How tough is it to negotiate sex in the VIP room rather than going to the hotel? How private is it, and how much time can you get, and at what cost?
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How tough is it to negotiate sex in the VIP room rather than going to the hotel? How private is it, and how much time can you get, and at what cost?
I visit the island of Curaçao from time to time and there was once a convenient price surge at the brothel there. They tried doubling the rate from about 30 bucks to about 60 bucks. The locals pitched a ***** and stop going, and business suffered so they quickly returned to the original rate. In the case of Curacao I guess there weren't enough gringos around to to take advantage of, but at HK there are just too many gringos ready and willing to fork over 100 bucks for mediocre sex. Personally if I got the promise of some strenuous sex with a happy ending I would happily give 100.
[QUOTE=RonFromSichuan;2386458] She wanted me to visit her in Monterrey, but I don't want to risk getting kidnapped so I passed.[/QUOTE]Shirley, you can't be serious. Kidnapped? Do you have family in Mexico? Rich relatives in the US? Go, wander around for a day or two, then call her and tell her you're in town. Go easy on the paranoia.
[QUOTE=StRobert;2387024]There is no competition from the USA. Unfortunately, there is no beautiful brothel with legal prostitution in San Diego or Los Angeles, with cold beer, music, etc. Where you pay $ 80 with beautiful girl for sex like in Hong Kong club. In California, the whole business of legal prostitution is illegal and Mexicans know it. There is no other choice but Zona Norte in Tijuana. But I don't think the price in HK will go up forever and in Adelita you can still pay $ 60.[/QUOTE]There are lots of other choices in Tijuana besides the Zona Norte.
Those of you who think HK is so great because there's nothing comparable in the USA, that's a really myopic point of view. [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]. It's understandable. I guess it is like flying the family to Disneyland once every ten years and just paying the inflated prices at the amusement park.
But consider more than just a bunch of scantily clad putas available for money, because it seems that is all you guys are thinking about. Consider that the whole establishment is one giant rip-off. What is offered is way outside the norms of established local economic boundaries. All following prices are converted to dollars to make it easier to follow. A beer at a normal bar is about $. 80. At HK it is $4. That's 5 x more than the going local rate. Let's say a beer at a USA bar is $4. Would you go to the local strip club and buy beers at $20 per bottle? A tiny little 7 oz ficha beer costs $9. If a grown man wage is $27/ day in Tijuana, a ficha equals 1/3 of a man's daily wage. So if a gringo makes $180/ day in USA, that's equal to paying $60 for 7 ounces of beer. Would you pay $60 to buy a stripper a tiny beer in America? Do you guys know how much a 16.9 oz bottle of Kirkland water costs for a puta at HK? It's something like $27. Add to that the constant mesero rip-offs and scams that make the experience even more expensive. And that's not even mentioning that Tijuana hookers make as much or more than their American counterparts, which is just plain ludicrous.
There is a line where if crossed, it just becomes a rip-off fueled by pure greed of the proprietor. HK and most of ZN have already crossed that line. That is why when I go, I don't spend a lot of money. My first couple of years of going to Tijuana, I thought like many of you do. I didn't care about prices because I was used to making a good American income. I'd spend $100-$200 every night just buying fichas. It wasn't a big deal to me because it was like a half day's worth of income. But then as I starting going more and more, and learning more about local economics, I began to realize that ZN is a huge, price-gouging tourist trap. And now when I go, I don't spend that much. I'll go out with maybe $30, buy a few beers then go home with still a couple bucks in my pocket.
[QUOTE=Jbookwitness;2387371]How tough is it to negotiate sex in the VIP room rather than going to the hotel? How private is it, and how much time can you get, and at what cost?[/QUOTE]You get the same "It Varies" answer to each of your four questions.
This is exactly why some guys pay $100 for an arriba. It's why some guys don't bother paying SGs in pesos. It's why they are fine with paying $9 to grope a girl for 15 minutes.
Because in Omaha (or Kansas City), that girl you are going arriba with would be charging $300. The only street girls are ripoff crackheads, so paying $30 instead of 300 pesos is no big deal. And it costs $30 per song to grope a girl in a strip club (if it's even allowed).
The comparison to Disney is perfect. There's a reason parents will pay $10 for a plastic cup filled with sugar water at Disneyland: It's a rare treat to go and it makes the kids happy. It's the same thing for many guys going to Tijuana.
[QUOTE=Suzhilang;2384246]I eyed on this darker skin big tits skinny girl with shoulder length hair, which I later on leaned her name is Lucy. 7 in look and 8 in body. She went with another dude, so I move my sight away and try to find other girls. Half hour later, I still didn't find one, and I saw that Lucy was back on the floor. She sat by the dancing stage, and we made a few eye contact. She didn't come over. I thought she was not interested, but later I found out it was because she was getting ready to go onto the dancing stage. She did great dance with crazy spin. I also got to see her asset as she dance. I continued to make eye contact with her, and she came to my booth after the dance.
She can speak OK English, so I brought her a few ficha so that we can chat a little bit and exam her asset. Although I wanted to and made effort to establish some sort of connection with girls before going upstairs, I found the conversations are almost always superficial and meaningless. We talked about her tattoos, where she is from, what is my origin and ethnicity, and had a little game of guess each other's age. Having a normal conversation is also very difficult with the language barrier and the loud music. A few minutes into the conversation, I started running out of topic. So I ask her to sit on me so that I can feel some action. She moved her ass counter clockwise, and I check her asset. I was waiting for her to start the discussion of going upstairs because I though that might increase the likelihood of having a good session. A few more minutes past, and she still didn't ask, so I did. She quoted me 80, and I asked about services. She said everything but anal, which is fair. At that point, I actually didn't feel like having sex at all. It was probably because it was already 2 am east time, and I had multiple beer and cognac. I am not a big fan of drinking, but I drank because I consider that is part of the game. I also feel obligated to drink as I am in the club even though I know that I don't have to buy any drink. However, I sill want to go up stairs with her, mainly because I made all these effort getting to Tijuana and I feel that I am obligated to myself to have at least one session. I asked if we can go over 30 minutes. She said that is fine and she will tell the door knocker. I said I have a room in hotel Cascadas, and she responded that is even better..[/QUOTE]If this is the Lucy that I know, she's a pretty cool chick. Sounds like it may be her, but shoulder length hair and tattoos, slim with big tits is probably 70% of the girls at HK so you never know. Haha.
[QUOTE=ClamSlammer;2387559]Those of you who think HK is so great because there's nothing comparable in the USA, that's a really myopic point of view. Some of you Charlie Cornhusker fly in once a year from Nebraska on vacation and don't really care about getting ripped off because there's nothing even close to HK in Omaha. It's understandable. I guess it is like flying the family to Disneyland once every ten years and just paying the inflated prices at the amusement park.
But consider more than just a bunch of scantily clad putas available for money, because it seems that is all you guys are thinking about. Consider that the whole establishment is one giant rip-off. What is offered is way outside the norms of established local economic boundaries. All following prices are converted to dollars to make it easier to follow. A beer at a normal bar is about $. 80. At HK it is $4. That's 5 x more than the going local rate. Let's say a beer at a USA bar is $4. Would you go to the local strip club and buy beers at $20 per bottle? A tiny little 7 oz ficha beer costs $9. If a grown man wage is $27/ day in Tijuana, a ficha equals 1/3 of a man's daily wage. So if a gringo makes $180/ day in USA, that's equal to paying $60 for 7 ounces of beer. Would you pay $60 to buy a stripper a tiny beer in America? Do you guys know how much a 16.9 oz bottle of Kirkland water costs for a puta at HK? It's something like $27..[/QUOTE]Yes we understand the problem. Now what is the solution? Yes there will be an infinite number of gringos that go to Hong Kong and are more than happy to pay $100 and $120 for sex at HK, big whoop. That's not going to stop anytime soon. In fact, assume that this scam industry will go on forever. Why wouldn't it? Tons of tourists pour into HK every day. Each tourist may only come by once a year or once every few years. Therefore each gringo thinks the same: they don't go that much so let's spend all the cash. And there you have a scam industry.
But enough about that, what is the solution? In my opinion it's probably best to not go to HK anymore. Probably best to stick to street girls or negotiating with independent girls to actually get a solid deal and solid experience. Also, there are other countries that are better for mongering. For example, I'm heading to Montreal end of this month, heard they have upscale agencies there with 9's and 10's charging affordable rates, like $160 for the hour. The point is, explore more, and find a good place that truly satisfies you and is fair to you as a monger.
HK is just not a fair place for a monger. The place doesn't work like that. It is tipped too far against the monger due to the amount of tourism. Don't bother competing in a rigged system, find a better system.
So this happened to me 2 times. I would connect well with a girl and everything is going well over ficha. Great connections and lots of fun. Then all of sudden, would say she needs to go to her locker and will come back. They said to wait for them. I see them walk up stairs to their locker and never to be returned. Why can't they just say their shift is over and they need to go. It is rude and is a waste of time. Of course I go get another after awhile but it is irritating. Just wondering if this had happened to anyone else so next time I know how to respond to such actions.
[QUOTE=ClamSlammer;2387559]Those of you who think HK is so great because there's nothing comparable in the USA, that's a really myopic point of view. Some of you Charlie Cornhusker fly in once a year from Nebraska on vacation and don't really care about getting ripped off because there's nothing even close to HK in Omaha. It's understandable. I guess it is like flying the family to Disneyland once every ten years and just paying the inflated prices at the amusement park.
But consider more than just a bunch of scantily clad putas available for money, because it seems that is all you guys are thinking about. Consider that the whole establishment is one giant rip-off. What is offered is way outside the norms of established local economic boundaries. All following prices are converted to dollars to make it easier to follow. A beer at a normal bar is about $. 80. At HK it is $4. That's 5 x more than the going local rate. Let's say a beer at a USA bar is $4. Would you go to the local strip club and buy beers at $20 per bottle? A tiny little 7 oz ficha beer costs $9. If a grown man wage is $27/ day in Tijuana, a ficha equals 1/3 of a man's daily wage. So if a gringo makes $180/ day in USA, that's equal to paying $60 for 7 ounces of beer. Would you pay $60 to buy a stripper a tiny beer in America? Do you guys know how much a 16.9 oz bottle of Kirkland water costs for a puta at HK? It's something like $27. Add to that the constant mesero rip-offs and scams that make the experience even more expensive. And that's not even mentioning that Tijuana hookers make as much or more than their American counterparts, which is just plain ludicrous.[/QUOTE]Spot on man. I'm a numbers guy because of my day job and seeing the plain price gouging makes me uneasy. If people want to get ripped of they can go ahead and do it. They are just supporting this scam that's going on. Don't be a gullible tourist. Girls now are not budging from 100 and a lot of mongers I talked to have said 120 is now common.
[QUOTE=Promolion;2388552]So this happened to me 2 times. I would connect well with a girl and everything is going well over ficha. Great connections and lots of fun. Then all of sudden, would say she needs to go to her locker and will come back. They said to wait for them. I see them walk up stairs to their locker and never to be returned. Why can't they just say their shift is over and they need to go. It is rude and is a waste of time. Of course I go get another after awhile but it is irritating. Just wondering if this had happened to anyone else so next time I know how to respond to such actions.[/QUOTE]No never happened. I do the same to the woman.
I tell them let's have sex in hour to give me a chance to breathe, avoid a angry girl, and to walk to other bar. Most don't remember next time they see me. My advice, have mint in your mouth and small amount of cologne. Like one pump. If she can smell it 3 inches away you put on too much. And clean fingernails. The girls look at fingernails. Obviously clean clothes.
[QUOTE=Promolion;2388552]So this happened to me 2 times. I would connect well with a girl and everything is going well over ficha. Great connections and lots of fun. Then all of sudden, would say she needs to go to her locker and will come back. They said to wait for them. I see them walk up stairs to their locker and never to be returned. Why can't they just say their shift is over and they need to go. It is rude and is a waste of time. Of course I go get another after awhile but it is irritating. Just wondering if this had happened to anyone else so next time I know how to respond to such actions.[/QUOTE]Could be many reasons. Caught up with a girl that I had TLNed with a few times and thought we had a good connection. She goes home for a few months, comes back, I find her in HK. She says she wants to change clothes and will come back to my table. I wait about 30 minutes. No show. Message her and she says she has left the club. No reason given. My guess is that she went to make a drug connection, but that is pure speculation. It is irritating. However, it is easy enough to move on.
HK girls sometimes disappear into their rooms in Cascada to do Meth hits or something. They do that a lot after sex.
After the hits they may get too stoned or too relaxed to come back to work for 1 or 2 hours.
You just have to hit on other girls for alternate deals in case your sweethearts don't come back.
To Dodger.
The girls do not ask the $ tip for nothing.
Most would do a mini lap dance to show you their assets. Some may allow kissing, sucking, squeezing boobs, groping crotches etc. It's up to you what you can make out of those short encounters. A few girls even encourage kissing, tits sucking, deep fingering. I was sitting at the bar recovering after 2 sessions, thought I was completely out of ammo, but a girl came by, rubbed her butt on my crotch, swinging her boobs on my face, caressing my dick. Her soft skin, spongy body and sexy fragrance got me hard again!
To most guys the $ introductory tips are sexy and lots of fun, a cheap way to get to know the girls and find out how far they would go in bed, money well spent. The interactions make HK very lively, fun and sexy.
That's all great and all, but what about the point, that all these girls ask for a dollar for little to no reason? American strippers, with higher cost of living, look way better, and don't do this. And why should a girl have sex for 70 dollars if she can make 30-50 an hour walking around the club asking for one dollar. I watch, at least half the guys give a dollar for every girl that's asking, and some will give more than a dollar. Again, where's the motivation for affordable sex? Is this is working girl house or a charity event?