Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[QUOTE=Kommodo1;3004617]First of all thanks Phil. I see you are helping everyone here. You are a good soul.

Do you have recommendations for good budget friendly profiles in seeking who are open for most of the things without nakhras?[/QUOTE]These Bangalore profiles were available for 15 k. I did not proceed as they were WG and just not my type, but those interested can check them out:

There are others I ignored as they are obviously WGs, probably available at the same price. If a lot of people chase these profiles, the price will shoot up.

Aasuu. Profile pic is not hers, but the pics she sent were reasonably nice. 13 k.

Aliya. Looked fat 15 k.

Maya - 15 k.

Suma - 15 k (looked like a cheaper one, whom the SP has put on SA).

Jaspreet. Her profile says 41, but she says 22 and looks it in the pics. May be a SP profile. Quoted 15 k.

Samaira - 15 k.

Sammy - 15 k (looked chubby).

Cross posting from Hyderabad forum.

Any intel on the girl in the attached pic?. She goes by the handle ursweety in SDM.

Looks good in pics. Asking for 35 k for 5 hrs and 20 k for 2 hrs. Not negotiated yet but if anyone has met her.

Let me know your experience and damages.

Sorry my previous post was without pics. Now uploaded pics.

Any intel on the girl in the attached pic?. She goes by the handle ursweety in SDM.

Looks good in pics. Asking for 35 k for 5 hrs and 20 k for 2 hrs. Not negotiated yet but if anyone has met her.

Let me know your experience and damages.

[QUOTE=SimplyBad2024;3004644]You would expect these girls to go batshit crazy if they have been around for a year. Imagine having to deal with guys constantly haggling, being physically abusive on meets, getting cheated by guys and oh. Having to sleep with someone regardless of whether they are attractive or not. Add to the fact that many are addicted to alcohol and whatnot. I have seen many change personalities. Even last week. One shy, barely talking girl I met in another country got snappy and abusive at me. Very unexpected.

Just like us, they also have the problem of plenty initially and will quickly move on if they are not getting what they want. Some have egos and cannot take rejection. At their age, it is very unlikely that they will take it magnanimously.[/QUOTE]This description is for the WGs. Ideal SBs won't be too desperate for money and will have one or limited number of relationships. Hence we pay the premium. Anyone doing it full time is obviously going through a lot.

My two cents.

Cheers.

[QUOTE=SimplyBad2024;3004644]You would expect these girls to go batshit crazy if they have been around for a year. Imagine having to deal with guys constantly haggling, being physically abusive on meets, getting cheated by guys and oh. Having to sleep with someone regardless of whether they are attractive or not. Add to the fact that many are addicted to alcohol and whatnot. I have seen many change personalities. Even last week. One shy, barely talking girl I met in another country got snappy and abusive at me. Very unexpected.

Just like us, they also have the problem of plenty initially and will quickly move on if they are not getting what they want. Some have egos and cannot take rejection. At their age, it is very unlikely that they will take it magnanimously.[/QUOTE]I don't have any sympathy for these girls—none. Having to sleep with someone, whether they're attractive or not, is why they earn the same amount in 2-3 hours that would take most Indians a month to earn. I have sympathy and respect for people who work hard and are committed to their jobs, but not these individuals. They chose this line of work to get rich quickly with minimal effort, and any such profession comes with adverse effects.

I've been a member (on and off) for the past 10 years and have seen the quality decline over time. It's not worth wasting your time or money on SA anymore. While the platform functions better in some Southeast Asian countries, the situation in India is dire. There's no justification for the behavior of these girls, who grow ruder by the day and demand astronomical sums of money.

[QUOTE=LewisCarrol;3004672]Sharing some more notes, just in case it helps someone.


Latika on tg is anika on sa. Looks so so, but quite real. Gummy smile is breaking it. Else wonderful. Is doing phd. With makeup is quite good, but without makeup, not so good, but real. Is not a wg as wanted to meet over drinks and continue if vibes match, generally wgs don't ask that. Asked 25 k. Vibes match then continue else just pay for uber and we end. It was bit of risk for me for my kind of needs- but folks really looking for sugars may try. Confirmed her for 7 pm if mozilla doesn't turn up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b5df966-e910-4150-8a6c-6faae60cba07[/URL]


LC.[/QUOTE]Regarding Latika / Anika, she used to be on SA pre covid, around 2018-19. She was naive back then and wasn't very cooperative in sex. Did not do blow job at that time. She disappeared for a while and now resurfaced again in gurgaon. She used to stay in dwarka at that time. You can try her and see if she became enthusiatic in sex or not.

[QUOTE=Sappulmo;3004753]
I've been a member (on and off) for the past 10 years and have seen the quality decline over time. It's not worth wasting your time or money on SA anymore. the situation in India is dire. There's no justification for the behavior of these girls, who grow ruder by the day and demand astronomical sums of money.[/QUOTE]As an old timer on SA myself - 11 years, you've voiced my view perfectly, as others have too.

These girls want us to tolerate behaviour we would never accept in our professional lives. If they had a real job, they wouldn't last a week with that attitude.

Those who are full time WGs are actually better, they understand we're both here to do business and they make the decision quick and easy. However, if one only wants to bang someone to fulfill a biological need, the local SP will probably be cheaper and more customer friendly.

Did someone try grooming an SB from instagram or any other social sites? What the chances of success and what's the risk?

[QUOTE=Phil50;3004760]As an old timer on SA myself - 11 years, you've voiced my view perfectly, as others have too.

These girls want us to tolerate behaviour we would never accept in our professional lives. If they had a real job, they wouldn't last a week with that attitude.

Those who are full time WGs are actually better, they understand we're both here to do business and they make the decision quick and easy. However, if one only wants to bang someone to fulfill a biological need, the local SP will probably be cheaper and more customer friendly.[/QUOTE]I can't simply understand this forum. People are spending 75 k for a night when you can easily get similar service at a spa. It's not like these women are exclusively with you and you get unprotected condomless sex. In fact, its overspending from people in this forum is what's driving up the price. Now, every girl thinks she should get paid lakhs for her used pussy.

Admittedly new to mongering, but pretty much no one I've met wants to be exclusive on BLR Seeking. Limited, maybe. A more common arrangement I've seen is girls having a limited number of "regular" guys they see (usually not more than 2 or 3), but still generally open to meeting non-regulars for that extra cash. And this is non WGs. Women who have regular jobs or are students. Maybe I haven't met that elusive "ideal" SB? 🤔.

[QUOTE=FunForSandy;3004752]This description is for the WGs. Ideal SBs won't be too desperate for money and will have one or limited number of relationships. Hence we pay the premium. Anyone doing it full time is obviously going through a lot.

My two cents.

Cheers.[/QUOTE]

This is relevant to what at Phil was kind of mentioning in his earlier post that some have certain number of renumeration they target each month for their needs. Their algo of how many SD's gets to that.

In my experience I have had more than a bunch of folks (blr and elsewhere) who worked that out in a different mode. Yes they had their monetary needs but to their own comfort and taking a small hit on the target. Actually its a win for them cause they could look at the big picture. The factors being and not limited to. Self-esteem, dating and intimate with a guy with monetary vs the dating and fucking their age guys without monetary benefit, help in molding their career, being for them in a time of crisis, and so on. For us it comes down to whether we want to invest that much in a single girl. So, it's two way street.

[QUOTE=Jastimast;3004790]Admittedly new to mongering, but pretty much no one I've met wants to be exclusive on BLR Seeking. Limited, maybe. A more common arrangement I've seen is girls having a limited number of "regular" guys they see (usually not more than 2 or 3), but still generally open to meeting non-regulars for that extra cash. And this is non WGs. Women who have regular jobs or are students. Maybe I haven't met that elusive "ideal" SB? 🤔.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jastimast;3004790]Admittedly new to mongering, but pretty much no one I've met wants to be exclusive on BLR Seeking. Limited, maybe. A more common arrangement I've seen is girls having a limited number of "regular" guys they see (usually not more than 2 or 3), but still generally open to meeting non-regulars for that extra cash. And this is non WGs. Women who have regular jobs or are students. Maybe I haven't met that elusive "ideal" SB? 🤔.[/QUOTE]That's what I am also saying - "one or limited". The 2-3 is limited in my definition. And yes there are those also who stick to just one person also. Elusive yes, but not impossible.

Cheers.

[QUOTE=MyBesty;3004769]Did someone try grooming an SB from instagram or any other social sites? What the chances of success and what's the risk?[/QUOTE]I tried and lost 50 k. She started small and increased it like 5 k+15 k+30 k. Looks like this is not first time she did. After that never tried.

[QUOTE=JustLikeThe;3004831]This is relevant to what at Phil was kind of mentioning in his earlier post that some have certain number of renumeration they target each month for their needs. Their algo of how many SD's gets to that.

In my experience I have had more than a bunch of folks (blr and elsewhere) who worked that out in a different mode. Yes they had their monetary needs but to their own comfort and taking a small hit on the target. Actually its a win for them cause they could look at the big picture. The factors being and not limited to. Self-esteem, dating and intimate with a guy with monetary vs the dating and fucking their age guys without monetary benefit, help in molding their career, being for them in a time of crisis, and so on. For us it comes down to whether we want to invest that much in a single girl. So, it's two way street.[/QUOTE]Yes, exclusivity (sort of) exists, but there are reasons why and it is increasingly difficult to find on SA.

That said, many on SA will tell you they want exclusivity. In reality, they will be ready to sleep around as long as they have time and their price is met.

I've had long term relationships where I believe I was the only person she was sugar dating. None were on SA for more than a month. If she has a BF, or a casual hookup, that's none of my business.
(in fact I would expect a young attractive girl to have a BF, rather than only see someone twice her age).

My current partner who I've been seeing for 7 years, comes from an affluent family. She has a job. Does not have the time, or need the money to sugar date, though she has an active social life with people her age. Perhaps she sees me as a sort of father figure, we have a lot in common, from listening to 70's music, to checking out new restaurants, to a love for beer. The allowance is the difference between her salary and expenses, as she can be careless with her spending.

The girl before her was very similar, except that she lost her father at a young age and perhaps I filled that role for her. We came from the same community, knew the same people in our home
town and it was easy for her to tell people we saw in public that I'm a friend and mentor.

I had a travel partner who is older and lives in Delhi. We only meet for a holiday each year, or once a year when I'm in Delhi. She does not need the money but our holidays (for which I need a partner) are at a level she would not afford on her own.

There was one who was ambitious about rising in the corporate world. I don't date anyone I work with and neither would she. For her sugar dating meant accompanying me to a high profile
corporate event, or a talk where I had in invite, or getting her an internship with a call to that CEO.

In all these cases, there have been disappointments. We have broken up and reconnected. There may be months we don't see each other. The common things were they just happened to check out SA when we connected and we had a similar set of needs, most people on SA don't. I last met such a person in 2019.

I'm single so I look for a good connect and common interests, rather than just a body to fuck. I'd like someone who looks like my GF and not an escort.
If I can't see her for some time and she sees someone else for benefits, that would not be my concern, especially if we meet 50+ times during our relationship .

These kind of people are almost absent on SA. I think the escorts and the mongers who think those girls are escorts, have driven them away.

[QUOTE=FunForSandy;3004853]That's what I am also saying - "one or limited". The 2-3 is limited in my definition. And yes there are those also who stick to just one person also. Elusive yes, but not impossible.

Cheers.[/QUOTE]It's all about money, except for some nymphos.

Shower enough money, any girl would be exclusive. Some girls are smart, looking for monogamous relationships specifically, in order to avoid STDs I guess.