It's just a clever tactic they use
[QUOTE=LionKing777;1669954] Started talking to a girl, who was shy and seemed like a regular office worker. Claimed to be a insurance firm staff with high school education.[/QUOTE]Rest assured no so-called "regular office worker" would be caught dead at these places as they would be afraid of getting caught by their male colleagues who may be frequenting these places as well.
It's just a clever tactic they use so they can up the ante so to speak and get more money from you if you go with her or even have you fall in love with her so you send her money (while she fucks around, of course). Part-time "model", actor, teacher, marketing director, college student, daughter of a wealthy businessman, blah blah blah. It's all a bunch of lies to get you to think she's above the pack / competition and isn't just any hardcore hooker.
Normal girls and the bars
[QUOTE=PossessedSeoul;1670773]OK, so the two single, university educated girls I worked with at a multi-national company who regularly went to BATS, Tiga Puluh, Red Square and even the block were really hookerrs in disguise? [/QUOTE]Probably not, but I don't think they'd want too many knowing they are regulars at BATS (especially at work) depending on the 'era'. Over time, BATS seems to move towards a legitimate bar with many girls going for just a good time, and then seems to move back to being basically 100% working girl. And then the cycle starts again. The same seems to go for most bars that are not high end hangouts for locals that expats are also known to attend.
I've had almost no luck in getting anything resembling a 'normal' girl to go near Blok M bars, even the mention of the place seems to invoke a look of disgust and horror, so well done on finding some who did go!
Took me 4 days to figure her out
My New year adventure turned into a nightmare with a girl I met in Blok M, knew her by name as she was / is a friend of a former girl that I had met years before but was I ever in for a.
Surprise.
Day 1 - it was late at night when I met her outside the bars and started to talk with her catching up on her friend etc. About 5:00 am decided it was time to go to the hotel and she wanted to come with me, I should have declines as I was tired. So got back to the hotel in time to just sleep, she stayed over until 2 pm the next day but refused my advances in the morning. Said she was tired.
Day 2 - She came over the next night about 10:00 pm, she texted me and asked if I wanted her to come over and I said yes. Thinking that maybe we could start over from where we never started the night before. When she arrived within 10 minutes (really 10 mins) she wanted to go, that should have been my RED FLAG. So I being caught off guard said ok go. If you want to go then leave, I was thinking it was early so I could still hit the bars. Then she pulled a 180 after doing something on her phone, she decided to stay. Well did I ever get the shy treatment she went under the covers and wouldn't come out or let me do anything, so I finally gave up and just watched TV, all the while thinking I let a Saturday night catch me bored at home. Once again she left at 2:00 pm the next day Sunday. I should have been wised to her tricks but it gets worse.
For a few days I didn't see at Blok M not that I was looking for her, I wasn't my mind was focused on other beauties that were hanging around and wondering if they too were $M babies. Then I saw her hiding from me in a corner of the bar and now I thought that's fine, I won't have to speak with her and I will be leaving Jakarta soon so find another girl for a few days.
Not so as I fell for the trap once again, Day 3 and day 4 coming soon.