Man Ki Baat (Talk of Mind)
Your last line sums it all brother! [I]``Emotionally connecting to someone else takes time``[/I]. That is the thing. It's all a (subconscious) calculation of time (our age), desires, need etc.
For Ex: If we look at the dating game especially wrt our country: In any app, if an average guy gets 1 or 2 right swipes, any below avg girl will get swiped by almost all the guys in the app! So, again "searching" for a girl there, complimenting them in all possible "fake" ways just to get laid (Of course they must know that it is a one-night or casual relationship, Strictly NO CHEATING, but yes you get to make them feel special) and then going in for it. IS TIME CONSUMING. Plus, some people do have that physical advantage of looks, height, body etc. While most have to "learn the art of fking dating!
So many "advices" and tips, some of which may work, but none tailored out looking at individual's life state! We all have our share of different experiences. Regarding Life, school, college, Job, Physical and Mental states at different times. And some tips may work for one some may not. Also it varies to the extent it will work!
For me, I am in early 30's. Never had GF. Once I even used to tremble in front of girls and used to think 'sex' is some kind of taboo. Was too lean, thin and mental state was too much complicated and messed up. It took me years to realize that everyone is different and there has to be awareness (about the self and surroundings) and conscious decisions.
That's it. Now I know my extents and I go till my heart says.
I also, at times, think that this is one of the most honest transaction, no lies, no deception, no hit-and-trial, and we can actually focus on ourselves the other times! Also, this has made me realise that irrespective the other is a sex worker or a 'general' lady, they and us are all humans, all crave for appreciation, respect and good treatment.
More about me:
I had once started to endorse all the latest ultra feminist, humanist etc views; but lately realized that people do all the fking calculations when it comes to them. Searching for a bride since an year, now I know it's all a bullshit drama about how "everything depends on god", "good nature", "pure heart". All these nonsense come ONLY AFTER you know that the guy is having an attractive paycheck; added to it, the financial assets the family owns -minus- all the "liabilities" like having unmarried sisters (Marrying a daughter is one of the biggest "Punya"(merit), but NOT when she is a sister of a would-be son / brother in law!) So, now, for me, "Good heart matters and Looks don't matter"(read sarcastically!) so I will only select girls who are good looking. "Money is hath ka mael (dirt of hand)" so I am looking for opportunities to earn more money, More Money = Better Sex (Irrespective of whether it is with WG, or Casual or GF or Marriage). I have seen all the hypocrisy so I am proud hypocrite myself! My purpose of writing this paragraph is people say a lot of things but we know deep down what we are and what all we want. If we are not hurting others, it's all okay.
As Brother ZOrchid said: [i][b]no guilt tripping. Just pure, animal sex, as it was intended to be.[/b][/i]. God this should be added to the subtitle lol.
Ending with: Long Live Guru Dan Bilzerian ([URL]https://www.instagram.com/danbilzerian[/URL])
Cheers.
[QUOTE=Vacerum;2839557]I hear people around me say they can never have sex with a service provider or a random girl for money since there is no emotional connect, which I understand but how do they know what that feels like? It always seems like they have never tried it or never want to but have this opinion. Like I don't get it. I have come understand this POV only after I ventured out and tried spa's and WG's.
Honestly, I usually I look at these things only in terms of my pleasure and nothing else. It's like a transaction for their service. Emotionally connecting to someone else takes time and energy which you won't have always. How do you guys look at it?[/QUOTE][QUOTE=ZOrchid;2839961]Hi bro,
The title says it all.
I indulge in mongering because: a) The thrill of an escapade b) Thrill of tasting a new pussy. LOVE sex. C) Doing things that one wouldn't do to your wife d) I can care purely about my pleasure without pressure of performance e) I can afford it. ...
Cheers.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=LaidForPaid;2840164]I look at it as playing a sport with a female participant, who on many occasions also becomes a friend, albeit for an hour or two. I'm unmarried BTW, was in a relationship in my college years but prefer playing this sport than the emotional cesspool that is relationship / marriage, this is way cheaper too.
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Been a good life, I'll be almost 40 soon, no regrets. There are some great women out there who're well groomed, clean and very careful, as long as you find then like I did and as long as you take precautions too, sex life at the very least, won't be an issue, we all die eventually.[/QUOTE]
My First Post! (Not a FR)
Long time lurker on the Bangalore ISG forum. Have been reading up for the last few months on all you Mongerers reporting your adventurers. I did some mongering in Bangalore and Mangalore as a young horny guy before marriage, but have been honest to my wife after. Although the marriage has been stable with a wife I love and who loves me back, the sex has been lacking in quality and quantity lately. We've been married for ten years now, and the wife is on the conservative side. I just turned 38 and am starting to grapple with mid-life crisis, so I've been voraciously consuming content on the Bangalore mongering scene for the last few months. Thanks to all you fearless hole-hunters and extra-service-surveyors, I'm armed with some knowledge on where to go and what to do. I'm grateful for all your knowledge sharing, seniors!
I hope to start contributing soon with my own FRs!
P. S. I had trouble registering my account on ISG. Never received the activation email on my Gmail account. Tried two Gmails, neither worked. Then I created a Yahoo mail account and got the ISG activation mail on the yahoo account.
Men scaping and BUM massage (not included in extras)
Hey folks I have been looking for SPAs that provides men scaping services, if any one can share me some in my PM would be grateful. Also can someone share me some MPs that provides good bum massage that are not included in extras. Cause wherever I got till now, charged me for bum massage as well.
Thanks,
Aries009.
Spa not under mongers' radar?
I have been following this forum for last two months and got my userid activated just yesterday. This is my first FR on the site.
I am a bit surprised that the spa that I visit on regular basis is not mentioned here by anyone so far. Not sure if it is because the extras are a bit costlier there.
They have a multiple branches across Bangalore and the one I am familiar with is the one at Mhalli. It is a Thai spa and they have Thai birds and NE's. And some times you might get an NI or SI as they keep refreshing their inventory regularly.
Although the damages vary between 5 k to 8 k for B2 be (I don't enquire about HJ / TA etc as I am a kitty enthusiast) depending upon the chick's hotness, You will get a guaranteed B2 be with full access. And most of the chicks there give you a good service, barring a few conservative birds who might have reservations about DATY, DFK and BJ. And also you will have a great massage for the counter damages of 2 k. They claim to test the birds regularly for STDs (I am not sure if they really do though) as per my discussion with the counter guy and the birds.
On the flip side, you will not get FS from any of them and also they don't let you use balloons for BJ.
I have tried bargaining and they don't come below 5 K for B2 be (Perhaps because Jonny takes control of my tongue at the moment?
Chaoscalmer.
Now I am become death, the destroyer of Kitties
[QUOTE=Vacerum;2839557]I hear people around me say they can never have sex with a service provider or a random girl for money since there is no emotional connect, which I understand but how do they know what that feels like? It always seems like they have never tried it or never want to but have this opinion. Like I don't get it. I have come understand this POV only after I ventured out and tried spa's and WG's.
Honestly, I usually I look at these things only in terms of my pleasure and nothing else. It's like a transaction for their service. Emotionally connecting to someone else takes time and energy which you won't have always. How do you guys look at it?[/QUOTE]People follow and preach moral rules when they suit them, and make an exception for themselves when they don't.
All these handsome guys screwed beautiful chicks during their teen and early twenties. They were able to finger the kitties they fingered at. They broke the "seals" of fresh chicks and had the greatest moments of their lives.
But, Some less fortunate of us, who were kept out of this "elite" group of chicks and handsome boys, worked our asses off all our lives till now, all this while drooling at these chicks in a corner. Only to marry and provide for these same girls, who married us for financial stability. Now when it is our time to taste the heavenly fruits with the help of the hard earned Vitamin M, we are supposed to be bound by these moral rules which always worked against us?
No way! I am going to taste all the kitties that I can, and don't want to be preached otherwise.
Chaoscalmer.
Frauds on message republic
Hi friends, this is a confession. Today I was duped of Rs. 2500 by a profile from MR. The name is Surbhi. Number ending [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue]. Was asked to pay Rs 2 k first. Next Rs. 500. Paid. After payment received message that she was busy and cannot oblige. Was asked to wait till next day. I asked to refund. But in turn was abused (in Hindi) and threatened. I have screenshots of conversatons. Can produce if needed. Please avoid these frauds and also alert others in case you were a victim.
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Any leads in Delhi? Visiting this weekend for mongering purpose
Hi friends,
I am visiting Delhi this weekend for mongering. I visited many countries for mongering purpose but never done mongering in Delhi. I am staying in good hotel.
Delhi ISG seniors shared contacts like Shabanam, Aneesha, Aditi, Ankita, Dilsha, Neha, Mournika, SP Rohit and Sahil. Any one having any other VFM good girls contact in Delhi please share. My staying in Delhi is almost one week.
