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I wish I were there. In addition to the nice chicas, I like the bartenders at Mayo as well. They are friendly and do not cheat changes. Chilling at Mayo is one of my favorite things in Medellin.
[QUOTE=Ezyngo; 1281232]Come on down gentlemen. All are invited except the 2% that JG mentioned. We don't need them to have fun. Rain has been very much a factor the whole week I am here. Bring an umbrella. Look for me in front of hotel Cielo Azul. As as always,
Cheers.[/QUOTE]
Every trip, I experience at least one unusual incident that overwhelms me for a long time. Read on.
My friend and I went for a Casa trip on last Monday. We boarded a train in Poblado station. I saw a very cute girl on the platform. We went in the same compartment and it did not take me long to start a conversation with the girl. Let's call her Cindy. She is 20 years old and works into Sales. She was nervous because she was late for her work (it was around 10:30 AM and she was supposed to report at 10 AM). We kept on talking and were so into it that we missed our station. We exchanged numbers and I invited her to see me the next day for dinner.
My friend and I went to New Life. I had a very good session with Alexandra. A very pretty, nice figured blanca. She just arrived. I was the first customer of the day. It was a good session. My friend took Tatiana. He was happy with his girl too.
We stopped by Sexi and saw the line-up. Only 8 girls available. Nothing to write home about. But something happened to me for the first time in a casa. One of the line up girls went straight to my friend, introduced herself, shook his hand and went straight back. Never cared to look at me, although I was sitting in a chair next to my friend. A casa girl rejected me! I have to reevaluate this mongering habit seriously. I must be losing my charm!
We had a nice lunch. My friend suggested that he has heard good things about Zandaly. I never had been there. So we took a lazy stroll to Zandaly.
We were inside a waiting room and the girls were coming in the room one at a time. The third girl walked in, and I was shocked. She was Cindy, the girl I just met a few hours ago in the train. At least, she did not lie, she was into Sales alright. I was totally dumbfounded by this improbable encounter. She had an embarrassing smile and quickly exited the room. By the way, one of the best lineups I have ever seen in a Casa that day. Many beautiful young girls were available (it was around 1:30 PM). However, my fate was sealed. It was Cindy (not her real name or the Casa name) for me. I needed to talk to her.
In the room she repeated the same story that I heard million times before. She is from a poor family, need the money, etc. Etc. We made love. Solid DFK, BBBJ, all positions (no anal) and finished in her mouth. I tipped her generously. Then came the moment of truth. She wanted to confirm tomorrow's dinner appointment. Without pussy-footing the subject, I rescinded the invitation. She asked whether it is because of her nature of employment. I confirmed her assertion. She came to see me three times in the room while I was waiting for my friend. Every time she was trying to make the point that the 'poverty' makes her do this. It got to the point, that Mamasan started scolding her. Before I left, I went back to the room in the rear where all the girls were waiting and took her out to talk privately. She started tearing and I apologized for not being able to keep the appointment. Gave her some money, light kiss on the cheek and never looked back.
I received 27 missed calls from her during the next 6 days I was in Medellin.
Bandy
Any possibility that she did that because she liked you and wanted your attention? To me it is less likely that casa girls intentionally reject any customers. Good report. Enjoyed.
[QUOTE=Bandy;1281666]One of the line up girls went straight to my friend, introduced herself, shook his hand and went straight back. Never cared to look at me, although I was sitting in a chair next to my friend. A casa girl rejected me! I have to reevaluate this mongering habit seriously. I must be losing my charm![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bandy; 1281666]Every trip, I experience at least one unusual incident that overwhelms me for a long time. Read on.
My friend and I went for a Casa trip on last Monday. We boarded a train in Poblado station. I saw a very cute girl on the platform. We went in the same compartment and it did not take me long to start a conversation with the girl. Let's call her Cindy. She is 20 years old and works into Sales. She was nervous because she was late for her work (it was around 10:30 AM and she was supposed to report at 10 AM). We kept on talking and were so into it that we missed our station. We exchanged numbers and I invited her to see me the next day for dinner.
My friend and I went to New Life. I had a very good session with Alexandra. A very pretty, nice figured blanca. She just arrived. I was the first customer of the day. It was a good session. My friend took Tatiana. He was happy with his girl too.
We stopped by Sexi and saw the line-up. Only 8 girls available. Nothing to write home about. But something happened to me for the first time in a casa. One of the line up girls went straight to my friend, introduced herself, shook his hand and went straight back. Never cared to look at me, although I was sitting in a chair next to my friend. A casa girl rejected me! I have to reevaluate this mongering habit seriously. I must be losing my charm!
We had a nice lunch. My friend suggested that he has heard good things about Zandaly. I never had been there. So we took a lazy stroll to Zandaly.
We were inside a waiting room and the girls were coming in the room one at a time. The third girl walked in, and I was shocked. She was Cindy, the girl I just met a few hours ago in the train. At least, she did not lie, she was into Sales alright. I was totally dumbfounded by this improbable encounter. She had an embarrassing smile and quickly exited the room. By the way, one of the best lineups I have ever seen in a Casa that day. Many beautiful young girls were available (it was around 1:30 PM). However, my fate was sealed. It was Cindy (not her real name or the Casa name) for me. I needed to talk to her.
In the room she repeated the same story that I heard million times before. She is from a poor family, need the money, etc. Etc. We made love. Solid DFK, BBBJ, all positions (no anal) and finished in her mouth. I tipped her generously. Then came the moment of truth. She wanted to confirm tomorrow's dinner appointment. Without pussy-footing the subject, I rescinded the invitation. She asked whether it is because of her nature of employment. I confirmed her assertion. She came to see me three times in the room while I was waiting for my friend. Every time she was trying to make the point that the 'poverty' makes her do this. It got to the point, that Mamasan started scolding her. Before I left, I went back to the room in the rear where all the girls were waiting and took her out to talk privately. She started tearing and I apologized for not being able to keep the appointment. Gave her some money, light kiss on the cheek and never looked back.
I received 27 missed calls from her during the next 6 days I was in Medellin.
Bandy[/QUOTE]Maybe the girl that ignored you in the first casa was kind of pre bad carma for ya, foreknowing that you would break the last girl's heart.
As you know, the story she told you and you've heard a million times, of poor family, needing money, etc, etc is most likely, and unfortunately for her, true.
Hey we all pick our own chicas and dinner dates, that's all cool, just don't know if I could've broken her heart like that.
Take care.
[QUOTE=Ricker;1281676]don't know if I could've broken her heart like that.[/QUOTE] I agree with Ricker. The hypocrisy of some forum members is unbelievable. I know Bandy and think that this might have something to do with his background (there are good girls; the kind that you date, and there are bad girls; the kind that you screw), but its still not an excuse for mistreating a girl in this way. Imagine that a girl meets you for dinner and somehow discovers that your hobby is visiting casas, tells you that you are a pitiful scumbag, does an about face and leaves. I think that this would be equivalent behavior.
[QUOTE=David_33;1281679]I agree with Ricker. The hypocrisy of some forum members is unbelievable. I know Bandy and think that this might have something to do with his background (there are good girls; the kind that you date, and there are bad girls; the kind that you screw), but its still not an excuse for mistreating a girl in this way. Imagine that a girl meets you for dinner and somehow discovers that your hobby is visiting casas, tells you that you are a pitiful scumbag, does an about face and leaves. I think that this would be equivalent behavior.[/QUOTE]David,
I agree that it was a bit too much. It was interesting to note his lack of embarrassment at being caught out as a trick while rejecting Cindy for providing the very services that make his tricking possible. However, that kind of hypocrisy is not uncommon among mongers. What really shocked me was his need not just to talk to her but to fuck her and jizz in her mouth. Now why in the world would he fuck her knowing that he was going to insult her as a human being by withdrawing his offer of a shared meal that he extended earlier? That part struck me as unnecessary cruelty. A lot of guys buy ass because they're socially inept and lack the ability to empathize but this takes the cake. One would think that a john and a prostitute would be able to share a laugh about the irony of their mutual deception over a meal but that is obviously not the case for some mongers.
That the irony will be lost on the OP.
Hypocrisy at it's finest. Monger on dude!
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger; 1281698]David,
I agree that it was a bit too much. It was interesting to note his lack of embarrassment at being caught out as a trick while rejecting Cindy for providing the very services that make his tricking possible. However, that kind of hypocrisy is not uncommon among mongers. What really shocked me was his need not just to talk to her but to fuck her and jizz in her mouth. Now why in the world would he fuck her knowing that he was going to insult her as a human being by withdrawing his offer of a shared meal that he extended earlier? That part struck me as unnecessary cruelty. A lot of guys buy ass because they're socially inept and lack the ability to empathize but this takes the cake. One would think that a john and a prostitute would be able to share a laugh about the irony of their mutual deception over a meal but that is obviously not the case for some mongers.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bandy; 1281666]Every trip, I experience at least one unusual incident that overwhelms me for a long time. Read on.
We were inside a waiting room and the girls were coming in the room one at a time. The third girl walked in, and I was shocked. She was Cindy, the girl I just met a few hours ago in the train. At least, she did not lie, she was into Sales alright. I was totally dumbfounded by this improbable encounter. She had an embarrassing smile and quickly exited the room. By the way, one of the best lineups I have ever seen in a Casa that day. Many beautiful young girls were available (it was around 1:30 PM). However, my fate was sealed. It was Cindy (not her real name or the Casa name) for me. I needed to talk to her.
I apologized for not being able to keep the appointment. Gave her some money, light kiss on the cheek and never looked back.
I received 27 missed calls from her during the next 6 days I was in Medellin.
Bandy[/QUOTE]To each his own but if it were me I would have had to keep the date just to see what happened. Might have been an insightful and interesting evening where she could have been totally honest with you. You met her in the exact opposite way that no one will ever meet her again. She might have pulled out all the stops when you were on a "legitimate" date. You turned down the most unique experience of the trip. But, to each his own. We all have our own rules and we have to live by them.
I believe the first girl who rejected him did so because she recognized him from a previous unpleasant encounter. Maybe.
Do you ever notice that in some of the casas.especially the ones with a curtain separating the lineup from the costumers seating area-the girls peak first before they come out. Do you ever wonder why! My theory is that they want to avoid any clients with whom they had a negative previous encounter.
You were wrong Bandy in taking it out on this sweet girl. That girl could've been a lot of treasure for you and your trip and future trips and a great insight on the world of mongering but you completely missed it. And I am not talking about sex!
I know I would have made her a great mongering asset!
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger; 1281698]David,
I agree that it was a bit too much. It was interesting to note his lack of embarrassment at being caught out as a trick while rejecting Cindy for providing the very services that make his tricking possible. However, that kind of hypocrisy is not uncommon among mongers. What really shocked me was his need not just to talk to her but to fuck her and jizz in her mouth. Now why in the world would he fuck her knowing that he was going to insult her as a human being by withdrawing his offer of a shared meal that he extended earlier? That part struck me as unnecessary cruelty. A lot of guys buy ass because they're socially inept and lack the ability to empathize but this takes the cake. One would think that a john and a prostitute would be able to share a laugh about the irony of their mutual deception over a meal but that is obviously not the case for some mongers.[/QUOTE]
Bandy,
You reminded me of a quotation that I have heard time and again from the Philippina's in Angeles City and the Thai working girls the quotation goes "SEE HOW YOU ARE".
LOL. IMHO I would have never had the guts to cancel on her right away. I may have not answered her calls later but breaking the girls heart right then was a bit cruel. Rest cancelling the date later, we have all done that part for one reason or the other.
Regards,
John.
[QUOTE=Bandy; 1281666]In the room she repeated the same story that I heard million times before. She is from a poor family, need the money, etc. Etc. We made love. Solid DFK, BBBJ, all positions (no anal) and finished in her mouth. I tipped her generously. Then came the moment of truth. She wanted to confirm tomorrow's dinner appointment. Without pussy-footing the subject, I rescinded the invitation. She asked whether it is because of her nature of employment. I confirmed her assertion. She came to see me three times in the room while I was waiting for my friend. Every time she was trying to make the point that the 'poverty' makes her do this. It got to the point, that Mamasan started scolding her. Before I left, I went back to the room in the rear where all the girls were waiting and took her out to talk privately. She started tearing and I apologized for not being able to keep the appointment. Gave her some money, light kiss on the cheek and never looked back.
I received 27 missed calls from her during the next 6 days I was in Medellin.
Bandy[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bandy; 1281666]Every trip, I experience at least one unusual incident that overwhelms me for a long time. Read on.
My friend and I went for a Casa trip on last Monday. We boarded a train in Poblado station. I saw a very cute girl on the platform. We went in the same compartment and it did not take me long to start a conversation with the girl. Let's call her Cindy. She is 20 years old and works into Sales. She was nervous because she was late for her work (it was around 10:30 AM and she was supposed to report at 10 AM). We kept on talking and were so into it that we missed our station. We exchanged numbers and I invited her to see me the next day for dinner.
My friend and I went to New Life. I had a very good session with Alexandra. A very pretty, nice figured blanca. She just arrived. I was the first customer of the day. It was a good session. My friend took Tatiana. He was happy with his girl too.
We stopped by Sexi and saw the line-up. Only 8 girls available. Nothing to write home about. But something happened to me for the first time in a casa. One of the line up girls went straight to my friend, introduced herself, shook his hand and went straight back. Never cared to look at me, although I was sitting in a chair next to my friend. A casa girl rejected me! I have to reevaluate this mongering habit seriously. I must be losing my charm!
We had a nice lunch. My friend suggested that he has heard good things about Zandaly. I never had been there. So we took a lazy stroll to Zandaly.
We were inside a waiting room and the girls were coming in the room one at a time. The third girl walked in, and I was shocked. She was Cindy, the girl I just met a few hours ago in the train. At least, she did not lie, she was into Sales alright. I was totally dumbfounded by this improbable encounter. She had an embarrassing smile and quickly exited the room. By the way, one of the best lineups I have ever seen in a Casa that day. Many beautiful young girls were available (it was around 1:30 PM). However, my fate was sealed. It was Cindy (not her real name or the Casa name) for me. I needed to talk to her.
In the room she repeated the same story that I heard million times before. She is from a poor family, need the money, etc. Etc. We made love. Solid DFK, BBBJ, all positions (no anal) and finished in her mouth. I tipped her generously. Then came the moment of truth. She wanted to confirm tomorrow's dinner appointment. Without pussy-footing the subject, I rescinded the invitation. She asked whether it is because of her nature of employment. I confirmed her assertion. She came to see me three times in the room while I was waiting for my friend. Every time she was trying to make the point that the 'poverty' makes her do this. It got to the point, that Mamasan started scolding her. Before I left, I went back to the room in the rear where all the girls were waiting and took her out to talk privately. She started tearing and I apologized for not being able to keep the appointment. Gave her some money, light kiss on the cheek and never looked back.
I received 27 missed calls from her during the next 6 days I was in Medellin.
Bandy[/QUOTE]"We made love. Solid DFK, BBBJ, all positions (no anal) and finished in her mouth." Gee wizz partner what you experenced with this Chica is what I hunt for. The beauty of your encounter was the meeting away from the Casa was already in motion.
As far as you rebuffing her I really have not much to say on that matter as that was your call. At least you told her upfront, and not left her waiting for you to be stood up.
I'd agree with this. I probably would have bought her dinner and seen if she really pulled out her "A" game. Might have been some mind blowing sex.
I don't know Bandy but reading his posts over the last couple of years he seems like a good guy. A couple of posts seemed to go a little over the line. Maybe a girl he met on the metro was more interesting long term that a girl who swallowed wad 8 times a day.
BTW, did anyone find it kind of weird that she called 27 times over the next few days. I mean, he cancelled a date, get over it.
Reef
[QUOTE=Doubt98;1281703]To each his own but if it were me I would have had to keep the date just to see what happened. Might have been an insightful and interesting evening where she could have been totally honest with you. You met her in the exact opposite way that no one will ever meet her again. She might have pulled out all the stops when you were on a "legitimate" date. You turned down the most unique experience of the trip. But, to each his own. We all have our own rules and we have to live by them.[/QUOTE]
Looks like all my friends are against my judgment on this one. I respect your reaction.....no argument there. In fact, I was miserable rest of the day after this incident. I was telling my friend that how sometimes we practice a double standard.
I have taken many prepagos to dinner and I have taken many normal girls to dinner. However, in all these cases, everyone knew each other's identity and there was no built in surprise. To me, a dinner date is a fun time. I was very excited with the prospect of a fun time when I met her in the train. However, in the casa it was very obvious to me that I will have a miserable time if I continue with this charade. First and foremost, I have to be honest with myself. I go for a short time in these trips, and I cannot afford to waste time like this. That's why I went back to her again and gave her more money which will be more useful to her than a dinner.
Bandy
[QUOTE=Bandy; 1281762]Looks like all my friends are against my judgment on this one. I respect your reaction. No argument there. In fact, I was miserable rest of the day after this incident. I was telling my friend that how sometimes we practice a double standard.
I have taken many prepagos to dinner and I have taken many normal girls to dinner. However, in all these cases, everyone knew each other's identity and there was no built in surprise. To me, a dinner date is a fun time. I was very excited with the prospect of a fun time when I met her in the train. However, in the casa it was very obvious to me that I will have a miserable time if I continue with this charade. First and foremost, I have to be honest with myself. I go for a short time in these trips, and I cannot afford to waste time like this. That's why I went back to her again and gave her more money which will be more useful to her than a dinner.
Bandy[/QUOTE]Not surprised the girl took it badly, that kind of straight-ahead approach just isn't done in Colombian society, they're very indirect, even passive-aggressive down there. You definitely handled that situation "gringo-style." As for date and dinner with a hooker, why not? So the non-pro illusion was shattered but in many cases for gringos who go down there, it is just that, an illusion! Truth is, lots of gringos are attracted to this notion of pulling and dating some "cute non-pro", but if you're a gringo that doesn't really grok the culture, it's likely that "cute non-pro" has at least dabbled from time to time in P4P or as a prepaga. It's as common as silicone boobs down there. I would be surprised by the opposite, if the girl never tried it once, LOL!
[QUOTE=David_33;1281679]I agree with Ricker. The hypocrisy of some forum members is unbelievable. I know Bandy and think that this might have something to do with his background (there are good girls; the kind that you date, and there are bad girls; the kind that you screw), but its still not an excuse for mistreating a girl in this way. Imagine that a girl meets you for dinner and somehow discovers that your hobby is visiting casas, tells you that you are a pitiful scumbag, does an about face and leaves. I think that this would be equivalent behavior.[/QUOTE]David_33 is right on the mark here Bandy. You rejected her because she was a casa girl and didn't tell you during the conversation on the train but she didn't reject you for not telling her you were a monger. It works both ways amigo, shame on you. No wonder so many girls think all gringos are jerks.