More pleas for financial aid. I've told this girl before that I can only help her when she is in my hotel room, but she’s not taking no for an answer. Only one way to fix this. Delete and block.
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More pleas for financial aid. I've told this girl before that I can only help her when she is in my hotel room, but she’s not taking no for an answer. Only one way to fix this. Delete and block.
I'm a newbie to internet dating, so out of curiosity I downloaded the FC app and filled out the profile. I used my real pic, but dialled down my age a bit. I didn't want people to think I use a Zimmer frame. I then forgot about it and went about by normal business.
24-hours later, I had 220 messages in my mail box from chicks. I'm thinking what the hell is this all about and how could I possibly go through this rubbish? I also read on this forum that some members advise not to go on FC and PL until about 2 weeks before your trip otherwise the chicks lose interest. Next time I will limit my search area to just Manila and AC. Realistically I'm not going to GenSan to meet some bird. CSP also says that further limit your area to around 1- hour max around Makati. A chick from Cavite, Caloocan or QC can't be trusted to come out to Makati within a mongers' limited time frame.
All very interesting. I've switched off the app now and will reload it when I confirm my trip next year.
[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2264358]More pleas for financial aid. I've told this girl I can only help her when she is in my hotel room. Only one way to fix this. Delete and block.[/QUOTE]I'm finding that this is one of the downsides to starting my run too early. It opens me up to many requests and sob stories. Much easier to wait until I am there and just ask can you come around today or tomorrow. It's a yes or no answer and there is no time in between for grandmothers to get sick.
[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2264361]I'm a newbie to internet dating, so out of curiosity I downloaded the FC app and filled out the profile. I used my real pic, but dialled down my age a bit. I didn't want people to think I use a Zimmer frame. I then forgot about it and went about by normal business.
24-hours later, I had 220 messages in my mail box from chicks. I'm thinking what the hell is this all about and how could I possibly go through this rubbish? I also read on this forum that some members advise not to go on FC and PL until about 2 weeks before your trip otherwise the chicks lose interest. Next time I will limit my search area to just Manila and AC. Realistically I'm not going to GenSan to meet some bird. CSP also says that further limit your area to around 1- hour max around Makati. A chick from Cavite, Caloocan or QC can't be trusted to come out to Makati within a mongers' limited time frame.
All very interesting. I've switched off the app now and will reload it when I confirm my trip next year.[/QUOTE]Last trip to Davao I started a month out and it was a nightmare. This time it was two weeks and that's still too long. As you said above, it allows sob stories. Yes, the girls loose interest but they also get snowed under by the sheer volume of messages. An ok girl will get '00's of messages a day. A cutie maybe '000's. So it's hard for you or I to remain front of mind for her over a long period of time. I've had many chats go really well and then suddenly stop. I'm sure she's just forgotten after answering a couple of other guys and my message has gotten buried down the list.
FWIW, I'm still a big fan of contacting when you are in town and want to meet now or tomorrow. Maybe add a day or two if it's a regional center where the girls might need some warming up or conversation first. Much less drop outs and general heart ache.
It's a waste of time to search all of the philippines. You can't possibly meet all of them. Many of those indicating in their profile that they are in the city with you will actually be out in the province somewhere or travelling when you arrive. It's one area where Cupid is better than PL. Often PL will only let you search a Province eg Papanga which is a big place whereas Cupid will let you search a city eg AC. It rules out many false positives. Its a big plus in big provinces or areas like Manila where the girl can be hours away from where you are.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2264367]Last trip to Davao I started a month out and it was a nightmare. This time it was two weeks and that's still too long. As you said above, it allows sob stories. Yes, the girls loose interest but they also get snowed under by the sheer volume of messages. An ok girl will get '00's of messages a day. A cutie maybe '000's. So it's hard for you or I to remain front of mind for her over a long period of time. I've had many chats go really well and then suddenly stop. I'm sure she's just forgotten after answering a couple of other guys and my message has gotten buried down the list.
FWIW, I'm still a big fan of contacting when you are in town and want to meet now or tomorrow. Maybe add a day or two if it's a regional center where the girls might need some warming up or conversation first. Much less drop outs and general heart ache.
It's a waste of time to search all of the philippines. You can't possibly meet all of them. Many of those indicating in their profile that they are in the city with you will actually be out in the province somewhere or travelling when you arrive. It's one area where Cupid is better than PL. Often PL will only let you search a Province eg Papanga which is a big place whereas Cupid will let you search a city eg AC. It rules out many false positives. Its a big plus in big provinces or areas like Manila where the girl can be hours away from where you are.[/QUOTE]I don't see that those 1,000's of horny westerners who bombard a hot girl each day with messages as any competition for us real travellers. 99% of them won't actually ever board an aircraft to Manila. Last time I only used Wechat and Tinder when I arrived as they are proximity based apps. Even then, I couldn't keep up with all the prospects. Like you suggested, I will switch on FC a couple of days before leaving and will be ruthless in my culling. I like to mix it up with bar girls, massage girls and waitresses. So how many online real prospects do I actually need? Not more than 20. Given a 50% no show rate, that's more than enough.
[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2264383]I don't see that those 1,000's of horny westerners who bombard a hot girl each day with messages as any competition for us real travellers. 99% of them won't actually ever board an aircraft to Manila.[/QUOTE]Agreed. However they to add volume to the girls' inbox so they must wade through all these to go get to the opportunity to sleep with our fine selves.
Pro tip: FC and PL inbox summaries are about 50 characters long. Get the fact that you are in town / country in that first 50 characters THEN rave on about how she is cute, the weather etc. Not the other way. Then when she is scanning the 1000 messages in her inbox, she will see that you are in town before even needing to open the message and can select your message as worthy of reply.
Many girls do answer alot of the unlikely to come chats. It costs them nothing and there is a however slim chance that he can be talked into sending cash to prove his love. For some girls being a frequent visitor can be a negative for a guy as he knows the ropes and is less likely to be scammed, I mean generous. 🙄.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2121543]I'm currently in Subic having a lot of good fortune with PinaLove and FilippinoCupid.
I questioned a PL girl about how she uses the dating software, her impressions of the guys she comes across and what she found as a turn off / attractive when replying to messages.
SNIP
Girls keep chats going for months / years as it has no cost but has a slim possibility that the guy may come and marry them.
Girls may request some funds from long distance relationships. This is seen as an indication that the guy is serious and not just stringing her along.
SNIP
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[QUOTE=Goferring;2264403]For some girls being a frequent visitor can be a negative for a guy as he knows the ropes and is less likely to be scammed, I mean generous.[/QUOTE]You mean like when I was talking to a Brazilian chick and she was saying how much she wanted to come to the States and I told her I wanted to move back to Brazil. She blocked me.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2264412]You mean like when I was talking to a Brazilian chick and she was saying how much she wanted to come to the States and I told her I wanted to move back to Brazil. She blocked me.[/QUOTE]Or in Bali when I was walking down Jl Pantai (Beach Rd) and a girl sidled up and asked how things were going. Without batting an eyelid I replied in Indonesian. This went on for a couple of sentences until she figured out what was happening and with a "sorry, I thought you were a tourist", was gone.
Two chicas I'm in contact with have just said their mom or grandma are sick. Looks like more culling of my phone list is needed. It's so predictable LOL.
[URL]https://www.pinalove.com/kylie1437[/URL]
A dominant bi needs a submissive partner.
LOL.
We all bend the truth sometimes but fuck me!!
Cupid vs Viber profiles.
Lucky I caught it in time.
[QUOTE=Member#1088;2264604][URL]https://www.pinalove.com/kylie1437[/URL]
A dominant bi needs a submissive partner.[/QUOTE]FYI. Sometimes guys post links to dating sites (above). However, when I click the link, I get the login page (not the actual profile page, see pic). Hence, only guys active on PL can see the Kylie's page after they log in.
[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2264930]FYI. Sometimes guys post links to dating sites (above). However, when I click the link, I get the login page (not the actual profile page, see pic). Hence, only guys active on PL can see the Kylie's page after they log in.[/QUOTE]True. Sometimes it's easier just to post a screen grab.
For those interested but don't have an account.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2265145]True. Sometimes it's easier just to post a screen grab.
For those interested but don't have an account.[/QUOTE]You are right, my bad, I will post the screen grab next time.
Please report with photographic documentation.
[QUOTE=Member#1088;2265160]You are right, my bad, I will post the screen grab next time.
Please report with photographic documentation.[/QUOTE]Sorry. I won't be following up. I'm only 1 out of the 3 requirements: truely bi chicks are great but I'm not a sub and I don't take photos.