My first experience in NEP
While I've visited Soi Cowboy quite a few times during the last year I've never been in NEP. I decided tonight to give NEP a shot. I was there for about 1 ½ hour and I visited two bars.
Angel Witch. Plenty of shows almost continuously. Girls are cheerful but it seems they do not care a lot for the customers. Lady drinks at 145 and probably the fastest “time with the customer” I've seen in any bar in BKK. They have a drink, chat (kind of) for 5 minutes and then they disappear. I stayed there only for 15 minutes maximum.
Carousel. That was a most interesting experience. There are not many shows there but there is continuous dancing in two stages and some kind of shows (I show a lesbian and a SM one) but not something special. The girls though, although not among the prettiest in the market, are giving a lot to the customer and are hot. One very sweet beauty approached me and asked for a drink. I bought one for her (at 130) and she stayed for me for about 30 minutes, lap dancing, DFKing, and touching me everywhere. She asked me to take her out but I said that I was not planning this for tonight. In any case she quoted the ST price (2000, which I found very expensive) but she understood that there was no chance and she didn't insist. I didn't comment on the price since I had really no intention to take her out. After this she asked for another drink and she stayed with me until I left continuing the lap dancing, DFK etc. I had a hard one for most of the time she was with me. I really liked her but I was not on the mood to take a girl out tonight; I was just trying to manage my jet lag before going to bed (which actually didn't work out since I am still awake!). I tipped her and I registered her in my memory for a potential next visit. A pretty nice and “horny” 1 hour for 400 baht (excluding the tip) it's for me a very good deal.
Generally I was not disappointed by NEP and I might go there again. I've read so many negative reports about NEP in various sites and I was expecting a less interesting experience. I think NEP worths a visit.
Hot to mess up with 2 girls from the same bar: A behavior to be avoided
This story might sound not very relevant but given my jet lag tonight I decided to share it with you (hopping that sorry telling will make me sleep!).
I use to go quite often in a bar in Soi Cowboy. I started to go there about 1 year ago and I've taken out 3 girls. The first one I took out (twice) was not there in my next visits and another girl told me that she has gone back to her village. End of this story.
One night at the bar two girls approached me together (I will call them for now on Girl1 and Girl2). They asked me to buy them a drink and I did that. I was quite on the mood to take a girl out and while I was attracted by both of them I chose Girl1 (in principle I do not do trios). Actually, and for my taste, Girl2 is more attractive but I felt a much better chemistry with Girl1. We've had a very sexually intense night together and it was also a GFE with a good discussion on life and politics after the sex.
After a couple of weeks I visited again the bar looking for Girl1. I went there quite late and she has obviously been bar fined. Alas, the Girl2 appears in front of me. We have a couple of drinks and I decided for ST. Another nice GFE but not sexually so intense as with the Girl1. After the sex we chatted and at a certain point she tells me that Girl1 has asked her if I've been in the bar after the night we went together and she also asked me if it was OK to say to Girl1 that we've been together. I told her “Look, do not run and tell her that we've been together but if you are friends and you talk then it is up to you to tell her or not”.
After approximately two months I am back to the bar. Girl2 is not there and Girl1 is dancing the moment I enter the bar. When she show me she gave me a big smile and once she finished her dance she came and sat with me. A small talk, she says me a sad story about the past two months and we decide again to leave together. Again a very intense sex that drained me out completely and a nice talk after. No mention from her site about Girl2. But she has done something that I really didn't like it. When I gave her the money she counted them and she asked if this is the same amount I gave her last time. I said yes and she said “hmm, usually it is more”. I made no comment on this but I was pissed off.
Last part of the story. A couple of weeks ago I go again in the bar. The very moment I enter the bar and before even manage to identify who is who inside, Girl2 appears in front of me with a big smile and a hug. We sat together but she says to me that she has immediately to go dancing and that she will come latter. Once she leaves for the stage I have a look around and I see diagonally Girl1 staring at me with a sad look. OK, I was pissed off with her with the comment on the payment but the sad face made me to feel a bit “guilty” because I didn't see her (how stupid men can be some times!). At the same time some other girls were looking at her and I felt that she felt that she lost face (and we all now that this is not good for Thais). I smile to her and I invite her to my table. She comes, I explain to her that I really didn't see her when I entered the bar and I offer a drink. She starts hugging and kissing me and now the sad face is on Girl2. Girl1 says to me that Girl2 has told her that she loves me and that she felt very connected to me the night we went together. I did not reply to these comments and I just try to make a general discussion. When the dance finishes Girl2 comes down from the stage she gives my a Thai greeting without any smile and goes to the opposite side of the bar. It might sounds a bit stupid but I felt guilty again and I asked Girl1 if it is OK to invite Girl2 for a drink also. She tell me OK and such I did. Now the three of us have a drink, we chatted about 10 minutes for general things and then I decided to leave.
Now, the point is that I really like the bar and I want to go again but I don't want to get involved in this issue with the 2 girls (which of course I've partially caused). I've decided that the best is not to visit the bar for a couple of months (maybe more) but really I don't know what to do when I'll go there again in case that both girls are there. I do not want to continue with them but I want to be polite and not to “ignore” them.
Climax – Thursday at 1:50am
This is the second part of my three-part report from a loser night on Thursday. It was the night I arrived in BKK, so I was tired and jetlagged, but horny as hell. Here is the installment on how things went bad in Climax. Following that will be a report on my experience in Nana Liquid, which ended up with me grabbing a cutie. And this cutie turned out to be rather uninspiring and not worthy of the moment. And for those of you who sent me words of encouragment, let me tell you now that Friday night was the exact opposite to Thursday night - a SPECTACULAR success. Needless to say, that report will follow.
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As I started to walk out of Soi Cowboy towards Suk, I felt a drop or two of rain, and decided to grab a taxi. It got me there in 5 minutes for 40B – certainly worth it. I entered at around 1:50am, and the place was around 70% full. There were plenty of girls around, and plenty of guys too. I recognized some of the faces from my past trips, and that was a little discomforting. I walked through the crowd, feeling the eyes on my back, sensing the assessment that was going on. There must have been a dozen pretty girls in their early twenties that I could easily imagine myself with, but I wasn't really getting the vibe from any of them.
So I walked down the aisle past the DJ booth, looking carefully at each face as I passed it. There were three or four real screamers there, but I just wanted to scout for now. I stopped in that holding area on the far side of the club, got my drink from a waiter, and then made my way around the back. Again, plenty of girls were scoping me out( not that they found me attractive or anything, they were trying to figure out what my potential was), but I didn't really feel the vibe. I circled all the way around, and then climbed those stairs and perched myself in front of the DJ booth, from which I had a great vantage point.
A couple of girls started to make looksies with me, but nothing struck my fancy. And then, out of no where, came a poke in the shoulder. I turned around and standing before me was a smiling, sexy little thing. She was perhaps 5ft tall in totality, including her 3 inch heels. She had flowy, partially permed hair, and a cute-as-hell, pouty little face. She was curved just like a woman should be, but was the epitome of petite.
It took me a moment, but I recognized this little package (all 80 pounds of her) . I had been with her last January (or was it last August?). Her name is Lek, and she lives up to her name. I met her late one night, something like 4:30am at Climax, and we ended up having hours and hours of spectacular sex well into the mid-morning daylight. She had sex toys, she loved DATY, she enjoyed giving BBBJ, she liked to rub and kiss little Kumbu. In short, she was a dynamo in bed. But on our first night, I told her that I was not interested in having a GF, and she agreed. On our second night together, the same conversation ensued – and she agreed. But then she disregarded these conversations, and started treating our relationship with the expectation of monogamy, as well as the obligation to go out every night to dinner, with friends, etc. So she suckered me into a GF relationship despite agreeing to not being a GF. A little like that Seinfeld episode where this guy finds a dating loophole by intentionally losing a bet so Elaine will go out with him.
Anyway, I ended up ditching her in a rather uncool way. I told her I was leaving for Hong Kong for a few days (during which time I went to Pattaya, of course), and that I would call her when I returned. When I returned, I never called her. She called a couple of times and I never answered, and she eventually got the message. In retrospect, that was a rather juvenile and cruel way to handle things, and I do regret it, but there you have it.
So here she was now, standing before me, with a huge smile on her face that just screamed 'You muther fucker, I hope you have not been castrated yet because I want the pleasure of doing that.'
We talked for a few minutes. This was the most strained conversation you can imagine, and given that I was dead tired from 20 hours of flying, and I didn't respond as smoothly as I perhaps should have, but here is a sample of what I remember:
Angry Lek: So how've you been?
Kumbu: Umm, ok, I guess. You?
Angry Lek: Oh, you care? Well, I've been ok too. You've been here in Bangkok?
Kumbu: Umm...no, I just got back tonight.
Angry Lek: From where, Hong Kong?
Kumbu: Umm, no, actually, from – oh, ok, I deserved that.
Angry Lek: No, you deserve something else.
Kumbu: Mmm, umm...
But I managed to get away from her after a few minutes, and I dropped my drink on someone's table and got the hell out of there. In June, a similar thing happened to me in Climax too – an old flame saw me and gave me hell for being there without having called her. So I think I have farmed the fertile soils of Climax a little too much. Time to leave her fallow for a while.
