Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=ExpatAmerican;2680784]I'm getting the feeling she will put out but I'm not asking the question directly yet. The trip is in May so there is time to warm her up some more I think.[/QUOTE]You mean to say you made all these plans and did not mention to her that you are flying her to Manila for sex?

That is the first thing I do when I get them to chat on social sites. If they say they are not like that or any stupid shit reason not to have sex with me I dump them. Once they say they agree for sex then the plans can be made about how much per day etc. I always make sure amount is agreed before so that the girl does not think I am paying 10000 pesos per day. To tell you the truth such amount has been requested by a Japanese karaoke hostess working in Manila very pretty cam to cam. I told her I am not Japanese LOL. Finally we agreed for 3000 and the covid hit.

[QUOTE=ExpatAmerican;2680429]I've been chatting up this Muslim girl from Mindanao. She looks conservative (wears hijab) but is very flirty in the chats. I'm intrigued if only for the novelty factor. I'd bring her to Manila, not visit her there. Anyone have any experience? Is the hijab just for show and will she put out. She is a single mom so no virgin here. What say ye all?[/QUOTE]A little Russian roulette. Sounds like fun to me! As long as you aren't staying at the Makati Peninsula in late May, go for it!

[QUOTE=Sammon;2680840]You mean to say you made all these plans and did not mention to her that you are flying her to Manila for sex?

[/QUOTE]+1. There is no need to insult the girl before meeting but intentions do need to be clear. This also leads into practical questions that Expat wants to cover off to prevent any disappointment on either side: will you be getting married at the end of your stay? Will she be on her period for 5 days of that week? Etc.

Remember that all pinas are notoriously unreliable so, despite best intentions, there are 100 ways a preplanned meeting could fall apart. Have a backup plan.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=ThomasCasey;2680817]With the girl I'm talking to (and her aunt), I will be flying in her from CDO. Just an FYI before you buy a ticket. Make sure they have ID to be able to get onto the flight in the first place. I just found out last night she does not have proper ID (just school ID which she lost). When I researched it apparently the airlines will allow someone on with photo school ID (I was surprised), however I have told her to the postal ID (which can take up to 30 days) to get and costs about 500 php.[/QUOTE]Always say I need to see a copy of the ID before you buy the ticket.

For my upcoming trip I have an option to fly in a girl from the provinces for a few days. I like to keep this as an option and I will make a final decision in the final week at which time I'll buy a one way fare. That leaves me with an option as to how soon to send her home. The reason I am considering this option is that a) she has not had kids, still great body, b) saves me having to hunt around on the first night if she meets me on arrival.

At this stage I am still holding off on dating apps until 1-2 weeks prior to arrival.

Anyway can't wait.

Some posters have talked about meeting tiktok Filipinas. What is the methodology for creating a list of potentials via tiktok.

I'm over 30 years old so do not understand the app. But would like to fuck 21 year old dancers.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2680840]You mean to say you made all these plans and did not mention to her that you are flying her to Manila for sex?

That is the first thing I do when I get them to chat on social sites. If they say they are not like that or any stupid shit reason not to have sex with me I dump them. Once they say they agree for sex then the plans can be made about how much per day etc. I always make sure amount is agreed before so that the girl does not think I am paying 10000 pesos per day. To tell you the truth such amount has been requested by a Japanese karaoke hostess working in Manila very pretty cam to cam. I told her I am not Japanese LOL. Finally we agreed for 3000 and the covid hit.[/QUOTE]I plan to make it clear before I meet her that sex is required. I was not planning to offer her money for it upfront (she doesn't strike me as a non pro and hasnt told me any sad stories) but will give her a gift at the end anyways. I just meant I was going to warm her up for a bit before broaching sex. But really, any girl who will get on a plane and fly to stay in a hotel with a guy knows what will happen.

[QUOTE=ExpatAmerican;2680995]I plan to make it clear before I meet her that sex is required. I was not planning to offer her money for it upfront (But really, any girl who will get on a plane and fly to stay in a hotel with a guy knows what will happen.[/QUOTE]With philipinas it is open question. Sometimes even girls with kids come across as two day old virgins. Many times they say they are looking for marriage. Granted, most girls in the world do want stable life wherein guy takes care of her and her kids. Especially so in Philippines.

Unless you are planning to get serious and playing romance game it is better to openly express your demands.

Money has to be given in Philippines. Single mothers always need money. Giving silly gifts is not good. Some girls are shy about asking for money. But be generous. Do not take advantage of poor girls. Many girls say it is up to you when broaching money matter.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2681048]

Unless you are planning to get serious and playing romance game it is better to openly express your demands.

Money has to be given in Philippines. Single mothers always need money. Giving silly gifts is not good. Some girls are shy about asking for money. But be generous. Do not take advantage of poor girls. Many girls say it is up to you when broaching money matter.[/QUOTE]#1: Totally agree. Nothing worse than guys, at best, leading girls on or, at worst, outright lying to them about romantic intentions just to get her into bed. 1/ it's a dickhead move and 2/ it's totally unnecessary. (Note: I'm not suggesting that was Expat's intentions). RANT OFF 😁.

#2:. Sort of. There are girls out there who are insulted when offered cash and give honest refusals and girls that only want true taxi fare ('00's not '000's of pesos). Occasionally this is part of a long term play but it's often genuine. I'd agree in the vast majority of cases when payment or 'gifts' are appropriate then be generous.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=ExpatAmerican;2680995]I plan to make it clear before I meet her that sex is required. I was not planning to offer her money for it upfront (she doesn't strike me as a non pro and hasnt told me any sad stories) but will give her a gift at the end anyways. I just meant I was going to warm her up for a bit before broaching sex. But really, any girl who will get on a plane and fly to stay in a hotel with a guy knows what will happen.[/QUOTE]There are some girls that will get on a plane to meet a prospective BF and not KNOW what is going to happen. Especially an innocent girl on a dating site looking for love.

Do not make assumptions. Make it clear and known what your expectations are and what her's are up front.

As stated all girls are in need of money for survival and daily needs. Major reason why they are on the dating site is for survival and a BF taking care of them equals love. Pass the money discreetly and face saving. Insisting it is a gift.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2681069]There are some girls that will get on a plane to meet a prospective BF and not KNOW what is going to happen. Especially an innocent girl on a dating site looking for love.

Do not make assumptions. Make it clear and known what your expectations are and what her's are up front.

As stated all girls are in need of money for survival and daily needs. Major reason why they are on the dating site is for survival and a BF taking care of them equals love. Pass the money discreetly and face saving. Insisting it is a gift.[/QUOTE]I plan to visit in June. Talked to a girl from Tacloban if she wants to meet in Manila, I have been chatting with her on and off for 6 months. She said yes then 4 hrs later she said her mother said no. I wasn't seriously expecting her to come but she has a nice hot figure so worth asking at least.

[QUOTE=GDreams;2681078]I plan to visit in June. Talked to a girl from Tacloban if she wants to meet in Manila, I have been chatting with her on and off for 6 months. She said yes then 4 hrs later she said her mother said no. I wasn't seriously expecting her to come but she has a nice hot figure so worth asking at least.[/QUOTE]I'm in that area pass along the contact details.

I have had less luck on these apps than usual this trip, I have had better luck cruising the barangays in person and picking up newly single moms and single girls.

I don't know if its due to the influx of guys that are not serious and are sending money to these girls basically incel / beta / simps that have been totally cut off from any interaction with women so these women have seem to be flooded with disingenuous flirtation.

I think these girls have kind of given up on these dating apps as there hasnt been a large influx of tourists and as they are not in country they seem less interested even if I state that I am in country ready to drop a few pesos on them.

I did manage to land a few off Dateisasia this round but far fewer than I usually do. Like I said I have had better luck this time around actually walking the street and talking to people in and around the barangays just being open with them that I'm looking for single women. You would be surprised at the extremely high quality that is just sitting there with no load waiting for a break and "support". These kind of girls I don't actually PAY persay I usually buy them phones after a week or so, or buy a TV ect. I of course provide a budget for food and hair ect. So in-essence I do not pay these girls a FEE like I do in AC its more I provide living essentials that is well over their usually quality of life. In good faith however I do tend to leave them with an amount I deem as fair depending on the length of time we spend together minus the gifts I outlaid. All said and done I budget about 2000 a day and if I haven't given her gifts that amount to that much I total the amount at the end of out time together and send them off with a sometimes sizable tip. Not a bad deal for GFE and unlimited amounts of sex imo. These apps are still viable but less and less so as time goes on at least in my case.

Looks like we pretty much have the same approach.

[QUOTE=MontanaMonger;2681694]I have had less luck on these apps than usual this trip, I have had better luck cruising the barangays in person and picking up newly single moms and single girls.

I don't know if its due to the influx of guys that are not serious and are sending money to these girls basically incel / beta / simps that have been totally cut off from any interaction with women so these women have seem to be flooded with disingenuous flirtation.

I think these girls have kind of given up on these dating apps as there hasnt been a large influx of tourists and as they are not in country they seem less interested even if I state that I am in country ready to drop a few pesos on them.

I did manage to land a few off Dateisasia this round but far fewer than I usually do. Like I said I have had better luck this time around actually walking the street and talking to people in and around the barangays just being open with them that I'm looking for single women. You would be surprised at the extremely high quality that is just sitting there with no load waiting for a break and "support". These kind of girls I don't actually PAY persay I usually buy them phones after a week or so, or buy a TV ect. I of course provide a budget for food and hair ect. So in-essence I do not pay these girls a FEE like I do in AC its more I provide living essentials that is well over their usually quality of life. In good faith however I do tend to leave them with an amount I deem as fair depending on the length of time we spend together minus the gifts I outlaid. All said and done I budget about 2000 a day and if I haven't given her gifts that amount to that much I total the amount at the end of out time together and send them off with a sometimes sizable tip. Not a bad deal for GFE and unlimited amounts of sex imo. These apps are still viable but less and less so as time goes on at least in my case.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Transporter;2681853]Looks like we pretty much have the same approach.[/QUOTE]Instead of quoting MontanaMonger's story which is just the next scroll-down, could I respectfully suggest you just snip relevant parts (like Westcoast). Otherwise you are just chogging up the board with your one-liner plus quote.