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Cane. It is time for a long break. You can get too much of a good thing. My advice is as follows:

1. Stay away from the clubs and the forums for 3-6 months. I have had to do this a few times and I always come back refreshed.

2. Find a way to break up your trips. Last trip to Europe, after my 4th FKK visit I was feeling a little disenchanted so I hoped in my rental car and drove several hundred KM to the neighboring country and I made an unplanned visit to a museum and a historical site in lieu of a 5th visit to an FKK. This tour became the highlight of my trip.

3. The hobby should be an important but secondary reason for travel. Yes, most of us hobby on business travel however. However, I have never jumped on a plane to fly to a hobby site with the sole purpose of pay-for-play. The hobby is part of a fishing or ski trip or to visit friends attend sporting events. One time it was Carnaval festivities etc. The hobby is my ulterior motive. I. E. Biking or Golf was the motive I could talk about but somehow that trip included a long layover in hobbyland. Five times I went to Montreal to attend GTs (which leads to point 4).

4. Hobby with friends. The five times in my life that I made a visit to hobby land for hobby related events was to attend GTs in Montreal and that was like a week of parties with friends and SP / WGs and I was never lonely. Some of the same guys go to Colombia in February. I would like to explore that venue as I have never been.

5. Meet people. I liked Sharks so much this year because of the organized Sauna treatments. This was really unique and fun and I am a gregarious person. I sometimes meet people to hang out with during my trips which makes the clubs so much fun.

6. Learn the language. Maybe I'm stretching here but I loved Brazil so much after the first visit that I decided to learn the language. I practice everyday. I look at a hobby trip there as a good reason to work on my Portuguese. Funny thing is that during my sessions with escorts (GDPs) I seem to learn the most Portuguese. Another funny thing is that I can practice my Portuguese with WGs all over Belgium, Spain, and Germany and the united States! The GDPs get around LOL. Now I want to learn French and German. The hobby is a great excuse and opportunity to learn language and culture for all.

These are just a few ideas but most of all you need a new hobby to delve into for the time being.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2228618]I think what I probably need to do is plan to take a long break off. And then when I come back, just stick to the two places that have never let me down. That would be Brazil and Germany. I've traveled to enough other places around the world that I don't feel like I would be missing anything. It would be great to get that feeling back that I had when I first started my career going to Costa Rica, but I think that's probably long gone, and will never come back. I would fly in for 10 days or so and fuck every pretty thing to my tastes that moved! Day 1 I would slam fuck like 7 different girls and nut in every single one of them! Day 2 fuck like 4 or 5 more and cum multiple times. Day 3 fuck 1 and jizz. Then day 4 not fuck anybody hahaha! But then after that settle into a steady flow of 2 a day until the end of the trip. All different girls! Those were the days! I wasn't getting it like that back at home. And unless you're a rock star who was?

I discovered bigger and better and have not been back to Costa Rica in years. But, I will always remember it fondly because that's where I started my international mongering career. I've been planning to take time away from the hobby. I think that I will go for one more year, then go ahead and take that break without any firm thoughts about when I might come back..[/QUOTE]Wow! What do you do for living and how much have you spent approx in your mongering career? I think you have done a life most of us are dreaming of.

[QUOTE=HungryStud101;2228749]The hobby should be an important but secondary reason for travel. Yes, most of us hobby on business travel however. However, I have never jumped on a plane to fly to a hobby site with the sole purpose of pay-for-play. The hobby is part of a fishing or ski trip or to visit friends attend sporting events. One time it was Carnaval festivities etc. The hobby is my ulterior motive. I. E. Biking or Golf was the motive I could talk about but somehow that trip included a long layover in hobbyland. Five times I went to Montreal to attend GTs. These are just a few ideas but most of all you need a new hobby to delve into for the time being.[/QUOTE]My number one hobby (long before mongering) has always been international travel. And then when I discovered the whole world of overseas sport fucking. Well, you all know the rest! Do you know how many guys out there still don't know about the extent of this "hobby"? My dream job is to have one of those traveling food shows. I would call mine "Hind Parts Unknown" LOLOLOL! I travel, I eat, I drink, I fuck. And I write! And I'm hungry for more! Why Tony, why? Rest in peace my friend.

But serious though, I hear you Hungry Stud, and I have already decided long ago that when I retire, except for going to Brazil and Germany, mongering will not dictate where I choose to travel. I still have many places yet to see, and as long as I am able and have the means, then I intend to see them too. And it won't matter to me if it's a good mongering destination or not. If there's some action to be had on the side great! And if not, then not. You're right. We need to take a break every now and then. Mix it up. Travel for the sake of the travel, and not just to get some PSE-quality tute puss and ass.

TheCane. Your plan sounds good to me.I like you enjoy the commercial element: see a girl, offer money, fuck, then (usually) goodbye.

But we are all different. We all find our own path. For example, HungryStud, I see you do the hobby as secondary to your main reason for visits. I am the opposite. When I do a hobby visit I cannot do anything else, I hate to miss a minute. Each to his own.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2228618]Also, I have to say that I am "afraid" to go back to non-pros. After a decade and a half of quality PSE sex with so, so many young, attractive prostitutes, I'm pretty certain that the non-pro scene could never satisfy me sexually again.[/QUOTE]I agree. Civilian girls from a purely physical standpoint do not satisfy me. However, there is a mental high for me when I have sex with a civilian girl that very first time, even if she might not be attractive as most of the WGs I pay for. Knowing that she is not tracking the time and expecting payment makes the sex that much sex better. But after a month, of course, that euphoria of free sex goes away as well.

It intrigues me how hardcore-mongers (most of us anyway) place such a high emphasis on optics and physical beauty. Is it nature or nurture? In other words, is it a chemical imbalance in our brains? Or deeper psychological issues? For instance, as I have said before, many people from poor backgrounds engage in conspicuous consumption. They grew up poor and society looked down on them. Once they start making some money, they spend a disproportionate amount of their income on flashy "visible goods" (I. E. designer purses, expensive sports cars, jewelry, and watches). It validates them. Could hardcore mongers have similar issues? Perhaps failure with civilian women in real-life during our teens causes us to develop expensive, insatiable appetite for only the most beautiful women later in life?

At the same time, I have spoken with many older mongers (both in terms of age and years in the game) who have uttered fatherly advice with the phrase "I know she is not much to look at, but. " So they have moved beyond physical attractiveness.

[QUOTE=DeltaIndigo;2228474]I had a pretty easy painless divorce, financially wise, but I kind of lost my trust and confidence in women but found pros to be a breath of fresh air, at least they were honest about what they were selling and giving it to you up front. The transactional part of it was actually great.[/QUOTE]Why did you lose your trust in women if you escaped relatively unscathed financially? Is it because she made an attempt at a money grab and failed? I've never been married, but I can see (and have heard) how expensive it can be.

That said the early dating-phase has always been cheap for me. Back in August I had a Tinder date with a 26-year-old German girl. The restaurant that I picked out, just by chance uses a plastic card system (similar to wristband system at Sharks where you pay upon check-out). When she got up from the table to go to the toilet, I used my card to get us a second round of beers. She didn't have any cash on her, but she wanted to exchange banking information so she could repay the money to me. I told her 4,50 EUR was not worth the effort for me to fiddle with my smartphone. We went back to her flat. We finished an old bottle of her vodka. And I slept there. The date cost me 5 EUR. Most Western girls will offer to pay for things.

I will admit that my lifestyle is low-maintenance. So I don't attract gold diggers. The few times I have attracted a gold digger, by accident, I made sure not to get attached, and got rid of them after we had sex a few times. To me, if I am going to keep a gold-digger around, I might as well just pay for a prostitute.

[QUOTE=McAdonis;2228871]Why did you lose your trust in women if you escaped relatively unscathed financially? Is it because she made an attempt at a money grab and failed? I've never been married, but I can see (and have heard) how expensive it can be.

That said the early dating-phase has always been cheap for me. Back in August I had a Tinder date with a 26-year-old German girl. The restaurant that I picked out, just by chance uses a plastic card system (similar to wristband system at Sharks where you pay upon check-out). When she got up from the table to go to the toilet, I used my card to get us a second round of beers. She didn't have any cash on her, but she wanted to exchange banking information so she could repay the money to me. I told her 4,50 EUR was not worth the effort for me to fiddle with my smartphone. We went back to her flat. We finished an old bottle of her vodka. And I slept there. The date cost me 5 EUR. Most Western girls will offer to pay for things.

I will admit that my lifestyle is low-maintenance. So I don't attract gold diggers. The few times I have attracted a gold digger, by accident, I made sure not to get attached, and got rid of them after we had sex a few times. To me, if I am going to keep a gold-digger around, I might as well just pay for a prostitute.[/QUOTE]She didn't make any attempt to get anything and I had a significant amount of assets, I kept my assets and she kept her asset, like we were never married. We were very close although we were living quite separate lives during the last two years, she just announced one day that she wanted out without a substantive explanation of any kind. To this day when people ask me why I got divorced I just have nothing to tell them.

I think it was something equivalent to the 7 year itch, relationships come under stress during various points and we were leading quite independent lives for a while. I think she might have had been in the incipient phases of an affair, but wanted to end the marriage promptly without telling me, although I am far from sure about this.

There are tons of women, young and pretty ones who will hang out with you without demanding much in return, however very few of them tend to be Romanian in my experience. The pros I have picked up and had for free are always non Romanians. I did not mean to make a blanket statement here, but I guess I did.

Sorry I have diverged from my original answer. It is important to know how to spot a gold digger, I agree with you on this.

[QUOTE=DeltaIndigo;2228881]She didn't make any attempt to get anything and I had a significant amount of assets, I kept my assets and she kept her asset, like we were never married. We were very close although we were living quite separate lives during the last two years, she just announced one day that she wanted out without a substantive explanation of any kind. To this day when people ask me why I got divorced I just have nothing to tell them.

I think it was something equivalent to the 7 year itch, relationships come under stress during various points and we were leading quite independent lives for a while. I think she might have had been in the incipient phases of an affair, but wanted to end the marriage promptly without telling me, although I am far from sure about this.

There are tons of women, young and pretty ones who will hang out with you without demanding much in return, however very few of them tend to be Romanian in my experience. The pros I have picked up and had for free are always non Romanians. I did not mean to make a blanket statement here, but I guess I did.

Sorry I have diverged from my original answer. It is important to know how to spot a gold digger, I agree with you on this.[/QUOTE]Fucking Romanian girls for free is quite challenging because 80 % of them have a stable relation with their pimp, BF or husband, this is the main culture of the country.

[QUOTE=Pistons;2228727]I've had a few whatsapp contacts lost over the years after my girl have seen me go with another girl. In a way they feel they own me if they give me their contact info. So this is my main problem here.

[/QUOTE]What you said is true if you didn't do any session with the WG you contacted with, but most of FKK mongers don't just do one session when they visit a club and they do at least 2 sessions. You should do at least one and first session with the WG you contacted with. If you do one and first session with this WG, I don't think she will be upset to see you doing other WG (s) after the session with her because she knows that most of tourist mongers do more than one session per club visit.

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When it comes to personal sex drive I found out this summer that running uphill is the best thing to do to prepare. You both increase your cardio, and lift your knees high up for great tight blood circulation.[/QUOTE]In my life I have tried (and am still trying by the way) everything you can think of to better my sex drive and sex performance, including what you did. My conclusion so far is that nothing is better than nutritional supplements if you have right formula of supplements. After reading your above statement, I am pretty sure that you didn't experiment any supplements or you had wrong formula when you experimented.

Happiness is each their own.

Some need companion, some need attention, some need so called love whether it is real or not and some need just sex.

I need mostly sex from beautiful girls and I like to change the beautiful girls I have sex on very occasionally.

I cannot enforce what make me happy, fulfilled, satisfied or alive etc. , but for me being stuck with old woman year after year is not a happiness for my taste.

I am fortunate to have base of life like eating among best food 3 times per day, I traveled extensively around world since young age, I live in safe nation etc, so it make sense for me to pursue what is all men's dream by nature, but only few will achieve which is in area of lust, fucking many beautiful girls from different nations, skin colors, religion, cultures, doing threesome getting two blonde or blonde white girl and black girl blowing me at same time etc.

All straight men dream of having sex with girls from around world, this actually is very achievable dream now for past let say 20 years given that prostitution industry began giving us easier access by providing us with many innovative platform, it is just that many men are stuck with blocked thinking and never bother to pursue it seriously by researching deeply and actually going to places. It cost, but now in recent 20 years, price become reasonable level to achieve if you work hard in developed nations.

Happiness is each their own, but I stick to human nature of greed and lust is one of them, I like to fulfill lust with many beautiful girls.

Been there, done that in multiple ways all around and also knowing it is there make us think we are getting bored with it.

However, it does not change the fact that only some of us men are fortunate enough to solve the demand / need in lust department of our life, this is actually rare thing.

I never forget that ever since I was child I always wanted fuck beautiful girls as I want from all different skin colors etc. And it happened into reality. Years has passed since I have been doing it over and over again and again, but with different beauty, and I am still blessed that all of these things that are rare for many men that became norm for me. I began at age 17 or 18 years old, so now it has been about 20 years passed since then. The girl I fucked back then who were 20's must be like in their 40's now.

We often forget what we used to dream or fantasized about once these things become into reality and then with repetition norm, but I am sure some of you also know many men at work or friends of yours so longing to fuck all these stunner beauty, but failed to do that and still wanking front of computer screen as their way of fulfilling their dream or sexual fantasies. We mongers are made man in that area.

Lust is one of human nature and dream for men. So in away we managed to live in our dream.

I do need more better lineup as FKK once used to be though LOL Like everything it got up and down, and I still do find stunners during every trip, not as many as before, but I am always excited to walk in to FKK floor upon landing to see who are there, which new beauty may walk into FKK floor.

For mongers, destiny and karma are new young beauty who walks in to FKK main floor while monger is there LOL.

Mr Ho and others would do well to read Alexander King's "Mine Enemy Grows Older". He talks (in 1958) of being an Austrian immigrant to the USA, a morphine addict and the reasons and joys of some 3-4 wives he had. Love is sometimes transient. He points out that many people are dragging an old heavy wagon (a relationship) and the load has gone rotten by familiarity, lack of respect, lack of trust, lack of lust and so on. Women have a limited reproductive shelf life and looks, that's just nature. Men are mostly fertile to death and even afterwards if harvested. And women are available and are less worried about age. It is security and love they seek.

Like many mongers here, I stopped counting a long time ago, but it would be hundreds of women I have had, just like restaurants. Some I relish and are loyal too. Others were bad, but on the whole I have done well, and made friends with a few mongers. There is no right or wrong way to get food, shelter or sex, people would laugh at the idea of only one supermarket or house for life. Or that one has to pay for certain things. Why is sex any different? We are designed to want to bed beautiful young women who give sexual joy and radiate life and health. Sex is an affirmation of life force itself.

Buried under this is the deep and critical social and economic imperative of 2. 1 live births per female to create economic units. Mongering is the milk without the cow and strikes at the heart of a flawed social contract of breed, consume and die.

[QUOTE=PahllusMaximus;2229016]Mr Ho and others would do well to read Alexander King's "Mine Enemy Grows Older". He talks (in 1958) of being an Austrian immigrant to the USA, a morphine addict and the reasons and joys of some 3-4 wives he had. Love is sometimes transient. He points out that many people are dragging an old heavy wagon (a relationship) and the load has gone rotten by familiarity, lack of respect, lack of trust, lack of lust and so on. Women have a limited reproductive shelf life and looks, that's just nature. Men are mostly fertile to death and even afterwards if harvested. And women are available and are less worried about age. It is security and love they seek.

Like many mongers here, I stopped counting a long time ago, but it would be hundreds of women I have had, just like restaurants. Some I relish and are loyal too. Others were bad, but on the whole I have done well, and made friends with a few mongers. There is no right or wrong way to get food, shelter or sex, people would laugh at the idea of only one supermarket or house for life. Or that one has to pay for certain things. Why is sex any different? We are designed to want to bed beautiful young women who give sexual joy and radiate life and health. Sex is an affirmation of life force itself.

Buried under this is the deep and critical social and economic imperative of 2. 1 live births per female to create economic units. Mongering is the milk without the cow and strikes at the heart of a flawed social contract of breed, consume and die.[/QUOTE]I collect memories of fucking beautiful girls, best foods I ate around world from different cuisine from expensive to cheap, ambience / feeling / senses of beautiful places I went and repeat.

I get bored with girlfriend, but I never get bored with above because it never runs out and each time is new experience all over again.

Happiness is each their own, and I found mine long ago, but it took awhile to figure it out because society tells me different opinion in area of lust. I mean I prefer to change girls often and I want her to be beautiful.

[QUOTE=DeltaIndigo;2228881]She didn't make any attempt to get anything and I had a significant amount of assets, I kept my assets and she kept her asset, like we were never married. We were very close although we were living quite separate lives during the last two years, she just announced one day that she wanted out without a substantive explanation of any kind. To this day when people ask me why I got divorced I just have nothing to tell them.

I think it was something equivalent to the 7 year itch, relationships come under stress during various points and we were leading quite independent lives for a while. I think she might have had been in the incipient phases of an affair, but wanted to end the marriage promptly without telling me, although I am far from sure about this.

There are tons of women, young and pretty ones who will hang out with you without demanding much in return, however very few of them tend to be Romanian in my experience. The pros I have picked up and had for free are always non Romanians. I did not mean to make a blanket statement here, but I guess I did.

Sorry I have diverged from my original answer. It is important to know how to spot a gold digger, I agree with you on this.[/QUOTE]It sounds like you exited with only emotional damage. I understand that pain plus. I married a woman who entered the relationship with nothing. At that time I couldn't imagine how it would be to have so little in the world. When she left, she left me with nothing plus emotional the scars. Fortunately I chose the financial buy out up front instead of the payments for life option. This left me with the option to recover financially and now I give what would probably be her alimony to women in the club.

Does it seem to anyone else that the €50 cost for extras is creeping more and more into NRW clubs? I've run across this about 10 times in the past month in clubs that have traditionally been €25 for extras and more and more girls have new ideas of what is extra. I recently had a session with a base price of €100 but had I bought her extras I would have ended at €250. This behavior from the ladies will turn me into a 30 minute specialist. That will mean a lot less happy endings but the body count will surge.