Dhaka, Bangladesh, Bangkok in a few days.
A. G.
[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1408490]I get amused at the youth vs maturity (implicitly including some wealth) discussion that occasionally becomes a topic of conversation here. And we have the ubiquitous "normal," "semi-pro" and "pro" distinction, made without the benefit of any definition. Greg opines from India or where ever he is this moment watching of all fucking things. Cricket, that 99% of the Colombian girls will trade sexual pleasures for money or monies equivalent. I think Greg is about 1% shy of being correct. Women trade sex for security. All women! Including yo mama. It's just biology.
All women want security and protection. All men want respect, attention, appreciation and affection. Don't kid yourself, women are not nearly as visual as men are. There is not a girl in any casa that would not prefer to have one man provide for her security and protection. But, some choose to sell what they have to offer for a few pasos for medio hora or mas. The so called "normal" girls are certainly more attracted to the young, handsome and virile men. But, they're looking to pair bond. They want a "relationship." The fact is that if you treat any of these women like sex workers, you will get a sex worker. There is no such thing as free sex; they all want something other than a hard dick.
Sex with a beautiful girl is easier to get in Medellin than a decent pizza. A whole lot easier. Even with the obvious "pros" Ricker says that he like to create a bond. That makes sense to me. What I think most of us really want is intimacy. There's nothing like sex with a girl that wants to give you great pleasure because when she wakes up in the morning, she is thankful that you are in her life. At bottom, the notion of bonding requires just a little give a shit about someone else's life. All that requires communication and if you don't speak Spanish, that's kind of hard.
Take a little interest in these beautiful little Paisas, and your being a benefit in their lives will be rewarded. Bond a little, or at least try, with all of them. Most are not only receptive, they need and want a little interest, a little compassion, a little concern, a little love. Surpress the ego. It doesn't always have to be about you!
Only good energy, remember?[/QUOTE]