Safe BBBJ - risk - any advice/opinions ?
Some research for my BBBJ plans. Daily when I wake up, and one before bed. A normal and happy thing to blow in a girls mouth. Condoms for everything else. I've previously had a BBBJ in a lino on way to airport, girl and chauffer happily waving me goodbye, back to USA, sex prison.
This time, I'm going to stay a while, and get a few steady girls. It turns out the HIV in LOS is mostly type E that is a lot more infectious than the B type in the west. E type attacks the Langerhans cells on the penis, and many of the ladies with existing vaginal inflammation carry a higher loading to begin with. Statistics suggest 19% for freelancers and 4% for establishments, and a recent study published for 2004-2006 (why it was only published in 2010 is strange !) was 46% street workers and 4% brothels. These are merely guides, but certainly show that simply using a brothel is a five fold risk reduction, maybe they are better trained, maybe the brothel tests at least some of the time, who knows. Most allow take-out, or you can get the girl's phone number.
So, the plan is pay them to get tested at Bumrungrad Hospital (Sukhumvit Soi 3 or the Red Cross, 1871 Rama 4 Road Bangkok 10330) then BBBJ, especially if they have sweet little pussies. It is not foolproof, because there is a window of when it can be detected, but it is major risk reduction plan that should take only a couple of days. Rumor has it that the Red Cross is anonymous testing friendly and much cheaper than Bumrungrad Hospital.
A short Layover in Erotica Before Arrival at the Main Attraction
our story picks up on friday night, around 10:45pm - i had just left dollhouse (soi cowboy), and was wondering house of debauchery should be next on my list. in this report, i describe a spectacular night with a waitress from carousel. she was well worth every baht.
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[b]erotica bar (nep)[/b]
i walked out of doll house without looking back at the girl. my glasses misted up as i walked into the humid night, so i stood there for a moment waiting for them to clear up. as i did that, i decided to ditch soi cowboy and head over to nep. i took the bts, as it was only 10:45pm. i got to nep around 11pm, and decided i needed to avoid my regular hangouts, like mandarin and rainbow 4. so i went up the left-side stairs, and on up into erotica – a place i have never been to before. it wasn't all that bad, actually. it is a smallish bar, with three-tiered seating on the left as you enter, and two-tiered seating on the right. i sat at the top, looking down at the girls on stage. there were 8 girls on stage, none of which really caught my fancy. there were two stand-outs though. the first had these large, hanging breasts, which while not my thing in the slightest, were certainly worth a good ogling. they hung down to just above her navel, which was pretty amazing. they seemed very...meaty. the rest of her was rather nondescript. she had a plain face, looked like she was in her late twenties/early thirties, and her legs were nothing special.
the other stand out was a skinny girl with a very pretty face. she had a flat chest, slender legs, and a total tramp stamp on her back. actually, she had plenty of tattoos, which says a lot about a girl. her face was quite pretty,although i am convinced her nose was fake. anyway, i was not terribly interested, until she turned around and faced the other way. at this point i saw the width of her hips – they were absolutely stunning. her tiny waist sat atop a wide, wide set of hips, which just sent my motor into top gear. talk about evolutionary preferences – those were good, solid child-bearing hips. i closed my eyes and imagined my hands on those hips, sliding up and down that beautiful hour-glass figure. yummy.
then i woke up and realized that her hips were the only thing that really worked for me, and it was totally not worth my time/effort.
so i paid up and left. next stop: carousel.
[b]carousel (nep) [/b]
this place was packed. i mean, there were more customers in here than any bar i have seen in a long time. there were only five girls on stage, none of which were really to my liking. i assume it was because all the girls were with the dozens of customers on the floor. i ordered a gin/tonic and sat there for a good 30 minutes, just sipping slowly, and watching. several sexy shows came and went, and the same five girls kept getting up afterwards to stand on the revolving carousel. one girl had sexy legs and ass, but her face was so severe it nixed any ideas little kumbu might have been hatching.
[b]the hand [/b]
so i was getting ready to hit the road when something interesting happened. a waitress came along and stood in front of me, oblivious to me, looking in a different direction. she put her hand on the counter in front of me, just resting her arm there, leaning her weight against the counter a little, as she surveyed the room. and kumbu, being the freak that he is, fixates on the hand.
she had perfectly manicured finger nails – long, rounded, and sexy as hell. the nails themselves looked strong and healthy. her fingers were long and slender, far more so than most thai girls. the fingers were slightly curled, resting on the top of the counter. her skin was light colored, and so the skin under the nails was a ripe, rosy pink color. i was just totally entranced by the hand – i could not break my eye gaze away from it. perhaps it was the fatigue, or the alcohol, not sure, but i was beginning to imprint on her hand, like ducklings on the mother duck.
i couldn't see anything else of her, since she was looking the other direction (and so all i saw was her hair), and the counter was blocking my view of her entire body below the shoulders. so all i had was this one hand, gently placed in front of me in the most innocuous of manners.
i sat there for perhaps 60 seconds, shamelessly fixating on her hand, until she finally moved. and as she walked away, legs in plain view, my eyes stayed on that hand, as it swayed back and forth. i felt like a cat watching a swinging ball of yarn, my head bobbing left and right as the hand swung left and right. rather embarrassing, actually. she was still unaware of me, i'm sure of it. she was not just ignoring me, she was just oblivious to my existence. she wandered around a little bit in front of me, seemingly aimless for 30 seconds or so, and my eyes still stuck on the hand (even though her legs and ass were available for viewing). she eventually wandered a little further from me and sat down next to the stage.
bingo. in one fluid motion, she hopped onto the stool, turned around and crossed her legs. kumbu fell off his booth seat onto the floor below.
she did not notice, so i picked myself up and sat down again, eagerly awaiting the next installment of 'discover the beautiful waitress'. she was looking to her right (my left) at this group of large, athletic, affluent american guys. one guy in particular had caught her fancy, and she kept looking at the guy hopefully. he was perhaps 6'2”, athletic as hell, wearing a baseball cap, dressed casual-nice, clean-cut blond hair, mid-thirties, a full set of straight teeth, and not a blemish on him. i hated this guy.
so she looked at him, and he did not notice her because he was occupied talking with his four friends. i, meanwhile, was busy scoping out her body, as best i could. i had decided her legs were pretty damned fantastic. they were shapely, well toned, with great skin. we have already established the pedigree of her hands – what was left to be determined was in the mid-section. i could not quite tell. i looked at her face (funny, the order of my inspection is not quite typical, is it?). her face was, well, ok. she had nice lips, and her eyes were cool and stuff, but she had a jawline that was a little too pronounced. her hair was carefully draped over the sides of her face to hide this fact, but it was pretty obvious. but i wouldn't say she was ugly, just not a stunner (face wise).
but holy crap, the more i looked at her the more i was enamored with her body. so i looked away for a second, and when i looked back, she was looking right at me. her eyes were now wide, as if she had just seen me and was surprised by my existence there. i smiled back at her, and bada-bing, bada-boom, she's sitting next to me.
she is 27years old, broke up with bf 5 months ago, no baby. so we talked for a good 10 minutes and she never asked for a drink. the talk was easy and flirtatious, and there was no pressure on me – it was really cool. the first bit of pressure came in the following exchange:
girlie: you know i have little air.
kumbu: little air, you mean you can't breath? are you ok?
girlie: ...
kumbu: you ok?
girlie: i have little air...here (points to crotch)
kumbu: i'm glad to hear you don't produce air from down there – doh! i get it now!
so she was telling me that she had little pubic hair, and she wanted to know my opinion on the topic. i told her i don't believe her, and that she needs to show me. she laughed and said she cannot here, but she would gladly do so in my hotel room. so the courtship began.
we did this kind of thing for another 20 minutes while she sipped the ld i sprang for upon the 'no air' episode. meanwhile, she was climbing all over me, rubbing herself against me, putting my hands where man-hands were designed to go. she shifted around, and at one point, she lay flat on her stomach along the booth seat i was in, with her ass squarely in my lap. shiiiiiiiiiiiiit. i inspected that backside, and holy cow, it was exactly up to kumbu's specifications. i like 'em round and plentiful - not large and obese mind you, but bubbly is what i look for. in june, during my last trip here, i was remarkably successful in rooting out the beautiful asses , and i had struck gold once again.
[b]closing the deal[/b]
so eventually she asks if i want to bf her. i ask her how much for her, and she hesitates. she quotes 3000lt, 2000st. the normal initial quote is 4000/2500, so she was being good to me. although this may be the standard quote for waitresses, i don't know. i hesitated, and she said how about 1500st and 2500lt? i offered her a compromise. told her that i would pay her 1500st if i was *not* happy, but 2000st if i was happy. she did not understand. i explained it again, and when she got it, she found it to be a terribly clever negotiation trick. she was very impressed.
so she runs off to change, and then the vultures descend. mama san arrives, along with another waitress, and they make the thumb to mouth gesture with the very, very sad face, indicating they want a drink. scusi? rather than respond to them, i got up and walked to the toilet, leaving them there to stew and complain about my miserliness.
when my girl arrived, she was wearing a frilly grey dress, one of those things with a ripped and uneven hem. it was made of clingy material and just showed off her awesome figure. as we walked out of there i noticed that she is tall – 5'8” perhaps? she had heels on and so she was my height (i am 5'10”). for a moment i wondered as to her gender, but as she walked in front of me, all doubts disappeared – that figure left absolutely no doubt in my mind.
we took a taxi back to the hotel, during which she chatted very easily and comfortably. i find that the taxi ride is a great barometer for how the night will go. and in this case, the barometer predicted glorious weather.
[b]aaah, finally into the hotel room[/b]
we entered the room and she was very pleased with the quality of the room. she delighted at the large bathtub, all the glass walls and everything. she then went and stood in the middle of the room and called me over. as i approached her, she grabbed me and before i could say anything, her tongue was in my mouth, probing the top of my mouth, pressing against the hard-palate, aggressively pushing my tongue aside.
her dress got pushed down to her waist, and her breasts were smallish, although enough for me to sink my hands into. her nipples were a delightful pinkish/brown color, small and pert. i sucked them for a while, as my hands worked their way into her ass meat. we made out like this for 5 minutes or so, until it was time for showering. she pulled out three boxes of condoms, at which i spontaneously coughed loudly. she giggled and explained that some customers need the extra gel kind, some need the extra large kind, some need extra sensitivity, so she carries them all. cool.
she also pulls out her toothbrush, some mouthwash, some toothpaste, some floss (?), and her uniform from work. i asked her why she brought her uniform from work, and she said many customers want to fuck her while she is dressed in her uniform. i had a good laugh about that, but she was totally cool about all of it.
[b]signs of things to come[/b]
one thing that was out of character was that she insisted on showering alone. ok, well, that's fine. so she did, and then it was my turn. as i undressed and she climbed into bed, she called me over, and when i did, she gave me stern instructions:
girlie: clean everywhere ok?
kumbu: i always do.
girlie: no, i mean, clean everywhere, ok? i like.
kumbu: umm, yeah, i always do.
still not getting it, she pulls thick kumbu over and rubs his ass and says, “clean everywhere, ok? i like.”
okaaaaaay. so i showered, washing out my already meticulously clean ass several times, wondering whether this would work for me or not. i'm not really that into ass-licking (receiving), although i love to be the ass licker. but here she was almost demanding it, so what was i to do?
[b]aaaaaand they're off![/b]
after the shower, i climbed into bed and there was no awkward hesitation – we went straight into it. that's what i like about this girl – everything was just easy and natural. there was no effort on my part – she knew just what to do, and she did it expertly.
we started with the dfk, which truth be told was a little too d for my liking. so i pulled away at the first opportune moment, and worked my way down to her breasts. as i did this, she whispered “anything you want”. she was not particularly receptive to the breast action, so i kissed my way downwards. again, “anything you want”. she was totally open, and as i approached pubic central, she lifted her hips for me to enter.
my first thought was:
“fire! fire! pants on fire!”
turns out she is a liar. well, kind of. she told me that she has little (h)air down there, which was not entirely true. the truth of it was that she had loads and loads of hair down there, but she had it all close-cropped. but that left a lot of stubble. if you were a woman and were having your pussy sucked out by a guy who has stubble on his chin, it hurts like hell. well, as a guy, as i suck out a pussy, if the stubble is too severe, it hurts me too. yes, i am soft like that, and fuck all you guys who are laughing right now.
but undeterred by the raging stubble, i kissed around her pubic region for a while, avoiding the sensitive areas, just so i could get a lay of the land. “anything you want”. when i was ready, i went in to the clit first. she had a very thick, heavy hood over the clit, and i had to lift it off her clit by pulling up in the skin above it. and when i did this, it revealed a pert, bulging little thing just waiting for some attention.
as i licked it, she just totally revved up. she was delighted that i had figured out how to get under the hood (literally), and she groaned and sighed. she said some canned crap like 'i like you lick me', and then she started to pant my name over and over again. i was kind of not liking that, but hey, everything else was delightful.
she kept gyrating her hips upwards, and as she did that, two things would happen. first, her stubbled pussy hair would rub against some part of my face/lips and i would get like a stubble burn. second, i would lose grip on the clit, and my tongue would end up squirming around in her pussy and/or asshole. she was cool with the ass rimming, so i did that for a few moments. her asshole was fine, not particularly spectacular, but hey, it's as asshole – how spectacular does it need to be?
the daty lasted a long time, and she just did not cum. i wouldn't go so far as to say that i am a master at daty, but i think of myself as somewhat adept. and i was just not able to make her cum. i tried, and i used all the tricks in my bag. she responded very well to everything, and i think i got her close a couple of times, but it just did not happen. after around 30 minutes of this, my tongue and lips were getting rather raw. she sensed this and tried to get me to move, and so i asked her if she had cum, and she said that she would cum with me. i doubted that.
so she says again “anything you want”, to which we switched into 69 with her ontop. this was awesome. i got a full, open view of her asshole and pussy, and i could massage her full, round ass cheeks to my heart's delight. her ass (the cheeks) were really very beautiful – round, full, fleshy, just what the doctor ordered. she was sucking little kumbu bb, and i was getting to the point of exploding, so i pulled back to avoid the early disaster. she knew what to do – she stopped working on little kumbu and stuck her head under my balls and started to lick my taint.
honestly, i have never had this done to me before, and i was kind of wondering what it would be like. after a while, she rolled me over and stuck her tongue between my butt cheeks, swirling, flitting, poking. it was an interesting sensation, i must admit, but it was more ticklish than pleasurable. so i ended up enduring it more than enjoying it. i endured it because i wanted her to feel like she had given me something special. she was a sweet girl, very eager to please, and with an awesome body, so i had decided to pay her well. but for that, she needs to deliver above-and-beyond service, which she was currently doing, with her tongue in my ass.
so a few minutes later, i turned around and thanked her, and she giggled “boom boom now? daay may?! i like, i like.” enthusiasm – you gotta love it.
so i pulled out my own trojans and away we went. we started with cg, then reverse cg (the sight of her ass nearly killing me right there), during which she kept leaning backwards and forwards to great effect. i mean far more than normal: she would lean backwards, arching her back, accentuating the curvature of her ass, and then she would lean forward and lie flat against my knees. this produced a flared ass effect, if you can imagine that, which was just such a orgasm inducer. one time, as she leaned forward, her mouth found its way to my left big toe, which she popped into her mouth and started to suckle. phew, lucky i clipped my tow nails before going out tonight!
next we did missionary, then with her on her side, me entering from behind, then doggie for a very short time, to avoid the premature ejaculation, and then we ended it with her standing, leaning against the wall, bent at the waist, and me entering her from behind. as i orgasmed, i found myself clutching at her large ass with one hand, and at her shoulder with the other, trying to keep myself standing as my knees buckled under the pleasure.
[b]closing scenes[/b]
upon ending, i remained inside her and we gently lay backwards together onto the bed, she lying on top of me, little kumbu still inside her. we lay there like that for a good 10 minutes, panting, talking, breathing. she then got up and sent me to shower. she followed, and upon exiting, i asked her to leave (in a nice way, gently, but still).
she was a little taken aback by that, as she expected to stay the whole night i think. i told her that i had to go to work early, so it would be better for her to leave. so she slowly got dressed as we talked and joked. it took her an hour to finally leave, since we kept getting distracted and making out a little. we exchanged numbers, and i promised to go back for her on sunday. and given the experience tonight, that is a total no-brainer.
before she left, i asked her if i could take some photos of her. she laughed about how she is not pretty, and i said that i don't really want a shot of her face, i want something else. she began to object, something about internet, and i feigned ignorance (“what is this 'internet' you speak of? and why would anyone put nude photos on it?'), and i eventually cut her off and told her that i wanted some photos of her hands. she just broke out in all-out laughter – knee-smacking, full-lunged, roaring laughter. what a freak this guy is – he is offered to have his ass licked, to which his reaction is...meh...but he has a total hand fetish, of all things. on her way out, she gave me her phone number (i texted her the next day, just to solidify the connection) and i paid her 2500b (to really cement the relationship). i think she most definitely deserved this, as she was top notch the entire night. if she were an athlete, she would have received the mvp award.
HIV stats: The blind men and an elephant
[QUOTE=Pahllus Maximus]It turns out the HIV in LOS is mostly type E that is a lot more infectious than the B type in the west. E type attacks the Langerhans cells on the penis, and many of the ladies with existing vaginal inflammation carry a higher loading to begin with. Statistics suggest 19% for freelancers and 4% for establishments, and a recent study published for 2004-2006 (why it was only published in 2010 is strange !) was 46% street workers and 4% brothels. These are merely guides, but certainly show that simply using a brothel is a five fold risk reduction...[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.avert.org/thailand-aids-hiv.htm[/url]
[url]http://cfs.unaids.org/country_factsheet.aspx?ISO=THA[/url]
[url]http://apps.who.int/globalatlas/predefinedReports/EFS2008/full/EFS2008_TH.pdf[/url]
[url]http://journals.lww.com/jaids/Abstract/2010/08010/HIV_Transmission_Rates_in_Thailand__Evidence_of.15.aspx[/url]
[url]http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/06/16/aidshiv-thailand/[/url]
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[CodeWord900] - bad experience
went to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url] last week after drinking a few on cowboy. was pretty drunk. chose a cutie named "knee" - be warned, this was the absolute worst bj i have ever been given in my life! it started out okay but towards the end when i was about to cum her teeth started to grind on the end of my cock. i soldiered through and came in her mouth, but not before she had done the damage. the end of my cock (between the mushroom tip and the shaft) was ripped - i didn't feel the pain until the next morning and it still hurts now, 5 days later. it's getting better and i hope to be full throttle again by the weekend, but be warned about her. in hindsight i should have stopped it the second i felt her teeth but i was quite close to cumming so i just foolishly ignored it.
