Need Help on Secluded Beach!!
My regular girl just told me that it has always been a fantasy of hers to fuck on a beach. I am assuming that since she shared that with me, she wants me to make that fantasy come true. Now I know there is no fucking way possible to have sex on Copa or Ipanema beach!!
I need suggestions from the board on where i can make this happen. I was thinking of Recreio because I know that beach is really deserted. However, neither one of us owns a car and I am kinda scared of getting stuck out there, since there are no cabs and the buses run sparingly.
I dont really want to have to travel all the way out to Buzios or Arraial, so i need ideas on a beach locally. Help me out fellas!! (maybe I should have posted this on the non GDP section)
For those of us who don't know
[QUOTE=Dumb N Dumber]I hear all the criticism from some of you guys and it has given me some pause in this, but ultimately, I know I am right in my statements about her. There are really only 2 people on the planet that know all the details of what happened between this girl and myself. It is easy to criticize when you were not directly involved and when you do not know all of the facts. I don’t blame anyone that has written critically about my actions. I welcome the dialog and it does make me think about all this. Although I had tried to look at this from every conceivable angle before, your criticism and comments have given me some different perspectives and I find that helpful. And although there have been a few terse comments, you guys are at least keeping it civil and I respect, and am listening to your criticism because of that.
When I posted about this a few days ago, I just wanted to warn people to be very careful should they attempt a relationship with a GDP. I never expected this to turn into such a hot topic. I honestly figured most people would read my post and move on to the next one. It sounds as though a lot of you guys have been there and done that, but to those that haven’t, I hope this discussion will give them reason to proceed more cautiously should they think about getting involved with a GDP.
Because of all the unintended exposure, I have temporarily removed the site. It was never my intent to have people who are not directly involved in her life see the site. There were about 50 visitors to the site over the last 24 hours; normally it takes 6 months to see that type of traffic. As far as the keywords, they must have been in there somewhere, but when I looked at the site, I could not find them. I am an absolute novice at building WebPages, and I made quite a few copies. I know some of my attempts included keywords, but I honestly thought the one I published did not. I was wrong, obviously. I wasn’t trying to be deceptive; I just didn’t realize which ones were published. That was my mistake and I apologize for it.
Someone commented about her family seeing the site and becoming aware of her ‘work.’ Her family was well aware of her ‘work’ and I spoke with her mother and sister several times by phone regarding this. I talked to her mom and sis about trying to help get her out of it, but to no avail. Working in this manner seems to be somewhat acceptable to family members in Brazil. I doubt they like it any more than the GDP’s but it does help elevate their standard of living. It is hard to find fault with someone else’s ‘job’ when they are putting a roof over your head and food on your table. I said before, I understand why she ‘worked’ in this manner; she wanted a better future. But what she did to me falls way above prostitution.
Mr. Bond, I left the door open with her to discuss what happened for the entire time after she disappeared. The legal action in Brazil will complicate matters for us to resolve this ourselves, but it still may be possible. I wrote to her attorney and told him that although this may run through the courts in Brazil, ultimately there are only 2 people who can resolve this. You know any time lawyers get involved, all they do is complicate things. When I went through my divorce with my ex-wife, we discussed getting attorneys and decided to at least try to work out division of property between ourselves before we went to guns. We didn’t have kids, so that obviously made it a lot easier. We sat down over 2 days and crafted an agreement regarding our property, filed the divorce papers ourselves and both of us lived up to our agreement and then some. We are still friends to this day. I think it would have been a very different story if we had attorneys involved.
I don’t want to destroy her life. I doubt she intended to destroy mine either, but I don’t think she is capable of understanding how harmful her actions can be to others. I have given a great deal of thought about what happened to me and tried to understand why one person would harm another like this. I am only one person so I know this is only MY opinion, but based on what I saw her do to myself, the man before me and the man after me, she fits the definition of a sociopath to a ‘T’. But that is only my opinion and I know it.
Although this experience with her has caused a great deal of pain in my life, it has made me wiser and in some ways stronger person. I guess I was just lucky in my relationships before, even the ones that were just casual, and I just never encountered someone like her before. My relationships were what I would call normal; the occasional arguments, but nothing really heated. No one ever used me, at least to my knowledge. If they did, it would have had to have been on a level I never detected. I knew people like this existed, but I guess I just figured my lifestyle and the types of people I associated with kept me immune from harm. I never saw this coming. Now I realize I probably had either my guard down, or had none at all. It’s up full force now and will probably remain that way through the rest of my life. I no longer trust my ability to spot a human wrecking ball.
When she was involved in my life, I viewed her as no different from my mother or sister; I have mentioned that before. I think she despises the site but not me. I despise what she did to me, but not her, and I hope that someday she finds true happiness in her life. Despite what she did to me, there are some things that I admire about her. She has dedicated her life to taking care of her mother and she helps other family members as well. Her mom has some serious health problems and has been unable to work for the last few years. This girl essentially supported her mother completely, including buying land and building her a house. Although I wish she had found another way to get the money to do this, it is impossible to find fault in this and I have great admiration for her dedication to her family. If you remove how she obtained the money to help her mother, she is a role model for all daughters. How many people sacrifice their bodies and mind to help their families?
Mr. Bond, I love Brazil and have found non GDP’s to be very sweet in general. Brasileiras area SO much better than American women. But it is not just the women who are warm and friendly in Brazil. I’m shocked at how many guys (not gay) talk to me about my travels there, offer assistance if needed, and tell me to enjoy my stay. I love the Brazilian lifestyle. I joke with them about soccer being the #2 national pastime, right behind being late. That used to irritate the crap out of me when I first started traveling there, until I realized they were not being rude, the Brazilians just realize the world is not going to stop turning if they don’t show up on time. I love their casual approach to life and think there is a lot to be learned from it.
Gruhmbards, thanks for your advice and offer to help. The legal action has already been set in motion, but some of the advice you offered will need to be taken. I’ll explain in a PM, but super stuff from your advogado. And my PM will be in English, unless of course you need a good laugh. Give me some time to get back to you.
I’m going to try to refrain from commenting too much more about this. My original intent was to post a warning to others; not to expose her to the public and I am truly sorry that has happened. I appreciate everyone’s opinions and candor. I never intended this to turn into a discussion, but it has actually helped me gain new perspectives and that may eventually help bring this to a resolution.
Thanks to all.
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Can someone please discribe this girl for the benefit of others?
Thanks
