you'll be staying in Cebu only. My standard reply to far-off girls is this: "Thanks for sending me your interest / message. Have your read my profile and do you understand what I'm looking for? It's a pity you live so far from Manila. The next time you visit here let me know and we'll get together. " This has worked with some OFWs who are passing through Manila to / from their overseas jobs and also some Philippines residents who travel to Manila for work, leisure or to interview and/or train for overseas positions such as cruise lines.
