Marriage VS Whoring Part Duex
[QUOTE=Columpuss]D etat
Quoting you "the best girl has been......my girl friend"
Not your wife!!! There is a universe of difference.
A girl friend is a short term trap and you still have hopes.
A wife is a malignant tumor.
Can you honestly tell me that you can F that girl when she's in her 40s, 100 kilos, with stretch marks, and kids knocking on your door while you clear the fatty slab around her ass to penetrate.
Happy married guys do not frequent this forum
You can F a girl with 2 dollars in her pocket who has great tits
You think a girl can F you with 2 dollars in your pocket even if you're John holmes?
This is not directed at you alone but those who think that the girl you meet in her 20s will stay the same 10 years down the road
I am reaching middle age and never been married and don't understand the need. To each his own, there are exceptions out there but i know you are not one of them because you are reading this buddy. Wish you the best![/QUOTE]
Bruh I was married to an American woman for four years. It didn't work for various reasons. To say that the institution of marriage is shit is just like saying mongers are "pathetic and have to pay for it." Individuals have to find and do what’s right for them. Marriage is not bad if the two people involved are adults and both are willing pull their weight mentally, emotionally and financially.
As for $2 dollars statement. There are a lot of women who stick by broke ass men. If you frequently travel to the Philippines as I suspect you do then I know you have seen it. Hell I have many relatives back in my hometown in the USA who dont share my enthusiasm for making money and they still have women on their arms.
As for the being attracted to old age. I am in my 20s and I hope about time I reach middle age if I am with a lady whom I have dated for many years by that time I should be able to see past her outward appearance after the years invested. We all get old bruh. Some men can't see themeselves sleeping with a different lady every night. Some guys can't bring themselves to pay for sex in the business of prostituion. Some guys can't see themselves with the same women for years and years as you said to each its own.....
You take care bruh
There are MANY more that are not!
[QUOTE=D Etat]Bruh. There are plenty of guys who are happily married. I do not think that all women on the earth main goal is to trap a guy. There are plenty of women who don't want anything but to have a good time and move on. There is nothing that can compare to waking up in the bed with a woman who wants to be there because of you and not what you are going to pay her in the morning.
I have mongered in Uzbekistan, UAE, Japan, Afghanistan, Philippines, Thailand, and South Korea. The story is the same.Yeah there is the thrill of being with a new lady but there is the condom and the threat of catching something nasty, occupational hazard, sure you can catch something from a regular girlfriend also but if you take more time choosing your mate then you do ordering a burger at Mickey D's that would not be a issue.
A lot of women have came and went from my bed but the best girls in the sac has been with women that were my girlfriends. There is a comfort level that can't be matched with with one night stands....[/QUOTE]
As they declared their love, some have been better than others.
As they declared their price, some have been better than others.
Rentals are returned easier than purchases..
Don't rule out the great GFE ho that goes above and beyond.
Finding them is easier than "the one". And I can always go back.
That's an impressive list over most Western men, but there are some here that have mongered abt 4x that many countries. That "I love you for you" feeling erodes with time like all things in life. I think you should define where these great relationships are. USA or 3rd world. We all know there is a world of diff...Peace
Getting Involved with Married Filipina
news item from london daily mail today. best make very sure your filipina is not already married! most of them are, but will not tell you!
british man facing jail over his 'adultery' with a filipino woman asks: 'why won't the foreign office help us?'
by andrew drummond
last updated at 00:23am on 24th february 2008
when david scott fell in love with a beautiful filipino woman, he embraced the opportunity to escape his humdrum existence as a machine operator in swindon and begin a new life in an exotic land.
but within weeks of leaving his friends and family to join his girlfriend in her native country, his dream of happiness has vanished - to be replaced by a nightmare he could never have anticipated.
after fathering a child with cynthia delfino, whose separation from her estranged husband was not complete, the 35-year-old became an unwitting victim of the philippines' harsh legal system.
he and 29-year-old cynthia were charged with adultery and thrown into a rat-infested prison for four days.
terrified: david and cynthia must pay her estranged husband £7,000 but have no money
and despite david having spent his life-savings trying to ensure freedom for the couple and their newborn baby, they have now had to go into hiding as the country's police search for them.
if they are caught, david faces seven years in jail and having his daughter taken away from him permanently.
"i can't believe this has happened to me," he said at his hideaway in a squalid suburb of the philippines capital manila, after almost two months on the run.
"i have done nothing wrong and yet i have found myself in this horrendous situation. i am begging the british government to help."
david's ordeal began when cynthia became pregnant with his child before she had officially separated. adultery is illegal in the philippines, where it can incur a seven-year jail sentence.
now, just weeks after the birth of baby janina, cynthia's estranged husband - who is considered the child's legal father in the philippines - is determined to see the pair imprisoned if they do not pay him £7,000 compensation.
if they are jailed, he will be the one bringing up their baby daughter, a prospect david says breaks his heart. now only cash, which david and cynthia do not have, or diplomatic pressure, can save them from jail. however, the foreign and commonwealth office say they cannot interfere with philippine law.
david said: "nobody is going to take my daughter away from me. it will be over my dead body. under british law my daughter is mine. why can't the foreign office help?"
cynthia, a psychology graduate from manila's colegio de san juan de letran, met david over the internet in november 2006.
at the time, she had been separated from her husband, noriel delfino, for a year and was working as a supervisor at the emirates palace hotel in abu dhabi.
david, then living in swindon, was working on a contract for the ministry of defence, cutting armour for use on military vehicles in iraq.
they began talking on the website camfrog.com and soon realised their attraction for one another.
"we used a webcam, so i knew how beautiful she was, and from the start we were direct and honest with each other," said david.
"we would spend hours talking about every subject under the sun - we just clicked." cynthia said: "i was honest with david. i said i was married and had two children, a boy and a girl, but was separated from my husband and we were going through a marriage annulment. divorce is illegal in the philippines.
"my husband had ordered me to go to work in the middle east and every month i sent back just about all my salary, 20,000 pesos (£300), to pay for him and the children.
"but he never told me what he did with the money and it was clear our marriage was not going to work.
"we talked about annulling our marriage and he even sent me an email saying he wanted the annulment to get done as soon as possible."
the couple's first face-to-face meeting took place last february at manila's ninoy aquino international airport, as she flew in from the middle east and david flew in from london. "shortly after i met cynthia, i knew our relationship was going to work," said david.
hiding: david, cynthia and newborn janina outside manila
"we had a wonderful time in the mountains of luzon near an extinct volcano at a place called laguna, but after six weeks i had to rush home when i heard my father was dying.
"but we had already agreed we would both save our money to pay for the annulment and plan our own marriage. then, out of the blue, cynthia rang crying to say she was pregnant. i said: 'why are you crying? that is great news.'
"i was as happy as the happiest expectant dad. i told her to get on with the annulment."
cynthia said: "my husband agreed on the grounds of 'psychological incapacity', the only grounds for annulment in the philippines. he even said he wanted to get it over with as quickly as possible."
but then in september at a matrimonial court in manila, where cynthia was due to give evidence, lawyers from her husband suddenly withdrew from the case.
"they were preparing charges against me," said cynthia.
unknown to the couple, noriel had discovered a photograph of cynthia and david they had posted on a website similar to facebook.
enraged, he then began proceedings to have them arrested for adultery.
david said: "i rushed out in november with all my savings to be with cynthia for the last part of her pregnancy.
"everything seemed to be going wrong but i wanted to be there with my wife when my baby was born.
"our real nightmare began on december 30 when police and immigration officials raided the house i had rented in the suburb of caloocan. it was about 10pm and there were all these people outside shouting.
"there were local police, immigration officials and officers of the national bureau of investigation, their version of the fbi. we were taken along to the local police station and thrown into a cell. they said they were charging us with adultery and cynthia's husband was demanding £7,000 in compensation.
"the cell was not big enough to lie down in, so we sat there hunched for three nights and four days.
"it was crawling with cockroaches and other insects, stank of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url] and there was my girlfriend eight months pregnant and in great discomfort.
"they wanted to separate us, so we had to pay 500 pesos, about £8, each night to different officers to allow us to be together.
"every night, though, a different policeman would take it in turns outside our cell flicking the light on and off. we pretended to be asleep.
"they took us out during the day to question cynthia and get my details and fingerprints. they let us wash from a bucket; cynthia's relatives brought us soap and toothpaste.
"eventually, on the fourth day, a lawyer came on the recommendation of the british embassy, who got us bail.
"the bail was about 12,000 pesos each - £150. but we had to pay 100,000 pesos, £1,250, to somebody under the table to actually get the bail."
the couple were ordered to appear in court on april 12 to hear their fate.
since then, they have been on the run, fearing that cynthia's husband was trying to get their bail revoked.
they have moved from shack to rented room in the squalor of suburban manila as they desperately try to find a solution to their problems.
david's savings have long since run out and the couple are now surviving on charity from friends and family.
yesterday, david's distraught mother sent her son £100, without which he says they would not be able to afford food.
he said: "we have changed our address twice. i rarely go out. i am the only european here, so if i go out, i stand out like a sore thumb.
"i sit and watch from the window. we have received messages that the police are looking for us, so i am always looking out of the window."
when their daughter was born, the couple's difficult circumstances clouded what was supposed to be a joyful occasion.
"we could not go to one of the big hospitals as they pass on their records quickly to the authorities. instead, we had to go to a small clinic where cynthia was the only in-patient.
"it was a harrowing time. janina was born two weeks early by caesarean section on january 17 and weighed just over 6lb.
"she had an irregular heartbeat which caused us days of worrying. in addition, cynthia lost so much blood after the operation that she had to have a transfusion. thankfully, due to the generosity and kindness of some very good-hearted filipino people, we have been looked after very well since janina's birth and she is now doing just fine.
"but all our money has gone, to lawyers, to police, to hospital bills and on living expenses. my mum rang me today to say she has just sent me £100.
"that's so unfair. it's me who should be looking after my mum. she is 62 and disabled and gets very little in the way of pension. she has been scraping round friends and relatives.
"i hope one day i can tell my daughter janina of this nightmare, of what her mum and i went through. but if the full course of philippines law is followed, cynthia and i will be in jail and delfino will have my daughter.
"we have begged the embassy for help. i thought the child of a british father had the right to british citizenship. but the embassy official allocated to my case is filipino and just quotes filipino law at me, saying it's not my child."
at this point cynthia began to cry, saying: "sometimes i just want to give up fighting.
"i feel so depressed. let them take me to jail. i have done nothing to be ashamed of. i love david and our daughter."
david's mother ann has received a letter from anne snelgrove, labour mpfor south swindon who has promised her 'full support'.
the mp said: "the nationality directorate says that the child will automatically have british nationality if david is named on the birth certificate as the child's father."
but she added: "until this case is settled in the philippines under their law, there is little we can do to progress the matter."
by that time david and cynthia expect to be in jail.
philippines lawyer and women's and children's rights activist katrina legarda warned: "i have to tell you the worst first. david scott is in great danger if he stays here. the fact that he has a baby proves the adultery.
"the baby is not legally his. a child born in a marriage is considered legitimate to the marriage only.
"legally the baby belongs to her filipino husband. frankly put, he does not have a child. he should go home."
ms legarda continued: "as it stands, it seems the only way out is for david to pay the husband. no matter how bad the husband might be, even if the couple are separated, the law still applies.
"i know this sounds unfair but this is the law and whenever we try to change it there is an outcry from the religious groups.
"this should not really be happening. we tried over 20 years ago to introduce a divorce law, but those who supported it were condemned in the pulpits of catholic churches all over the country as people who would go to hell.
"for david and cynthia, and others like them, it is a very sad situation."
a foreign office spokesman said: "we are aware of the case and are providing consular assistance to mr scott and his family, but cannot comment further due to data protection."
Why I love Filipinas the best, as lovers, playmates and best friends
In my opinion, Filipinas make the best girlfriends, lovers, and friends.compared to females in the other Asian countries, they aren't as strict, serious, prudish or hung up. Instead, they are more relaxed, carefree, happy-go-lucky, easygoing, playful, passionate and sensual. They are also very nonjudgmental and nonracist. And they have a great sense of humor, enjoying the silliest things which easily amuse them. Thus, you can always have fun and joke around or play with them, even if you have nothing else to talk about. That's so nice and refreshing, especially when you are so accustomed to ant****iality and hostility from women in the US.
Best of all, they LOVE to flirt. When I flirt with girls in the Philippines, they not only enjoy it, but it actually ADDS FUEL to our chemistry (whereas in the US, flirting with girls "creeped" them out and emanated a vibe of hostility from them). And that's a big thing to me, because I am a big-time flirt!
Filipinas are also a great blend of outer and inner traits. Ethnically, they are Asian, Malay and Spanish, resulting in a very exotic and beautiful mix that is very pleasing and sensual to the eyes. Their exotic sexy sensual olive complexion ranges from light to dark shades, all of which are sexy to me and many other foreigners here. And their attractive highly feminine appearance is combined with a tender romantic loving/caring inner side to them – a fantastic blend to say the least.
The way they treat you and touch you is just so sensual and fulfilling. They have this warm tender touch that white women definitely don’t have (not to sound racist). I’ve experienced it and can understand now why so many foreign men are addicted to the Philippines and to Filipinas. I think it’s a genetic thing, not just a cultural thing, as you can feel it to the bone (and soul). Not to sound racist, but just as brown sugar is healthier than white sugar, and brown rice is healthier than white rice, (as any nutritionist will tell you) perhaps brown skinned women are healthier for your mind, body, and sanity as well. They seem to bring this natural balance to your life and soul.
Thus, I’d say that even if you didn’t have a taste for Filipinas or Asian women before, if you come to the Philippines, you soon will. Once you’re here and experience females of this caliber, any preferences you had will simply go "out the window. "
Not only are most Filipinas either hot or cute, and passionate and tender in bed, but their personality is so soothing, gentle, easy-going and accommodating that they are like my best friends too. They are just so comfortable to be around, in a way that you could never imagine possible in the West.
They are also a great blend of White and Asian traits. Their Spanish blood makes them much more wild, relaxed, passionate and expressive than Orientals such as the Chinese, Japanese, or Koreans, who are non-expressive, robotic and overly serious and strict in comparison. And they have big round eyes that are considered attractive in Western Culture (although to my surprise, my slanted Asian eyes are considered more attractive in Filipino culture than their big round eyes are). They have all the physical beauty of thin feminine Asian women in light and dark colors ("vanilla and chocolate" so to speak), as well as their humble, modest, sweet, pleasing, soothing romantic nature. The only drawbacks to them are that they don’t like to think much, don’t like to answer questions or provide explanations when asked to do so, and are sometimes moody and quiet for unexplainable reasons that they refuse to discuss. It seems in their nature to be that way. Thus you don’t get much intellectual stimulation with them. But the good news is that it’s much easier to train and educate them than it is to teach a Westernized woman to be sweeter and more loving.
Although Filipinas aren't as intellectual, educated, or deep-thinking as the European women are, they make up for it in their other qualities. They have this essence about them, warm sensual tenderness and a way of treating you that makes you feel needed and loved, like a real man, in a way that you had always wished and dreamed deep down but never dared hoped for. It's beyond words. Something you have to feel and experience as a man to understand. And when you do, you realize it's what you had always wanted. And even friends. They are tender, sweet, passionate and fun.
In a way, it's like they give new birth to your heart, for if your heart had lost faith in love, they awaken it and renew it with their child-like hope and belief in love, making it a reality for you, and making you a believer again as well.
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How I found my Filipina Wife
I was stationed on Okinawa in the US military in 1985-86. I made about 8 trips to the PI in 18 months. I was single and E5 rank with money to burn. It only cost U$10 to fly each way and 30 days leave a year gave me plenty of time to monger. I really fell in love with the Filipino people. Most of the women I had sex with were bargirls and I tried to treat them well, more like a girlfriend and less like a bargirl. It seemed to be appreciated later in the night. I let the women help make decisions, like where to eat and where to party. I took one girl to a Filipino movie. Did not understand what was going on but the lady translated the important parts for me. I had so much fun with the ladies I thought I might want to marry a Filipina and settle down. I was watching a TV program on AFRTS about a Filipina wife and American husband who ran an introduction service so wrote the TV station and got the address.
When I returned to the states in 1986, I wrote the introduction service. They were having a special so I ordered a listing. I spent hours reading the bios and studying the pictures. I initially wrote to about 25 women with 15 replying. I developed a questionnaire to get pertinent info on each lady and allow me to compare apples to apples. I sent many letters and some money for stamps and small Christmas presents. Most interesting was a sixteen year old school girl I wrote on a lark. I told her nothing would come of it but was interested in a pin pal. She seemed sad when I told her I had narrowed my choices and would not be writing again. Over the course of the next year, I slowly reduced my interests to five ladies. I was getting serious and contacted the Immigration Service and got the paperwork for a fiancée visa. This would allow me 90 days after my mate entered the US before I had to get married or send her home.
I decided another trip to the Philippines was necessary to meet my five prospective mates in person. I went back to PI in February 1987 for 30 days military leave. Three ladies agreed to meet me. Since I was more familiar with Angeles City, I made plans to meet them there spaced out over three weekends and leaving a week to spend with the lady of my choice in Manila to meet her family and friends before returning to the states. I made it clear there would be no hank-panky and each lady was free to bring a friend or relative. I reserved a separate room for the ladies in the main hotel while I stayed in the quieter and more private annex.
I flew into Manila and unexpectedly one of the ladies and her brother met me at the airport and helped me get to my hotel (satellite of the one I was using in AC). We had lunch and talked for a while. The brother took an interested and asked some probing questions about me, my family, and job. I took the hotel bus to AC and settled into the hotel. The reason I planned to meet the ladies over the weekend was to fit their work schedules and my mongering. Figuring I had Monday to Thursday to chase girls and a nice leisurely weekend spending time with my love interests and catching up on rest.
The first prospect to visit was the lady who met me in Manila and her brother. She was dark-skinned, tall and slim, 25 years old, and a school teacher. A very nice looking and self assured lady. We had some nice time together, meals, sight seeing, etc. After many long conversations, it was decided she would be happier staying in the PI and teaching school.
The second lady was a total waste of time but her sister was quite cute and outgoing.
The third lady was my favorite and my best hope for a mate. That is why she was the last to visit. She was 24, a trained engineer, 5'4, 105 lbs and really really cute. I was so sure about her I told my family about her and my hopes of marriage. Her best friend had sent her picture and bio to the agency and #3 confused when a bunch of unknown men started writing her. Her friend finally confessed. I was one of about three men she had corresponded with. Three days before her arrival, I received a phone call from her saying she would not be coming since her friend, who was to accompany her had backed out. I protested hoping she would still come. She said her sister, who she was living with, would not let her come alone. Crap!!
On the Friday lady #3 was to arrive, I had finally snagged a cute young bargirl I had been chasing for weeks and arranged to pick her up later for dinner, disco and a night together. When I returned to the hotel, BANG!!! There was lady #3 sitting demurely on a bench waiting for me. When it rains... She had defied her sister and come alone. I was impressed and more sure she was the one. I booked her a room and carried her bag for her. While she was freshening up, I scurried back to the bar and arranged a rain-check for the little honey I had been chasing. (It was anti-climatic since she was a terrible lay and I sent her home after a quickie.) Lady #3 and I spent some quality time together and decided to give marriage a chance.
Plans were made to meet in Manila and finalize the fiancée visa. I met her sister and brother-in-law and assured them I had the best of intentions. We took the paperwork to the US Embassy and had them check it. I had to wait until I got home to file the visa request which I did.
Made travel plans for her trip to the US. Marriage in the PI was out of the question due to paperwork and time restraints. The military required extensive marriage counseling and a 30-day waiting period. Immigration took about three months to process and approve the visa. My travel agent set up an open ticket with Philippine Airlines for my fiancée. I made wedding plans as we had decide not to drag out the engagement. Every thing looking rosy, right? WRONG. A week before fiancée was to leave the PI she called with bad news. When she went Philippine Airlines to book her flight, PAL said they had a three month backlog of people waiting for flights to the US. She was upset and I was less than happy. Called my travel agent at home and explained the situation. I authorized any new credit card charges and turned her loose on PAL. One last business class seat was snared and the trip was on. Looking rosy again, right? WRONG, again. On the appointed day, I flew to Los Angeles to meet my fiancée and found out her airplane was grounded in Manila for a one-time inspection and had not even taken off yet. Crap!! Was assured by PAL, airplane would arrive next day. Finally, she arrived and we returned home to start our new lives together.
There were some rough times but more good times. We celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary this past summer. My decision to marry lady #3 was the smartest thing I have ever done. She is still cute, young looking, and very passionate in bed. She keeps herself slim and fit, only gained 5 pounds in 20 years. I love her more today than ever.
There are some real jewels out there if you take the time to find them.
Slim
Agree with most of what you say
[QUOTE=Wu Master]In my opinion, Filipinas make the best girlfriends, lovers, and friends.compared to females in the other Asian countries, they aren't as strict, serious, prudish or hung up. Instead, they are more relaxed, carefree, happy-go-lucky, easygoing, playful, passionate and sensual. They are also very nonjudgmental and nonracist. And they have a great sense of humor, enjoying the silliest things which easily amuse them. Thus, you can always have fun and joke around or play with them, even if you have nothing else to talk about. That's so nice and refreshing, especially when you are so accustomed to ant****iality and hostility from women in the US.[/blue][/size][/QUOTE]I have found that not all Filipinas live up to this standard, but the ones who do make the hunt worthwhile. When they are playful and teasing and smiling as Wu describes they just light up the room, as well as my heart and groin. And yes, the brown rice metaphor works for me. Mas masarap!
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