I wouldn't dismiss this woman as a scamster so quickly, to be honest. It could be that she was in some real urgent need for money, and might be going through some difficult shit in her personal life. You have had her company for many months now, and it also looks like she was always upfront about getting your loans adjusted with future mongering sessions. Looks honest to me, and doesn't seem like she was playing a long con game.
Maybe right now she's in a tough position financially and doesn't really have the time to give you company, and also in a tight spot where she can't pay you back immediately. She might have temporarily blocked you to avoid your pressure.
If you have been a consistent source of interest-free advance loans for her, then she will hold on to you. It's hard to find such kind clients that are a reliable long-term source of income, and they won't let go of you so easily. I'm speculating that if you just give her some personal space for some time without pressuring her, she might eventually reach out to you herself.
[QUOTE=FunForSandy;2864518]I have been mongering for many years now. And I thought I had seen a lot and I was quite confident that I won't fall for a trap. Here's my story about my over confidence leading me to be stupid.
To cut the chase. A fellow monger had shared two telegram IDs. He said he had got them from SA. This was 10-12 months back. I contacted both of them. One was a MILF type but quoting high rates, so I declined. The other didn't respond. Then a few weeks later the second one contacted me out of the blue. She is a Mizo girl who goes by the name Zoe. We met when I travelled to Bangalore. She is tall for NE, well dressed and has good command over English, claimed to be a nurse and has good knowledge of nursing. Obviously we agreed for an amount, the pics she had shared were genuine and we fucked. She was a good fuck with very good DFK and decent BBBJ. Was slim and had typical small NE boobs. We started meeting regularly. And were having a good time. Things were smooth. Whenever I was in Bangalore I would msg her and she will come over. There was no negotiation on the agreed amount. She could walk into the hotels confidently and she was well dressed and polished.
Then one day she asked for 2 k extra saying she needs more money and that this be adjusted in the next meeting. By now we had a rapport and I gave her the money. It was adjusted in the next session. So then she would ask for 2-3 k extra sometimes and we would adjust it later. Then about a month back she asked for 20 k. This raised my antenna. I told her I can't pay such a large amount. So she then asked for 2 k which I gave her. Some days later again she approached me saying that she has been scammed while shifting to a new house and she needs 5 k urgently and that she is so desparate that she will do anything for me in the next session. Whatever kink I ask for. I like a fool fell for it. She came and met me and collected the amount and we made out also but she said she was in a hurry and has to sort out her residence and will meet me after 2 days. Given the pattern of last 10 months or so, I was confident that things were alright. The next day I texted her and confirmed our meet. Everything was fine. But on the day of the meeting she ghosted me, then deleted her telegram I'd and blocked me on her phone.
I am glad that I didn't lose much. And I am furious with myself that I fell for this trap. She spun her web over months. The only thing jarring is that the amount wasn't much. She would have made more had she continued with me.
Attaching her pic, she goes by the name Zoe and her number ends with 9104.
Learn from my mistakes and never ever extend an advance.
Cheers.[/QUOTE]
