Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!

Transition. There are a bunch and combination of reasons we all can clearly make out for the current state. In hindsight, maybe we should have seen this coming (buy hey, When your enjoying how it was. I wasn't going to ponder LOL) The same strengths of social, culture and economics has been the bait for greedy non-stakeholders.

Future. Are the golden days coming back? One common denominator we might share is. Yes, we want it as it was back then or back in a time machine with our learnt wisdom. The sad truth is the ship as sailed and it is a new sailors game with rough waters. Optimistically waiting for better weather. Will it?

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004091]Perfectly sums up my view. I am leaving SA (Bangalore) for good. The last 2 times I subscribed against my better judgement. I was lucky to find one person last time.

This time I haven't even found one person for the coffee meet. I did finalise with one, but she ghosted.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KynkarX;3004361]Felt exactly the same. The lady in this instance did not ask for any allowance for the meet or was even hesitant to order more drinks or more food. Wonderful conversation and we talked about a lot of things. She was blushing at some point of time as well. Nice impression that I was even thinking long term at some point during the conversation as well. She asked a few hundred bucks for return cab but she declined when I offered some cash for cab when coming to the restaurant earlier. If she was a scammer she would have got more cash from me but she didn't. Left me perplexed though I wasted some money on the hotel booking. Will see if I can connect with her later and pick up from where we left.[/QUOTE]Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?

[QUOTE=FunForSandy;3004421]Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?[/QUOTE]Will do if I can't connect with her again or if she is not interested. Give me sometime to see if this can still be viable option for me.

Hot Techie:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e9df82b8-d915-42b4-93ea-9ca2149fa572[/URL]

Mentioned in profile that she is only there for a few days in Bangalore but avoids the question in chat. Takes time to respond but is too chubby for my liking though she sent titillating pics.

I have notion of featured profiles, It could be wrong. BrilliantMizz, Crystal, and many more. You get the drift. All were genuine folks but pro.

P.S. I did have a chat with her in tg, ppm discussed, no photo shared.

A

[QUOTE=AlexDani6103;3004334]Hey fellows,

Anyone met below profile, if could share pics or experience, will be greatful.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1e479db3-257b-4c33-9149-892cb67ebed5[/URL][/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=JustLikeThe;3004415]I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!
[/QUOTE]I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.

Just was echoing your narrative with a tad of my journey!! .

Cheers Mate!

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004518]I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.[/QUOTE]

We are just a country of desperate involuntary celibate men. Online mediums have empowered women who are willing to sell. I see rates go up from 2 k to 40 k. This is not just here. Head over to tango. There are simps spending 20 k on a fully clothed young woman.

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004518]I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.[/QUOTE].

Hi,

Does anyone has feedback / review about below Bangalore SA profiles.

Janabi.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4f08ae54-f13b-426a-8cae-274d922fd8a5[/URL]

BonzaiSpirit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7445ce3-d3fb-47bf-a031-60ddf5d9f64a[/URL]

Disha.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61a5720a-fdba-4a3e-aead-47956938b0dc[/URL]

Girishma.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ee3a150-aafe-4465-9111-48ae7107d52b[/URL]

[QUOTE=Kommodo1;3004563]Hi,

Does anyone has feedback / review about below Bangalore SA profiles.

Janabi.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4f08ae54-f13b-426a-8cae-274d922fd8a5[/URL]

BonzaiSpirit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7445ce3-d3fb-47bf-a031-60ddf5d9f64a[/URL]

Disha.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61a5720a-fdba-4a3e-aead-47956938b0dc[/URL]

Girishma.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ee3a150-aafe-4465-9111-48ae7107d52b[/URL][/QUOTE]Janabi looked like a cheap escort and is 35+.

Bonzai Spirit quoted 30 k. Looks were average (for me) so I had no reason to discuss further.

Disha. There are two Disha's, they are the same person. NE girl who wanted me to quote a rate first, which I don't do. I got GPS vibes.
She says she's new, but has been around for some time.

Girishima. Athletic body. Wanted 25 k which is more than what I do and not looking for a long term GFE, which is what I wanted.

I wanted to call out some Bangalore profiles, which were rude, when I declined their offer.

I have been around long enough, to know feelings are involved and I don't do anything which might hurt them, If I'm not interested, I politely thank them and say i'll get back if interested,
or if the ask is too high, I decline. I am transparent about my age and what I'm looking for in my profile and first message.

Ana & Funmiss were abusive for no reason. In the latter case, the lady said she was working at an ad agency, seemed reasonably educated. When I told her I'll get back to her she told me she
had others waiting and I needed to confirm right away, When I declined and told her I had no problem if she met others, she just turned abusive and then blocked.

There are invariably some of these girls for whom some minor thing can set them off. I guess it would be a lot worse when you have paid and expect intimacy without the toxicity.
These are women who have been around for at least a year. My earlier point of they being jaded. They know there is always someone who will meet their needs.

We come here to have a fun time and not walk on eggshells when talking to these girls. I think we should have zero tolerance for such behaviour.

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004588]Janabi looked like a cheap escort and is 35+.

Bonzai Spirit quoted 30 k. Looks were average (for me) so I had no reason to discuss further.

Disha. There are two Disha's, they are the same person. NE girl who wanted me to quote a rate first, which I don't do. I got GPS vibes.
She says she's new, but has been around for some time.

Girishima. Athletic body. Wanted 25 k which is more than what I do and not looking for a long term GFE, which is what I wanted.[/QUOTE]First of all thanks Phil. I see you are helping everyone here. You are a good soul.

Do you have recommendations for good budget friendly profiles in seeking who are open for most of the things without nakhras?

Hi brothers,

Can anyone share valuable SA contacts in Mumbai.

I can reciprocate.

DM is open.

Thanks!

MP.

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004591]I wanted to call out some Bangalore profiles, which were rude, when I declined their offer.

I have been around long enough, to know feelings are involved and I don't do anything which might hurt them, If I'm not interested, I politely thank them and say i'll get back if interested,
or if the ask is too high, I decline. I am transparent about my age and what I'm looking for in my profile and first message.

Ana & Funmiss were abusive for no reason. In the latter case, the lady said she was working at an ad agency, seemed reasonably educated. When I told her I'll get back to her she told me she
had others waiting and I needed to confirm right away, When I declined and told her I had no problem if she met others, she just turned abusive and then blocked.

There are invariably some of these girls for whom some minor thing can set them off. I guess it would be a lot worse when you have paid and expect intimacy without the toxicity.
These are women who have been around for at least a year. My earlier point of they being jaded. They know there is always someone who will meet their needs.

We come here to have a fun time and not walk on eggshells when talking to these girls. I think we should have zero tolerance for such behaviour.[/QUOTE]You would expect these girls to go batshit crazy if they have been around for a year. Imagine having to deal with guys constantly haggling, being physically abusive on meets, getting cheated by guys and oh. Having to sleep with someone regardless of whether they are attractive or not. Add to the fact that many are addicted to alcohol and whatnot. I have seen many change personalities. Even last week. One shy, barely talking girl I met in another country got snappy and abusive at me. Very unexpected.

Just like us, they also have the problem of plenty initially and will quickly move on if they are not getting what they want. Some have egos and cannot take rejection. At their age, it is very unlikely that they will take it magnanimously.

Sharing some more notes, just in case it helps someone.

All Delhi.

There were some ugly / desperate ones, skipping those.

Maahi on tg is gream girl mohini on sa. Is fit, sometimes hot. 25 k HR / 70 k night. Skip.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/69657264-8c80-4360-af83-94d0bdc1fb5d[/URL]

Jenni. Ne - looks good but is a bit short and plump. Pics look old. Might have become more plump. Asked 20 k oer meeting, countered 10 k for 5 hours. Said ok. But I didn't followup as I am afraid she is not sharing recent pics.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18980b74-d6aa-4f43-9aee-38792723fc5d[/URL]

Name hidden (say mozilla): 23, student, super pretty, smokes up, shared live video on tg. Joined sa in April only and doesn't use much (last login 7 days ago). Said is keen to meet. Asked how much allowance will I give, generally I don't propose first so asked her. She offerred only 10 k. Is this a scam? Is she really naive? Doesn't look like it. Seems too good to be true. Worth the risk though. Confirmed for Tuesday, but with extreme caution. I have a hunch she is real but will get cold feet and bail out on me. Will report later on how it goes. Profile will share on Thursday.

Vp. From previous FR. Had setup 9 am - 7 pm for Tuesday. Plan was to get high together and see where it goes. But cancelled on her for mozilla. Need a backup in case mozilla is a no show. She has asked not to share her tg, as her exams are on. Please respect, if you are on sa, happy to share her profile.

Latika on tg is anika on sa. Looks so so, but quite real. Gummy smile is breaking it. Else wonderful. Is doing phd. With makeup is quite good, but without makeup, not so good, but real. Is not a wg as wanted to meet over drinks and continue if vibes match, generally wgs don't ask that. Asked 25 k. Vibes match then continue else just pay for uber and we end. It was bit of risk for me for my kind of needs- but folks really looking for sugars may try. Confirmed her for 7 pm if mozilla doesn't turn up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b5df966-e910-4150-8a6c-6faae60cba07[/URL]

Shivika reached out now for my quoted price (8 k 4 hours) - maybe as it was a weekday now. I said no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67cb3928-8ac9-48ba-adad-c592c85744aa[/URL]

Shivika's friend Naina who was earlier connecting on tg, joined sa yesterday. Pure wg with inflated price. Just FYI. Saw her profile but unable to see it now. Maybe got reported or something.

Oneworld on tg is aalya on sa. 36, looks good. But I don't know what she is looking for. I am always respectful and never even asked her for meetup but she gave me a full long lecture on how it is slutty to sleep on the first date. Why every date should have an end goal like sex or marriage. Won't touch by a 30 feet pole. I can understand preference mismatch but here it was something else. Skip.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/16fc265e-0d7b-46c7-a0d1-a9187295f987[/URL]

Lysha warner on tg is Lysha on sa. Dusky. Pretty but with makeup always. Out of league. 50 k for evening. Told her politely ts way out of my budget.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f360ee2-de3b-42bd-ab7b-8bb6f4995f93[/URL]

Traveller on tg is amrita on sa. Asked if I want 1 session, 2 session or overnight for first meet. I asked her to share pics at least first. She quoted 60 k for 2 and 70 k overnight. Politely said no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/501017e8-add3-4662-899c-d7500f58a14f[/URL]

Medusa on tg is medusa on sa. Is an influencer. Doesn't look great, though has bikini pics and videos. 50 k overnight, no negotiation. Politely told her no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55722b2f-8d8d-4bcb-b203-462a91ddcfc5[/URL]

RUR on tg is vanshi on sa. Came back saying she can meet 10 k 5 hours. Local wg vibes from english and talk. Politely told I am busy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b353345-48e5-4eb1-9b84-d5e7d5aca5ec[/URL]

Nysaa was keen to meet on two days, but something amiss in her pics. Skip.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/557f10c5-1b2a-423c-ac81-6cad124764fb[/URL]

Safe mongering,

LC.

[QUOTE=LewisCarrol;3004196]Hello seniors,

I have been a part of ISG since 2012/13, but this is my first foray into seeking. Again with full honesty, given my personal situation I am not looking for sugar babies on sa, but mostly NSA travel partners and meetups with a bit more of personal touch than random sps.

I have talked to 40+ girls over past month and here are my notes of profiles that I maintain. Sharing here just in case it helps someone. I have tg for all and can share even if you are not premium member on sa.

These are my personal views, if you like someone, please connect and take your judgement call:

Ishhh (tg) is foxyqueen on sa. Very very pretty but in jaipur. Would have met in on any day with premium. If in jaipur, meet for sure. Is hot.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cf7e1c4a-9ec6-4115-9206-f48ceed090d8[/URL]

Warmgambler. Short, face not that good, asking 10 k for 2 HR. Hold - not worth it. Shared pics, non conclusive, not worth 5 k / HR. Hold until she is desperate.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/62424067-f1f1-4cc8-bb6e-e154cef7d041[/URL]

Shivika on tg is shivi on sa. Hot bod NI. Fair. Young. Open to all. 30 k 4-5 hrs. Countered 8 k 4-5 hours. Said cannot do but kept it open saying if there is need, she will reach out. If no option, check for 10 k. Else let her respond in 6 months. Post that recheck pics, videos again. Referred to Naina for 10 k budget.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67cb3928-8ac9-48ba-adad-c592c85744aa[/URL]

Taniya (tg) is kiyara on sa. Shared live video. Thick thighs really. Could she be trans? Says east indian, yes looks Bengali but has definitely done some work on face and ass. Can take a punt. Dresses really hot but background is single mattress on floor and single mirror on room. Howsoever classy she acts with english and all, she is poor. Negotiate. Asked 45 k, offered 10 k 5 hours. I think she has put me on hold. Connecting and keeping it warm but COT confirming. Meet on the day she needs money, no rush.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36a687a1-3b97-45b6-86fb-b925c6d27383[/URL]

Naina (from shivika reference, not on sa) - hot bod NI, but in spa you will find 50 such chicks- kafi nakhre and superiority complex. Hot bod. Ni. Hindi. 8 k / 2 HR. No BBBJ. Skip. Would rather go to spa.

Rur (tg) is Vanshi on sa. Theek si hai no bad pics but desi. Ni. Asking 16 k for 5 hrs. Not worth it. Countered with 10 k 5 hours, if ok. Try once. Awaiting reponse. Gives long messages. Saying 3-4 hours 10 k. Seems genuine but not worth it. Hold and ping if too desperate.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b353345-48e5-4eb1-9b84-d5e7d5aca5ec[/URL]

Cindrella (tg) is Fahira on sa. In sa looks pretty face, but a bit fat. Shared similar pics on tg. No way to tell if these are recent or not. Very respectful on tg. Agreed for 10 k, is she fat, is she MILF? Is she old? Why won't she send live pic. Looks like married muslim wofe looking for fun outside. Lets take the gamble, neet her if she turns out good, it will be a good catch.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8e9e1444-9a0f-47e2-877f-16c2e8e7ad27[/URL]

Cheeku boobs are good. Face dicey. Ni.

Loves BJ. Proposed 12 k. Countered 8 k. Agreed 10 k 4 hours. Keep as backup. Weekend pe kafi busy. Looks like at least 3 clients / day on weekend. Doesn't do night. Looks like it is a job for her though she seems enthu; so try if time allows.

Met her: Recommended.

<don't want to share profile right now, dm.

Please .

Divanshi (tg) is same on sa. Ohh man, ugly. Say you are not my type. Won't meet even if she pays.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76c5cf9d-40cd-4da9-9cbc-ae3c9153855d[/URL]

Slayerz is aisha on sa. In Delhi. Doesn't look good in pics (is a bit more matured). Skip politely.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3971adec-f6a4-4153-91d2-9d9f7b83f68a[/URL]

Naina tg is anaya on sa. Slow to respond. Pics didn't see. Asked 30 k with hotel. Not worth it. Countered 10 k politely. Hold. Until she says yes, not worth it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb4cb269-8fea-45e8-a226-943ed5baa905[/URL]

Kimmy Kyl on tg is ammy on sa. Hot. Wg for sure. Stays in aerocity, asking to meet in hotel. Could be sp, switch and bait. Shared videos; not live though. Asked 30 k with hotel. Not worth it. Countered 10 k politely. Both said LOL. Hold. Until she says yes, not worth it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/43053ae2-7d7e-4aad-82af-63bec25446cf[/URL]

Khurpatigirl (tg) is Riddhi on sa. Looks fine. Offerreed 25 k for 3-5 hours; 35 k night. Counter 10 k 4-5 hours. Declined. Politely end.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8c39fa15-7641-4d30-92c2-9730926e2f2e[/URL]

Alisha ISG senior said is post op transgender. Shared hot pics. Skip.

Shweta said doesn't do short term but ok to travel to kasol together. She herself doesn't know what she wants. Could be complicated. Skip.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ad6b36d-0ead-435b-b31b-8e6576433af1[/URL]

Shruti Malhotra (tg) is shruti070202 on sa. Is not sp. Won't say her price, too hard to get pics. I said my counter and she said it won't work without telling her offer. Is genuine. But pics look fat and she didn't even counter. Hold until she comes back.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f344f12-0d77-4f59-9194-66fcc6a60502[/URL][/QUOTE]