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[QUOTE=Blink157]yes you did right WR,
I propbly would order some more food , eat and then walk away LOL...and dont think ur cruel, just dont care, cause thats what I learned here in the Philippines..they dont care :D


Blink[/QUOTE]
Thanks Blink

Am a normnal caring guy, good hearted etc (well ask anyone in ISG who knows me!) but this was taking the p**s to the extreme. And I thought sod it

I did get some SMS messages from the girl and she was sort of apologetic for the family behaviour but one has to move on if the siutation is not happy. And as you know, there are plenty of alternatives in Manila :D

And yes Wizard I prefer swallowers as well - in fact all the girls I take know that I expect a swallow not a spit :)

Me too, I just couldn't resist the joke.

Chat room and pen pals was created for you to share info about same.

Good or bad?

I've never been to the Philippines, but I have a two week trip booked. I've been corresponding with a whole lot of DIA girls. Some are obviously p4p, some not so obvious, and a very few are truly seeking a husband. My question: I prefer overnights in my hotel room with the girl, when chemistry is good. If I hook up with a p4p gal, while staying at City Garden Makati, what is the reasonable range to pay for a dinner to morning date? 2000 pesos or more? I'm sure there are multiple answers to this question.

[QUOTE=Xdentx] I'm sure there are multiple answers to this question.[/QUOTE]

You are right Xdent the answer to your question is multiple choice. Depends whether you take your girl from a bar or are comfortable with a FL hooker from the street or mall. This further subdivides to what type of bar you are taking from ranging from rip off rates at an average Burgos Street bar, the more reasonable EDSA complex rates or the non-barfine FL scene at LA Cafe and the like. So LT rates can vary from P1-2.5T for a LA cafe/street hooker, P3.5-4.5T (including barfine) for an EDSA girl and P4T to sky's the limit for a Burgos Bar Wench. Then there are the FL's from the Escort Sites such as Escorttown. Here prices start at about P4T LT.

Unfortunately quality and service does not always equate to price so you can get a nice looking lass with good attitude for P1.5T LT from LA Cafe and a P6T and up stunning starfish from a Burgos bar or an online site. Thats why I usually, these days, stick to FLs. GH

Thanks Gamahucher. Guess I could have been more clear in my question, as I was thinking of the DIA gals, who may have a wide range of responses to being offered money for an all nighter. For example, if a DIA gal mentions in the morning afterglow that she needs to buy books for her sister...then the LA CAfe fee structure might best apply? I guess...bottom line...is "up to me". By the way, LA Cafe and clerks in the mall stores are at the top of my list...after I've gone thru my DIA contacts. Thanks for the comprehensive comments on the possible fees.

[QUOTE=Xdentx]Thanks Gamahucher. Guess I could have been more clear in my question, as I was thinking of the DIA gals, who may have a wide range of responses to being offered money for an all nighter. For example, if a DIA gal mentions in the morning afterglow that she needs to buy books for her sister...then the LA CAfe fee structure might best apply? I guess...bottom line...is "up to me". By the way, LA Cafe and clerks in the mall stores are at the top of my list...after I've gone thru my DIA contacts. Thanks for the comprehensive comments on the possible fees.[/QUOTE]

Got you. You will find lots of info on DIA and CB contacts here. I have personally hooked up with 3 girls met through DIA. I have no interest in the 'breaky hearty' scene on dating sites so have tailored my profile to make it specific that I am interested only in casual encounters with a probable sexual content. This seems to have filtered out many (but not all) of the timewasters and husband seekers. Then its to YM to determine whether the girl in question is serious (or more correctly , not serious) and will put out. This has resulted in the 3 positive hits who I met and all of which resulted in a trip to a short time hotel (once to a friends condo). In 2 cases, money or gifts (I gave one an old cp) was pre-discussed so I knew exactly what was required. And yes the expected amount is roughly what I would pay for a ST LA Cafe girl. The third girl was a horny 32 year old who just liked sex and did not expect any financial recompense although I did give her P500 taxi money.

This might seem a poor return for a 3 month trawl on DIA, but I have a fiercely selective radar in place and, after all, I am a married man ;) GH

Fellow mongers,

I have had reasonable success with DIA and CB, but all women have been single, widowed, divorced etc.

I thought that for my next trip, I might experiment with married women who just want a friendly fuck buddy type arrangement.

But DIA and CB do not have search options, nor profile options, to enable me to search for married women.

Does anyone know of dating sites for Thailand and the Philippines where I can search for married women?

Gangles.

[QUOTE=Gangles]Fellow mongers,

I have had reasonable success with DIA and CB, but all women have been single, widowed, divorced etc.

I thought that for my next trip, I might experiment with married women who just want a friendly fuck buddy type arrangement.

But DIA and CB do not have search options, nor profile options, to enable me to search for married women.

Does anyone know of dating sites for Thailand and the Philippines where I can search for married women?

Gangles.[/QUOTE]
Try AFF you get all sorts there even married ones who partners like to watch (if you are into that sort of thing of course ;))

Guys I been doing the internet dating thing each time I go to phi. You simply have to say that your interested in DATING only NOT MARRIAGE MINDED. From there on it up to the gal if she like it or not. Your a foreinger Hello, unless they are a hooker you are a wanted man for most. There are enough lady to find that will be interested in dating you. Buy them clothes and a bag of rice for there family things like that. Wake up they love foreinger men over there and then you wanting to pay them on top off that. This is Philippines dudes not like your country were getting a date takes months and months. In 2 weeks or less on any dating sites with filipinas you will have there cell numbers etc etc. Make sure you have 4 lined up in case some are a no show. Will they have sex with you? Flirt with them when you chatting them say things like I wonder if your a good kisser or do you have some sexy pictures etc etc don't be too dirty be flirty and you will see by there responses if they are willing to dance with you in bed or not.

I'm a newbie at that.

Could you enlighten me on where I can log on DIA and CB?

Any help is appreciated.

When I first asked Jackson to start this thread, I used Cherry Blossom (CB) and it was easy to refer to/ identify /check out gals 'cause you could access their profile by using the acct. no. -- without a paid membership

You can no longer do that without a paid membership, and I have to wonder if someone at CB was reading ISG.

It kind of took the fun out of it for me. Lately, people are writing about DatingInAsia.

RTFF and you'll get get some ideas about strategy, etc.

X

[QUOTE=Leche]I'm a newbie at that.

Could you enlighten me on where I can log on DIA and CB?

Any help is appreciated.[/QUOTE]

All,

Create a new account, then you can check the complete profile.I did it it because with my old one I had the same problem. And its better so you are looking "fresh" for the girls there.

Best regards, anle

[QUOTE=Gamahucher]I have no interest in the 'breaky hearty' scene on dating sites so have tailored my profile to make it specific that I am interested only in casual encounters with a probable sexual content.
This might seem a poor return for a 3 month trawl on DIA, but I have a fiercely selective radar in place and, after all, I am a married man ;) GH[/QUOTE]
I am single and I am not looking for a wife, but if I find one, so be it. In my ad on DIA I stated this and I got tired of meeting ladies and them saying SEX, I am not that kind of lady. I just laugh when I tell them you are 25, with a kid and you aren't that kind of lady:D
So, I changed my ad, it now states, "I am not looking for sex, if I was looking for sex, I would just go to the bar, pay for it and have no drama. So, if you want to see me, please understand that sex is part of a relationship" and I have receive at least 5 - 10 messages a day saying, I like your profile. Since I changed it, I have received no less then 10 ladies who got naked on the web cam during the first chat. When they ask if I am god fearing, I always say yes, that I always say grace before I eat that the "Y":D I also ask if they are at cafe, or home. I try to stick to the ones at home. Sometimes a cafe lady only signs on once a week, in a packed cafe, with 10 people looking at you chatting with her:( You may think that this is BS, but I promise you that it is the truth.

Robb