Cute Indo girl wearing her Hijab
Just about every other day, I stop by the Indomart store (it is like a 7 11 store in the states) near my hotel to pick up needed items. I often see a cute young Muslim girl working as a sales clerk and she always wear her hijab, as most Muslim girls do here in Indonesia. When I first went to the store, she would only look and not smile. On my second trip to to the store, I smiled and said Hi. She gave me a big smile. After I paid here, I said thanks and bye. Now, when I go to the store, she greets me with a big smile and says Hi. When I left the store, I looked back and she was still looking me and she gave me another smile. Most of the regular, non hooker, Indo girls are shy to talk to foreigners. But if you are nice, give them smiles, and say Hi and thank you, many of them will really light up and be happy to talk to you. I have tried this with many Indo girls working in the mall, stores, etc. And 75 % of the time I get a good response. On my trip to here last year, I actually went out with a Indo girl that was 20 years old. She wore her hijab when we went out and she was a really nice sweet girl. She was seeking a ling term serious relationship and I was just looking for fun. I did not want to play games with her, since she was a very nice girl, so I did not stay in touch with her. If you see girls you like while you are out and about, just be nice with how you talk to them, and enjoy the sweetness you receive in return. Young Indo girls like to go out in groups. So offer to take her and her best friends to a coffee shop. It is a nice break from chasing hookers. At least for me anyway.
As you walk around here in Jakarta, you will see very few Indo guys trying to talk to Indo girls. It is not like America where guys will try to talk to girls walking on the street they do not know. Also, Indo guys here really do not pay much attention to girls working in the mall or stores. And why should they, with all the sex here for sale. Thus, Indo girls really light up when a guy treats them nice and talks friendly to them.