Serious relationship means serious trouble.
[QUOTE=Tagalog2016;2153173]I agree with you on this 100%. I am very down to earth guy, and I don't believe in fairy tales.
But let's reveal the meaning of "serious relationship" for pinays. It differs from Dutch definition of this phrase.
For them it means to leech off you. That is a big fortune for all her family as well, since foreigner is supposed to provide all lazybones relatives, who don't want to work either. Definitely it can be called a ticket to Paradise for them. LOL.
Filipinas are consumers by nature..[/QUOTE]Tagalog2016 quite true! "Serious relationship" means the foreigner will pay big time supporting the entire extended family until he dies or runs out of money and, his Pinay replaces him with a wealthier man. "Serious relationship" is seriously expensive for the foreigner, as one day she will say, "I have serious problem. Mama need heart surgery to save her life and I need you to pay that!
"Serious relationship" is what you the foreigner must do, as in remaining faithful and supporting her. You must prove that you are serious by purchasing house, land, automobile, and business in her name. Meanwhile, she fucks the "no relationship" fellas for a couple thousand pesos or free in cases where the serious fella provides regular cash and she works for a salary. In the return, the serious fella receives every escalating demands for cash and goods. He will hear about how much more cash and goodies other serious men are providing their Pinay and her family. Many foreigners in "serious relationship" experience stress decide to break up, leave with the cash, and sell the property.
Right around this time the foreigner will catch a serious bullet to the head in an unexplained robbery in a public place, the girlfriend / wife will not suffer any harm. Another common result of a serious relationship is the Pinay forgets to lock the door at night and the robbers get in and bash her foreigner's head in like an egg. Of course, the murderous robbers tie her up and leave her without a scratch on her body and unmolested in any way. She will manage to free herself and call the police after they make their getaway.
The fellas insisting everyone must pay for fuck are just kidding themselves if they think the girls make young handsome foreigners pay for fucks. The girls fuck the young handsome studs free, and they make the others pay because they are old, fat, bald, or crippled. This is not anything different from what college girls do on the "sugar-daddy" websites in the USA. In the same way mongers distinguish between pros and non-pros, the Pinays distinguish between "serious relationship" walking-ATM fellas and fun to fuck young foreign stud.
Anyone who is familiar with Pinays know the rule of the "Four M's" translated loosely as old rich and ready to die.
Use of the different Chat platforms in Cebu
I've included this report in the Chat Rooms forum as it describes how I bounced between the various apps in Cebu and the results I achieved. The vast majority of the time I relied on three platforms:
Tinder: probably a 50/50 split between purely commercial and "good" girls. Some of the working girls were exceptionally good looking but priced themselves accordingly. Lots of Trans but they were upfront and not out to surprise. The girls here have an attention span of 3 minutes. If you don't get their number and a date within that time, they will be gone and never reply to further messages. A big advantage to Tinder was that to a large extent "what you saw was what you got" where as with the other apps expect at least at least a 2/10 drop in hotness due to old photos, creative angles or on point makeup. Tinder also gave me my one and only rejection due to my preference to go bare.
PinaLove: the more likely of the two dating apps to offer girls ready to be available at short notice for a fee. However, depending on the time of day, sometimes it had a very limited number of profiles online.
FilipinoCupic: on average had more "nice" girls. However, still many available at short notice or no-questions-asked. The larger number of active and online profiles also increased the likelyhood of finding a suitable date.
Arriving in town during exam month was hugely beneficial as there were many new and part time profiles and girls with fees to pay.
I've also included a couple of girls that were referred to me by others as they were similar to the Chat Rooms in that they were accepted essentially sight unseen.
Note that in all cases I had abandoned the method of planning I used in Davao and returned to the tried and true, making contact once I was actually in town. I've already detailed that MO in another earlier.
Like my last time in Cebu, all the platforms proved easy to use and productuve. Each delivered opportunities slightly different to the other.
Day 1 in Cebu. Still in Davao, I messaged a contact kindly provided by another Subscriber. I let her know that I was on my way and asked was she ok to meet that night. She replied that all was good and she would be able to head my way at 11 pm and stay the night. The flight was uneventful and I arrived at the Quest Hotel too early to go straight to my room. A lazy lunch and a look around Ayala allowed them time to make up the room and then I moved in. The afternoon was spent just resting. A few Tinder and FilCupid hits suggested dropping around but I wanted to pace myself for that evening. At 10:59 pm I received a message saying that she was on her way and she suggested coming straight to the room. Obviously, I was fine with that. A couple of minutes later she arrived. Holy Shit!! I received some profile pics earlier but they were not fair warning. In the flesh, she was incredible: max 5'0", maybe 75 lb and stacked with DDs. She was standing there in leggings and a sports bra, dripping with sweat, having come straight from 4 hours of dance rehearsals. I was already harder than Chinese Calculus. She requested a shower where I valiantly helped her out of her clothes and tongue bathed every crevice. In bed those tits made great play pads and we had several sessions. All positions were catered for and she had a mouse's ear that tasted heavenly. In the morning we had another playful session and she left with 3 k taxi money and promises that she would return. Her weekend was allready full with Coyote dancing and car show promo work so she had no spare time but anytime after that was fine.
Day2. I had planned to meet a PinaLove recruit at 10:00 and a Tinder match at 1900. The PL girl arrived a couple of hours late looking way more "village girl" than the photo but still well and truly doable. What I thought was an entre BBBJ turned into a deep throat assault and rim job that polished my lower intestines. All holes were open for the remainder of the session and she left with 1500 taxi fare.
Shortly after she left I received a text from another PL lass suggesting that she was within walking distance and could she drop around for school fees. Reluctant to deprive anyone of an education, of course I agreed. She proved to be not too unlike her profile pics and a little spinner. She mentioned that she came down from the north of the island a couple times a month to add to her finances. She proceeded to give me the best BBBJ I'd had in the last 60 minutes so I didn't even worry about transitioning to FS. To my amazement she managed to get blood from a stone and received a CIM. That definitely deserved a round of applause and 1500 taxi fare home as well.
I had reached my daily limit so luckily Ms Tinder called and said she had a headache and I agreed that it would be better if we postponed our rendezvous until the following day.
Day 3 started with a well earned sleep in. Ms. Tinder came for a late lunch at TGI Fridays. At 31, she was a little older than her competition but she was still in good shape and proved to be really good company and an expert at her craft. She had promised during a previous celebate meal that a second date would come with a romp up in the hotel room. Back in the room, she proved to be a tireless performer. Round 1 was another expert deep throat, all positions then CIM. After a short rest it was starting to get dark so the room's small balcony was put to good use with her bent over the railing and wall. Prior to heading up we had agreed that some new clothes would be part of the deal, so I happily handed over 2 k shopping money.
It's a long time since I've been shattered by a provider but Ms Tinder did exactly that to me. There was no way I had anything to give the intended 11 pm appointment so I messaged a cancellation.
Day 4. I woke with a sore back and stomach cramps. Given that I had a repeat provider scheduled that evening who was known for her skills and energy, I thought it best to throttle back a little and have a mornings break. Our last meeting had knocked the planet off it's axis so I wanted to be fresh and prepared.
Somehow I had managed to loose / have stolen my carry bag so I went off in search of a replacement. Luckily, all of the contents had been put in the safe so no losses there. I sent out dummy return invites to all the potential thieves and no one showed any hesitation in returning so stuffed if I know where it went.
While I was doing that, I received couple of chats. The first was from Ms. 31 saying that 2 k was not enough for her new blouse and would I like to add another 3 k?. . . Or 4 k would be better, if I wanted. The second was Day 2's first girl saying that she was happy to come back but she needed a 100% pay rise. Obviously inflation is a * in Cebu.
That evening, the old acquaintance returned. She arrived promptly at 7 pm and unfortunately I had built up the anticipation so high that the real thing did not meet my expectations. It was a good night but no where near our first meeting nor what I was foolishly hoping for. Her BBBJ was still exceptional but to be honest my heart was not in the rest of the sessions. One thing that did make me laugh was when I explained that after so much sex in the last month, I was quite happy to have some relaxed sessions and I was fine if I didn't cum everytime. She gave me that school teacher look that said "We'll have none of that nonsense here" and ensured that the job was finished on each occasion.
Day 6. I was starting to become a bit too stalker-ish with repeated texts to another friend's recommendation. I was trying to juggle a hookup around my travel schedule, dwindling time remaining in town, her period cycle and inability to be seen by workmates with a white guy in tow. Desperation is not a good look so I had to back off there and then and maybe leave it for another trip.
A new Pina Love girl soon agreed to drop around at short notice to occupy some time. While she was heading in I thought I would organise a threesome for that night. Within a couple of minutes I had more choices than expected. Should I go with the 7 from Pina Love, who was a known skilled performer, with a new friend or the Tinder 11 and her friend who told me all the nasty things they would do to me and each other? Heads for the Pina Love, Tales for the Tinder duo. . . Heads! Shit! Best 2 out of three. . . I confirmed with the Tinder girls to be at the hotel at 10 pm and be available for all night as I'm not a fan of ST. The Little Head wins every time!!
The morning Pina Girl arrived close to on time but was 10 lb heavier than her profile pics. It was no big deal so we went straight up to the room and got to work. She started with my first and only lousy BBBJ in Cebu. Did she not get the memo about the new deep throat craze that had swept town? A bit of pussy pounding led to "You can fuck my ass for a tip. I need some money. " Soft touch me agreed in the heat of the moment so she left shortly after with 1500 plus 1000. Yes, I know: I'm an idiot.
After a late lunch, I went looking for some manscaping. I normally have no problem asking some whacked out crack h0 e to do some pretty freaky shit but, call me old fashioned, I felt as uncomfortable as hell asking a doey eyed sweety to wax my balls. It was just another day for them as they had option lists, prices, timetables, you name it. Didn't stop me being weirded out though while making the booking.
Shortly after that, it became evident that, yet again, Little Head had made the wrong choice and was leading me down the wrong path when the Tinder duo started calling with bullshit delay tactics for the threesome and a need for transport money etc. Etc.
That evening it dawned on me that my time was coming to a close so I needed to start to prioritise my capacity and time to known performers that I wanted a repeat session with. Top of the the list by far was Ms Coyote and her tasty snatch but she had gone to ground and was not returning messages. Ms. Real Job was still on the rags. Next up was Ms. Blood from a Stone and her magic ability to finish the job. At this stage of the race that seemed like a very good skill to have. She was booked for 9 pm. Unfortunately that too was put to a stop by Ms. Sweety-pie Ball Waxer who insisted on no showering or "hard rubbing" (yes, those were her actual words, LOL) for 12 hours.
Day7. That morning was spent generally surfing and chatting online and I soon had a FilCupid girl on the way to meet up at Bo' s coffee in Ayala. A quiet personality wrapped in a nice tall body appeared. She was about 5'4" and 95 lb. While she wasn't overly muscular, she had the toned physique of someone who certainly worked out. She later said she was a brown belt in both Karate and Tai Kwan Do which I didn't doubt. Unwrapped, back in the room, her body showed no signs of one kid and she exhibited stamina that well and truly out lasted anyone to date. Any position was available and held with ease and she would climb on top and grind away for endless sessions. Multiple sessions continued all afternoon and she was sent home with 2 k taxi money. I was totally exhausted. Big Head said "fuck her, dump her and move on". Little Head said "there could be three more days of that if she came with us to Moalboal". I'll let you guess who won and the remainder of the story. . .
