Butterflying is natural for men
[QUOTE=Montecristo]....Last thing, i agree with Dan 7373 post, i was at Angels, and the girl (also very cute), made clear she wanted me to repeat when i return, since i have little time, and want to add experiences, i havent return to Angels, but i dont think it is possible to make a parlour encourage buterflying, everything is already too much artificial, if we dont allow girls feelings, it becomes even less natural.MonteCristo[/QUOTE]What's artificial and what's natural is different for men and for women. I think men are naturally inclined to spread their seed and have as many women as they can have. And butterflying from one sexy lady to another is the most natural way for men to behave. But women benefit the most from a man who sticks around and supports them for a long time. And women naturally want to prevent their men from seeing other women. It's one of those cases where men and woman are different from each other. And that which is natural for men is not natural for women.But polygamy is a well-established tradition in many cultures. Which means that women can and often do modify their natural behavior when it suits them. And actually polygamy used to be practiced in Thailand up until the 20th century. I see no good reason why massage women would rather have their men go to other massage places to look for other women, than exchange these men between themselves and have these men stay with their group.Men will butterfly with many women anyway. Because this is natural for them. And the only thing to be decided is in what way will the men butterfly? Will they keep going to many massage places? Or will they stay with one massage place and butterfly among the ladies there?It seems to me that massage women would benefit the most by exchanging their men with each other and keeping these men within their group for a long time. This would by like polygamy and polyandry all rolled into one. And who is to say that this is not natural? There are human cultures where polygamy and polyandry exist naturally.
Applying Logic to the way girls think is useless!
[QUOTE=Daddy07]Don?t be fooled. As dedicated ***** mongers, we men must not forget that the girls we play with are ? well? *****s. GFE is part of the illusion we are paying for. Paying them automatically gives us the privilege to butterfly without fear. Look at it from the opposite perspective. For every time you play with one of them, she plays with 100 other guys. If that bothers you, you shouldn?t be a monger. And if your butter-flying bothers her, she shouldn?t be a *****.[/QUOTE]Well some Mongers are just recommending what they do without thinking about the girls too much at all.Dan7373 is allowing for girls psychology somewhat, no matter how difficult this may be. I don't care who the girl is screwing when I am not there with her (as long as she is doing it safely). When I want her and she is not available that can be annoying.On the other hand I am not naive enough to believe that all girls are totally unaffected by the sight of one of their customers butterflying.A girl may develop a "special" feeling towards you if she believes that she is your special favourite at that venue.Thats if you want her to believe that.My Utopia girl knows I will choose her if she is available however has started asking questions about do I have a GF etc. since I don't see her that often.Some working girls do have feelings toward their favourite customers. An ex-GF of mine was a Soapy girl and she was extremely jealous, which led to our split. She was very angry any time she suspected me of playing up.In her logic when she was working, it was just work. So that was not "butterflying".Another factor is that in some bars a girl may refuse to go with you for fear of upsetting her friend who you went with previously. A lot of bitching happens in bars re one girl trying to steal another girl's customer. Now this is ridiculous but it happens!Fortunately this is not true of Massage Parlours.