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Following a very unpleasant situation yesterday morning, I would like to share my experience in an attempt to help focus people’s attention on the content of their FRs.

I'm still hoping that Jackson will agree to remove one of my reports with (non-nude) photos in the Bahrain thread, following a call that I received from the very upset girl in question. Someone had seen my post, identified her and sent her an email with the attachments.

I thought I had made sufficient effort to conceal her identity but clearly I was wrong and the full effect of my lack of judgment is now being felt. Many of the girls who do this work have families back home, living in ignorant bliss of why they are really here. So the girls are naturally concerned that, if discovered, the consequences could be dire.

The fallout from yesterday is:
-The girl is suffering extreme anxiety through fear of any reaction that may arise from her loved ones back home.
-I now feel like a low life scumbag
-A very sweet girl now agrees with this view
- I doubt whether I can show my face in the club again given that all her girlfriends are obviously aware.

I hope that great pics continue to be posted but I would advise a degree of soul searching and selectivity before committing – for among us paying members, there are individuals who have no problem in divulging the material we choose to share with other members to those whom you would least want to see it.

I was never a prolific pic poster but the bitter taste left after this affair will probably pull the plug on any further photos from me.

To Grateful Spread

Thank you for your post of yesterday warning of the dangers of uploading pictures of girls. I was the 'someone' who saw your post and pics of the Seashell girl the other day, and forwarded them to her. I've known her for over 2 years, and if my circumstances were different, I'd be married to her by now.

In recent months, I've been supporting her financially, when I can, and visited her several times in Thailand, meeting her family and staying in her provinincial town. She told me that her friend asked her to go back to Bahrain to act as a mamasan. No working, but only looking after the girls. I took this with a pinch of salt, but understood her reasons for going, and tried to believe her when she said she never takes customers.

You can imagine my shock then, when I saw your report and posted pictures. Even if she didn't have such distinctive tattoos, I'd still have recognized her...I've seen her dress like that in front of the mirror, many times. I'm not a subscriber, but I keep a check on the Bahrain forum in the fear of one day seeing her featured. When it happened, it was still like a kick in the stomach.

I've applied for subscription, but it hasn't come through yet. When it does, I would like to PM you if I may? I have a couple of questions to ask, the answers of which might help me regain what trust I have in the girl in question.

Thanks again, for your efforts towards having the post removed. Despite having sexual addictions, we are mostly decent men in here, and your recent post reflects that.

To Grateful Spread,

Thank you for your post regarding the the previous one you made earlier of a Seashell girl. I am the 'someone' who forwarded the pictures and post to her. I have known her for over 2 years now and if my circumstances were different, I would be married to her by now.

I have been supporting her financally, when I can, and have visited her several times this year in her Thailand province, met her family, etcetera. She told me that her friend had asked her to go back to Bahrain to act as mamasan for her girls. No working, just mamasan duties only. I took this with a pinch of salt, but understood her reasons for going, and tried to believe her.

Imagine then, my shock when I saw your post and pictures of her. Even if she didn't have such a distinctive tattoo, I'd have still recognised her. I've seen her dress in front of a mirror like that, many times.

I'm not currently a subscribed member, but I check the Bahrain thread from time to time in fear of finding her a feature of a report. It still came as a kick to the stomach when I found one. I have applied for subscription now, and when it comes through, I'd like to PM you if I may. I have a couple of questions I'd like to ask you which may help me to regain trust in her. She is, as you say, a very sweet girl.

Thank you again for your efforts to have the post and pics removed. Despite having sexual addictions, we are mostly decent people in here, and your apology post reflects that.

[QUOTE=Grateful Spread]I thought I had made sufficient effort to conceal her identity but clearly I was wrong and the full effect of my lack of judgment is now being felt. Many of the girls who do this work have families back home, living in ignorant bliss of why they are really here. So the girls are naturally concerned that, if discovered, the consequences could be dire.[/QUOTE]GS,

Having read Catsyk's catharsis, IMHO you should not blame yourself as much as you have. Forwarding of the pics to the lady in question, appears to be motivated to specifically state "I know what you did last winter". Catsyk's intentions are questionable, no matter how righteous he may have felt while doing so. No offence to you Catsyk.

Cheers

Interesting development.[QUOTE=Catsyk]To Grateful Spread,

...I am the 'someone' who forwarded the pictures and post to her... I'd like to PM you if I may. I have a couple of questions I'd like to ask you which may help me to regain trust in her.[/QUOTE]Hmm.

It won't develop any further now, Piper. I was still in a bit of a state when I posted that. I've come to my senses now :-p. I'm not in a position to take care of her. so I have to accept the situation, or walk away.

But what's the significance of Denmark? Hamlet?

Can regular members view photos?

There will be no futher developments, Piper1. I posted that message whilst not quite in my senses.

As to my forwarding the report to her, what would you have done in a similar situation? You might be careful never to get too emotionally involved, but it happens to people. And I defy anyone not to react the way I did when I saw the post and pictures.

As far as non-subscribing members being able to view photos, Sporadic, I was a subscribing member, but let it lapse. Perhaps that's why I could view them.

[QUOTE=Grateful Spread]Following a very unpleasant situation yesterday morning, I would like to share my experience in an attempt to help focus people’s attention on the content of their FRs.

I'm still hoping that Jackson will agree to remove one of my reports with (non-nude) photos in the Bahrain thread, following a call that I received from the very upset girl in question. Someone had seen my post, identified her and sent her an email with the attachments.

I thought I had made sufficient effort to conceal her identity but clearly I was wrong and the full effect of my lack of judgment is now being felt. Many of the girls who do this work have families back home, living in ignorant bliss of why they are really here. So the girls are naturally concerned that, if discovered, the consequences could be dire.

The fallout from yesterday is:
-The girl is suffering extreme anxiety through fear of any reaction that may arise from her loved ones back home.
-I now feel like a low life scumbag
-A very sweet girl now agrees with this view
- I doubt whether I can show my face in the club again given that all her girlfriends are obviously aware.

I hope that great pics continue to be posted but I would advise a degree of soul searching and selectivity before committing – for among us paying members, there are individuals who have no problem in divulging the material we choose to share with other members to those whom you would least want to see it.

I was never a prolific pic poster but the bitter taste left after this affair will probably pull the plug on any further photos from me.[/QUOTE]

Girl is a hooker ... PERIOD!... if she lets someone take a photo then it goes with the territory... tough!... if she lies to someone special then she gets what she deserves. I cant believe someone would be dumb enough to believe she was coming as a mamasan and NOT working, but to actually have the audacity to complain about it beggars belief!!!!
This is the SEASHELL we are talking about and is universally known as hooker city. Sorry there is no nice way to put it but 'sweet' as she may be she is only pissed off because she was caught out!! You have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to feel bad about .... our friend is a mug !!

Unblievable. Where is the honor? Where is the trust?

GS, I feel for you. Because of some twat's broken heart, having found out his sweet girl, in fact screws for money, you are no longer welcome in a bar. This is the reason the quantity of pics has dwindled. Many friends in Asia no longer post pics, for this very same reason.

1Ball ..... NOT welcome be fucked....... this hotel is renowned for shit like this ..... My advice to GS ? ...... forget it there are maybe 200 more in there, she got paid and like i said if she had never been caught out by her lovestruck paramour it would NEVER have been an issue.

Is she getting laid tonight?? ... Of course ... or maybe it was a one off cos GS is such a nice guy !!... I DONT THINK !!!!!!

Plus most of the girls are ex Dubai chinese girls now, not too many thais what with the visa restrictions, and in truth the thais that are there by and large are a bunch of prima donnas who think they are the best thing since sliced bread and REALLY are not..... If you want tasty thai go to Rock Bottom. IMHO


Oh and there is NO love lost between the thais and chinese where business is concerned .... your dinar are more than welcome to either !!!

GS ... If your shy to go in alone I'll hold your hand !!!!

[QUOTE=Sporadic]Can regular members view photos?[/QUOTE]


Good point i thought not !?

[QUOTE=Catsyk]To Grateful Spread,

I am the 'someone' who forwarded the pictures and post to her.[/QUOTE]How noble of you. Sounds nothing more than a personal spat.

[QUOTE=Catsyk]I have known her for over 2 years now and if my circumstances were different, I would be married to her by now. [/QUOTE]Emphasis on "Would have been". Fact is, You are not. Lets hear the "circumstances".

[QUOTE=Catsyk]Imagine then, my shock when I saw your post and pictures of her. [/QUOTE]You also state that you "tried" to believe the mamasan story. Why did it come as a "shock" to you then?

[QUOTE=Catsyk]I'm not currently a subscribed member, but I check the Bahrain thread from time to time in fear of finding her a feature of a report. [/QUOTE]You are clearly looking to find her. Now you did. Why give GS the guilt trip.

[QUOTE=Catsyk] I have a couple of questions I'd like to ask you which may help me to regain trust in her. [/QUOTE]Are you for real? I am sorry, but can you please share a sample question with the forum members?

[QUOTE=Catsyk]Thank you again for your efforts to have the post and pics removed. Despite having sexual addictions, we are mostly decent people in here, and your apology post reflects that.[/QUOTE]True, but your actions are a product of something personal with this lady. As you stated, you never believed her mamasan story, then you were on the look out to find her pics on the forum, why does this all come as a "kick".

GS, no matter how much you may curse yourself, but frankly you did NOTHING wrong. Chances of such a coincidence are perhaps the same as someone getting struck with Lightning in US. Don't blame yourself for being the lightening that struck in this case.

[QUOTE=Sporadic]Can regular members view photos?[/QUOTE]
I just logged on a few minutes ago, having created a brand new user name and password.
No problem viewing pics.

[color=purple]I agree with Scooba, wasn’t for Catsyk bring this out in the open for the WG to know it she wouldn’t know it. No telling how many other guys have pictures of her and have posted them on other forums and sites. Don’t worry Catsyk, everyone in Thailand knows where that money is coming from that she sends home every week from Bahrain. If she wasn’t here working in the bar she would be working in a bar in Thailand. It’s a hard fact, but it’s a fact. I’ll bet if you went to the Seashell you could hook up with any girl you want, matter of fact if you sit down with one she would more than likely come over and offer herself up at a discount so you didn’t take someone else.

As I’ve said before, Bar Girls are for fun and treat them respectable while you’re with them. When the fun is over drop them off and don’t be sending them money or you’re just another chump sending her money. Most Bar Girls are some of the best cons in the world and when they make mamasan status they are now mentoring and teaching other Bar Girls to be good cons like them.

GS, don’t sweat it, if I got the pictures I would have posted them as well.
By the way after she acted like her world was over Catsyk, how much cash did you give her to make it all better?

Jackson shouldn’t be removing any pictures that were made of a willing participant; she was paid for her time and the pictures, that’s what she does. GS you can do what you want with your pictures and thanks for posting them. By the way do you have any more to share?

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