Transactional sex is less of a sin than with an emotional connect
Hi bro,
The title says it all.
I indulge in mongering because: a) The thrill of an escapade b) Thrill of tasting a new pussy. LOVE sex. C) Doing things that one wouldn't do to your wife d) I can care purely about my pleasure without pressure of performance e) I can afford it.
In that order.
Emotional connect is tricky. If you have it with one's wife, its great. Otherwise, that is cheating both the wife, and the sex partner. It could be messy, and comes with emotional baggage. Not for me. Transactional sex for me, is carnal, and the girl's body is mine to play around. Or, so I would love to have it that way.
Everyone loves sex. Its evolutionary. Those who preach, do not have the opportunity, balls or money. Honestly, there are certain things I crave (CIM, cum facial, MFF threesome etc) which most of us are not lucky enough indulge with our wife. Mongering helps us to satisfy those cravings, getting one more at peace, in family and work. Being an adrenaline junkie, even the fear of getting caught gives me a high. I am careful enough to realise it and keep that tendency under control.
So, no guilt tripping. Just pure, animal sex, as it was intended to be.
Cheers.
[QUOTE=Vacerum;2839557]I hear people around me say they can never have sex with a service provider or a random girl for money since there is no emotional connect, which I understand but how do they know what that feels like? It always seems like they have never tried it or never want to but have this opinion. Like I don't get it. I have come understand this POV only after I ventured out and tried spa's and WG's.
Honestly, I usually I look at these things only in terms of my pleasure and nothing else. It's like a transaction for their service. Emotionally connecting to someone else takes time and energy which you won't have always. How do you guys look at it?[/QUOTE]