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Good results with dating site
Its about midnight and I can't seem to get any sleep. I have spent the last hour reading different reports and I decided to add to the thread.
I see that some of the guys have used the different websites to try to line up girls that are non-pro, more cultured or anything else than the regular P4P. I have some great experiences with that and some bad ones. *one big thing to note you have to either be single or have a great amount of alone time since this is a time investment and its very hard to accomplish in less than 3 months.
A little background on who I am since I have been a member for a while but really not posted very much.
I was born in Latin America but I grew up my whole life in the States, which creates a little dilemma. To everyone who knows me they would refer to me as Hispanic because of my name and birth place but everyone I meet in Latin American countries refers to me as a Gringo because I never really lived in Latin America and grew up in the States. My Spanish is perfect but dated since I learned it at home and school yet I don't know the local idioms people are using.
In the last few years I really started to travel more to Latin America and I have spent time in Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, Peru, and Colombia. Usually with a gf and then solo or with a buddy to do some mongering.
Ok, back to the website story. I was surfing the Web and I ran across a site [url]www.latinamericancupid.com[/url] and decided to check it out. I had never used a and online dating site and decided what the hell lets see how this turns out.
I posted my profile, some good pics, riding motorcycles, pics from other cities, Paris, London and then I worked on my profile. The gist of my message was that I wanted to meet women that I shared similarities and were interested in a friendship and more (pure BS, I just wanted some hot ass but obviously I could not put that)
The site lets you send winks, or emails since initially did not have a good plan I was all over the place and the responses were lame. Specially since I was not getting any from the hottest girls.
I devised a new and created an email template (I spent some time really playing with the words so the women could dig it) that was personal enough but I could quickly adjust for each girls profile. I then created a list of all the women I wanted to meet and sent it out (when you are creating a list in the website you can use filters, I did no kids, age 21-35, college educated, Very attractive to attractive looks and athletic body types). I called it the shotgun approach, blast it to everyone and see what happens.
Initally I sent it out to about 50 women in different cities in Colombia, I got back about 65-70% response rate. I then followed up with a second email asking them to send me a recent photo with the date stamp and I attached recent pics of me so they would get the point. This time I still had a response rate better than 50%. Now I started to prioritize who I wanted to meet. I discarded cities I would not go to, and I focused on Medellin, Bogota, Pereira, Manizales and Armenia.
After the first to emails came the chatting on MSN, at this point you will realize that some are more interested than others and the list begins to get smaller. Also once I started chatting with them the personalities come out and some are just not my type. Finally I had a list of about 10 girls that I was in regular contact with and then I made my travel plans.
I have to tell you that I went to Medellin in May of 2006, with a buddy of mine (born in the US but raised in Venezuela, speaks English with a think accent and all, total opposite of my situation) and started to hook up with these girls. Most of them I went out twice or three times before I got laid and all of them where from el Poblado. With 3 I met the parents and 1 even took me to the private club her family is a member of.
I totally agree with some of the posts regarding the class system in Colombia and I use it to my advantage. I know that there are some hot poor girls but I want a girl with some class, educated, and that has a good network of friends. Mejor rosca en Medellin. Also the higher educated girls tend to not have kids, can afford the gym, have passports and many of them visas.
I will have to write a separate report on the ones that came over to the states to visit me.
The website has worked so well that usually before a trip to Colombia I start up again 3 of 4 months before and go at it.
I will post some pics of the girls I met, but I have to block out the faces since they are regular girls and they deserve a little privacy.
I will be leaving for Medellin in 2 days I have some other girls lined up for this trip. I think they will even be better than the ones from last time.
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