Don't ask for permission....
... or even for forgiveness!
[Quote=Gentleman Travel]The (too few) times I have been bold have led to my greatest successes with Ukrainian & Russian women and EE women living in the West.
The times I have acted like I was dealing with western women, I have had to struggle to succeed.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Barba; 1263107]I was once upon a time also just a western guy doing it the western way, but realized that command is a better way to go with most women (also in the west and also after 10 years of relation). No experience in Ukraine yet, but the "don't ask, just do" principle works everywhere. Photos, anal sex, videos, gagging, just do it without asking for f*cking permission always. She can say NO easily so why put her in the awkward position of saying YES to something that will clearly make her look like the first class cum sl*t she might be?
Barba[/QUOTE]
I think this is excellent advice, especially for EE women, but probably for almost any women.
We have been conditioned to be timid and to seek "permission" at every step of a relationship/make-out session and this is bad for everyone.
Bad for us, because it denies us the pleasures we desire, plus the dominance we yearn for.
Bad for her, because it puts her in the position Barba describes, of having to say YES to our dirty-minded suggestions, when she can simply acquiesce and have the pleasure of being a sex toy without having the embarrassment of admitting she wants to be.
Bad for the relationship, because fundamentally women want to be dominated and are disappointed by our hesitation to be "real men".
I have found this in my relationships with EE women and I have found this with my relationship with my wife, which got a lot better after I refused to accept excuses from her and demanded regular sex, which made both of us a lot happier.
I realize that I have still been reluctant to force a more aggressive sexual agenda (different positions, more oral) on her, instead trying to get her to talk about new things - like marriage counselors tell you to.
That is a dead-end, she is never going to want to talk about blow jobs or being tied up, if I want it, I will just have to keep pushing until she says NO (with meaning).
Doggy, Dogging, and Networking in Kiev.
[QUOTE=Barba; 1265456]Done.
And I changed my ticket also after discovering easter is not the same dates all over the world."Barba, you idiot!"
The networking is developing well. Some 6-7s who admitted the like doggy and some 7-9s who admitted they like doggy for 100 USD.
B.[/QUOTE].
Your network in Kiev will develop even further, if you go Dogging with your 6-9 in a Car Park, or by the River Dnipro.
For a car park, best in the courtyard of a certain massage place in Kiev, that I posted on.
Talking about Doggy and Dogging with one Dick.
Keep it up Barba.
