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[QUOTE=TurdyCurdyOne;2404525]
It's nearly a full time job extracting anything of use on DIA any more. But is IS FREE ...[/QUOTE]All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.
Cheers. G.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2404740]All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.
Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2404740]All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.
Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]I was banned only once for insulting a ladyboy. I admit I used some choice words. After that I opened another account with same pic but different phone number and e mail. Had no problems. I have messaged girls about sex and solicited sex by offering money. Many girls have blocked me but no effect on my account. Most often I take them to Skype, messenger, viber etc to chat about sex and arrangements but many do not have those accounts. Even if they do they not used so long it has been deleted.
After meeting and if the girl is a keeper I open a e mail address for her and we communicate that way. Problem is I am always looking to dip in a new pot.
[QUOTE=GDreams;2404780]I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.[/QUOTE]Never been banned too, using DIA since more than 2 years.
[QUOTE=Sammon;2404875]I was banned only once for insulting a ladyboy. I admit I used some choice words. [/QUOTE]Yes LBs are protected (and cherished?) by the DIA admin. Just ignore them, any confrontation can lead to issues as DIA admin will almost always take dear side.
[QUOTE=PuteNut;2404917]Yes LBs are protected (and cherished?) by the DIA admin. Just ignore them, any confrontation can lead to issues as DIA admin will almost always take dear side.[/QUOTE]Ladyboys are given a pass on DIA. Sometimes they lie about their status. If they have no kids and there is any inkling they might be men dressed up like women (they are not females "trapped" in a man's body as the claim), you should ASK them politely. I am awaiting some bold sole to file a sex discrimination complaint against DIA the servers of which are based in USA. It would be successful as it is so obvious the admins discriminate against men in favor of women and per*vs. This is the primary reason so many are banned. Take a look at DIA reviews on [URL]sitejabber.com[/URL]. One of the lowest rated sites and all are complaining about unfair deletion of accounts. Use an ad-blocker to block their revenue sources. It took me a while to figure out how they block new accounts that have been previously banned, but I worked at it and found their weaknesses. They are not as smart as they think. Now my accounts last anywhere between a couple weeks and several months. I usually get banned because I start telling Pinays where to shove it. Pinays are great pretenders, natural sociopaths. It is very difficult to determine often what they are truely feeling or thinking. They have a reputation for being sweet, giving, etc. But its total BS. Underneath they have hearts of cold hardened steel and are motivated mainly by money. Do not think for an instant that that young pinay has genuine feelings for you or appreciates what you have done for her because 99 times out of 100 you'd be wrong.
I keep getting the "no hard returns" message so I used an editor to delete all returns from this post. Hope you can still read it.
[QUOTE=GDreams;2404780]I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.[/QUOTE]I think I got caught out by a fake picture and / or a complaint then my IP address prevented any new accounts. I'll admit I tried a couple of times then gave up as the other options well and truly keep me occupied. Cheers. G.
[QUOTE=TurdyCurdyOne;2405000]Use an ad-blocker to block their revenue sources. [/QUOTE]I always wondered how they made money with a free site, its the ads, I have a ad blocker. Could be the reason I was banned (twice). Although it could also be the time I gave a ladyboy some unwanted advice in colorful language. PL gives you the option of blocking ladyboys but a couple of times they slipped through and I reported them as being miss classified. I don't know if anything happened because you get no feedback but I felt like I did my best.
FT.
As told by Mac Payne:
I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.
I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!
I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.
Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.
The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.
But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.
I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2405592]As told by Mac Payne:
I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.
I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!
I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.
Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.
The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.
But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.
I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.[/QUOTE]Can you share her DIA name, so we know to stay away from her.
[QUOTE=Member#1088;2406505]Can you share her DIA name, so we know to stay away from her.[/QUOTE]You don't need her name, the first time a woman ask you to send money for any reason tell her no and keep moving. The fool in these stories is always the one sending money to strangers or paying other people's bills. Remember any online (DIA) advert must be presumed guilty and absolutely suspicious until proven innocent.
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2405592]As told by Mac Payne:
I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.
I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!
I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.
Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.
The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.
But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.
I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.[/QUOTE]Why not putting that in the stupid shit in Phil thread?
I guess its the right place.
[QUOTE=RunMann;2406520]You don't need her name, the first time a woman ask you to send money for any reason tell her no and keep moving. The fool in these stories is always the one sending money to strangers or paying other people's bills. Remember any online (DIA) advert must be presumed guilty and absolutely suspicious until proven innocent.[/QUOTE]I would go a step further RM. Report the dating site girl to the dating site. Its a violation of TOS for every dating site to ask for money. Its no different for when girls report guys who ask to see her tits in the first conversation.
[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2406621]I would go a step further RM. Report the dating site girl to the dating site. Its a violation of TOS for every dating site to ask for money. Its no different for when girls report guys who ask to see her tits in the first conversation.[/QUOTE]Only thing is that she never asked for money. He was fool enough to send a whopping 25000 peso deposit through her to some place he knew nothing about. He got sold on it being a safe security protected 2BR cottage. WTF you need 2 BRs for? And if it is somewhere that I have to be sold on its safety and security, then I do not need to be there anyway.
Sure I will let a chick find the place, but I am handling the reservations my own damn self. Case in point, I am in Dominican Republic right now. Doctor chick I am with found this place that we are staying and sent me the link on booking. I found the same place on hotels and it was $50 cheaper for the 2 day stay than booking.
What kind of fool would commit to 1 month with a chick he had never met anyway. Then on top of that he didn't have enough money to be going there period. If spending 6000 pesos for the family meal broke him to where he could not even vacate, then he would not have stood a chance in AC where some posters say you need to spend 10000 pesos per day. It was not DIA, the girl, or PI; it was him. He should have spent more time working and saving his money up, and less time chatting to broads on DIA.
Shame on anybody who does not read advices and pointers about how online dating in Philippines work.
I have dated province girls but always had them travel to Cebu or Manila, Those who insist on visiting their place I give it a pass. Nobody ever sends lots of money. I am guilty of sending 1000 pesos for pocket money and expenses for the girl to travel.
Never plan on staying together with a new girl more than 2-3 days. Even then have a back up plan if you do not click.
Long time ago I went to Bay Bay, Leyte to meet a girl. But stayed in a hotel. Only first night had to treat her family of 5 for dinner which was fine. Next day I took the girl to Ormoc and had a fantastic time without family pressure.