Relationships with sex workers in general
I realize there are exceptions to every concept but I think people wanting a relationship with a sex worker should think hard about what they are expecting.
First consider what you actually want from the sex worker. I am not talking about listing a bunch of things to the public to be viewed on by the public and public judgment. Sit down and make a private list to yourself about what you expect. What is mandatory and what is something you can be flexible about.
Then make a list of what you are willing to offer. What is your limitations.
Ok start there.
Now consider this. Any sex worker relationship will probably start with the exchange of money. This means it is a business relationship. Now unless the girl is rich and doing this for fun she will always be needing money and will always look at you as a source of revenue. There are implications to this and what it means and it can vary from relationship to relationship. Now compare the concepts of this business relationship with the above list of expectations.
I have had a lot of fun short term relationships with sex workers. The problems have always come when I expected it to be something more than a short term relationship. Now all these have been USA sex workers. While Zona girls are definitely different in some ways they also need money and will also always see the guy as a source of revenue.
While I would like to add more of my knowledge like I said early my experience is with USA sex workers. There is definitely something different about Zona girls. I started the process of long distance relationships with some of the girls but nothing has gotten too much further than repeat customers with good service. If I lived in San Diego maybe I would have more data to add. Not sure if that matters because I can tell you in the USA Sex Worker concept having job is a obstacle to having a personal relationship with a USA sex worker. It helps further the business relationship though.
My current opinion in general on personal medium or long term relationships with girls under 30 is very difficult no matter what they do. Add in sex worker and the guy is a source of revenue and it becomes more complicated. There are actually girls in HK who I follow on facebook and I can tell you they know they are difficult to their relationship partners LOL.
Relationships with sex workers in general
Hadez is right. Not only with putas but with everyone, men or women, relationships require consistent exchanges of equal values. Once either party starts feeling he / she has been unfairly taken advantage of, and high expectations not met, things will turn ugly. Some successful people have found their lives easier, more satisfying and more fun if managed as strings of fair, honest and equitable transactions.
So what do putas want?
They are not all the same, but most want money first and foremost, a lot of it, as much as they can pry out of the guys. Latinas start their sex lives early. By the time they start working in bars, they would already have relationships with many guys, got used, abused, controlled, saddled with babies, discarded hardened. They make more than enough money in the bar to survive and support their families. They are self sufficient and get mad at guys who try to get free or cheap sex and long-term commitments from them. They would play their games to drain the guys of all their money and feelings then discard them like trash to pay back for all the abuses they had to go through in their lives with previous lovers.
They are narcissistic, like to hang out have fun with their putas friends, party with guys every night, being worshipped and lusted after, drinking, going out to fancy dinners, shopping, entertainment, hot sex with new guys couple times a night, being in control of relationships. It's hard to beat this fun and sexy party life style staying home with the old man. Hot girls have lots of temptation. Taking them exclusive can be expensive and difficult, easier with older, less attractive ones.
Given the corrupt, abusive and violent environment the girls grow up with in Mexico, it would be very difficult for them to trust and have stable, happy, loyal long term relationships with guys. But as far as bar girls go, Mexican girls are still more straight, fair and reasonable with guys compared to bar girls in other countries, kike the US, where bar girls are far more greedy, manipulative, shameless and ruthless.
But may be some guys can still find girls compatible with their life styles and are willing to spend time, money, efforts to manage happy LTRs. A few of my wingmen have gotten sort of open LTRs with HK girls, BB GFEs every time, TLNs, sometimes without money, but the girls are not top-tiered, still working in the bar, screwing guys every night. Don't know how many guys they have LTRs with. It makes little sense for these guys, who speak no Spanish, communicate only by grunts and gestures, to spend big money to stay all night in the cramped hotel room with one girl, popping once or twice, when they can flirt with, have fun, get hard ONS and potentially pop a few more girls among the 100 hot ones in the club. But some guys just love the pride of ownership hehe.
Short term, medium term, long term relationships all have their different advantages and costs. Let us know what, how much and with whom you can get your sexy funs.
I realize there are exceptions to every concept but I think people wanting a relationship with a sex worker should think hard about what they are expecting.
First consider what you actually want from the sex worker. I am not talking about listing a bunch of things to the public to be viewed on by the public and public judgment. Sit down and make a private list to yourself about what you expect. What is mandatory and what is something you can be flexible about.
Then make a list of what you are willing to offer. What is your limitations.
OK start there.
Now consider this. Any sex worker relationship will probably start with the exchange of money. This means it is a business relationship. Now unless the girl is rich and doing this for fun she will always be needing money and will always look at you as a source of revenue. There are implications to this and what it means and it can vary from relationship to relationship. Now compare the concepts of this business relationship with the above list of expectations.
I have had a lot of fun short term relationships with sex workers. The problems have always come when I expected it to be something more than a short term relationship. Now all these have been USA sex workers. While Zona girls are definitely different in some ways they also need money and will also always see the guy as a source of revenue.
While I would like to add more of my knowledge like I said early my experience is with USA sex workers. There is definitely something different about Zona girls. I started the process of long distance relationships with some of the girls but nothing has gotten too much further than repeat customers with good service. If I lived in San Diego maybe I would have more data to add. Not sure if that matters because I can tell you in the USA Sex Worker concept having job is a obstacle to having a personal relationship with a USA sex worker. It helps further the business relationship though.
My current opinion in general on personal medium or long term relationships with girls under 30 is very difficult no matter what they do. Add in sex worker and the guy is a source of revenue and it becomes more complicated. There are actually girls in HK who I follow on facebook and I can tell you they know they are difficult to their relationship partners LOL.
