Medellin Reports

[quote=extrana144; 1442308]i know i'm going to take a lot of heat for this post, so i apologize if i offend anyone in advance. i was wondering if any of you have actually fathered children with your colombian girlfriends and what is that experience like if you're an ex-pat?

i haven't gone mongering yet, but now that i'm in my early 30's i've come to the conclusion that i've never been a big believer in marriage. i always feel pressure from my family and society to get married, but i've always enjoyed being with different women. it feels more natural to my personality and even though i live in white suburbia, i am more attracted to hispanic women. i've learned a lot by reading this forum and picked up some great information by the posters on this board. this is really the only place that i could even confide such thoughts.

i'm single with no kids and very financially stable thanks to my career. i'm going to be retiring in my late 30's. i know i'm supposed to feel ashamed for thinking this way, but i feel like tying myself down to one woman is a waste when i could have many in a country like colombia considering my circumstances. i've had this growing desire to father children with multiple different women. i could buy them a houses in a safe neighborhoods, pay for schooling, food, medical expenses, etc. i am financially capable of caring for multiple families at the same time, but morally it might be difficult, because i won't physically be there for them all the time.

i also don't want to do this in the states, because i've seen how the court systems [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] fathers in this country. i don't know how the court system is in colombia, but i can't imagine its as bad. it's like my brain is constantly battling between instinct and logic. i guess that's what makes us human.

anyways, am i evil for thinking this way considering my circumstances?[/quote]highly doable in colombia.

i have thought about having a one more child with a colombiana and pretty much setting her up for life compared to the opportunities colombian society tends to offer many young women.

the deal is i buy a house when she has the child and the house is for the child. plus i pay to maintain the home and the child.

i wouldn't do this with a women i didn't know or care for a great deal. so the house would be a place that we would all live in. but if the relationship didn't work out then the agreement would be that the child stays put. and she can do whatever she wants outside the home and i'll do the same.

the problem i have run into is that all the really hot single chicks that i have met so far aren't really into having a child even if it means a free house. plenty of chicks that already have a child would do it in a heart beat but i won't do it with women that already have children. the only prospect that i'm considering is a very attractive 21 year old that had a child and then let her mother adopt it and she only has visitation rights. she would like to do it but i'll have to get to know her much more before pulling the trigger on that.

Can I rent a racquet, hopefully Babolat, there or somewhere? I do not want to carry mine at the airport. Will I find someone to play with there?

[QUOTE=Runner Up; 1443337]I play tennis in campestre but you can play at el estadio. It is nice and they have jugadores you can play with for 12, 000 pesos + court 26, 000/2 players open until 10 at night. Google lat tenis (notice one and in tennis all one worrd) or the number is 448 2401. If dialing from a cell phone dial 034 first.

I have never been banned from ISG. I do speak my mind and call out the losers as I see fit.[/QUOTE]

If you are handsome, regardless of race, you will do good in Colombia. I saw that handsome black guys are doing great in Colombia.

[QUOTE=Runner Up;1443322]It sounds like you're black from looking at your grammar / posts. Here in Medellin from my experiences that is a really bad thing unless you just want to go to the casas and strip clubs. I'm not trying to be mean but the blacks all over the world are really poor and still live in huts. You can watch this documentary. Pacific colombiano on vimeo to see it in Colombia for yourself. The author has done a lot of these around the world and he shows how blacks live without federal assistance in his words. I thought about listing where I play tennis and golf while here and where I am staying but for the sake of my sources not getting mucked I think it is better I don't. As far as meeting ladies there is no magic pill other than some money to travel, time and looking very gringo. I say looking gringo because no matter what bs people say. It gets me laid all around the world and definitely in the USA. You should go to the Dominican Republic and try to convert a p4p in my opinion. I hope you understand the facts and not try to say I'm racist or some crap because I have lots of black tennis partners and friends that are all shades. Heck I just went to Panama with a black Panamanian and he didn't have near as much fun as I did. He basically wore his st johns hat around (played baseball for st. Johns) and looked like all the other Panamanians from Colon.[/QUOTE]

Let's get together at court sometime. I am around 3. 5-4. 0.

[QUOTE=Combo;1443213]Where do you play golf and tennis in Medellin? I enjoy both, and I would like something to do on my vacations other than just banging chicas. I'm almost 50 and two a day is about my limit, so that leaves alot of time for doing other stuff.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CaliPro; 1443290]He is giving them money and / or gifts, so pretty much they are pros and semi pros. A true player has girls come over because they like him or the sex and not for any gifts or rewards. No disrespect, just keeping it real.

Anyways I am 27 and generally speaking mostly game and bang non pros. You can meet these girls numerous ways. Online, malls, plazas, markets, gym, dance class, bars, and clubs. I game them the same way I would game any girl in the world. Simply use any combination of your looks and personality traits to build attraction. I do like to have a beer in strip clubs from time to time and try and pick up strippers and pros to mix things up. Simply get their number for when they are off work and plan a date or night out on the town. Treat them like a normal girl and try to build attraction as usual. Let them know early in the date or preferably in the strip club the previous night you don't pay for sex (even if its a lie) and say something to the effect of why don't these guys just get a lady more in their range for free (30-40's year old Colombiana). This will help her seperate you from the regular joes and sex tourists in her mind.

Nightgame in Colombia is tricky do to girls going out in groups tha are usually mixed making it hard to meet women if you don't know what you are doing. There are someways around this.

1) Ask girls on the street in a party zona where the best place to go is. Sometimes when you are alone they will invite you to join them (if they are interested in you)

2) While in the club / bar do your rounds and examine the scene to figure out which girls in the groups are single. Look to intercept these girls when they break from the group (coming from the restroom, going to dance, going to the bar, making a phone call, smoking etc.)

3) Look to make casual friendly conversation with the guys of groups. If you play it cool and are friendly (maybe buy a round) they will invite you into their group and introduce you to the girls. This is a more advanced move / trick so might take some time to figure out how to do this / what to say etc.

I go out solo probably 50% of the time. The other half I usually bring a girl or two along or go with a group of guys and girls.[/QUOTE]I like your style CaliPro.

But pulling really hot chicks out of a very nice night club is easier said than done. I have been doing the Cali scene for many many years and the only real success I have ever had doing that is with a very attractive wing woman. She was great but lost contact with her after I sacked up with a chick for a few years.

If you can really pull super hot chicks from high end clubs, I'll let you stay with me for free when I'm in Cali. I'm not really interested in Colombian Cupid women less than 1% of them would qualify as really hot in my book. And shoring hookers is well pointless to me. It's the difference between spending hours talking to a distressed woman and a couple hundred thousand pesos. Not time well spent IMHO.

Let me know when you are coming down for sure.

[QUOTE=Ricardo Torres;1443314]If you guys do not know about Runner Up by now then it is a lost cause. Read the posting history and you will find that he more than likely has never stepped foot on the soil of the country of Colombia, or anywhere else for that matter. He would be lucky if he got out of his mothers basement.[/QUOTE]Yep, we've determined a long time ago that he's probably some retarded 14 year old with dreams of being Rafael Nadal, playing table tennis in his backyard with his 12 year old cousin he refers to as his "paisa non-pro".

[QUOTE=CaliPro;1443290]I do like to have a beer in strip clubs from time to time and try and pick up strippers and pros to mix things up. Simply get their number for when they are off work and plan a date or night out on the town. Treat them like a normal girl and try to build attraction as usual. [b]Let them know early in the date or preferably in the strip club the previous night you don't pay for sex (even if its a lie) and say something to the effect of why don't these guys just get a lady more in their range for free (30-40's year old Colombiana). This will help her seperate you from the regular joes and sex tourists in her mind.[/b][/QUOTE]Come on CaliPro. I thought you were a serious poster until I read this shit. You seriously are in strip clubs trying to get free pussy by telling her:

[QUOTE=CaliPro;1443290]why don't these guys just get a lady more in their range for free (30-40's year old Colombiana).[/QUOTE]

???

Seriously, is ISG where the all the male teens come to hang out at now that school is out for summer? Go kick a ball around outside with friends or skateboard at the mall or some shit. Fuck, LOL!

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I may be misunderstanding what some of you are thinking about in terms of fathering a child in Medellin, but if all you want to do is financially support a paisa while she raises your kid essentially on her own, you've got a F*CKED up idea of what it means to be a father. And do you honestly think having a kid is going to keep your prepago baby mama from hooking on the side? Sounds like a great little family you'd be building there!

Hopefully I completely misunderstood and you're actually thinking about raising the kid, like a FATHER does. Otherwise you may as well just go to a sperm bank and donate that shit to a family that is going to pay good $$$ for your spooge, that way atleast you know they're dedicated and have financial means to support the kid.

[QUOTE=Cali Hentai;1443442]I have thought about having a one more child with a Colombiana and pretty much setting her up for life compared to the opportunities Colombian society tends to offer many young women. The deal is I buy a house when she has the child and the house is for the child. Plus I pay to maintain the home and the child. The problem I have run into is that all the really hot single chicks that I have met so far aren't really into having a child even if it means a free house.[/QUOTE]Are you guys serious? Making a baby just because the mother is pretty? Kids need more than just a roof over their head and a dad who pops up every now and then. But I guess if it's your kid you can treat it how you see fit. It's good to see that some of these women that people talk so bad about have a lot more sense than some of these guys.