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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2471312]Kind of a pot calling the kettle black thing. When I meet a chick on a dating site and she goes and sees me still on the site 2 weeks later she does not make a stink, but she will either send me a message there to let me know she sees me on there or she will ask what I am still doing on there. I guess they don't realize they are on the site just like I am, so my answer is well I was seeing what you were doing here.
[/QUOTE]I recall being with a couple of work colleagues in a bar in Burgos Street when one of my mates (who was working at the Australian Embassy in Manila) suddenly went white and pointed to a group who had entered across the other side of the room. "That's my boss over there" he gasped.

I remember telling him to relax. His boss is not going to implicate himself by calling him out. He is in the bar too.

My mate didn't get it. He fixed his tab and snuck out within the next few minutes before he was seen.

[QUOTE=RedKilt;2472205]I recall being with a couple of work colleagues in a bar in Burgos Street when one of my mates (who was working at the Australian Embassy in Manila) suddenly went white and pointed to a group who had entered across the other side of the room. "That's my boss over there" he gasped.

I remember telling him to relax. His boss is not going to implicate himself by calling him out. He is in the bar too.

My mate didn't get it. He fixed his tab and snuck out within the next few minutes before he was seen.[/QUOTE]Good to see the Australian tax payers' dollars hard at work.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2472273]Good to see the Australian tax payers' dollars hard at work.[/QUOTE]Silly comment ED.

What anyone does in their out-of-work hours is their own business providing it is within the law, and having a drink in a Burgos bar is certainly within the law.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2466330]Par for the course for military groups around Asia. It's no coincidence that many LB pickup areas are near training barracks.

As you said, pitching is totally accepted and servicemen will swear that it's not a gay act. However, catching is heavily frowned upon.

Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]At least a couple western special forces training rituals had reports of hazing where superiors had their willy sucked or they would grab balls of the lower rank trainees. Several US forces have a pretty fair number who like members of their own sex. In fact Plato supported the idea.

There are several big US military towns where both local sexes ply their trades. In the old days PI was no different. It is what goes on behind closed doors. Behavior in the open is often well practiced camouflage.

Over the years, some inexperienced ladies would ask me questions and would compare what I say versuses what their girlfriends would say. I always say, if they suspect, then it is probably true. One regular recently told me she likes girls. I guess I am no James Bond in conversion abilities, but I still am enjoying myself so it is OK.

Cruising Tagged setting up for my next trip when who knows. But I am bored so what the heck.

If you see a hot picture then 98% chance they will ask you for money right away. Great chance its a fake pic.

And obviously it works which means a number of you liberals are morons.

Then there are many that frankly are 5 to 6 and who would pay for that when there are 4 trillion free images in the net.

Some I have debated for shits and giggles and said, you want to fuck a guy on cam then sure that has value.

They are of course to fucking lazy because you morons give them money for shit!

But hey enter excuse here.

Unlike some I have not seen a naked girl for a long time on cam I have apparently lost my touch.

Fuck COVID.

I came across this written in a Filipina's profile:

Pros.

-good humor.

-good cook.

-flexible hips and morals.

Cons.

-broke.

-daddy issues.

-doesn't speak Spanish.

[QUOTE=RedKilt;2472472]Silly comment ED.

What anyone does in their out-of-work hours is their own business providing it is within the law, and having a drink in a Burgos bar is certainly within the law.[/QUOTE]Many of us know what the clowns in the Australian Federal Public Service get up to when they are posted abroad. No doubt the expense claim submitted for those beers said "Official business, trade discussions". Yeah, I trade you some money for your pussy. LOL.

No different to the NGOs who fuck the girls they are supposed to be saving, I guess.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2473034]Cruising Tagged setting up for my next trip when who knows. But I am bored so what the heck.

If you see a hot picture then 98% chance they will ask you for money right away. Great chance its a fake pic.[/QUOTE]But why would you even talk to someone with only one picture and not ask them why they only have one picture? Do you see these broads out here with these cell phones taking pictures of themselves like there is no tomorrow. So one picture should set off alarms for sure; especially if it is some kind of glamour picture. And as I have said many times before you can always ask the chick for a normal picture of herself when she first woke up in the morning. It is not brain surgery to spot a scammer. Hell, you can even ask them if they are real. I do it all the time.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2473278]But why would you even talk to someone with only one picture and not ask them why they only have one picture? Do you see these broads out here with these cell phones taking pictures of themselves like there is no tomorrow. So one picture should set off alarms for sure; [/QUOTE]Your right the alarms are easy to spot but the excuses still make me laugh:

Can't send photos due to lack of data (while chatting on an internet based app).

Vidcall in a dark room because 'she' just got out of bed. At 4 pm!!

Broken cameras.

Recent job promotions to southern mindnanao.

The list goes on. 😁.

G.

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An advice for anyone looking for good girls and not scammers or pros, put in your profile in capital letters that you are not interested in Escorts and Goldiggers, it helps alot, then when they read your message they will check your profile and if they are escorts or goldiggers then they more likely won't respond. I would say maybe only 15% of the girls I chat or videocall I ended up finding out later on that they are actually escorts or goldiggers, so I block them, the rest 85% all are good girls looking for relationship, and this is from Pinalove only.

I also ask them questions about their jobs, if they don't work (before covid) there is a good chance they are escorts or goldiggers, if I'm suspicious I will ask them straight up if they are escorts or pros / semipros.

Also I never chat with anyone with 1 picture or if they haven't respond to others in the past (Pinalove shows if a profile hasn't respond to others much) most of them are scammers. Also my profile shows that I'm looking for relationship.

Is a numbers game, the more messages you send everyday the better, I have close to 100 contacts (all good girls - 70% working right now and the others used to work before covid) they are all willing to meet me at the end of August or first week of September. I guess it helps that I'm already in Philippines. I found at least 8 or 9 girls really hot ones like easy a 9/10, with careers or business. The rest are 7-8. Not bad!

Hoping that Manila will change to GCQ middle of August or end of August so I can travel there from Negros.

Otherwise I will have to keep postponing my Manila trip since I can only go there when is GCQ.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2473627]An advice for anyone looking for good girls and not scammers or pros, put in your profile in capital letters that you are not interested in Escorts and Goldiggers, it helps alot, then when they read your message they will check your profile and if they are escorts or goldiggers then they more likely won't respond. I would say maybe only 15% of the girls I chat or videocall I ended up finding out later on that they are actually escorts or goldiggers, so I block them, the rest 85% all are good girls looking for relationship, and this is from Pinalove only.

I also ask them questions about their jobs, if they don't work (before covid) there is a good chance they are escorts or goldiggers, if I'm suspicious I will ask them straight up if they are escorts or pros / semipros.

Also I never chat with anyone with 1 picture or if they haven't respond to others in the past (Pinalove shows if a profile hasn't respond to others much) most of them are scammers. Also my profile shows that I'm looking for relationship.

Is a numbers game, the more messages you send everyday the better, I have close to 100 contacts (all good girls - 70% working right now and the others used to work before covid) they are all willing to meet me at the end of August or first week of September. I guess it helps that I'm already in Philippines. I found at least 8 or 9 girls really hot ones like easy a 9/10, with careers or business. The rest are 7-8. Not bad!

Hoping that Manila will change to GCQ middle of August or end of August so I can travel there from Negros.

Otherwise I will have to keep postponing my Manila trip since I can only go there when is GCQ.[/QUOTE]Are you looking for a wife?

If you are not there is no point in guessing, expecting, hoping the girls are ' GOOD' girls. If a girl is willing to meet totally strange foreign men with expectations of money remuneration they are not ' GOOD' girls. They will go with anybody.

I do not even probe into their life as long as the girl is nice and friendly and provide me with good service. Over the years I have had the pleasure of having fun with many many girls. There are so called ' Good' girls who say they are looking for getting married only and no sex. I ask them if they are ' Virgins ' . Usually the reply is NO. Although over the years I have had the pleasure of having fun with few real virgins. Reason ranges from strict parents, no privacy, being watched all the time. It takes tine to woo them but I offer no expectations of marriage. I have kept them as my GF for a couple of years with no expectation of them being faithful to me.

So do not think out loud about your mongering trip. Just meet and have fun. Girls will not open up honest truth about them.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2473662]Are you looking for a wife?

If you are not there is no point in guessing, expecting, hoping the girls are ' GOOD' girls. If a girl is willing to meet totally strange foreign men with expectations of money remuneration they are not ' GOOD' girls. They will go with anybody.....[/QUOTE]Well, on my other trips I was kind of dating and exploring to see where it goes, if I can find someone that it might lead into something serious or not.

So finally last year, after 5 trips and sleeping with 60-70 girls, I finally found a good match and I spent half my trip with her, so I decided to give it a try and make it serious last December. And since January that I've been in Philippines, we have been living together for 7 months so far.

Up to that point, it made sense, right?

But yeah now that I'm NOT looking for someone serious, I don't need to do that.

BUT I still do it, I still look for good girls looking for serious relationship, why? For 2 reasons:

First, I have a tight budget, so I'm not looking to spend much with every girl I sleep with specially since I can not bring her to my condo since my GF is there so I got to spend 300-350 php in short hotel every single time, it may sound little but if you add up is like 14-15 k in short hotel only. Also some good girls are even willing to pay half of the bill if they have good careers, another reason to find good girls. Call me cheap Charlie, fine! I have a tight budget this 7 months (and counting), blame it to Covid!

Just last Thursday I met this girl for the first time, bought her a 200 php KFC lunch then convince her to come to a short hotel for drinks (I bring the drinks from home, so having a school bag with afew drinks inside makes it easy). 2 hours of wild sex cost me only 200 php.

So looking for serious girls in this case makes sense because they are not expecting you to pay them money, or bringing them to an expensive hotel or restaurant. All they want is have a connection with you, feel attracted to you, the rest is up to you, you can do the Filipino way courting them for 5-6 dates before having sex, or you can do the courting in steroids (that's how I call it) and sleep with them in 1 or 2 dates.

This brings up my second reason (and I said this before), is very gratifying knowing that a girl felt for you and is having sex with you because she likes you, she feels attracted to you, and NOT because of money. So for me the best way to achieve these two things is by choosing the right girls, which are the good girls looking for serious relationships.

It makes me feel good and I get to save money, the best of both worlds!

BTW I had slept with easy girls in the past where they will come straight to my condo and cook for me and didn't expect anything in return, but the problem with these girls is that they are hard to find because most of them will want something in return (not cash) but something like taking them for dinner or nightclub, so in this case they are expecting something in return. Plus in my case I don't have a condo to bring them on this trip.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2473627]An advice for anyone looking for good girls and not scammers or pros, put in your profile in capital letters that you are not interested in Escorts and Goldiggers, it helps alot, then when they read your message they will check your profile and if they are escorts or goldiggers then they more likely won't respond.[/QUOTE]Only 2 problems with that is that people do not read profiles and people don't put their correct information in profiles either. You know how many chicks tell me where they live, when to me (and evidently you) I have already seen that in their profile. Then when I want specifics and ask where they live (what particular area of the city they have put in their profile), they tell me the country. As if I'm expecting chicks in France to be on DOMINICAN cupid or chicks in Senegal to be on THAI friendly. I have reported before about a chick in Davao having Manila set in her profile. When I asked her what the fuck, she said that not many people would talk to her if she put where she really was.

Then of course many posters have reported about the online dating sightings of chicks supposedly 8 feet tall weighing 12 ounces or the 4 foot 2 chick that believes she weighs 300 pounds. There was another board member here in Thailand during the lockdown ranting about chicks not whatever even though he wrote it in Thai and English on his profile. I told him where he was going wrong was believing that someone would read his profile. All you need to do is put a picture up and start talking to people; and I think some posters in this thread said you could even skip the picture.

[QUOTE=]Well, my locality was there for any girl to see in my profile. I had a translation in Thai in my profile but I erased the Thai after someone advised to try and look like a clueless newbie, not like an old-hand who already knows something of the language.

Anyways, maybe girls I message cannot be expected to check my profile. What can they be expected to do then? Not much it seems.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2473847]Only 2 problems with that is that people do not read profiles and people don't put their correct information in profiles either. [/QUOTE]Yeah man. I just met this Dominicana who I asked what is your bra size because I will bring you a nice one. She said 36 C but she looks more like 38 Dee maybe 40 DeeDee and that is just one example. I will find out for sure on Wednesday. I always travel with a bag of nice bras from Nordstroms or Victoria Secrets for my girls. Love to snap some shots as a prelude to some wild fucking. Cheers, mate.