Elvis, I get you, but that's now out of scope
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I would have posted the same thing as you did a year ago. To recap, you are into the three phases of relationships: working girls, working girls where there is affection (sugar baby like), and civilians.
I had it out with Mr. E thinking he did not get it. I met a woman off seeking, and she was a 10 and a 10 in bed to boot. We did not talk all that much but when we were done, I slipped 300 k in her purse. Mr. E called me out on that, pretty much said I was a dumb ass for doing so. I thought about it and asked myself why, and I really did not like the answer. At first, it was habit, second it was to be polite, and the third, and the one I really hated, was that I felt I was not worthy of this woman. That is how badly my ego had bruised by women in the American sex prison.
It took me 4 weeks to see this woman again. In fact, I kind of went to Colombia to see her again. I fucked the shit out of her again and this time paid her nothing. I planned a trip with her and went to Mexico with her. On our last day in Mexico, she was in tears thinking she would not see me again, and we did see each other again in fact have several times.[/QUOTE]I think I might already have congratulated you, or I do it now. You go be with her. I think I have already said that this might last 2, 4, 7 years but it's worth it. I think also, that now you are out of scope for this site, at least for the time being.
I have been absent from here too for the duration of relationships. And then came back when it got bad. I had 7 years of a 10, and now she annoys me to no end, because she is just so unable to understand me and constantly offended by me, makes shit up, and I am done being her bad guy. Fuck it. No 10 is worth that. It's an experience. So now I am back, but I never was a good monger. I have, in fact, described myself as an "LTR addict" and I'm going to work on that this year.
You say a girl asking money to be with us is insulting. I was going to say good for you that your #10 didn't find it insulting that you slipped the 300 kCOP into her purse. But you are certainly right that mongering P4P has something insulting and demeaning for us men. Almost always. Especially these starfish experiences are horrible in my book. Now, there is where the difference comes in. A girl is in the business, and it is clear she is, and the 400 kCOP per night is actually the semi-pro rate as I have now found out. The full pros sometimes ask for a lot more 800 kCOP or so. Although the full pros do not provide better service, or so I doubt. The semis are like open to get emotional by themselves, if they like you somewhat they become sweet. And that's what I like. I once had one of those from the agency in Rio. It was nice, she looked at me right off the bat and decided she liked me. I also had one who started right out when first sitting on my lap saying she didn't like me. That was of course shit going forward.
I am trying to train myself to depend less on that. To totally do a different attitude when they don't like me and don't get sweet. To just give a fuck in that case and pull through anyway and enjoy that aspect of it.
Anyway, enjoy your girlfriend and consider keeping her and don't fuck around unnecessarily. Just keep an eye on whether she actually sees you as you. Good luck.
Want to apply lessons from my last trip to Bogota
I've got a weeks vacation coming up and decided to go back to Bogota. I was considering Cartegena but between the girls being fewer, more expensive and the relentless touts bothering you I decided against it. It was a tough decision because I would have liked to have been near an ocean this time.
I'd like the boards thoughts on a few things.
1. I really enjoyed Mezzanine and will go again. What other similiar places are nearby that are open? I prefer to stay in Chapinero area as I liked it. Anyone recommend a hotel in this area?
2. Santa Fe just doesn't do it for me. The knocks after five minutes are just too annoying. However I love the seediness of it. Any alternatives to Santa Fe?
3. Colombian Cupid and Seeking. Is it worth it if I want to meet non pros? I've been very interested in a Black Colombia girl to sample.
4. What else is their to do? Last time I was there I went to Mezzanine three times in a day. But there appears nothing else to do in Bogota. I did the tourist sites the first time but there is no ocean or cool mountains or anything. Would you suggest flying to Cartegena for a day or two?
Bottom line is I am looking to have an even better experience this time. And I will not be using my credit card. I'm not having my info stolen again.
Showdown.
Restaurante La Estancia Chica
[QUOTE=Jandara69;2570941]If price is not an issue I would recommend la Estancia Chica, a 5 min walk from Parque 93. My favorite steakhouse in Bogota by far, it's a traditional Argentinian steakhouse that serves imported US and Argentinian beef. The churrasco, mollejas and ojo de bife are a clear step above the regular Colombian beef served at, Andres Carne de Res, Carne e Vino, Hermes Carne de Res etc.[/QUOTE]I've been there a half dozen times or so, never realized that was the name. It's right around the corner from the hotel I've been staying in for 10 years. The steak is good and I would go there again just for the steak. A great place for me and my buddy to go for a great steak and a scotch mist, jaja However, it's like old school. Stuff shirt executive kinda steak house, The girls would prefer the vibe in Andres. The Lomo is good but the party scene and the dancing and the eclectic style is a night out to take a chick in Bogota, Again Chia is the place to be but DC is close and a lot of fun.
Colombia has over 100,000 covid deaths and 11,000 new daily cases, urrrrr.
Just read that Colombia has just had the 100,000 deaths from covid and worse yet that each day about 11,000 new cases, not good and Bogota is the epicenter.
Please get vac before you come to Colombia, please.
The high rate of new cases and massive daily deaths are the result of the protests in the past 8 weeks, you don't need to be Sherlock Homes to understand that this was going to happen.
Stay safe.
The Tall Man.
If I could bring Vaccines I would. I will put $ into the economy. No time for cheapos
[QUOTE=TheTallMan;2571548]Just read that Colombia has just had the 100,000 deaths from covid and worse yet that each day about 11,000 new cases, not good and Bogota is the epicenter.
Please get vac before you come to Colombia, please.
The high rate of new cases and massive daily deaths are the result of the protests in the past 8 weeks, you don't need to be Sherlock Homes to understand that this was going to happen.
Stay safe.
The Tall Man.[/QUOTE]I hope you found a way to get vaccinated friend. I am & I will be in Bogota Friday. In Medellin July 5. The economic suffering / demonstrations I hope are getting better. People need to do what they can to help each other and bear with this scourge.