Take a months account and plan for the 3 months.
[QUOTE=Ggn7309;2887444]Hello fellow members and seniors,
I finally got an account working at seeking. But looking at their expensive business model, is it worth it? How's the experience so far with seeking? I have read a lot of posts and found many interesting profiles but couldn't make my mind to get a subscription yet. How risky is it? What's the usual price band there? How was the experience meeting birds through that platform? Or it's another risky business to get scammed or blackmailed?[/QUOTE]When I got a subscription, I used it get in touch with a chicks all over India and abroad. Moved chats to telegram and used these contacts to quench my hawas for the next one year.
Also we can be sure that there are no pimps operating in seeking unlike massagerepublic.
-Cons is high price for chicks. Always bring the prices down or make her work for it. Like going out for a date and getting a handful before proceeding.
Disappointing experience at Az lehar mall
(this is an old FR from December).
Went to az in the afternoon. Asked for Lily and paid counter 1. 5 k (for 75 minutes. I remember it being 90 minutes before).
She came after 15 minutes, did some great massage and quoted 8 k for FS. Got her down to 5 k, but I still felt like I overpaid.
Started with a quick peck (wanted to DFK but she told me to keep mouth closed).
She didn't let me suck her boobs for too long and just jumped straight to giving me a heavenly BJ with ball sucking but kept fussing about "let's just do B2 B" multiple times after we agreed for FS rate, but when I asked about DATY or 69 or fingering, she refused. (I even bought a dental dam because all I could think about for the prior week was DATY and fingering, both of which I have never done).
She even tried to get me to cum with the BJ but didn't happen so told her to get on top.
After she rode me for a little while she started to do side straddle on me which felt like a weird angle. I switched to doggy but we had to do it after throwing the mattress on the ground because the bed made too much noise.
The counter guy interrupted in between by knocking multiple times saying 'time over'. Had to stop after only a minute of pounding, with only pre-cum in the condom.
Went home and jerked off.
My last experience with her was very good and she even lied back and let me thrust my cock in her mouth, followed by rough doggy with hair pulling and 3 shots.
I think she was high that day and even started talking towards exchanging numbers (I didn't notice this at the time), and told me that I shouldn't fuck any girl except her. I didn't take it to heart, but I went to a pretty dry city for a few months, and was looking forward to that experience again. Got disappointed. Maybe I should start moving towards Delhi spas or try a different place like snm.
Balancing career and mongering
[QUOTE=NeedDetails69;2887121]I have a question for experienced mongers here. How do you all balance career and mongering? I am mid / late 20's guy who is ambitious and wants to do well in career. But I also have this habit on mongering. Would love to have tips from you all to ensure my career is not affected by mongering shenanigans.[/QUOTE]Be real with yourself.
Let mongering be a % of the money you're left with post deducting expenses and savings.
Mongering must come out of your expenses which would otherwise go on a fancy restaurant etc.
Don't think too much about it. Let it be clinical and the day you feel you're constantly rationalising bad long term decisions for mongering, make a promise to yourself to stop it.
Go 4-5 months without it as well every year to be sure it's not an addiction.
I feel living in extremes is a bad idea. That means don't abstain yourself nor overdo it.
Look at each mongering session as an experience where you meet a new person, see their way of living and then get back to your life.
I work in high end banking and everyone mongers here. Some earns crores and the fuck sessions won't have an impact on their finances but I see their life is a mess irrespective.
I have also seen analysts who get peanuts and are sexually frustrated because they never took care of the itch.
So point is, do it. But with a lot of self awareness and honesty to yourself.
You get one life, be smart with balancing it.
The math of balancing mongering and career.
[QUOTE=NeedDetails69;2887121]I have a question for experienced mongers here. How do you all balance career and mongering? I am mid / late 20's guy who is ambitious and wants to do well in career. But I also have this habit on mongering. Would love to have tips from you all to ensure my career is not affected by mongering shenanigans.[/QUOTE]Rewriting this. Mongering impacts two importance currencies. Money and time. You need to optimize for both, here is how:
Income. Expensse - Investments and savings = money I can splurge on myself (Includes eating out, hobbies, travel, mongering).
Be clear that mongering comes out of a fancy dinner or a trip you would otherwise do. I typically let this be about 10-15% of "money I can splurge on myself". It started with 3-4 k per month where I did MPs and as my pay increased, it reached 8-9 k pm. Some months I save and go for one high end experience like a zinzin or some fancy european. On birthdays I gift myself mongering budget which I save and spend in Bangkok or somewhere in Europe if work takes me there.
Optimizing for Time: This is more important and will have a larger impact on career.
1. If you don't monger at all and practice abstinance, I feel you'll find yourself fantasizing about sex a lot. Being frustrated as well. You'll spend hours lusting to no avail. Unless you're sterile, you can't go without sex for too long. If you enter the dating game, that also takes a lot of time and emotional mental head space too.
2. If you do monger and have kept financial limits, remind yourself that next month you get to have this experience again. Don't constantly keep obsessing over hookers, always respect the restrictions you have put on yourself. The fact that the restrictions were well thought out (the above financial formula), it should make it easy for you to tell yourself to hold your horses and proceed with other aspects of your life.
Having a good girlfriend helps cause she'll aid you with other aspects of life. But till you don't have that, don't beat yourself. Be responsible and accountable to yourself and live a little.
I've mongered at peak career and even during slump period mongered. I don't regret it for the most part and have had great experiences meeting the lovely women and knowing more about the world from their eyes.
The better you accept your realiity, the less time you waste on overthinking things and wasting time, which as per me is the real currency.
Delhi Trip: Help with contacts
Friends, I am from Bangalore and currently in Delhi (staying in mahipalpur) and would like to meet girls within 6 k-7 k budget. Please help a fellow monger by sharing any reliable contacts of such a girl or a reliable SP who can provide best service. I prefer incall bcz my current hotel doesn't allow guests. My PM is open. I promise to write an FR after the experience.
Note: Some of the seniors helped me with shaboo contact and will be tasting and will share my FR.
