Intro to Filipinas for First-Time Visiting Gentlemen
[QUOTE=TravelTop;1881942]I wish, the experienced and senior ones would be kind enough to help the new ones and juniors and therefore, this is where the sight could be of relevance.[/QUOTE]For the true newbie on a temporary stay, there are two approaches to the ladies that work every time. (Practical travel advice is omitted, because it's widely available online and not the focus of this site).
Approach 1:
- In Metro Manila stay in any hotel on or near Burgos St. Starting around 6 pm, just walk up and down Burgos and nearby Makati Ave. You are guaranteed to find satisfaction available either on the street or in any bar you enter on Burgos. (In Pampanga, stay on or near Fields in Angeles City. I've only been there a couple times, but it's as reliable as Burgos and generally costs less.) Exact prices are reported almost weekly on this forum.
Approach 2:
- About a week before visiting the Philippines (and any time you have time on your hands in country) send messages to any girls you like in the place you will visit with the basic facts on all the main sites: FilipinaCupid, Date in Asia, Tagged, Facebook, wherever. "I will be visiting the Philippines February 30 and hope to meet somebody for (fill in the blank according to your goals). May I text you when I arrive?" Send messages like that until you get about 3 x as many contacts as you could possibly meet. You can chat more if you enjoy chatting. Then schedule the ladies and make backup plans for the ones that don't work out.
It really is that easy. It can't be any simpler. There are all kinds of personal goals we can set to make it more challenging, but no foreign male with a little money or a little charm ever needs to go without in the Philippines. If you have any specific questions beyond these basics, please do ask. Also, please do contribute information from whatever part of the world you know best, and then field reports from your visit to the Philippines. As always, I ask the more experienced members to correct or clarify any poor advice I give.
In QC, wolf whistles can land you in jail
Finally, here's proof that women do not appreciate being subjected to catcalls, wolf whistles and other gestures meant to extol their looks from men on the streets, and in fact find them threatening and demeaning.
Such acts long considered by most men as public expressions of interest and admiration for women are now considered crimes with corresponding fines and a possible jail term for offenders in Quezon City.
Quezon City Mayor Herbert Bautista has signed into law the city's amended gender and development code, also known as the anti-catcalling ordinance, which imposes a fine and jail term for acts considered as sexual harassment of women in public spaces.
The law made Quezon City the first local government in the country to penalize the street-level harassment of women.
"The primary objective is to change the cultural mindset of males toward females. Women are not sex objects. This is to empower women at the same time," Bautista said of the law that would "supplement other national laws that protect the interest of women. "
Among those laws is the Anti-Sexual Harassment Act of 1995 that criminalizes unwanted sexual attention and conditional sexual favors from persons of authority in the workplace, training venues and educational institutions.
The anti-catcalling ordinance introduced by QC Councilor Lena Marie Juico was approved by the City Council on March 7 and signed into law by Bautista on May 16.
Under the measure, light violations, such as cursing, catcalling, repeatedly asking the subject for a date or her contact number, or taunting a woman with constant talk about sex, are punishable with a fine of from P1,000 to P5,000 or a jail term of up to one month.
Stalking, making offensive mouth, hand or body gestures with the intention to demean or threaten a woman are considered medium violations with the same range of penalties.
Severe violations carry a fine of P3,000 to P5,000 or a jail term of from one month to one year.
These include unnecessary touching, pinching or brushing against the subject's body; public masturbation or lascivious exhibition directed at a woman, and inserting any object into the genitalia, anus or mouth of any person whether of the same or opposite sex.
Bautista said the penalties were the maximum allowed under the Local Government Code.
Women offended by the cited violations may file a complaint in the women's desk that are now part of police precincts. The amendments to Quezon City's gender and development code were introduced after a memorandum of understanding with the United Nations Entity for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women (UN Women), which chose Quezon City as one of the pilot areas for its Safe Cities and Safe Public Spaces Initiative.