Routard, Good luck to you!
I am sure you have read my field report on my trip to Bogota in April, so there is no need for me to repeat myself, but the best place and advice I can provide you from my experience, is during the day, go to central, where there is the energy of many people being out and about. Go into stores, acting like you are interested in buying some cologne, e.t.c. and this will be great way to start a conversation with a non-pro, or if you see another clerk in a tienda that interests you, tell her she is beautiful, and let her know you are visiting the city, and are interested in knowing where the hot spots are, and if the vibe is there, ask her if she is single, or if she would be interested in having a drink later. This is the strategy that I had to use while in Bogota. It is essential you develope that chemistry, as conversation gets the girl, at least the non-pro. As the old cliche goes, if you do not ask for the sale, you will never get it. I found meeting non-pros at night to be very difficult, much different than any other area of the world I have been in. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me, and I will do my best to share my information and knowledge of Bogota with you. As I stated in my field report, I met my first non-pro at the cambio in the airport, and I used the same formula to get her that I spoke to you about in this post.
Good luck!
Impossible love affairs with Colombianas
[QUOTE=Routard]Saint Maarten, Aruba, Bonaire, Curaçao, Trinidad, all those Caribbean islands are excellent destinations. I have mongered for years in these islands. Just read my reports, I have had incredible adventures, magical emotions. The girls are simply great there, they are all from…Colombia.
Girls come from all over Colombia for a 3 months contract with a brothel in one of those islands, far from home, trying to earn as much as possible during that short period of time. Most have never done that job before in Colombia. They are homesick, helping each other, calling every day at home, counting the remaining days. They live for three months in hell, sacrificing themselves to help their beloved family. Yes, they have hot bodies, but that is not what matters most. I have learned to know them better, to understand them and to admire them, till it went to far, an impossible love story. The love story is over, but since then I strongly feel the need to go to Colombia. It had never crossed my mind before due to it’s bad reputation. But now it’s simply the country of my dreams.
What am I looking for? Honestly, I don’t know. As usual, I have done my homework on ISG and have all the best places to find action. I have also plenty of addresses from girls I have met in the Caribbean. I had always wondered how could their real life be at home, far from the brothels. But I guess they are spoiled now, at least price wise for me.
I guess I’m looking for the ultimate adventure in the real world, far from the comfortable pro scene. I have always made borders to protect my personal life and family. But borders are made to be crossed. I give myself one week of freedom in Colombia.
I’ll be in Bogota from 21st till 28th of July. If anyone wants to meet, just PM. But here my question: what are the best places for non pro action?[/QUOTE]Routard: could you direct me to where you might have posted about your impossible love affair-- I am married, keep it separate, and about to fall in deep. Meet a chica at campo, and I love her and I still love my wife, and I still am going to visit my novia at her home in Colombia. I am a smart guy but I'm damned if I know if she loves me or is playing me. I know they play us all-they have to-they are desperate or they would not be in this business- I don't mind the I need game-that does not mean that they don't sometimes really like some of us, maybe even fall in love themselves, or think they are falling in love. But I am staying with my family and i cannot afford to support 2 households. How does this end Routard? I need to hear it.
A love story with a girl working in a brothel
How we met:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=549491&postcount=560[/url]
How we became novios:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=571419&postcount=729[/url]
How it went wrong:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=573525&postcount=741[/url]
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=573794&postcount=746[/url]
How I analysed this relation:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=579306&postcount=799[/url]
How it ended:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=588671&postcount=882[/url]
Hey Dodge, it's just my story, don't make any conclusions of it for yourself. I love women, but there is one thing I love more: freedom.
In love with a Working Girl
[QUOTE=Routard]How we met:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=549491&postcount=560[/url]
How we became novios:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=571419&postcount=729[/url]
How it went wrong:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=573525&postcount=741[/url]
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=573794&postcount=746[/url]
How I analysed this relation:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=579306&postcount=799[/url]
How it ended:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=588671&postcount=882[/url]
Hey Dodge, it's just my story, don't make any conclusions of it for yourself. I love women, but there is one thing I love more: freedom.[/QUOTE]Thank you Routard for sharing the story. It does seem that the money/sex issue is just impossible to deal with in these relationships. The girls are desperate for money and for a normal life. They want both in a novio. They see it as reasonable for a novio to buy them things but to us it resonates with being taken for a ride. So it is just impossible to know true feelings and nothing is pure anyway. It seems logical that it cannot end well but then love is far from logic.