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[QUOTE=Member#1088;2233204]And it just happened again, this 19 yrs old start chatting me in PL, and after no more than 10 min, she is demanding I send her help for her situation.
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All the drama when the girl even at 19 is not mature enough yet.[/QUOTE]Excessive drama is part of pina life. Just watch some of their TV shows, they are worse than our daytime soaps in terms of life=drama.

I have had women in their late 30's start off demanding money. Just remember that some of these girls earn 500 or less a day. They can spend a whole day chatting you up to get you to send 1000 p and they are better off at the end of that time than if they had an honest job.

[QUOTE=Member#1088;2233204]And it just happened again, this 19 yrs old start chatting me in PL, and after no more than 10 min, she is demanding I send her help for her situation.

She give me all this drama about an ex and all her problems.

OMG, she said she tlak to me so I should be happy and help her.

Feel sad for her, but I'm not a rich guy.

All the drama when the girl even at 19 is not mature enough yet.[/QUOTE]As Kabul has pointed out, endless histrionic drama is part and parcel of life here, and touches many spheres in addition to entertainment. Just look at the way politics are covered, as an endless soap opera, much like coverage now in the United States. But there are other factors at play as well. First, opportunities for gainful employment, particularly for those without a college degree, and particularly for females, is extremely circumscribed. Second, family pressures to "produce" money for the school fees of younger children, for parents' medical problems, or just to put food on the table, are enormous in poorer communities, and familial obligations are felt much more strongly here than in the West.

GE.

[QUOTE=GoodEnough;2233259]As Kabul has pointed out, endless histrionic drama is part and parcel of life here, and touches many spheres in addition to entertainment. Just look at the way politics are covered, as an endless soap opera, much like coverage now in the United States. But there are other factors at play as well. First, opportunities for gainful employment, particularly for those without a college degree, and particularly for females, is extremely circumscribed. Second, family pressures to "produce" money for the school fees of younger children, for parents' medical problems, or just to put food on the table, are enormous in poorer communities, and familial obligations are felt much more strongly here than in the West.

GE.[/QUOTE]Are you ascribing drama to lack of money? I have delt with plenty of Filipina chicks that are not rich and don't get half the drama you guys talk about. Maybe they are just able to turn it on and off and know who they can get away with what with.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2233270]Are you ascribing drama to lack of money? I have delt with plenty of Filipina chicks that are not rich and don't get half the drama you guys talk about. Maybe they are just able to turn it on and off and know who they can get away with what with.[/QUOTE]Would they be younger ones? 19-22? Mid 23-27 seasoned-above 27? That they don't give you drama?

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2233270]Are you ascribing drama to lack of money? I have delt with plenty of Filipina chicks that are not rich and don't get half the drama you guys talk about. Maybe they are just able to turn it on and off and know who they can get away with what with.[/QUOTE]No I am saying that for a lot of pina's life is equal to drama. Money demands are a separate issue, just remember that if a girl can scam a just guy out of 1000 p a day, she is better off than having a regular job. Some girls will use drama as a tool to get you to send money, some will take an opposite tact and try to shame you into sending money, con you into sending money so that they can come to see you and make your wildest fantasies come true, some will. You get the idea. Not all will try to con you, some will actually come see you if you send them money, most will not. A fundamental rule is never send money to a girl you have not met yet. Yes you will lose a girl or two but overall you will save a lot of money. (Second fundamental rule is to try not to send money to a girl you have met, send a grab to pick them up, buy the tickets directly, make their bill payments directly etc.).

There soap operas (as are their politics, and their lives on a job. As is their family life etc.) are all drama driven, huge conflict over nothing that ends well after an hour less commercial time is how some of these girls view the world.

If no huge drama then no live happy ever after in their minds. If no yelling and screaming then you don't love them enough to fight for them.

The amount of drama is totally independent of other factors in the girls like education, money social status etc. It is, if anything maturity driven, the immature girls without regard for their chronological age, want the drama because they cannot differentiate between TV shows and reality. More mature women, again without regard for chronological age, see that TV is not reality an will dispense with the drama in some (a few, most, once in a while?) cases.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2233270]Are you ascribing drama to lack of money? I have delt with plenty of Filipina chicks that are not rich and don't get half the drama you guys talk about. Maybe they are just able to turn it on and off and know who they can get away with what with.[/QUOTE]Correct! They know whose dick they can twist for cash. They know it would not work on the mongers who just move on to the next puss waiting in line. Hence, they do not even try. LOL! They save the emotional extortion for fellas who care about their tantrums and fictitious crises.

Chick I fucked last time I was in Manila talking about she fell and had to have surgery to the tune of 150K. Shit. I thought I closed my tab out when I saw her. How is my whatsapp popping up in the conversation of a hospital bill? Hell, I don't even know what a patellar is! Sounds made up to me. If it wasn't for the pictures...

I ate at McDonald's 3 weeks ago. The fry machine there went on the fritz last week. They didn't call me asking if I could pitch in to pay the electrician.

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I ate at McDonald's 3 weeks ago. The fry machine there went on the fritz last week. They didn't call me asking if I could pitch in to pay the electrician.[/QUOTE]The only reason they didn't call is you never left your number.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2234682]Chick I fucked last time I was in Manila talking about she fell and had to have surgery to the tune of 150K.what a patellar is! Sounds made up to me. [/QUOTE]Sounds like a new version of the arm transfusion scam. She is probably babbling about her knee. Photos doctored (pun intended).

Was in Manila (Makati) transiting for a job. Prior to arrival spent a bit of time on Pinalove and Dateinasia. Organised some meetings. First from Pinalove no showed. So hopped on Wechat but after an annoying conversation that resulted in some time wasting I was simply too tired to be bothered. Next day got a Wechat massage girl to come over for 2500. Was a lot chubbier than photos but I just wanted a massage and some relief so I forgoed anything more. Had organised a meeting with a PinaLove girl but she bailed. Went to LA Cafe that night but wasnt impressed. Went on Wechat about midnight and got a reasonable 24 yo and had reasonable but not mind blowing sex, cost 2000 but ended up giving her 2500 for taxi. Next day organised a 25 yo from tinder to visit. Again OK slim figure but empty tits from having a kid, paid 3000. Another 20 yo girl had been chatting to from Tinder kept bugging me but wanted too much. I was interested in having her a couple of days but goal posts kept moving. We eventually met about 5 pm the next day and she stayed overnight. Was pleasant looking but slightly chubby. She needed money for her study and according to her only had 2 boyfriends. I kept telling her that I was old and reloading would take some time. We had agreed on 2500 a shot. She wanted as many shots as she could and got a prolonged riding. She was a bit inexperienced but the freshness made it a bit more exciting. She is open to meeting when I return but I told her now we have met, the pricing next time will be somewhat less. I attach her photos below. I had quiet a few interactions with PL and the girls but they all danced around being able to meet. Perhaps will have better luck on my way out. The company paid for my flights and accommodation so I was not so concerned about price, I was more concerned about getting good quality and given I don't like bars and saved myself the transport, drinks and barfines, I was happy with the value / quality that I achieved.

[QUOTE=GDreams;2235282]Was in Manila (Makati) transiting for a job. Prior to arrival spent a bit of time on Pinalove and Dateinasia. Organised some meetings. First from Pinalove no showed. So hopped on Wechat but after an annoying conversation that resulted in some time wasting I was simply too tired to be bothered. Next day got a Wechat massage girl to come over for 2500. Was a lot chubbier than photos but I just wanted a massage and some relief so I forgoed anything more. Had organised a meeting with a PinaLove girl but she bailed. Went to LA Cafe that night but wasnt impressed. Went on Wechat about midnight and got a reasonable 24 yo and had reasonable but not mind blowing sex, cost 2000 but ended up giving her 2500 for taxi. Next day organised a 25 yo from tinder to visit. Again OK slim figure but empty tits from having a kid, paid 3000. Another 20 yo girl had been chatting to from Tinder kept bugging me but wanted too much. I was interested in having her a couple of days but goal posts kept moving. We eventually met about 5 pm the next day and she stayed overnight. Was pleasant looking but slightly chubby. She needed money for her study and according to her only had 2 boyfriends. I kept telling her that I was old and reloading would take some time. We had agreed on 2500 a shot. She wanted as many shots as she could and got a prolonged riding. She was a bit inexperienced but the freshness made it a bit more exciting. She is open to meeting when I return but I told her now we have met, the pricing next time will be somewhat less. I attach her photos below. I had quiet a few interactions with PL and the girls but they all danced around being able to meet. Perhaps will have better luck on my way out. The company paid for my flights and accommodation so I was not so concerned about price, I was more concerned about getting good quality and given I don't like bars and saved myself the transport, drinks and barfines, I was happy with the value / quality that I achieved.[/QUOTE]That Hippoprostimus has a huge horse pussy! LOL! At P2,500 per shot, she made bank. Doubt that she will spend it on going to school to get a job paying P350 per day. All the hookers in Manila claim that they are college girls because they think that it raises their market value. Maybe it does for Pinoy clientele because all the taxi drivers touting hookers always claim that they can provide "college girls" to mongers. The only educational institutions those girls attend are Cowboy Grill University and LA Caf College, where they work towards their MBA in Entrepreneurial Intercourse.

I lost one of my regular girls today. She had been coming every Saturday after her last class and leaving Tuesday mornings for her first class of the week, no classes on Mondays.

She was a lot of fun to be with and was even good company out of bed, intelligent and pretty worldly for a pina who has not traveled many places.

She forgot that we had agreed that marriage and kids were not going to happen, she drew a line in the sand saying she wanted marriage and at least one kid (knowing full well that that is basically an impossibility for me now).

Spent the evening on Tinder and PL, have a date lined up for tomorrow and another one for Sunday. I'll miss her but it will not take long to fill her place in the schedule.

The moral of the story is that no matter how much fun she is, how much you like her there are several out there that will be just as much fun, be just as likable and will be ready to step into her place in pretty short notice. Never let them rewrite the terms and conditions of the relationship unilaterally.

I was kicked off of DIA due to a verbal altercation with a nasty Ladyboy who was passing himself off as a girl. Unfortunately I used some language apparently deemed unacceptable. I also suspect I was reported by some girls who I must have come on to forward with. (word to the wise that they are not all on there for a date for sex and will seek revenge for perceived disrespect). So I have established a new account using another PC, a new email, and new pics. I don't know if that was the reason or not but I can no longer log in using my VPN. I just disconnect from the IPA VPN prior to sign in and that works to get me back in. I was writing down names and CP numbers as I searched so all is not lost although much was. So Sad.

[QUOTE=ForkTruck;2232355]I forgot to add. My VPN provider is IPA.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2235667]She forgot that we had agreed that marriage and kids were not going to happen, she drew a line in the sand saying she wanted marriage and at least one kid (knowing full well that that is basically an impossibility for me now).[/QUOTE]I always say that it is cop and blow and to enjoy someone while you are with them. Your experience is why you can always be honest with women. They will agree to anything, thinking later they change whatever was said. I have a chick in Dominican Republic that I am messing with. She got mad at me for whatever reason and suggested hooking me up with her friend that has no kids and a good job. I took her up on the offer. Now that I am talking to her friend she is even angry about that. Bih, it was your suggestion. What these biches really want from a?

[QUOTE=ForkTruck;2235712]I was kicked off of DIA due to a verbal altercation with a nasty Ladyboy who was passing himself off as a girl. Unfortunately I used some language apparently deemed unacceptable. I also suspect I was reported by some girls who I must have come on to forward with. (word to the wise that they are not all on there for a date for sex and will seek revenge for perceived disrespect). So I have established a new account using another PC, a new email, and new pics. I don't know if that was the reason or not but I can no longer log in using my VPN. I just disconnect from the IPA VPN prior to sign in and that works to get me back in. I was writing down names and CP numbers as I searched so all is not lost although much was. So Sad.[/QUOTE]I'm glad it worked out for you in the end but I don't bother any more. I've also been banned from DIA but PL, Cupid et al are too much like shooting fish in a barrel for me to be mucking around with additional laptops, VPNs, emails etc.

Connecting girls' usernames, hotness rating and contact details already uses 95% of my IQ. Spreading these across multiple platforms would just be too hard 🙄.