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Masturbation.
[QUOTE=HungryStud101;2229369]I know guys that will go cold turkey from masturbation and they swear by it. Not me.[/QUOTE]A number of studies have concluded that regular ejaculation is good for the physical health of a man. A reduced level of ejaculation is associated with an increased probability of maladies such as prostate cancer. So yank way hahaha! Isn't it funny how, say from middle school on when you're old enough to start talking about jerking off, you'd be laughed at and shamed right on into university for extolling the value of masturbation LOL! Well, as you get older and mature, you realize and accept it as a basic fact of life. Human beings seek physical pleasure, and cranking off is one of those LOL! For you guys with sons, how did you deal with that haha! Never mind LOL! Women beat that clit too let me tell you. Had plenty of girlfriends admit to that shit.
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SmokeLight. You are not alone in liking your "appointment" girl to be seen to be going with other guys while you act like the special guy who is so chilled and confident of her affection (LOL) that he can wait. Like you I think the conspiratorial element is fun: the girl tells you all about her sessions. It was even better when there was more public action. Also a girl who has already made her minimum target for the day is more relaxed when she gets to me.
So many games to create the illusion. It is a way of adding value to the session. Call me weird I don't mind :D
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[QUOTE=LaBambaBoy;2229327]This use to happen to me. I got in the habit of taking a single mental snapshot of some part of the session, and really remembering it. Now, I can flick back through girls and remember them in one position, and how I felt at the time. Takes some work (not always in shape to concentrate LOL), but it has worked for me.[/QUOTE]Mental snapshots. Great technique. Thumbs up.
I occasionally now will ask the girl to do a (non sex) video on my phone. And sometimes I have even written down things they say. One guy has a huge library of self made sex videos of the girls he goes with.
If I have a good session then some of the physical sensations stay in my mind, but they fade over the years:(
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[QUOTE=LaBambaBoy;2229327]This use to happen to me. I got in the habit of taking a single mental snapshot of some part of the session, and really remembering it. Now, I can flick back through girls and remember them in one position, and how I felt at the time. Takes some work (not always in shape to concentrate LOL), but it has worked for me.[/QUOTE]I am not sure I can take mental snapshots in FKK clubs because what is missing is the emotion. It is the emotion that makes you take the click of the shot in your brain.
I will give it a try on next visit though.
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[QUOTE=Pksimar69;2229635]I am not sure I can take mental snapshots in FKK clubs because what is missing is the emotion. It is the emotion that makes you take the click of the shot in your brain.
I will give it a try on next visit though.[/QUOTE]Getting emotion in a FKK with prostitutes, let us be a little bit serious, emotion have nothing to do with money, when we are paying for sex all the emotion are gone at least for me.
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[QUOTE=Optimist;2229577]SmokeLight. You are not alone in liking your "appointment" girl to be seen to be going with other guys while you act like the special guy who is so chilled and confident of her affection (LOL) that he can wait. Like you I think the conspiratorial element is fun: the girl tells you all about her sessions. It was even better when there was more public action. Also a girl who has already made her minimum target for the day is more relaxed when she gets to me.
So many games to create the illusion. It is a way of adding value to the session. Call me weird I don't mind :D[/QUOTE]LOL, thanks for your support. Lust, humor, fantasy, public sex, dancing, friendship, couch play, mirrors, FFM, MMF, lingerie, toys, anal, other extras. "Sexually obsessed psychopath" I was called once by my favorite while she unrolled her London strawberry condom on me. Life is good.
Speaking of public action: plenty of it in Samya during busy Koln messe weeks. Just go to the third floor kino in the morning wee hours when all the rooms are busy.
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[QUOTE=TheCane;2229443]A number of studies have concluded that regular ejaculation is good for the physical health of a man. A reduced level of ejaculation is associated with an increased probability of maladies such as prostate cancer. So yank way hahaha! Isn't it funny how, say from middle school on when you're old enough to start talking about jerking off, you'd be laughed at and shamed right on into university for extolling the value of masturbation LOL! Well, as you get older and mature, you realize and accept it as a basic fact of life. Human beings seek physical pleasure, and cranking off is one of those LOL! For you guys with sons, how did you deal with that haha! Never mind LOL! Women beat that clit too let me tell you. Had plenty of girlfriends admit to that shit.[/QUOTE]If someone catch us going to FKK, then we got excuses now.
We can tell them, we are going to special clinic in Germany for medical treatment for keeping our pipes clean to prevent prostate cancer LOL LOL.
FKK clinic prevent prostate cancer keeping your pipes clean and neat LOL.
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Do the Guys that write here (who are also supposed to be somewhat frequent mongers that have fucked hundreds of women if not many more) really need advice and discussion on whether to masturbate or not, how often to do it, how to do it, etc etc. at the somewhat advanced ages that most of us are around here? One would think that is such a fundamental aspect of your sex life that you have figured it by now.
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Study hall
No question that regular release is a biological need and an emotional positive. For both men and women. Going monk or "dry" is fine as well, it's just not for me. A test of wills, and I imagine the eventual release after weeks or months of holding back is mind blowing. But I'll take the regular drip drip drip of occasional mongering and frequent fapping.
Now, how do I get into one of these "studies" where I get paid to ejaculate?
[QUOTE=TheCane;2229443]A number of studies have concluded that regular ejaculation is good for the physical health of a man. A reduced level of ejaculation is associated with an increased probability of maladies such as prostate cancer. So yank way hahaha! Isn't it funny how, say from middle school on when you're old enough to start talking about jerking off, you'd be laughed at and shamed right on into university for extolling the value of masturbation LOL! Well, as you get older and mature, you realize and accept it as a basic fact of life. Human beings seek physical pleasure, and cranking off is one of those LOL! For you guys with sons, how did you deal with that haha! Never mind LOL! Women beat that clit too let me tell you. Had plenty of girlfriends admit to that shit.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Chacal60;2229813]No question that regular release is a biological need and an emotional positive. For both men and women. Going monk or "dry" is fine as well, it's just not for me. A test of wills, and I imagine the eventual release after weeks or months of holding back is mind blowing. But I'll take the regular drip drip drip of occasional mongering and frequent fapping.
Now, how do I get into one of these "studies" where I get paid to ejaculate?[/QUOTE]So we can say that we mongers are going to Germany for medical treatment conducted by mostly Romanian doctors who specialize in penis pipe cleaning surgery LOL The surgery methods can be done by mouth, vagina or anal depending on how much patient is willing to pay LOL.
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2229782]Do the Guys that write here (who are also supposed to be somewhat frequent mongers that have fucked hundreds of women if not many more) really need advice and discussion on whether to masturbate or not, how often to do it, how to do it, etc etc. at the somewhat advanced ages that most of us are around here? One would think that is such a fundamental aspect of your sex life that you have figured it by now.[/QUOTE]Do it every day, just do not use masturbation holes or if you choose to use masturbation holes, then do not be stingy with gel, other wise you will suffer with dick cutting syndrome LOL! I am not joking, it took me one year to fix my dick after finding out how good Japanese masturbation holes are over using it without not enough gel LOL!
When you do masturbate, be sure to use facebook or instagram photos of FKK girls you fucked and exchanged sns information before she kicked you out of her sns list LOL! As soon as they connect you, you have to save picture as straight away ASAP because normally they disconnect you within matter of some time, so as long as you save as right away, you have plenty of photos to masturbate to for rest of your life as photo of her that you fucked never stay old even though she will LOL!
As for escort, try to film it, then you got your own porn LOL! Thanks god cameras are getting smaller and smaller, go pro! And go pro monger! And go pro masturbaters LOL!
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[QUOTE=MrHo;2229860]Do it every day
When you do masturbate, be sure to use facebook or instagram photos of FKK girls you fucked and exchanged sns information [/QUOTE]Mr. Ho,
I failed in my duties last night. I have now been home just two full nights and thought I was over the jetlag so after the TNF game between the Rams and the Vikings concluded I got out my iPad and a roll of paper towels to take matters in to my own hand but at 5:30 AM woke up fully clothed on my couch and the Ipad on my chest still powered off. Never got around to things. Might be a costly mistake now that I am awake and able to pay for it today so hopefully I can be strong and not give in to my desires and either make it till tonight or pass out early again. Save me $100 if I can.
We guys can be quite visual but I tend to lean on PornHub for my visuals rather than pics in the phone or computer etc. I also like to think of girls past, present and future mentally sometimes from memory which can be crystal clear at times as I can concentrate on the ' task in hand' rather than having to play with one and use a mouse to scroll with the other. Multi tasking sucks unless it is of course a Nein Vashed Gypsy sitting on your face while another one rides you.
JNPR30 has a great point that we all should know our own sex lives and jerking off etc by now but my sex life so to say is always changing which brings jerking off in to play needing an adjustment over time as well especially as I have aged and am no longer the young buck I was when I started 30 years ago. That being said I have to balance too much self stimulation prior to trips and abstinence prior to trips greater than I ever did before when was young (Aging is not fun, almost on the wrong side of 50).
So I personally don't mind the discussions of jerking / wanking as it can have an effect on ones trips and I like to get the maximum bang for the Euro when I travel so I always do enjoy talking such with guys. I actually had a discussion this past week at Day Care with a gent who drives down once a week usually on weekends from the Cologne area. He tells me he jerks off and has a sliding scale so to say. For every Gypsy he plans to nail (2-3 a day and usually makes 1 or 2 day trips) that he upon return to Cologne Saturday or Sunday night decides if he will go to Day Care 1 or 2 times the following weekend so if he plans one day he abstains 2-3 days prior and if he plans a two day trip meaning 5-6 zimmers he holds off 5-6 days (one for each pounding) often all week sometimes.
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2229782]Do the Guys that write here (who are also supposed to be somewhat frequent mongers that have fucked hundreds of women if not many more) really need advice and discussion on whether to masturbate or not, how often to do it, how to do it, etc etc. at the somewhat advanced ages that most of us are around here? One would think that is such a fundamental aspect of your sex life that you have figured it by now.[/QUOTE]There are forums of men, aged 20-70 (but primarily in the lower range), who can only climax when watching porn. Viagra helps these men achieve and maintain erection while having vaginal sex but they still have extreme difficulty climaxing with a vagina. Many mongers have admitted to me that they have difficulty climaxing during FKK trips. Some have pulled out their smartphones and watched porn. Some try to visualize their favorite porn scene.
Age could be factor. Guys I talked to were 35-50. But perhaps porn is also a factor. All reported that they use streaming porn (sometimes multiple times a day) when away from FKK land. In scientific experiments, isn't it customary to isolate the variables via controlled experiments?
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2230095]There are forums of men, aged 20-70 (but primarily in the lower range), who can only climax when watching porn. Viagra helps these men achieve and maintain erection while having vaginal sex but they still have extreme difficulty climaxing with a vagina. Many mongers have admitted to me that they have difficulty climaxing during FKK trips. Some have pulled out their smartphones and watched porn. Some try to visualize their favorite porn scene.
Age could be factor. Guys I talked to were 35-50. But perhaps porn is also a factor. All reported that they use streaming porn (sometimes multiple times a day) when away from FKK land. In scientific experiments, isn't it customary to isolate the variables via controlled experiments?[/QUOTE]Years ago in my first ever FKK room at Bernds I finished in condom in about 5 minutes with Christina, plain vanilla missionary sex. Then many visits to Sharks, Oase, GT, LR, DV, Samya, Babylon, mostly optifuck sessions. And it hit me: first day at FKK, 2nd or 3rd room, and finishing in a rubber is already problematic. Close to a year I stayed on the wrong path looking for expensive (and unnecessary!) extras. My recovery was finding true DFK with real GF attitude. LR was a safe heaven for that. Something I will not forget.
AO, of course, is a possible solution to the problem, but not for me, I don't AO.
If you have a fetish, don't be shy to ask a girl to enhance your experience. Many girls are really bored at work, so when they hear about your needs, many jump with a spark of excitement, especially on repeat rooms with a known guy. I enjoy beautiful legs, feet, socks, stockings, and high heels. Combined with mirrors, it's quite a porn scene, helps to focus on getting the job done. Little details help, but finding the right girl is a key.
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[QUOTE=KosherKowboy;2229987]Mr. Ho,
I failed in my duties last night. I have now been home just two full nights and thought I was over the jetlag so after the TNF game between the Rams and the Vikings concluded I got out my iPad and a roll of paper towels to take matters in to my own hand but at 5:30 AM woke up fully clothed on my couch and the Ipad on my chest still powered off. Never got around to things. Might be a costly mistake now that I am awake and able to pay for it today so hopefully I can be strong and not give in to my desires and either make it till tonight or pass out early again. Save me $100 if I can.
We guys can be quite visual but I tend to lean on PornHub for my visuals rather than pics in the phone or computer etc. I also like to think of girls past, present and future mentally sometimes from memory which can be crystal clear at times as I can concentrate on the ' task in hand' rather than having to play with one and use a mouse to scroll with the other. Multi tasking sucks unless it is of course a Nein Vashed Gypsy sitting on your face while another one rides you..[/QUOTE]I usually never jerks off during FKK trip, but I have in Berlin once, I was high on legally tolerated herbs and I jerked off after few sessions in FKK with rola takizawa photos that I fucked back home. It was very wonderful moment to remember LOL.
Eating fine food and fucking beautiful girls are men's biggest pleasure in life and dream for men and for us it is the dream we turned into reality, we are very lucky for that. I will appreciate it and keep on pushing the numbers of beautiful girls that I will fuck in my life.
It is nice to bump into or meet briefly and chat with some old mongers veterans in FKK who has been mongering for years, I have been doing it for 20 years this year or next, so I hope I will be old mongers when it go into 40 years of experience LOL I will be about 58 years old then.
The question some who do not understad ask is, is this your accomplishment in life? Well I do other things too, and I did other things like travelling around, eating gourmet food and I came to conclusion, in life fucking beautiful girls are big accomplishments and achievement because it is not available for most men because they do not pursue it, some guys like us do pursue this seriously to the extent many of us fly half the way around this planet just to fuck new young beautiful girls.
I love fucking more new beautiful girls among other things, but fucking more and more new beautiful girls are very central core of my life feeling alive. I traveled extensively saw many beautiful things by nature or by human, but nothing beat fucking new beautiful girls. It still excite me when I am about to fuck new beautiful stunner.
Some people like hitting small ball with stick into hole on ground and keep score called golf, I like to put my stick called penis into 3 holes of beautiful girls. It is each their own things.
All beautiful girls I fucked are stored heavenly in my memory palace, I got a lot to look back to and smile when I am older and already do, and I will never stop adding more memories LOL!