Todo but your game is Nuno. Umero
[QUOTE=Tavares;2644425]Please LatinaLover#1 tell us down-to-earth mongers what your tricks are, what do those upper class girls see in you: are you athletic, good looking, young, rich, smart, open minded, well endowed? Do you make them laugh? Do you speak perfect spanish or portuguese? Do you dance salsa well? I thought those girls would rather have a local guy with all those gifts to go out with...[/QUOTE]All of those things help of course. I'm Not young. Anymore jaja, Self employed so I could travel at will. If I'm somewhere with music I can dance Meringue, Cumbia and Salsa, tried Salsa in Cali but forget it, the Salsa was too fast for me in Cali. Passable Espanole Some Portuguese, it gets better the longer my trip to Brazil gets. I once worked with a guy a great salesman. He was short, fat, pocked marked face but I would be amazed at the hot women he could move out. He would do it over and over. When he finally got married it was to a very hot, younger woman. I asked him how he did it and he said.
" just give me 10 minutes to talk away my face".
You either got game or you don't. Looks get you so far. I've been with beautiful women that after 5 minutes I couldn't get away fast enough. The same for a woman, they have to WANT to be around you, it's no bag of tricks, it's not all about the money, it may be the initial attraction women have to notice you but you have to be able to converse about what ever comes up. Canned raps get old fast. The problem for some guys when traveling is if your an gringo asshole in the states, your still an asshole in Latin America the only difference is your an asshole gringo with money. Open you mouth when you see a woman you like, I once dated a girl who worked in El Dorado, she was asking me the usual questions, did you pack your bag, was your bag with you the entire time bla bla bla. I started flirting and playing around with her, got her number and met up with her the next month when I returned to Bogota. Obtainable women are everywhere in Bogota, waitress, working in th hotel, waiting for a bus, ask for help in Carulla. I once dated a hot woman, 30 ish selling bikinis on the beach in Copa. So there are a million stories in the naked city you just need to get out there and make it happen.
Best salsa clubs in Bogota? Also and Jazz jams?
[QUOTE=LatinaLover#1;2644566]All of those things help of course. I'm Not young. Anymore jaja, Self employed so I could travel at will. If I'm somewhere with music I can dance Meringue, Cumbia and Salsa, tried Salsa in Cali but forget it, the Salsa was too fast for me in Cali. Passable Espanole Some Portuguese, it gets better the longer my trip to Brazil gets. I once worked with a guy a great salesman. He was short, fat, pocked marked face but I would be amazed at the hot women he could move out. He would do it over and over. When he finally got married it was to a very hot, younger woman. I asked him how he did it and he said.
" just give me 10 minutes to talk away my face".
You either got game or you don't. Looks get you so far. I've been with beautiful women that after 5 minutes I couldn't get away fast enough. The same for a woman, they have to WANT to be around you, it's no bag of tricks, it's not all about the money, it may be the initial attraction women have to notice you but you have to be able to converse about what ever comes up. Canned raps get old fast. The problem for some guys when traveling is if your an gringo asshole in the states, your still an asshole in Latin America the only difference is your an asshole gringo with money. Open you mouth when you see a woman you like, I once dated a girl who worked in El Dorado, she was asking me the usual questions, did you pack your bag, was your bag with you the entire time bla bla bla. I started flirting and playing around with her, got her number and met up with her the next month when I returned to Bogota. Obtainable women are everywhere in Bogota, waitress, working in th hotel, waiting for a bus, ask for help in Carulla. I once dated a hot woman, 30 ish selling bikinis on the beach in Copa. So there are a million stories in the naked city you just need to get out there and make it happen.[/QUOTE]Can you provide some info? Thanks!
Pro non pro trophy wife whatever
[QUOTE=Igor54;2644576]How long does it take for you to get a girl? Your timescale. In my experience, a normal woman does not spread her legs on the first date just because she want to make an impression that she is not a working girl. If someone travel somewhere to have a sex, they don't have time to play love games, the only option is to buy sex. If someone good to pick up girls they don't need to travel anywhere, there are many quality girls in your city, if they are getting wet when they see you, why to bother? Do you have anything to say?[/QUOTE]Most, the first date if you use the right approach, Sometimes the second if I really like the woman, I'll wait. It's always about the money. I usually let it known during the initial conversation that I know life in Bogota is very difficult for a single woman / mother and they can use some help now and then. I also let it be known during conversation that I can't have anymore kids because I have a vasectomy, that usually relaxes them when it comes time for bare back if I want. A vast majority of woman are attracted to the Alpha male with the where-with-all to take care of them. An analogy: There was a beautiful white woman, blonde in my upscale neighborhood, from a good family. We had a trash company that would pick up our trash twice a week. One of the workers was a well built black dude, good guy always happy. BUT she met and married Charles Barkley of the 76 ers, A big ugly fuck jaja. The trash guy could never turn a hair on her head. Now you tell me why did she marry him and showed no interest at all in the other guy. It's about the money and can you give me a good life / a few days of being a Princesa.
I met a beautiful girl in CR years ago in the late 90's She was gorgeous, a dead ringer for Penelope Cruz. I met her in the Del Rey of all places. She stayed with me for a few days, we went to the beach Tango Mar, we had a blast. One night after dinner while we were finishing our bottle of wine, I asked her, why a beautiful woman, who spoke English and seemed to have it all, Why is she a prostitute? She looked me straight in the eye and said, "I'm not a prostitute, I go with the man for company. " I learned a lesson that day. It's always about the money but they are all not prostitutes.
Listening, Very important
[QUOTE=Paulie97;2644568]The guys I've seen over the years that scored a lot of women were much better listeners than talkers. Listening was the key, and yes looks seemed to be less important.[/QUOTE]The initial conversation in sales is called qualifying. In this hobby it should be used more to get to know the woman. Does she have kids, what are their names. Bla bla bla It amazes me how they begin to open up, and if you show genuine interest and empathy for their plight in life. You get on a whole different level and you will never have better sex. Of course this type of mongering is not for everyone. I had a wing man who could care less, didn't want to know names, no chit chat. He wanted to fuck as many as he could and as he would say, "I pay them to leave!" I was in that state of mind early in my mongering days, Finding a garota on hooker beach in the afternoon, then going to a terma for round 2 catch a nap and finally scoping out TA and Help for the night cap. LOL was a lot of fun but my focus nowadays is for one quality session with a special woman. You got to do what you got to do. What ever floats your boat.
