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Boundaries
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1755563]Thais girls do not like guys pulling on ponytail. The head taboo is only a mild one. I never hold a girl's head during BBBJ, regardless of her nationality. However some Thai girls have been known to pull on my head during DATY when they are getting close to orgasm and want it a bit stronger. Intimate people are allowed to touch each others heads as long as it is done nicely. You would not touch someone's head, who you do not know though.[/QUOTE]Thanks for identifying the boundaries, Syzygies.
Normally, I never tug on a girl's ponytail, especially during doggy. I prefer to grab a hold of both her arms in locked position for a greater pull and thrust. I do like to cradle a girl's head during BBBJ. I like to gently caress her hair and sometimes brush it back so that I can see her pretty face while she works on me.
I will make sure she grabs my head when I give her DATY. Much prefer that over her giving me the straight arm, pushing my forehead away. LOL.
FiddyCent.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1755571]She did not stop me after 2 inches its just the face is screwed up like she is struggling to stand it. LOL No chance of a GFE. I still managed to cum in the end. She was however wanting me to finish quicker.
I meet a lot of DS girls, in bars or Oilies, much less so with PSE Oily shops, and much less so with older girls like 30 plus. Even girls that have had babies can be very tight and still dick scared. To put a percentage on is difficult. With western hookers its only about 20%. With Thai girls that are not in PSE type shops, its getting close to 50%. Could be higher. I don't keep a tally. Obviously it cuts my success rate markedly and makes every new girl tried a gamble. I therefore have excellent reasons to keep repeating my favourite girls that like dick and are not scared. There are also girls reluctant because I tend to take a long time to cum and therefore, even though a soft fucker, its a long duration sex that scares some on them. Again PSE type shops would be more used to lengthy fucking.
No point to complain to mamsan. She could just say "Anaconda" and everyone would be happy with her excuse. In Thailand you even get girls refusing you, before they have even seen you without pants on. At one Oily in Soi 24/1 the girl was very pretty. She however told me straight off that she likes small dicks and would not take me unless I was small. I suppose she wanted to see it first. LOL
I believe I am actually only slightly above the western average, compensated for by being a slow and soft fucker. No Sadist. So I just don't understand the problem. I understand much better that girls do not like to fuck for a very long time.[/QUOTE]Yea, some of these gals have just chosen the wrong line of work. Had a sesh for the first time with the infamous Sandy at Addict recently and we spoke a bit about the lack of performance from so many of the oily gals these days. Sandy mentioned that she has tried to coach some of the girls at Addict but to no avail. And then they ask her why she has so many customers and are perplexed about it. I guess some of these gals think they can get by just on looks, and perhaps with certain demographics they can. Sandy of course seems to really enjoy sex and enjoy her work. She delights in having a man in the palm of her hand and delivering pleasure and fun. As Sandy said to most of the gals now it is just "work. ".
The average farang has about a 5 inch pecker or there abouts. If you are packing 7+ then for many of the gals it is a bit daunting, especially if they don't like sex. If they do it can be a real treat for them. Great thing about most PSE shop gals is they can take a pounding and in many cases enjoy it.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1755581]Yea, some of these gals have just chosen the wrong line of work. Had a sesh for the first time with the infamous Sandy at Addict recently and we spoke a bit about the lack of performance from so many of the oily gals these days. Sandy mentioned that she has tried to coach some of the girls at Addict but to no avail. And then they ask her why she has so many customers and are perplexed about it. I guess some of these gals think they can get by just on looks, and perhaps with certain demographics they can. Sandy of course seems to really enjoy sex and enjoy her work. She delights in having a man in the palm of her hand and delivering pleasure and fun. As Sandy said to most of the gals now it is just "work. ".
The average farang has about a 5 inch pecker or there abouts. If you are packing 7+ then for many of the gals it is a bit daunting, especially if they don't like sex. If they do it can be a real treat for them. Great thing about most PSE shop gals is they can take a pounding and in many cases enjoy it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the insights. I think the girls at Oilies have generally declined in service markedly over the last few years. When I first started in Oilies, quite late since I did Soapies for years before that, I was probably using Tulip, Thonglor 2, Angel occasionally, and a few others, I forget the names, and most of the girls were pretty much okay It was only the top looks difficult to find. These days it is a lot more miss than hit unless in PSE shops.
Finding Bai-Fern at Yoremichi a couple of years back, I now realize was a super fluke, since she was stunning in face and body, and a very bubbly fun GFE. I believe she only lasted a couple of months and left reportedly to get married. Could not last. Gaew at Pink lasted a lot longer. Her body was fabulous and face quite nice but service a bit lower. Still great though due to visuals. Angie at Cherry had incredible body and only lasted only weeks, if that long. If her service wasn't really top, I didn't care. I liked Cat at Mango and June at SW, so even though not stunning, these girls were good enough looking and fun for me. Any girls like those around these days? I would be happy enough with that standard, if no sillies. I was okay With Niw at All Stars. Very pretty. Its just a pity she is hampered by being DS, and I think BJ was a bit ordinary.
I had assumed the average was like 6 inches, and less for Asians. I do still find girls that like sex though and don't care much what size the dick is, as long as not like a poor guy I know with a dick like a coke bottle. Its not at all impossible for hookers to enjoy sex if they like the customer. Even those that don't get it off, can still give customer service if they want. Thinking of some of the famous super stars.
I never give girls a pounding. So its hard to understand their trepidation. Some are mothers and a baby already popped out of there. I always assumed that girls would be much more scared of a pounding since uterus is not that deep (maybe only 4 to 5 inches) and could get badly bruised. I can't fuck girls with padding sponge inserted into pussy during the period, since if put fingers in I can feel it at 3 to 4 inches in. It just completely spoils the feeling of sex for me, but strangely many guys don't seem to know that girls have these things inside them. Girls are always surprised by me knowing something is wrong straight away.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1755596]I never give girls a pounding. So its hard to understand their trepidation. Some are mothers and a baby already popped out of there. I always assumed that girls would be much more scared of a pounding since uterus is not that deep (maybe only 4 to 5 inches) and could get badly bruised. I can't fuck girls with padding sponge inserted into pussy during the period, since if put fingers in I can feel it at 3 to 4 inches in. It just completely spoils the feeling of sex for me, but strangely many guys don't seem to know that girls have these things inside them. Girls are always surprised by me knowing something is wrong straight away.[/QUOTE]I don't mean "pounding" literally, only figuratively. Just talking about gals that liked to be screwed intensely. The day after a good sesh my pubic bone is usually a bit bruised from the gal grinding on me and me grinding on her. It is incredible that gals who have had a kid would have issue with a penis. But, if they are not into it and dry, it is understandable.
The sponge is a no go for me as well. I can tell instantly and even with a condom on they can abrade the pecker.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1755636]I don't mean "pounding" literally, only figuratively. Just talking about gals that liked to be screwed intensely. The day after a good sesh my pubic bone is usually a bit bruised from the gal grinding on me and me grinding on her. It is incredible that gals who have had a kid would have issue with a penis. But, if they are not into it and dry, it is understandable.
The sponge is a no go for me as well. I can tell instantly and even with a condom on they can abrade the pecker.[/QUOTE]I think it is obvious what pounding means. Sure vigorous sex which makes a mild bang bang sound on collision. I have felt discomfort when girls have pounded me in cowgirl position from the force. One girl from Thonglor 2 years ago pounded me in Cowgirl position and was bleeding afterwards. Not my fault. I wasn't in control. My current Crazy House favourite likes to be pounded a bit, but I am probably not powerful enough for her preference. She likes DATY quite hard at the climax in order to cum. I would say she orgasms with difficulty but maybe be easier for an experienced pounder to get her there. Definitely seems enthusiastic on the bed and I like how she tongue kisses too. Not meeting many girls that want the hard fucking though. Could be too dangerous to their health.
Abrading the condom is common. Sponge broke the condom for me many years ago so I know this danger all too well. After condom abraded, next it is your cock. Sponges are dangerous. I don't care if there is a little color coming out on the condom, when girl has a period.
I use heaps of a very high quality non-sticky lube from OS that does not dry up quickly, unless girl wants to use her own. So never do dry humping. I like the very slippery feel. Natural juices last for just a short time, but lube is essential with condoms. I even argue for more lube when girl wants less.
I know one girl who doesn't like lube because she has strong pussy muscles and she likes to get a real grip on your cock. The lube weakens her vice like grip. She is not in Thailand, so no use to ask where to find her. She is known as the Squeezebox on another forum.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1755663]I use heaps of a very high quality non-sticky lube from OS that does not dry up quickly, unless girl wants to use her own. So never do dry humping. I like the very slippery feel. Natural juices last for just a short time, but lube is essential with condoms. I even argue for more lube when girl wants less.
I know one girl who doesn't like lube because she has strong pussy muscles and she likes to get a real grip on your cock. The lube weakens her vice like grip. She is not in Thailand, so no use to ask where to find her. She is known as the Squeezebox on another forum.[/QUOTE]Big fan of lube. I put it on my pecker before I put on the condom and I find that I have far fewer failures. Some gals think that it will slip off, but that never happens. It also keeps the latex from abrading me as well.
I have found that very few Thai gals have good control over their pubic muscles. The Kegel is not well known here. Contrast with the US where almost every woman does them.
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I have found that very few Thai gals have good control over their pubic muscles. The Kegel is not well known here. Contrast with the US where almost every woman does them.[/QUOTE]I only know the one Thai girl with a strong squeezing pussy. Older girl Noi last seen at Mercury in Nana (ex Hotlips and Dollhouse). Great toned body small tits.
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Word of the day
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[QUOTE=Dinotrex;1755809]What's a Kegel??[/QUOTE]Dino.
Have you never heard of "Google"? Very simple look up before you ask such a question.
From Wiki:
Pelvic floor exercise, also known as Kegel exercise; consists of repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor, now sometimes colloquially referred to as the "Kegel muscles". (There's a picture too if you need more detail).
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I like kegel but only when a constant pressure is maintained throughout. When the pressure varies repeatedly I enjoy the session less. But that is just me. The best practitioner of this art for me was a German girl at an FKK who no longer works there.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1755670]Big fan of lube. I put it on my pecker before I put on the condom and I find that I have far fewer failures. Some gals think that it will slip off, but that never happens. It also keeps the latex from abrading me as well.[/QUOTE]I'm a lover of lube myself. In my travels I have encountered some girls who do not like it. I have not met a Thai girl who does not. I have never rubbed it on my boy then put on the condom but will give it a try.
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[QUOTE=Turgid;1755999]I like kegel but only when a constant pressure is maintained throughout. When the pressure varies repeatedly I enjoy the session less. But that is just me. The best practitioner of this art for me was a German girl at an FKK who no longer works there.[/QUOTE]I like a gal that can squeeze and massage with her snatch.
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In Town
Syzgies,
Please check your message box.
Canyon.
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[QUOTE=Canyon;1756036]Syzgies,
Please check your message box.
Canyon.[/QUOTE]I did check earlier. LOL and again now. You can call me. Sorry forum. Some things are urgent. Alas I most of my favourite girls have disappeared, retired, or whatever. Won't know have much good advice for old buddy Canyon who likes a service a bit different to my style I fear.
I am searching for new super girl talent too. Not many dream P4P girls around. LOL Compromise on the looks or on the service? Which is better? I tend to compromise on the service more so, but not not always and not for a really regular girl. I can always compromise on the body a little, but an ugly to really ordinary face is just not an option. Also cannot do any really fat ass girls. I can stand it, if tits are not great, the normal sag after a child, and can stand silicones sometimes. Really convex hard sillies are not an option. Too many MP girls seem to have a bad hard tit job. I need some softness. Don't like straight boy type figures, girls that look like ladyboys.
Each time I arrive or leave the ST Hotel on Asoke, I am amazed by the number of customers with a LB, whether Asian or Farang guys. I wonder if they always know what they have got.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1756047]I am amazed by the number of customers with a LB, whether Asian or Farang guys. I wonder if they always know what they have got.[/QUOTE]I'm quite certain they are. At least if the LB is pre-op. Why should the LB risk tricking someone who is only interested in genuine girls? That would be a definitive call for trouble and the risk of no payment. LB are not that stupid.
Post-Ops might try and get away with it when they prevent the guy from looking / touching. But in that case: Why bother when you have enjoyed your session?