Manila

Most Filipinas I have had contact with say they would love to hang out at the pool (in the shade of course) in pre-meeting online chats, and when you invite them to go to the Hotel Pool they almost always reply in kind even though most can't swim. I usually tell them to meet me in Greenbelt at Starbucks and to bring their Bathing Suit. We walk across the street to The New World and obviously they have change into their swim suit in my room. Door closes. And game on! The perfect Filipina GFE. Works for me every time.

[QUOTE=MangoBob68; 1435963]I will be the first to admit. I am not so "smooth" and bursting with confidence but by no means is it easy to just walk around malls and picking up girls. I have been coming off and on to the Phiippines since 1992. When in the mall. Window shopping. Woman will not even look at you. Look right past you and if you make eye contact will not even smile at you.

I have met some ladies. Prearranged meeting at MOA for lunch or dinner + movie. Dinner on the backside of MOA. Outdoors with live musica. Very nice.

Not one date even hinted they wanted to return to my hotel in malate.

There is no slam dunk or automatic.

Even after lunch and offer to buy some foods for her to take home or buy some beauty products. Shampoo plus plus does she say."oh you are so wonderful. I want to stay with you"

I have taken girls for nice dinners, movies, bowling, enjoy moon lite walk on the mall of asia ocean walk. Never had one say. I wish to stay with you.

They accept taxi or bus or jeepney fare to return home. Not saying please call me.

I treat them with respect. Not act nasty. I try to joke or get them to smile. Always polite. Not force anything.

I am not fat nor ugly nor balding. Yeah! I am over 60.

Yes, I know I can go "buy" a girl.

But listening to so many guys here. They talk of hooking up with 8's and 9's looking 18 to 25 year olds any time. All the time and pay nothing!

I just don't know how they do it! It had to be charisma and luck. They have the swagger!

Anyway for the new guys. Don't believe getting quality girls is as easy as some here point out.

How they have one girl in the morning then another at noon and two more before sunrise. Hard to believe.[/QUOTE]Sounds I also have the same illness here! If the senior Doctors are able to prescribe some medicines, I would love to buy it for me too :P.

When I was in Phil, I managed to meet couple of girls, I had a friendly good time with them but nothing happened at my bed. All the three girls interested to meet me were with their friend. We hugged, laughed took many photos in different poses, but I couldn't take it to the bed. I am a newbie here in DIA, but I am young at my 29. The gilrs said I have tantalizing eyes (first time I was hearing that fu*ing word BTW) and I may not look more than 25. Sounds interesting right? While listening to these words, and holding the fingers I was unable to apply enough passion because of the girl's companion. The only lesson learned is I can change my age to 25 in my DIA profile LOLz. I think, we have to be little naughty to get the things done in style but I am not super confident like many of the guys here. May be you guys could provide us tips to get the things done in the bed. Last night when I was at Cebu, the girls accompanied to my hotel but I was unable to bring them to my room.

Thanks / G

[QUOTE=Mongerer69;1436285]Most Filipinas I have had contact with say they would love to hang out at the pool (in the shade of course) in pre-meeting online chats, and when you invite them to go to the Hotel Pool they almost always reply in kind even though most can't swim. I usually tell them to meet me in Greenbelt at Starbucks and to bring their Bathing Suit. We walk across the street to The New World and obviously they have change into their swim suit in my room. Door closes. And game on! The perfect Filipina GFE. Works for me every time.[/QUOTE]Thank you Master. Show us the way.

[QUOTE=Gajith; 1436290]Sounds I also have the same illness here! If the senior Doctors are able to prescribe some medicines, I would love to buy it for me too :P.

When I was in Phil, I managed to meet couple of girls, I had a friendly good time with them but nothing happened at my bed. All the three girls interested to meet me were with their friend. We hugged, laughed took many photos in different poses, but I couldn't take it to the bed. I am a newbie here in DIA, but I am young at my 29. The gilrs said I have tantalizing eyes (first time I was hearing that fu*ing word BTW) and I may not look more than 25. Sounds interesting right? While listening to these words, and holding the fingers I was unable to apply enough passion because of the girl's companion. The only lesson learned is I can change my age to 25 in my DIA profile LOLz. I think, we have to be little naughty to get the things done in style but I am not super confident like many of the guys here. May be you guys could provide us tips to get the things done in the bed. Last night when I was at Cebu, the girls accompanied to my hotel but I was unable to bring them to my room.

Thanks / G[/QUOTE]Hard to say about the tips I can give you but many tips are allready in this thread. I am pretty much confident and are well travelled in Asia so I know it is my "job" as a man to take the lead. Never expect one pinay (aund atleast not the young ones) to come up with any suggestions whatsoever. So it is all lined up and infront of you.

I have no idea what kind of girls you try to meet. I like them a bit tall and slim. I am a "homey" guy so I prefer meeting the girls at my hotel. Staff bring them to my room or I come down to pick them up. I have been preflirting them through webcam before they come and for me chemistry chemistry is very important. Even if it is only a game I like both the girl and me to enjoy the session. I have a bottle of tequila in my room and a couple of shot from this makes all the shyness go away (as for the girls that is). No I don't get them drunk or anything. As long as we can have a bit chit chats and a few laughs session never failes. I can not remember through this setup I have been unhappy. Sex is great and girls are willing to treat themself with good time. Many of my encounters arrives without beeing promised anything but a drink and a good time. But I allways give them compensation of some sort. Since I hate shopping especially girlrelated items I end up putting a little sth in their purse. Never heard any complaints realy.

I have pretty much found one weakness in staying at the best places there is though and that is it can be rather tricky to get girls to leave. This combined with my rather soft heart as in I hate to be cynical and just throw a girl out have made some session rather very LT. From my last trip into Makati early this month what was intended to be a late Sunday night meeting for a quicky lasted until Tuesday morning.

My precise tip for you and others must be to be the boss (in a nice way) as in firm leadership, chemistrybuilding, jokes, tequila (hehe). This will get you there.

Nb! I agree with the pool comment. Many girls initially like the idea in dressing into a sexy bikini and sit in the shadow by the Ascott pool. Except from one girl 2 trips ago I have never used the pool with my dates. We end up only do inhouseactivities instead. The girls never ask more about the pool.

Over the years I have met many normal girls. All of them including one 18 year old gave me sex often many times. I have posted many pics and trip reports.

18 year old initially gave me coy, innocent comments saying she does not sleep with men. I told her if she feels that way she can leave. She asked me whether I am kicking her out. I said I am looking for fun on my vacation and not interested in playing games. She calmed down and later turned into tigress in bed till after two days she had the mens.

All the girls took off their clothes the moment they entered my hotel room. Some took a shower right away, while others wanted to cuddle for a while before going to shower.

It is hard for me to understand why all us mongers fall for the platonic shit and let the girl get away with no damage.

In my experience if the girl came to my room sex was natural. Of course some girls while texting say they are not interested in sleeping with me. I do not even bother to meet them irrespective of how good she looks.

And if you do take a girl shopping (afterwards of course) , make you set a clear "budget". The amount you set is up you, but don't set the bar too high or you'll ruin it for the rest of us, LOL. Or you can tell her you'll take her shopping after you're done, then tell her you're too tired, not feeling well, etc. Then stuff a blue note or two into her pocket / purse and tell her it's for her to go shopping or to buy some groceries for her family.

[QUOTE=Gajith; 1436290]Sounds I also have the same illness here! If the senior Doctors are able to prescribe some medicines, I would love to buy it for me too :P.

When I was in Phil, I managed to meet couple of girls, I had a friendly good time with them but nothing happened at my bed. All the three girls interested to meet me were with their friend. We hugged, laughed took many photos in different poses, but I couldn't take it to the bed. I am a newbie here in DIA, but I am young at my 29. The gilrs said I have tantalizing eyes (first time I was hearing that fu*ing word BTW) and I may not look more than 25. Sounds interesting right? While listening to these words, and holding the fingers I was unable to apply enough passion because of the girl's companion. The only lesson learned is I can change my age to 25 in my DIA profile LOLz. I think, we have to be little naughty to get the things done in style but I am not super confident like many of the guys here. May be you guys could provide us tips to get the things done in the bed. Last night when I was at Cebu, the girls accompanied to my hotel but I was unable to bring them to my room.

Thanks / G[/QUOTE]No need to change your age but if you feel the need then call your self older instead of younger. Also, in your pre chats did you use the phrases "I'm a bit naughty is that ok?" or "if you like me when we meet are you open to having fun?". She may ask, what kind of fun? Naughty fun! But don't worry I'm always a gentleman. Then after we can go shopping at the mall or eat dinner. Other ways of getting girls to your room are asking them in pre chats what kind of chocolates they like and what is your bra and panty size because I would like to bring you a present. What girl does not like lingerie? Just buy inexpensive ones not Victoria Secret and they will be happy. I buy small gift bags that fit in my luggage and are not heavy then I put the lingerie and chocolates and maybe a small stuffed animal and put it on the bed. Might sound corny but it always works for me plus its inexpensive and I don't spend hours walking around the mall. I then suggest them to try their lingerie on and it usually ends with naughty fun and great photos. Oh, and if she suggests bringing a friend then tell her sure if she is open to having fun I can bring her a gift too.

[QUOTE=Sammon;1436316]In my experience if the girl came to my room sex was natural. Of course some girls while texting say they are not interested in sleeping with me. I do not even bother to meet them irrespective of how good she looks.[/QUOTE]I guess the difference is the guys walking around the mall for hours with a girl and her friends but not getting sex after never confirmed previously in chat with the girl that they are looking for "fun" and expect the girl to come to their hotel room. If you use the right language and are polite and direct the girl will feel safe and understand fun means fucking.

[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1436324]And if you do take a girl shopping (afterwards of course) , make you set a clear "budget". The amount you set is up you, but don't set the bar too high or you'll ruin it for the rest of us, LOL. Or you can tell her you'll take her shopping after you're done, then tell her you're too tired, not feeling well, etc. Then stuff a blue note or two into her pocket / purse and tell her it's for her to go shopping or to buy some groceries for her family.[/QUOTE]PJ is absolutely right.

No guy in his right mind would ever go shopping with a woman. I could never do it with my wife either.

Just give her some cash and tell her to go and buy something for herself while you head off to the coffee shop for an hour. They will find the bargains if you are not around.

I recall a couple of years back in Ayala Mall in Cebu giving a girl 1000 php to go and buy what she wanted. She was excited and when we met again after 45 mins she had several bags of goodies. I suggested we walk back to the hotel and she could show me her purchases, and I was surprised how she had managed to buy jeans, shorts, underwear and some face lotion all for less than 1000 php. Of course, she thanked me in the appropriate manner, and she took all afternoon to show me her gratitude

[QUOTE=Gajith;1436290]All the .girls interested to meet me. but I couldn't take it to the bed. I am a newbie here in DIA, but I am young at my 29. The gilrs said .I may not look more than 25. .The only lesson learned is I can change my age to 25 in my DIA profile LOLz. / G[/QUOTE]If you want a nearly foolproof way to score with the girls, I would tell them that you are actually 34 ("but I look much younger").

I am in my 50s, and I have had little problem bedding 18-28 year olds in the Phils, the DR and Brazil. I have always found this to be amazing, as I am certainly not a beautiful older guy / Richard Gere look-alike. In particular, I have never failed to be surprised how often girls will tell me that they do not like young men. I interpret this comment to mean that young guys fuck them and then don't come through financially (even worse, leave them knocked up!).

In any case, IMHO, telling the girls you are actually an "older guy" will greatly improve your chances of getting the women into bed.

I just read this comment on a blog site about Manila.

[I]I always wondered why Greenbelt, a "family" mall handled by the esteemed and prestigious Ayala group, turns a blind eye to the increasingly rampant and blatant prostitution occurring specifically around the Cafe Havana area in Greenbelt 3. Escorts and call women frolic about, sometimes even accompanied by their pimps who then proceed to loudly discuss the strategies or price points for the night. Imagine going out for a movie with your kids and having to walk through such a scene.

Security personnel are everywhere, and they clearly know about what's happening, but do nothing about it. I was in the ladies' restroom once, retouching my makeup, and the two Filipinas next to me proceeded to talk loudly about which foreigner they're planning to target that night. It's extremely distasteful, but give that Cafe Havana is Greenbelt's top earning establishment (or so I heard) , money takes the cake over morals and values. Tsk, Ayala."[/I]

[QUOTE=Forest; 1436374]If you want a nearly foolproof way to score with the girls, I would tell them that you are actually 34 ("but I look much younger").

I am in my 50s, and I have had little problem bedding 18-28 year olds in the Phils, the DR and Brazil. I have always found this to be amazing, as I am certainly not a beautiful older guy / Richard Gere look-alike. In particular, I have never failed to be surprised how often girls will tell me that they do not like young men. I interpret this comment to mean that young guys fuck them and then don't come through financially (even worse, leave them knocked up!).

In any case, IMHO, telling the girls you are actually an "older guy" will greatly improve your chances of getting the women into bed.[/QUOTE]Thanks! This is interesting. I know different country girls has different attitudes and in Phil seems like they are all behind money or try to secure their rest of the life by getting a foreigner. Even the 18 YO little girl expands her preferred partner age to 80 LOLz.

In this scenario, I think your advise may work here since most girls are open for a wide age range.

[QUOTE=Gajith; 1436378]Thanks! This is interesting. I know different country girls has different attitudes and in Phil seems like they are all behind money or try to secure their rest of the life by getting a foreigner. Even the 18 YO little girl expands her preferred partner age to 80 LOLz.

In this scenario, I think your advise may work here since most girls are open for a wide age range.[/QUOTE]You might want to work on the maturity part too.

[QUOTE=Tally Wacker;1436386]You might want to work on the maturity part too.[/QUOTE]Yeah! I understand. But I am getting more matured by reading ISG everyday :P

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1436373]PJ is absolutely right.

No guy in his right mind would ever go shopping with a woman. I could never do it with my wife either.[/QUOTE]Going shopping with a woman / wife. And yes I did try it once.

1. They have to touch everything. Is this some fabric test or just an " oh look at that, I think I will touch it " thing.

2. Trying things on. There are many ladies who happily try all sorts of things on, then freely admit they had no intention of ever buying it, just wanted to see how it looked on them.

3. The question we dread." Honey does this suit me". Before this question is asked the man should know to dissapear, to suddenly have an urgent cal / bowel movement or see a fly that needs squashing in the next store. The reason is its a lose / lose question.

If you answer "YES it suits you". You are likely to get the sneer and hear " my goodness, you don't know me at all do you ".

Or if you answer "No it doesn't" you will hear the "well I'm buying it anyway as my friend has one just like it and it suits her ".

In case you think this is all made up, sit and watch the guys who are in a shop with wife. They look like they are waiting for the world to end.

Or consider. Walk into a department store and look at the floor listings.

GF perfumes and jewellry.

1st floor. Bags, ladies shoes.

2nd floor ladies wear.

3rd floor other ladies wear.

4ht floor intimate ladies wear.

5th floor junior ladies wear.

6th floor childrens wear.

7th floor bedding.

8th floor suitcases.

9th floor mens wear.

Women like shopping shopping. We don't. As Rafa would say " FACT!"