Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Sammon;2494892]Ex pat Philippine girls living in USA and Canada are tough nut to crack. They are looking for more than poke and break. Only exception is someone married to an old geezer and looking for fun. Even then she is looking to better her life. They will never go for big age difference irrespective of how they got into the country.[/QUOTE]Concur. While foreigner ladies who move to the US retain much of their culture (food, language preferences, etc), they quickly Westernize. Usually big age difference is a no-no, and quick sex also (however, once you have dated her and she gives it up, she's quite willing to go at it often and regularly).

[QUOTE=Sammon;2494892]Chatting with many girls who are desperate at the moment. No job, no prospects to find one in the near future. No freedom to run around and hardly any sugar daddie visitors to make money.[/QUOTE]Concur again. Much talk lately about bar girls turning to selling pics and cam shows to make money. Will not argue that is not happening. However many girls would never consider such, as its too easy to be outted into their community. It also requires a physical space (not to mention a fast-enough internet connection for streaming, which can be spotty in Phils) to sell the cam show from, and brgy girls here just haven't turned to this. OTOH they are actively looking for foreigners living here to spend time with.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2494902]Concur. While foreigner ladies who move to the US retain much of their culture (food, language preferences, etc), they quickly Westernize. Usually big age difference is a no-no, and quick sex also (however, once you have dated her and she gives it up, she's quite willing to go at it often and regularly).

Concur again. Much talk lately about bar girls turning to selling pics and cam shows to make money. Will not argue that is not happening. However many girls would never consider such, as its too easy to be outted into their community. It also requires a physical space (not to mention a fast-enough internet connection for streaming, which can be spotty in Phils) to sell the cam show from, and brgy girls here just haven't turned to this. OTOH they are actively looking for foreigners living here to spend time with.[/QUOTE]Yes, you raise a good point. After the young Filipina enters RWML with an old white codger, she will quickly get rid of him after her PR chop is safely in her Pilipinas passport. In Australia, I think the waiting period is around two years before the Department of Immigration will be convinced it is not just a common law relationship of convenience. There is a well-worn path which all Filipinas follow. Hahaha. Bye-bye old man, come on down young stud. Hahaha.

White jocks in their 20's become completely smitten with these nubile young LBFMs. I have personally seen the overt, even over the top displays of public affection from the LBFM towards the young white jock. Normal Australian white girls or Australian Chinese girls just don't display that much affection when out and about on the street with their boyfriends. It's as if the Filipina is telling the whole world what a great catch she has now! You can tell it's completely contrived, but poor white jock is clueless. All he can think about is the sloppy blow job he got to fix his morning wood.

Free from judgmental family and friends, the young Filipinas here in my country also wear overtly sexy clothing all the time. It is often inappropriate for the time, place and season. I mentioned in a previous report where an LBFM came to my house to buy furniture I had advertised on eBay. She was dressed in the tiniest of tiny gym shorts, with a perfectly formed camel toe! She definitely was not wearing a thong underneath. To say she was distracting is an understatement.

Need some advice here please kind gents. Why would a PL girl have Skype only, but not WhatsApp or Viber? Is it a case that their phones can't support any more apps? Also, why would a girl have Viber, but not WhatsApp? Don't they both use the same fkn number like in RWML? Once again, is it a lack of phone storage?

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497230]Need some advice here please kind gents. Why would a PL girl have Skype only, but not WhatsApp or Viber? Is it a case that their phones can't support any more apps? Also, why would a girl have Viber, but not WhatsApp? Don't they both use the same fkn number like in RWML? Once again, is it a lack of phone storage?[/QUOTE]The girl might not have a CP and uses Skype at the local internet shop.

Some have the old simple keypad CP which is 2 g and doesn't support any apps or data.

Viber is more common use in PH than WhatsApp.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497230]Need some advice here please kind gents. Why would a PL girl have Skype only, but not WhatsApp or Viber? Is it a case that their phones can't support any more apps? Also, why would a girl have Viber, but not WhatsApp? Don't they both use the same fkn number like in RWML? Once again, is it a lack of phone storage?[/QUOTE]Skype is good for not giving out a phone number. I think it may be pretty heavy usage for them. I often give out a dud skype ID I use much like a spam filter. Giving out a phone number can be hell unless you block and repeat.

Looking at some tech sites, Viber seems to beat wattspap. But I use wattsapp every say and have not used viber in well over a year.

The love of your life may well have things compartmentalised for her own good reasons.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497230]Need some advice here please kind gents. Why would a PL girl have Skype only, but not WhatsApp or Viber? Is it a case that their phones can't support any more apps? Also, why would a girl have Viber, but not WhatsApp? Don't they both use the same fkn number like in RWML? Once again, is it a lack of phone storage?[/QUOTE]1/ her phone plan gives cheap or even free access to a particular app. Common with FB Messenger.

2/ she's more familiar with one app and can't be bothered to learn another. Maybe all her friends use that app too.

3/ she's new at the game, has only one number and keeps one app for dirty old men and another for her social circle. She knows whether to answer or not just by seeing what app is calling or messaging.

4/ more maliciously, skype is easier for 3rd party oversights, video and speaker to be different etc.

My experience is different to DG. I'd put WhatsApp as the most popular for the girls we are chasing. I don't even worry about trying to find girls on other apps. I never seem to be able to find the correct Mary in Cebu from 1000 choices on FB. Give me a unique identifier or don't bother.

Enjoy. G.

I forgot to mention that giving out a WhatsApp contact means giving an actual phone number. Once I have that in my contacts, my phone automatically searches for a live Viber account on the same number and may also recommend her as a FB Friend.

This may be more online status, profile pics, location and personal info than the girl wants to give out straight away.

Cheers. G.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2497351]The girl might not have a CP and uses Skype at the local internet shop.

Some have the old simple keypad CP which is 2 g and doesn't support any apps or data.

Viber is more common use in PH than WhatsApp.[/QUOTE]Thanks DG, Gofer and Pedro. Much appreciated. The use of Skype only for malicious purposes makes a lot of sense.

Here I am thinking that every hot LBFM on PL has the latest iPhone 12 Pro 512GB with three fkn cameras on the back, bought for her by Bob, her fat American admirer. I keep telling them to send their WhatsApp and Viber and they keep saying, "ED Sir, only have Skype". WTF?

I knew the ugly ones still use those old Nokia 2 G bricks.

After a long hiatus, I decided to go on PL to see what the situation is. I know it's totally pointless collecting contacts now with no possible opening date, but I bought the 1-month subscription for $32 south sea pesos and gave it a whirl. Here is my review.

I will preface this by saying that the main objective for mongers using dating sites is really just to get the girls' phone numbers. This is so that when you get to Flipsville, you can call them up, meet them at your hotel and then fuck them for 2,000 peso overnight. It should not be treated as anything more than that. Try and avoid incessant chatter which lasts more than a day or two and building up their expectations unnecessarily. It is cruel. They will very quickly profess their love for you and it will drain you emotionally. Most of the girls on PL will fuck you if you are respectful and treat them nicely. You don't need to ask. It's just understood that if she agrees to come to your hotel (most will) then sex is on the menu. She's certainly not going to your room to pray. I'm not sure how many lonely white men actually meet their future wives on PL, but it would be a miniscule percentage.

Now for the review.

1. Overall the app is less clunky than before. Maybe the Thai owners of the site decided to spend some money in development to make it easier to use. There's plenty of Indian IT boys wandering around BKK without much to do. Might as well put them to work. There is a quick yes / no button like Tinder now to rapidly screen through 500 LBFMs in 10 minutes.

2. Before, you needed to search by province in the pull-down menu. So if you didn't know that Angeles City was in Pampagna, or Subic was in Zambales, you were totally fucked. Now you need to type in the area you want to search. In any case, you need to have the atlas open in front of you. For the convenience of first time users, they automatically point you to Manila or Cebu where most of the action is. Fail proof.

3. Most of the girls, like 80%, are hideous looking creatures, just like before. Farrk, I've never seen a bunch of uglier looking people in one place in my life. I'm being generous if I say that most girls are in the 2 or 3 range. With beer goggles, they might be a 4. By anyone's standards, you would not want to be seen with them, let alone rip their panties off.

4. There are a lot fewer girls now on PL than 12 months ago – maybe 30-40% less. Many have hocked their phones to ward off starvation, can't afford the load without an income stream or there is no internet back at the banana plantation.

5. Some of the hotter girls were advertising "Pinoy Only". They are pragmatic that foreigners are not going to turn up anytime soon. Might as well target rich locals than waste effort with a fat white kuntt who is a time waster.

6. Hot looking girls, in the 7-9 range, were proactively approaching me. Never happened before. I used the same profile photo.

7. I never ask them for nude photos. I'm not really interested. They absolutely hate being asked for nudes, so if you want to get their numbers, resist the urge to ask for nekkid shots. I can download a million images of naked, hot LBFMs on the internet for free, so I don't really need a nude photo of an ugly chick to jerk off to.

8. In the text, I wrote that I was "God Fearing". Girls love that. I also added the words "Let's build our empire together", after noting that three separate girls I knew always talked about building an empire. I think they watch too much Korean TV. Hahaha. They love that sort of shit.

9. I looked around the Pampagna region and noticed that the same old, tired looking hookers were still there from last year. Most of the girls from AC who advertise on PL are hard core hookers. Best to avoid.

10. Cebu seemed to have the largest number of doable chicks. All seemed friendly and up for it.

Now what could possibly go wrong you ask? Well everything. Just grabbing 100 WhatsApp or Viber numbers off LBFMs before landing in Flipsville guarantees you jackshit. A million things go can wrong:

1. She's lost her phone, hocked her phone, has no load or has changed her number before you arrive. Goodbye.

2. She gets cold feet and doesn't want to meet (quite common in the provinces). Goodbye.

3. She wants to meet you in the company of a chaperone (usually her fat, ugly cousin). Goodbye.

4. She's on her period. Goodbye.

5. She arrives and looks nothing like her photos. Too bad, just take one for the team.

6. She arrives and is a nervous wreck. Just awestruck and is totally overwhelmed. Goodbye.

7. She agrees, but arrives 4 hours late. Goodbye.

I reckon you've got a 25% chance of converting after you actually get her number, hence the need for 100 prospects.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497445]After a long hiatus, I decided to go on PL to see what the situation is.

2. Before, you needed to search by province in the pull-down menu.

3. Most of the girls, like 80%, are hideous looking creatures, just like before. Farrk, I've never seen a bunch of uglier looking people in one place in my life.

4. There are a lot fewer girls now on PL than 12 months ago maybe 30-40% less.

6. Hot looking girls, in the 7-9 range, were proactively approaching me. Never happened before. I used the same profile photo.

7. I never ask them for nude photos.

8. In the text, I wrote that I was "God Fearing".

10. Cebu seemed to have the largest number of doable chicks. All seemed friendly and up for it.

Now what could possibly go wrong you ask?

I reckon you've got a 25% chance of converting after you actually get her number, hence the need for 100 prospects.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I haven't been on PL for ages, using Cupid now. Did you try the app or the website? There are app, desktop web and mobile web versions. All have different screens and features.

PL's search facilities always sucked. You couldn't search for many cities eg Dumaguette and Cebu would bring up girls anywhere in the very large province.

Cupid has a Most Popular section. Most are hotties but get '000's of messages per day, may or may not see your message and often are straight up scammers.

Cupid must have robbed market share. They are seeing easily an extra 20% online.

I'd agree that hotties are now dropping their standards enough to even make contact with me too. Must be desperate times. 😁.

No need to ask for nudes. Those that don't will be turned off and those that do will quickly offer. Often sending unsolicited samples.

I've never been a fan of lying to get results. I don't see it being necessary nor delivering results. Having said that playing the game can pay dividends: of course I'm the only foreigner she is talking to.

Cebu always has been the online mongering capital of the Philippines. If you can't score there, join a monastery.

Waaaay less than 25%. Last trip I did pre work, arriving with 100 numbers across various cities. How many of them paid results? None. All my scores were with 2 to 36 hours notice once I was in country.

Of course that doesn't stop me wasting countless hours now that I'm in a covid inspired separation. Its titillating for now and maybe, just maybe, I'll get a hookup out of it when ever the flights do actually open up.

Cheers G.

I rate slimness above beauty, so when a slim girl with a pretty face popped up in the Leyte search, I was immediately on the case. Below is the transcript. Gents, do you think she would have dropped her Victoria's Secret thong panties on the first date? Hahaha. The first date would have been at some evangelical church payer meeting. Serves me right for using "God Fearing" as my vision statement on my profile. Hahahaha. Anyhow, that girl would have been wearing impenetrable, high waisted, grandma knickers. Yikes. No real loss.

I do have about 40 new contacts and it's just Day 2, but I won't be renewing my PL subscription after the first month. Tinder and WeChat are heaps better when on the ground and there is no tedious preparation required. Newbies should save their money.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497704]Serves me right for using "God Fearing" as my vision statement on my profile. Hahahaha.[/QUOTE]"I only want to meet a God Fearing Woman". I have sent a few of them to heaven (briefly).

Dating site conquest. Well, not really a conquest. After some chat in the dating site a week before Manila arrival, she was just another phone number. Upon arrival and phone txt contact we set a date to meet one evening and ended up at a resto / bar for live band in Malate. Nice gal. You never know how these meetings will go or end up. Will she look like the photos? Did she cam? Will she bring an unannounced chaperone? Will she go home alone or with you? Will she want money or not? And so on. Opinion: Don't schedule these first dates when horny. Schedule them for a time when you are not. Best to meet the girl and feel her out first. Be willing to walk away and not be unhappy if she's not into you, you can always get a bar girl if this one does not pan out.

The live band was light that night, a guy playing a guitar and a girl singing love songs. After foods and some grog, my date leaned into me ever so slightly, her left arm nudged against my right arm for a while, while she sang the songs also. An hour in, I paid the tab and offered to giver her fare home. "No. I'm with you tonight. I'm not go home". Oh, I see. I'm done for the evening sweetie, you want to head back to the condo with me? "Yes up to you". And with that we were off. I explained at the condo that I wasn't horny and asked if she was ok to that. "Yes its ok to me". Great. We had some nice pillow talk and drifted off to sleep. In the morning we burned the sheets having adult fun. She stepped out of the shower about 8 am and said she needed to get home. I dropped some spending money in her purse while she used the hair dryer and off she went.

She became a 3 year regular. She'd come on a Monday evening, Wednesday afternoon, and maybe Saturday night; a day or so between visits, 2 or 3 times a week. Her occasional orgasm was earth-shattering, drenched bedsheets. Never mentioned money, we had no Internet contact when I was out of country, and she rarely mentioned family (odd for pinay). She became more adventurous over time, and she never asked if I had other girls.

And then it happened. I landed in Manila and contacted her. "Sorry Westie I not see you anymore. My partner find out of you". Wait. Wait. You have partner? "Yes I have now". But not before? "No I have before. My partner for long time". Ahem, we met on a dating site. "Yes I'm angry him that time. We together now". I see. Were you angry with him for 3 years? "Westy!" Haha ok, ok. Wishing you well then.

BTW, her dating site profile said: "I want to meet at God feering man". Spelled just like that. Can't tell you how many of our religious moments contained the words "Oh my God"! And "Gawwwd"! Looks like she found just the guy.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2498002]"No. I'm with you tonight. I'm not go home". "Yes up to you". "Yes its ok to me".
[/QUOTE]No one can quite do Filipino English like you Westie. Entertaining report!

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2497704]I rate slimness above beauty, so when a slim girl with a pretty face popped up in the Leyte search, I was immediately on the case. Below is the transcript. Gents, do you think she would have dropped her Victoria's Secret thong panties on the first date? Hahaha. The first date would have been at some evangelical church payer meeting. Serves me right for using "God Fearing" as my vision statement on my profile. Hahahaha. Anyhow, that girl would have been wearing impenetrable, high waisted, grandma knickers. Yikes. No real loss.

I do have about 40 new contacts and it's just Day 2, but I won't be renewing my PL subscription after the first month. Tinder and WeChat are heaps better when on the ground and there is no tedious preparation required. Newbies should save their money.[/QUOTE]I would go for it anyway. My first trip to Phil, I had one play the religion card. I let her stay the first night because it was late. I thought it was going to be a waste of the night. She woke me up in the middle of the night blowing me, then it was off to the races for a couple more days.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2498232]No one can quite do Filipino English like you Westie. Entertaining report![/QUOTE]Its not: Only four inches. Its: "Four inches only". Well, that's what my girl said to me this morning.

If she says: "I will bok to dare", she means she will go back there.

The building you are looking for is not: Next to the Jolliebee. It is "Near in a Jollie".

You don't: Need some money, or need money. You: "Need a money".

You are not: Eating shrimp. You are: "Having a shrimps". You are not: Buying some food. You are: "Buying a foods".

The typhoon is not bad because of heavy wind speeds you saw on the news. It is bad because: "Mama say bad dare dit TY-poon". We are not experiencing a heavy storm or typhoon. We are: "Having a TY-poon".

You are not waiting inanely and indefinitely. You are waiting "For a while, sir". If you hear these words, stop, walk away from that place, and go back to some other aspect of your life. You can thank me later.

You are not asking for two cans of Coke or Pepsi. You say: "I want a two Coke".

You don't have twenty-five pesos. You have: "Vain-chinco" or "Bayntee singko" (from the Spanish veinticinco, I think).

You don't need to: Fix your problem. You need to: "Pix dis problem mine".

Your phone is not vibrating. "My phone its bi-vrate".

My problem is that sometimes I slip and say something like that around a Brit or Canadian here. Sorry gents: "Sometimes I'm talking a pee-noy. Problema ikaw, wala ako".