Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2533881]I take your point. Middle class and upper middle class Filipinos / Filipinas got there through nepotism, political connections, bribery, corruption, tax evasion and other unethical business practices. They are too busy screwing over their own countrymen that they don't have time to be chasing down retired, fat, bald, septuagenarian white mongers. Haha. Class and social status are very important to Filipinas from the posh gated communities in Manila and Cebu and they would not be seen dead with a retired limo driver from the USA. People like Arthur from the video and the majority of mongers on this board will need to be content with chasing barely literate, bird brained nincompoops from the slums.[/QUOTE]I've seen women on some of those sites send me emails asking not to share any pictures that they have sent me because there are other women on them that get jealous and see who is online and try to undercut their friends by asking you to give to them. Seems to me that they learn early on, it's better to screw your own kababayan over first just to make sure that they don't get too far ahead of you, and as you stated that line of thinking not only rests with the poorer folks but also those in the middle class. Probably more so since it's in their best interests to have a lower class below them. No one wants to be last in places like the PI, and honestly you really can't fault some of the working girls for trying.

Unsolicited msg in pinalove.

[QUOTE=Member#1088;2540662]Unsolicited msg in pinalove.[/QUOTE]Now she (he) sents pics.

I have made a new chatmate friend, 35, attractive, single, no kids living with her Auntie and working in Japan in a club now closed. These are all the things she has declared.

We hit it off a little she is much smarter than a typical pinay (not a high bar but).

No fun stuff just chatting so far.

OF course I initially assumed she was a working girl, fine for me at least we share a sex addiction, but of course she is not.

After a few days of chatting she is off to Dubai. Her Auntie paid for the trip because she is her favorite niece. I am like who the fuck goes to Dubai? I ask her why she is going and of course the answer is just for a holiday.

Anyways Prostitute YES or NO?

I bow to your greater knowledge.

PP.

[QUOTE=PilotPete;2533848]Well said, Sir. I would welcome your advice.

As an avid hater of winter I am planning my future winter getaways. So far I have had to bring my own companion on my short trips close to home such as DR and Mexico. I'm wanting to plan a 3 to 5 month long trip to PI for next winter. I'm hoping to find an affectionate Pina for those months without drama. I'm interested in 40+ with good English skills. I don't have the libido I once did and consider that a blessing but I'm not looking for platonic either. Ideally a live-in at a reasonably upscale place to act as guide, cook, fun companion, and affectionate lover. And then say goodbye at the end of March when I return home. Perhaps to return the following year. I'm using SA successfully in the US when I travel.[/QUOTE]You can easily find this and there are many 40+ that will fit your pistol. It is true that many decline rapidly they look 25 to the age of 40 then 55 at 41. But not all are village girls with 9 kids. Lots of decent 40 plus ladies who you would likely enjoy.

Make it worth their while a little with a cash contribution at the end and you will be a happy camper.

PP.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541113]I have made a new chatmate friend, 35, attractive, single, no kids living with her Auntie and working in Japan in a club now closed. These are all the things she has declared.

Anyways Prostitute YES or NO?

I bow to your greater knowledge.

PP.[/QUOTE]Trust me to be a cynic but if you have to ask the question then you know the answer.

I'm guessing Auntie is 5'2" both tall and round, has full body tattos and is missing a couple of fingers. "Niece" has been labelled past her prime and is being shipped from a country where youth is in demand to an older, established market.

I don't know too many people travelling to Dubai for a holiday in the middle of a pandemic. Is it even open to tourism?

Not that this should stop you. If I'm wrong then she's a good catch. If I'm right, hookers make good GFs for those with their eyes open.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2541151]Trust me to be a cynic but if you have to ask the question then you know the answer.

I'm guessing Auntie is 5'2" both tall and round, has full body tattos and is missing a couple of fingers. "Niece" has been labelled past her prime and is being shipped from a country where youth is in demand to an older, established market.

I don't know too many people travelling to Dubai for a holiday in the middle of a pandemic. Is it even open to tourism?

Not that this should stop you. If I'm wrong then she's a good catch. If I'm right, hookers make good GFs for those with their eyes open.

Enjoy. G.[/QUOTE]This Board is full of all the bad stories about taking the girl out of the bar. But most of us here, if we are looking long term, DO need a prostitute if we are to be honest with ourselves and are planning at least to have a relationship without cheating. Which frankly are my "dreams".

That is my goal no cheating but also not monogamous aka an open relationship.

So with a good prenup in hand, a good gyno exam and a mature open attitude about fucking others (though I simply can't stand lying) it is possible. Lord knows there are a few miles on my stub!

But for now I will just smile and sift through the lies. I do wonder though why would one admit to going to Dubai? It is one thing to see the lie but better is to wonder why?

Thoughts all?

PP.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541113]After a few days of chatting she is off to Dubai. Her Auntie paid for the trip because she is her favorite niece. I am like who the fuck goes to Dubai? I ask her why she is going and of course the answer is just for a holiday.

Anyways Prostitute YES or NO?[/QUOTE]Why does it have to be a hooker? Probably just a liar. You assume they are telling the truth about going to Dubai, but maybe not telling the truth about not being a hooker?

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541113]I have made a new chatmate friend, 35, attractive, single, no kids living with her Auntie and working in Japan in a club now closed. These are all the things she has declared.

We hit it off a little she is much smarter than a typical pinay (not a high bar but).

No fun stuff just chatting so far.

OF course I initially assumed she was a working girl, fine for me at least we share a sex addiction, but of course she is not.

After a few days of chatting she is off to Dubai. Her Auntie paid for the trip because she is her favorite niece. I am like who the fuck goes to Dubai? I ask her why she is going and of course the answer is just for a holiday.

Anyways Prostitute YES or NO?

I bow to your greater knowledge.

PP.[/QUOTE]Philippine mindset is different. You tell them you are planning to take them to America. They tell all their contacts that they are going to America. It is a given thing or hope.

I have had some girls tell me over the years about their boyfriends in Europe, America, Australia and they told me they are going there soon. Those I am still in touch are still in Philippines.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541159]This Board is full of all the bad stories about taking the girl out of the bar.

That is my goal no cheating but also not monogamous aka an open relationship.

So with a good prenup in hand, a good gyno exam and a mature open attitude about fucking others (though I simply can't stand lying) it is possible. Lord knows there are a few miles on my stub!

But for now I will just smile and sift through the lies. I do wonder though why would one admit to going to Dubai? It is one thing to see the lie but better is to wonder why?

Thoughts all?

PP.[/QUOTE]Point by point:

Nothing at all wrong with taking a girl out of the bar if you do it WITH YOUR EYES OPEN. All of my hooker relationships have been great. Of course, trying to turn Krystal the pole dancer into Helen the soccer mom is just plain stupid.

Who is "cheating" if you are together when you are both in town and doing your own thing when not? Again, Eyes Open and don't get judgmental.

Similarly, no one is lying if difficult questions don't get asked. If you are not going to like the answer then don't ask the question. Do you really need to know what she was doing every minute you were out of town? Do you want her asking these questions of you?

Forget the prenups and just go with the flow. It's unlikely to last forever but enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts. Surprisingly, my "breakups" were much cleaner than with civilians.

*News Flash* It's not the hookers that fuck up the relationship. They get to work and play so get the best of both worlds. It's OTHER GUYS. Other fuckwit customers who see the poor damsel enjoying herself and swoop in so "save" her by marrying her and taking her of to be a housewife in suburbia. How well do you think that works out? Hence, enjoy it while it lasts and when a White Knight arrives, move on to the next one. LOL.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2541210]*News Flash* It's not the hookers that fuck up the relationship. They get to work and play so get the best of both worlds. It's OTHER GUYS. Other fuckwit customers who see the poor damsel enjoying herself and swoop in so "save" her by marrying her and taking her of to be a housewife in suburbia. How well do you think that works out? Hence, enjoy it while it lasts and when a White Knight arrives, .[/QUOTE]Not too well in Atlanta.

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[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541113]I have made a new chatmate friend, 35, attractive, single, no kids living with her Auntie and working in Japan in a club now closed.

After a few days of chatting she is off to Dubai. Her Auntie paid for the trip because she is her favorite niece. I ask her why she is going and of course the answer is just for a holiday.

Prostitute YES or NO?[/QUOTE]1. Working in Japan in a club that is now closed.

2. "Auntie" is funding a trip to Dubai.

Answer: YES, but so what? Many WGs are wonderful people. This can be a tough time for both "aunties" and WGs. There is money to be made in Dubai.

WTF man. Why would anyone at our age allow our dick to make such major decisions? Its not like your 2nd /3rd /4th wife built your money they are simply a benefactor of it and are not entitled to significant compensation unless it is truly earned in a successful long term relationship which any will can address.

If you know Pinay it won't be the girls idea (the one you broke with) to take half your life savings it will be her mother her brother the ex, the auntie and they are powerless and useless against family pressure.

I may get married again one day but only once the larger brain has created a safe space that is documented and clearly communicated to the future next ex.

I may be a good judge of my partner but I have no interest in learning all about the rest of the family and they are remoras hanging around the mouth of the shark.

I am just ending a good relationship here with a Filipina who is literally being harassed by her family for her money.

PP.

[QUOTE=NiceGuy99;2541328]1. Working in Japan in a club that is now closed.
[/QUOTE]Can you expand upon this. Is it just covid induced travel restrictions or are there wider changes in attitudes to foreign workers?

I know several girls allegedly trying to get into Japan as "singers".

Thanks. G.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2541448]WTF man. Why would anyone at our age allow our dick to make such major decisions?

PP.[/QUOTE]Sorry. My bad. I didn't realise you were looking at a lifelong commitment. If that's the case then refer to my comment about trying to turn Krystal into Helen. There are always exceptions, and I wish you well, but you would be one of very few to make a success of it.

In all my cases, a prenup was not needed as the girl kicked me out when the White Night arrived Not the other way around. In one case, all my crap left in a shopping bag at hotel reception was a not so subtle hint that things were over. More than once they dropped around later to collect some trinket that they had "forgotten" and made a point of showing me what I was now missing out on. I never saw any threats or requests for compensation. They left me for a much more lucrative offer so why would they?

Again, all the best for what every path you choose.

G.